Lesbian Therapists in Poway, CA
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or carrying something that feels too heavy to bear?
Maybe anxiety, past experiences, or relationship patterns keep showing up in ways that create distress. You might feel disconnected from yourself, caught in cycles of fear, shame, or self-doubt—and ready for transformation.
I work with adults experienci trauma, anxiety, and life transitions who are ready for deeper, lasting change. Together, we create a safe, grounded space to process your experiences, understand your patterns, and reconnect with yourself.
I also support clients navigating the emotional impact of stigma, shame and isolation.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or carrying something that feels too heavy to bear?
Maybe anxiety, past experiences, or relationship patterns keep showing up in ways that create distress. You might feel disconnected from yourself, caught in cycles of fear, shame, or self-doubt—and ready for transformation.
I work with adults experienci trauma, anxiety, and life transitions who are ready for deeper, lasting change. Together, we create a safe, grounded space to process your experiences, understand your patterns, and reconnect with yourself.
I also support clients navigating the emotional impact of stigma, shame and isolation.
Are you feeling overwhelmed or stuck? I provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy for teens and adults facing challenges related to neurodiversity, trauma, and substance use. With extensive experience supporting adults and teens, I understand the unique struggles faced by both including major life transitions, relationship issues, parenting needs, and managing work-life balance. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you feel heard, understood, and empowered. I am here to collaborate with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that respects your unique experiences and strengths.
Are you feeling overwhelmed or stuck? I provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy for teens and adults facing challenges related to neurodiversity, trauma, and substance use. With extensive experience supporting adults and teens, I understand the unique struggles faced by both including major life transitions, relationship issues, parenting needs, and managing work-life balance. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you feel heard, understood, and empowered. I am here to collaborate with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that respects your unique experiences and strengths.
Are you content with the direction of the road you are currently on or do you think it is time to turn a corner? If you're ready to take steps towards healing and healthy living, I would be honored to partner with you on your journey. I believe that therapy can help people pivot from a state of feeling overwhelmed and powerless to a stance of hopefulness and empowerment. As we work together, I will help you attain your goals and build your self-confidence. I will support you in realizing your own potential, building on your strengths, identifying areas for growth, and taking tangible steps in the direction you wish to go.
Are you content with the direction of the road you are currently on or do you think it is time to turn a corner? If you're ready to take steps towards healing and healthy living, I would be honored to partner with you on your journey. I believe that therapy can help people pivot from a state of feeling overwhelmed and powerless to a stance of hopefulness and empowerment. As we work together, I will help you attain your goals and build your self-confidence. I will support you in realizing your own potential, building on your strengths, identifying areas for growth, and taking tangible steps in the direction you wish to go.
"People start to heal the moment they feel heard." Welcome! My name is Jennifer Zehe, and I'm a licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 10 years of experience. I specialize in working with adults who struggle with depression, complex trauma, relational issues, LGBTQ+ issues, emotional dysregulation, and everyday life stressors that can be difficult to manage.
Therapy is a courageous step to explore challenges that you're facing in your life. Together, we can manage present day struggles while healing deeper past wounds.
"People start to heal the moment they feel heard." Welcome! My name is Jennifer Zehe, and I'm a licensed Clinical Psychologist with over 10 years of experience. I specialize in working with adults who struggle with depression, complex trauma, relational issues, LGBTQ+ issues, emotional dysregulation, and everyday life stressors that can be difficult to manage.
Therapy is a courageous step to explore challenges that you're facing in your life. Together, we can manage present day struggles while healing deeper past wounds.
Hi, I’m Anat, and I’m glad you’re here! If you’re struggling with anxiety, racing thoughts or the urge to cancel plans before social interactions, you’re not alone! Many people fear negative evaluation or worry about having a heart attack in social situations. Also, past trauma can bring up feelings of shame, guilt, sleep challenges and difficulty in relationships.These struggles can feel isolating and shameful at times, but together, we can work through them. I also provide couples counseling. You deserve to feel supported understood and loved.Let’s take this journey toward healing together, I’ll be with you every step of the way.
Hi, I’m Anat, and I’m glad you’re here! If you’re struggling with anxiety, racing thoughts or the urge to cancel plans before social interactions, you’re not alone! Many people fear negative evaluation or worry about having a heart attack in social situations. Also, past trauma can bring up feelings of shame, guilt, sleep challenges and difficulty in relationships.These struggles can feel isolating and shameful at times, but together, we can work through them. I also provide couples counseling. You deserve to feel supported understood and loved.Let’s take this journey toward healing together, I’ll be with you every step of the way.
The right therapeutic relationship supports you beyond your mental health concerns into understanding yourself and living a life of purpose. While my clientele varies greatly, I help folks who are looking for personal evolution through self understanding. Whether you are seeking therapy due to ongoing symptoms, life transition, loss, or epiphany —together we can intuit what you are needing at this juncture in life. I work well with highly sensitive, neurodivergent, or those experiencing anxiety, depression, complex trauma or attachment and relationship concerns.
The right therapeutic relationship supports you beyond your mental health concerns into understanding yourself and living a life of purpose. While my clientele varies greatly, I help folks who are looking for personal evolution through self understanding. Whether you are seeking therapy due to ongoing symptoms, life transition, loss, or epiphany —together we can intuit what you are needing at this juncture in life. I work well with highly sensitive, neurodivergent, or those experiencing anxiety, depression, complex trauma or attachment and relationship concerns.
I enjoying working with individuals (adolescents through older adults), couples, and families who are contending with a variety of sad and anxious feelings, and interpersonal challenges. Many of these may be based on little 't' or big 'T' traumas. The therapy work is intended to empower individuals, couples, and families find healthier and happier ways of living. My therapeutic approach is multifaceted because as people we are multifaceted. I strive to find a personalized approach that works best for each of my clients. My approach is informed by over 30 years of research on what works and doesn't work in therapy.
I enjoying working with individuals (adolescents through older adults), couples, and families who are contending with a variety of sad and anxious feelings, and interpersonal challenges. Many of these may be based on little 't' or big 'T' traumas. The therapy work is intended to empower individuals, couples, and families find healthier and happier ways of living. My therapeutic approach is multifaceted because as people we are multifaceted. I strive to find a personalized approach that works best for each of my clients. My approach is informed by over 30 years of research on what works and doesn't work in therapy.
Welcome — my name is Darlene Meza (they/them), and I am a bilingual English- and Spanish-speaking therapist who is passionate about supporting individuals, couples, teens, and families through healing and growth. My first goal in working together is to create a space where you feel safe, understood, and comfortable being fully yourself. Finding the right therapist is an important step, and I’m honored to join you on that journey.
I have experience supporting clients through trauma, anxiety, identity exploration, relationship challenges, emotional regulation, and major life transitions.
Welcome — my name is Darlene Meza (they/them), and I am a bilingual English- and Spanish-speaking therapist who is passionate about supporting individuals, couples, teens, and families through healing and growth. My first goal in working together is to create a space where you feel safe, understood, and comfortable being fully yourself. Finding the right therapist is an important step, and I’m honored to join you on that journey.
I have experience supporting clients through trauma, anxiety, identity exploration, relationship challenges, emotional regulation, and major life transitions.
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences.
I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences.
I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
Beginning therapy may be one of the bravest steps you take towards a better life. Whether you are an adult, adolescent or couple I can help you understand your individual response to life's challenges, and through a collaborative working relationship, I can assist you in making crucial changes that will enhance your life.
Beginning therapy may be one of the bravest steps you take towards a better life. Whether you are an adult, adolescent or couple I can help you understand your individual response to life's challenges, and through a collaborative working relationship, I can assist you in making crucial changes that will enhance your life.
Being a teenager can be hard and being a parent of a teenager can be challenging. Knowing that we all desire for children to be emotionally well adjusted and academically successful, it is sometimes necessary to seek support. I am available to support your family through the journey of adolescence and can provide you with valuable information about your child's learning abilities and emotional functioning and tools to navigate the education system. You are not alone. I am here to support you.
Being a teenager can be hard and being a parent of a teenager can be challenging. Knowing that we all desire for children to be emotionally well adjusted and academically successful, it is sometimes necessary to seek support. I am available to support your family through the journey of adolescence and can provide you with valuable information about your child's learning abilities and emotional functioning and tools to navigate the education system. You are not alone. I am here to support you.
I have been working in the field of Marriage and Family Therapy for over 25 years. I graduated from The University of Southern California in 1994 and received my Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at The University of San Diego in 1997. My focus is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. My goal is to bring a sense of warmth and compassion to the therapy process, valuing a focus on each individual's strengths and resiliency. I bring my clinical knowledge as well as my personal life experiences to the therapy process.
I have been working in the field of Marriage and Family Therapy for over 25 years. I graduated from The University of Southern California in 1994 and received my Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at The University of San Diego in 1997. My focus is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, with children, adolescents, adults, couples and families. My goal is to bring a sense of warmth and compassion to the therapy process, valuing a focus on each individual's strengths and resiliency. I bring my clinical knowledge as well as my personal life experiences to the therapy process.
Positive Change Counseling Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, PsyD, LCSW, LPCC
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
We look forward to working with you to reach your goals in therapy. Our compassionate therapists are trained in solution-focused, evidence-based practices to help you meet your goals. Whether you would like to attend therapy on your own, with your partner or spouse, as a family, or have your child participate, our therapists are ready to support you. You can be rest assured you are entering a non-judgmental and discrete environment when you walk through our door. Call us today to begin making positive changes in your life.
We look forward to working with you to reach your goals in therapy. Our compassionate therapists are trained in solution-focused, evidence-based practices to help you meet your goals. Whether you would like to attend therapy on your own, with your partner or spouse, as a family, or have your child participate, our therapists are ready to support you. You can be rest assured you are entering a non-judgmental and discrete environment when you walk through our door. Call us today to begin making positive changes in your life.
Life can feel overwhelming, especially when stress doesn’t let up. While everyone has ways of coping, ongoing stress can start to affect both your mental and physical health. If you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, anger, or chronic pain, therapy can help you feel more balanced, build healthier coping skills, and regain a sense of control.
Life can feel overwhelming, especially when stress doesn’t let up. While everyone has ways of coping, ongoing stress can start to affect both your mental and physical health. If you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, anger, or chronic pain, therapy can help you feel more balanced, build healthier coping skills, and regain a sense of control.
Addiction is not a problem to be fixed, but rather a person. I have worked with many people with various addictions and realize that addressing one problem from one perspective is not enough. I specialize in getting to know a person first and then helping that person heal from past hurts, learn skills for problem-solving, improve communication, build strong relationships, practice ways to manage strong emotions, learn to slow down and change their harmful or intrusive thoughts, draw from their faith for strength, develop strong support systems, and with all this, hope of long-term recovery can become reality.
Addiction is not a problem to be fixed, but rather a person. I have worked with many people with various addictions and realize that addressing one problem from one perspective is not enough. I specialize in getting to know a person first and then helping that person heal from past hurts, learn skills for problem-solving, improve communication, build strong relationships, practice ways to manage strong emotions, learn to slow down and change their harmful or intrusive thoughts, draw from their faith for strength, develop strong support systems, and with all this, hope of long-term recovery can become reality.
Is your relationship in trouble? Does your relationship feel dull and lifeless? Are you at the beginning of a new relationship and want to make sure this one works out? We all need to learn how to make relationships work. There are a few things you need to know. 1. All relationships go through a cycle, and one of those cycles includes conflict. Yes, conflict is supposed to happen because it helps us grow and heal. 2. All those great feelings you had at the beginning were because of hormones, and they don't last. 3. You are in this relationship because you hold the key to each other's healing. I can help create a safe environment.
Is your relationship in trouble? Does your relationship feel dull and lifeless? Are you at the beginning of a new relationship and want to make sure this one works out? We all need to learn how to make relationships work. There are a few things you need to know. 1. All relationships go through a cycle, and one of those cycles includes conflict. Yes, conflict is supposed to happen because it helps us grow and heal. 2. All those great feelings you had at the beginning were because of hormones, and they don't last. 3. You are in this relationship because you hold the key to each other's healing. I can help create a safe environment.
I believe that each person is born unique and important to this earth. Behavior is adaptive and as such can be understood in the context of experience. I assist with helping others understand patterns of behavior that may contribute to one's unhappiness. I work with marital and relational difficulties to find ways of communicating and honoring differences. I teach about positive communication and assist with developing skills that lead to feeling heard and understood. I assist parents to successfully teach their children to accept and follow direction with the use of behavioral programs best suited to meet the individual need.
I believe that each person is born unique and important to this earth. Behavior is adaptive and as such can be understood in the context of experience. I assist with helping others understand patterns of behavior that may contribute to one's unhappiness. I work with marital and relational difficulties to find ways of communicating and honoring differences. I teach about positive communication and assist with developing skills that lead to feeling heard and understood. I assist parents to successfully teach their children to accept and follow direction with the use of behavioral programs best suited to meet the individual need.
Paisley Dutcher @WAVE
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Your mind is unique. Let’s explore it together! My work is based on reinforcing your strengths and building compassion for your struggles. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and use evidence based techniques to address anxiety, depression, emotional distress, and relational challenges (platonic, romantic, or familial).
Together we can make your unique mind work for you.
Your mind is unique. Let’s explore it together! My work is based on reinforcing your strengths and building compassion for your struggles. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and use evidence based techniques to address anxiety, depression, emotional distress, and relational challenges (platonic, romantic, or familial).
Together we can make your unique mind work for you.
With all the therapists out there, choosing one can be overwhelming. Knowing how I conduct therapy and what values and beliefs fuel each session is essential. I believe that people are inherently capable of achieving their innermost desires and naturally want to evolve and heal. Sometimes, we face challenges that make us feel like things are impossible, but feelings don't constitute Truth. My job as your therapist is to guide you toward actualizing the inner strengths that you already have while teaching you new skills so you can live the best version of yourself.
With all the therapists out there, choosing one can be overwhelming. Knowing how I conduct therapy and what values and beliefs fuel each session is essential. I believe that people are inherently capable of achieving their innermost desires and naturally want to evolve and heal. Sometimes, we face challenges that make us feel like things are impossible, but feelings don't constitute Truth. My job as your therapist is to guide you toward actualizing the inner strengths that you already have while teaching you new skills so you can live the best version of yourself.
Hello! My name is Dr. Laura Wilhoit and I offer virtual therapy throughout the state of California. In my 11+ years of experience, I have worked with a variety of people, including those struggling with anxiety, depression, and substance use. Outside of depression and anxiety, one of my areas of focus is helping people as they adjust to parenting challenges, including postpartum depression. I am certified through the Perinatal Mental Health Certification program (PMH-C) to help parents. As a mother of 3 children myself, I know that parenting can be challenging and parents often aren't given sufficient support.
Hello! My name is Dr. Laura Wilhoit and I offer virtual therapy throughout the state of California. In my 11+ years of experience, I have worked with a variety of people, including those struggling with anxiety, depression, and substance use. Outside of depression and anxiety, one of my areas of focus is helping people as they adjust to parenting challenges, including postpartum depression. I am certified through the Perinatal Mental Health Certification program (PMH-C) to help parents. As a mother of 3 children myself, I know that parenting can be challenging and parents often aren't given sufficient support.
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Lesbian Therapists
What is lesbian-affirming therapy?
Lesbian-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client's lesbian identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual's sexual orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of lesbian women. This support is especially important, as research shows that lesbian individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges compared to heterosexual populations. Lesbian-affirming therapy acknowledges that lesbian individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as coming out challenges, family rejection, workplace discrimination, and minority stress—that require specialized understanding and intervention. Lesbian-affirming therapists often work with clients across all age groups, from adolescents navigating their emerging identity to adults and older individuals addressing life transitions and relationship concerns. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for lesbian partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. It is important to note that therapists provide talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
Why should I see a lesbian therapist?
Some clients prefer to work with lesbian therapists who may bring personal lived experience to the therapeutic relationship. Choosing to work with a lesbian therapist can offer a deeper sense of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. A therapist who identifies as lesbian may require clients to give less background explanation—whether it’s about navigating romantic relationships, feeling unseen in certain spaces, or processing the impact of past relationship challenges. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. Additionally, many lesbian-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organizations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection.
How do I find a lesbian therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding lesbian-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialize in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. Look for profiles where therapists explicitly mention working with lesbian clients, or where they describe their approach as identity-affirming, inclusive, or trauma-informed. Many providers will also list their own identities, which may help you find someone with shared lived experience if that is important to you. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.