Therapists in Portola Valley, CA
Most people benefit from having a trusted and trained professional to confide in and collaborate with - to make changes, deal with emotional pain, and search for understanding and meaning. Humans are complex beings and life is full of challenges. We all create "protective measures" to help us cope with difficulties we have encountered. Unconscious relational patterns, expectations, and beliefs about ourselves and others develop. Unfortunately, many of these ways of being interfere with creating satisfying lives and relationships. Our habituated patterns can be constricting, or lead to troubling behaviors or symptoms.
Most people benefit from having a trusted and trained professional to confide in and collaborate with - to make changes, deal with emotional pain, and search for understanding and meaning. Humans are complex beings and life is full of challenges. We all create "protective measures" to help us cope with difficulties we have encountered. Unconscious relational patterns, expectations, and beliefs about ourselves and others develop. Unfortunately, many of these ways of being interfere with creating satisfying lives and relationships. Our habituated patterns can be constricting, or lead to troubling behaviors or symptoms.
I specialize in relationships, life transitions and grief/loss, with additional in-depth trainings to work effectively with couples and families. I work frequently with personal, cultural, multigenerational and systemic traumas that present as depression/anxiety, anger, addiction, low self-esteem, relational conflicts, parenting challenges, career difficulties and more. Prior to psychotherapy, I worked in law and finance with top law firms and investment banks for two decades, and I deeply appreciate the stressful and complex work/life dynamics facing many families, sometimes seemingly as a result of their very own success.
I specialize in relationships, life transitions and grief/loss, with additional in-depth trainings to work effectively with couples and families. I work frequently with personal, cultural, multigenerational and systemic traumas that present as depression/anxiety, anger, addiction, low self-esteem, relational conflicts, parenting challenges, career difficulties and more. Prior to psychotherapy, I worked in law and finance with top law firms and investment banks for two decades, and I deeply appreciate the stressful and complex work/life dynamics facing many families, sometimes seemingly as a result of their very own success.
I Cheated: Affair Accountability; Trust Repair
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CPD, Coach
Online Only
“The goal is not to preserve connection at all costs, but to strengthen the self so that connection becomes possible without self-betrayal.”
When lies and secrecy replace truth, reality collapses for both partners. Without truth, there is no solid ground to stand on—only confusion, fear, and instability. Restoring truth is not punishment; it is what restores reality. And when reality is restored, stability becomes possible. From stability comes clarity. From clarity comes conscious awareness. Only then can two people make value-aligned choices that honor each of them, whether that is repair or an honest separation.
“The goal is not to preserve connection at all costs, but to strengthen the self so that connection becomes possible without self-betrayal.”
When lies and secrecy replace truth, reality collapses for both partners. Without truth, there is no solid ground to stand on—only confusion, fear, and instability. Restoring truth is not punishment; it is what restores reality. And when reality is restored, stability becomes possible. From stability comes clarity. From clarity comes conscious awareness. Only then can two people make value-aligned choices that honor each of them, whether that is repair or an honest separation.
See my 2014 YouTube video (YouTube/Open to Hope, Treating Trauma (EMDR) where I describe treating thousands of adults using (EMDR, Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) as a clinical psychologist for 27 years. I specialize in relieving PTSD symptoms, and developed a Recovery Model to heal emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. I address adult sexuality, relationships, and intimacy. I provide in-depth therapy and EMDR by telephone while patients use a free YouTube video app. I have succeeded with adult patients (whom I have not met in person) resulting in powerful healing experiences.
See my 2014 YouTube video (YouTube/Open to Hope, Treating Trauma (EMDR) where I describe treating thousands of adults using (EMDR, Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) as a clinical psychologist for 27 years. I specialize in relieving PTSD symptoms, and developed a Recovery Model to heal emotional, physical, and sexual abuse. I address adult sexuality, relationships, and intimacy. I provide in-depth therapy and EMDR by telephone while patients use a free YouTube video app. I have succeeded with adult patients (whom I have not met in person) resulting in powerful healing experiences.
Feeling out of control or out of Focus? Do ADHD related issues hold you or a loved one back from dreams and potential? Feelings of worry, confusion, anger, and sadness can make your relationships, parenting, work, or your education seem impossible or like plain torture. My passion is helping people tap into their their inherent worth and significance, while promoting growth. You CAN tackle the problems you have, and you have the power to promote well-being in yourself and in your relationships. Lets get to work, and see the results in your life: improvements in mood/ relationships/work and educational performance, and peace of mind.
Feeling out of control or out of Focus? Do ADHD related issues hold you or a loved one back from dreams and potential? Feelings of worry, confusion, anger, and sadness can make your relationships, parenting, work, or your education seem impossible or like plain torture. My passion is helping people tap into their their inherent worth and significance, while promoting growth. You CAN tackle the problems you have, and you have the power to promote well-being in yourself and in your relationships. Lets get to work, and see the results in your life: improvements in mood/ relationships/work and educational performance, and peace of mind.
Are you looking for a therapist who is warm and engaging, flexible and practical? I believe that developing a strong working relationship between therapist and client is the basis for growth and change. I listen to your needs first, and will work collaboratively to identify and work toward your goals. My specialties: Helping young children and their families understand development, work through challenging behaviors, anxiety, depression, anger and other mood concerns. Supporting adolescents as they strive for independence and maturity. Managing parenting stress for individuals and couples. Healing from trauma.
Are you looking for a therapist who is warm and engaging, flexible and practical? I believe that developing a strong working relationship between therapist and client is the basis for growth and change. I listen to your needs first, and will work collaboratively to identify and work toward your goals. My specialties: Helping young children and their families understand development, work through challenging behaviors, anxiety, depression, anger and other mood concerns. Supporting adolescents as they strive for independence and maturity. Managing parenting stress for individuals and couples. Healing from trauma.
Are you struggling with Pornography or Sexual Compulsivity, betrayal trauma, or a loss of trust and intimacy in your relationship? You’re not alone—My husband and I have personally walked this journey and have been helping individuals and couples heal since 2011. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Brainspotting Therapist; Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach and in long-term recovery. Together, we help clients heal, rebuild self-worth, trust, communication, and deep connection. We've helped clients through porn, sexting, prostitution, emotional affairs, physical affairs, and much more.
Are you struggling with Pornography or Sexual Compulsivity, betrayal trauma, or a loss of trust and intimacy in your relationship? You’re not alone—My husband and I have personally walked this journey and have been helping individuals and couples heal since 2011. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Brainspotting Therapist; Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach and in long-term recovery. Together, we help clients heal, rebuild self-worth, trust, communication, and deep connection. We've helped clients through porn, sexting, prostitution, emotional affairs, physical affairs, and much more.
You’ve always been the one who keeps it together, the strong one, the fixer, the one people lean on. But lately? You’re tired. Maybe it’s anxiety, burnout, relationship struggles, or that quiet dread that you’re not living the life you actually want. You feel deeply, love hard, and have been told you're “too much” for most of your life. On the outside, you hold it together. On the inside, you’re unraveling. Therapy with me isn’t about coping, it’s about untangling, unlearning, and coming home to yourself.
You’ve always been the one who keeps it together, the strong one, the fixer, the one people lean on. But lately? You’re tired. Maybe it’s anxiety, burnout, relationship struggles, or that quiet dread that you’re not living the life you actually want. You feel deeply, love hard, and have been told you're “too much” for most of your life. On the outside, you hold it together. On the inside, you’re unraveling. Therapy with me isn’t about coping, it’s about untangling, unlearning, and coming home to yourself.
Struggling with an eating disorder, anxiety, depression, OCD or PTSD is exhausting. I can help. You don't have to continue to feel so trapped.
Struggling with an eating disorder, anxiety, depression, OCD or PTSD is exhausting. I can help. You don't have to continue to feel so trapped.
My typical client is an adult of exceptional intelligence, creativity, achievement, and kindness, who needs to address problems in his or her life. These problems include depression, anxiety, the disease of addiction, childhood trauma,the addictions of others, and/or difficulties in forming or enjoying relationships.
Too many people emerge from childhood with wounds from parental loss, abuse, or neglect. Some carry genetic loadings for addiction. The aftermath of these is devastating, despite success and "looking good." Revealing the pain to another person and revising basic assumptions about yourself and others in a safe relationship can help.
My typical client is an adult of exceptional intelligence, creativity, achievement, and kindness, who needs to address problems in his or her life. These problems include depression, anxiety, the disease of addiction, childhood trauma,the addictions of others, and/or difficulties in forming or enjoying relationships.
Too many people emerge from childhood with wounds from parental loss, abuse, or neglect. Some carry genetic loadings for addiction. The aftermath of these is devastating, despite success and "looking good." Revealing the pain to another person and revising basic assumptions about yourself and others in a safe relationship can help.
Do you feel truly fulfilled in your relationships? Or do you find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns over and over again and are ready to understand why? Whether you’re trying to live differently than what you have always known, heal from family dysfunction, or raise emotionally healthy children, you don’t have to do this alone. I specialize in helping individuals doing the deep work of healing generational trauma, setting healthy boundaries, and letting go of toxic family patterns. If you're navigating estrangement, reparenting yourself, or stepping into a new way of being, I’m here to support your journey.
Do you feel truly fulfilled in your relationships? Or do you find yourself repeating the same relationship patterns over and over again and are ready to understand why? Whether you’re trying to live differently than what you have always known, heal from family dysfunction, or raise emotionally healthy children, you don’t have to do this alone. I specialize in helping individuals doing the deep work of healing generational trauma, setting healthy boundaries, and letting go of toxic family patterns. If you're navigating estrangement, reparenting yourself, or stepping into a new way of being, I’m here to support your journey.
I’m an online couples therapist across California who believes honesty heals more than neutrality. I help partners break painful patterns, rebuild respect, and reconnect with honesty and empathy. I specialize in neurodiverse and cross-cultural couples, intimacy repair, and helping partners move from disconnection to understanding and growth. You might be ready for someone who is warm, direct, and deeply engaged—who doesn't sit back and stay neutral; who sometimes takes sides when it serves the relationship. Not everything is 50/50.
I’m an online couples therapist across California who believes honesty heals more than neutrality. I help partners break painful patterns, rebuild respect, and reconnect with honesty and empathy. I specialize in neurodiverse and cross-cultural couples, intimacy repair, and helping partners move from disconnection to understanding and growth. You might be ready for someone who is warm, direct, and deeply engaged—who doesn't sit back and stay neutral; who sometimes takes sides when it serves the relationship. Not everything is 50/50.
If you are between the ages of 25 and 65 and are experiencing emotional challenges in your personal or professional life, PsychRenewal is here to help.
If you are between the ages of 25 and 65 and are experiencing emotional challenges in your personal or professional life, PsychRenewal is here to help.
Life has been extra hard recently with all the fascism. If you're struggling with trauma of the moment, as well as relationship stress or financial anxiety, these issues can keep you stuck and hurting. ADHDers, you're already dealing with managing A LOT, on top of all of it, I see you. When you're ready for new ways to deal with it all, going inward with skilled support can really help. I'm here to support your healing in the most important ways and get to the heart of the matter. With over 20 years of experience, I offer support with couples therapy, financial therapy, and individual depth work. Let's schedule a phone call to begin
Life has been extra hard recently with all the fascism. If you're struggling with trauma of the moment, as well as relationship stress or financial anxiety, these issues can keep you stuck and hurting. ADHDers, you're already dealing with managing A LOT, on top of all of it, I see you. When you're ready for new ways to deal with it all, going inward with skilled support can really help. I'm here to support your healing in the most important ways and get to the heart of the matter. With over 20 years of experience, I offer support with couples therapy, financial therapy, and individual depth work. Let's schedule a phone call to begin
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others, and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others, and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience.
Pregnancy, Postpartum and IVF are my areas of therapeutic specialty. You have worked hard to get to this phase of life and now it is time to start a family. Navigating emotions through the pregnancy, postpartum and IVF is really an individualized and custom approach. In addition, if there is history of anxiety, depression, eating disorder, OCD early intervention and treatment plan for Postpartum Mood Disorder is recommended. The therapeutic process is treating and implementing coping strategies for the symptoms of anxiety, depression, doubt, cognitive distortions, grief and relationship issues.
Pregnancy, Postpartum and IVF are my areas of therapeutic specialty. You have worked hard to get to this phase of life and now it is time to start a family. Navigating emotions through the pregnancy, postpartum and IVF is really an individualized and custom approach. In addition, if there is history of anxiety, depression, eating disorder, OCD early intervention and treatment plan for Postpartum Mood Disorder is recommended. The therapeutic process is treating and implementing coping strategies for the symptoms of anxiety, depression, doubt, cognitive distortions, grief and relationship issues.
We are wired for connection, but the demands of high-achieving lives, past wounds, or unspoken expectations can lead to loneliness and disconnection. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, struggling with relationship issues, or weighed down by the pressures of life, therapy can be a space to slow down and reconnect. Change is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.
We are wired for connection, but the demands of high-achieving lives, past wounds, or unspoken expectations can lead to loneliness and disconnection. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, struggling with relationship issues, or weighed down by the pressures of life, therapy can be a space to slow down and reconnect. Change is possible, and you don’t have to do it alone.
My clients often struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, PTSD, OCD, grief, or moral injury. Many are veterans, first responders, or individuals carrying the weight of complex life challenges. With nearly two decades of mental health experience, including work as an Assistant Clinical Professor at UC San Diego and the VA San Diego Healthcare System, I’ve supported clients in seeking relief, clarity, and practical skills to manage distress while also helping them discover resilience, meaning, and a renewed sense of wholeness to move through life with greater confidence and purpose.
My clients often struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, PTSD, OCD, grief, or moral injury. Many are veterans, first responders, or individuals carrying the weight of complex life challenges. With nearly two decades of mental health experience, including work as an Assistant Clinical Professor at UC San Diego and the VA San Diego Healthcare System, I’ve supported clients in seeking relief, clarity, and practical skills to manage distress while also helping them discover resilience, meaning, and a renewed sense of wholeness to move through life with greater confidence and purpose.
I specialize in supporting individuals, couples, and families impacted by addiction, codependence, and trauma. Maybe you’ve been caught in patterns that no longer serve you, or you’re feeling the strain of a loved one’s addiction. My approach is grounded, direct, and deeply compassionate. I will meet you exactly where you are and support you as you process grief, anger, and sadness. Lasting change, deeper connections, and self-confidence will naturally emerge through our work together.
I specialize in supporting individuals, couples, and families impacted by addiction, codependence, and trauma. Maybe you’ve been caught in patterns that no longer serve you, or you’re feeling the strain of a loved one’s addiction. My approach is grounded, direct, and deeply compassionate. I will meet you exactly where you are and support you as you process grief, anger, and sadness. Lasting change, deeper connections, and self-confidence will naturally emerge through our work together.
When life feels heavy or overwhelming, you deserve a space where you can be honest, supported, and understood. I help children, teens, and adults who are navigating stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, family conflict, or challenges connected to identity and belonging. Whether you’re healing from the past or trying to cope with daily pressures, we’ll work together to help you feel more grounded, confident, and connected to yourself and the people around you.
When life feels heavy or overwhelming, you deserve a space where you can be honest, supported, and understood. I help children, teens, and adults who are navigating stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, family conflict, or challenges connected to identity and belonging. Whether you’re healing from the past or trying to cope with daily pressures, we’ll work together to help you feel more grounded, confident, and connected to yourself and the people around you.
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Nearby Searches for Portola Valley
- Atherton
- East Palo Alto
- La Honda
- Los Altos
- Los Altos Hills
- Menlo Park
- Mountain View
- Palo Alto
- Redwood City
- San Carlos
- Stanford
- Woodside
How does your Therapist compare?
Number of Therapists in Portola Valley, CA
30+
Average cost per session
$225
Therapists in Portola Valley, CA who prioritize treating:
| 90% | Relationship Issues |
| 90% | Anxiety |
| 87% | Depression |
| 77% | Stress |
| 73% | Trauma and PTSD |
| 73% | Life Transitions |
| 63% | Grief |
Average years in practice
15 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 91% | Aetna |
| 55% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
| 45% | Cigna and Evernorth |
How Therapists in Portola Valley, CA see their clients
| 67% | Online Only | |
| 33% | In Person and Online |
Gender breakdown
| 93% | Female | |
| 7% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Portola Valley?
Search for nearby therapists or counselors by inputting your city, town, or suburb; or zip code; or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or zip code into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.

