Emotionally Focused Therapists in Pasadena, CA
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Georgina De Zan Moncho
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I am in training to be a certified
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapist.
My work with individuals and couples often involves working through past experiences, traumas, current difficulties, and future plans. I provide warmth, trust, and professionalism. You are welcome to call for a consultation, Currently I'm working with adolescent girls, college and post graduate students, women, men, & couples.

Tsoline Kouyoumjian
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I can help you too! I have advanced training in one of the most effective models of couples therapy,
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy.
I see couples all the time who love each other desperately but just can’t seem to make it work. Some couples put it this way: “It’s like we keep having the same fight over and over again and nothing ever gets resolved. We just have a big fight, followed by silence, and then we just go back to our daily lives without ever working through the issues until the next fight happens. I don’t know what’s happening or why it’s happening but it’s just awful.”

Lauren Burke-Nicola
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
7 Endorsed
Verified
7 Endorsed
I have training in couples and sex therapy as well as specializations in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, Mindfulness, addiction, trauma, and anxiety.
I specialize in working with clients who are struggling with stressful life transitions, anxiety, feelings of inadequacy, emotional connection, intimacy and sexual issues. I help clients identify and change the unhealthy cycles that may be creating feelings of being stuck. With respect, sensitivity, and expertise I will help you improve your relationships, create more meaningful connections and improve your life.
Not accepting new clients

Jennifer Hayes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I am trained in MBCT(Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy), EMDR, TRM (Trauma Resiliency Model), Brainspotting,
EFT
(
Emotionally Focused
Therapy), Gottman Couples Therapy and Bereavement Counseling.
Life can be challenging and complex. At times we are faced with situations that feel overwhelming and seemingly insurmountable. Trauma can result in a loss of a sense of self and hopelessness. Engaging in therapy is a personal decision; one that requires commitment and hard work to attain life changes. I believe therapy tailored to meet individual needs can facilitate increased self-awareness leading to emotional, as well as, relational attunement and enhancement. I work with clients from diverse backgrounds, offering sensitivity to experiences of marginalization, ableism, discrimination, racism, or other 'isms encountered.

Robert B. Cornell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I use
EFT
( tapping ) to help relieve old emotional charges.
Are you a spiritual person wanting psychotherapy that addresses all of who you are? Are you looking for healing painful past issues that keep surfacing? Do you suffer from childhood traumas that have been difficult to heal? Do you want to have better relationships, more meaningful work? Do you want a deeper spiritual life? I would be honored to be of service! I love working with clients that want an integrated psychotherapy that deals with mind, body, and spirit. APPLYING LOVING TO THE PLACES INSIDE THAT HURT LEADS TO HEALING!
Not accepting new clients

Megan McGrath
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I utilize EMDR,
Emotionally Focused
Therapy and cognitive behavioral techniques to aid you in exploring your concerns and achieving self-awareness and connection.
Feeling stuck in a job? A relationship? In your own life? Is something bothering you, but you have found that it is hard to put your thoughts into words or find someone to talk to? I help clients address issues related to relationships, depression, anxiety, anger, addiction, stressful or traumatic events and work toward their goals of becoming healthier, happier, and enjoying a more fulfilling life. My goal in therapy is to foster a collaborative and non-judgmental relationship that allows you to safely explore whatever is troubling you, and to build on the strengths and resources you already possess.

Jennifer Duke Psychotherapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
For couples, I am trained in
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy and the Gottman method.
I offer Telehealth and teletherapy sessions. You deserve to be happy and my goal is to get you there. Together we can explore the issues at hand and develop a plan that allows you to move forward, confidently. Do you feel like life has become unmanageable? Are you unsure of the next step? Do you feel like you and your partner are more like roommates who are annoyed with one another instead of romantic partners?

Sylvia Mejia
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Our therapists have been trained in several modalities including
Emotionally Focused
Therapy, CBT, ACT and more trauma based approaches.
Many of us are shaped by our experiences and aren't fully aware of the effects these experiences have in our everyday lives and relationships. We question our feelings, our thoughts and our reactions. But, they all tell a story. Our approach to treatment is attachment-based and client-centered. The emphasis is placed on exploring your values, experiences and what is important to you. Sometimes speaking to family and friends just isn't enough. We can help guide you through the process of knowing yourself and being able to understand, accept and express your emotions.

Anne Crile
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am certified in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
) — a research-validated approach to healing & strengthening couples’ relationships — and have Level II Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) training — a model for individual therapy that integrates what research tells us about human connection, emotion & the relationship between the two.
I am a California & Arizona licensed marriage and family therapist (CA 86294, AZ 15639). I specialize in working with couples & individuals navigating life-altering medical conditions; women overwhelmed in the face of work, family & personal pressure; and couples struggling to create or restore fulfilling connection.

Julie Hwang
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
Verified
The therapy I provide is transparent, warm,
emotionally focused
, compassionate, and solution oriented. I have over 10+ years of clinical experience and worked in multiple settings over these years. Whether you have panic attacks, obsessions, or your partner is not giving you what you need, I offer the support and ears that you need to help process your emotions and thoughts. I am a therapist who not only will validate your emotions, but also give you the tools and skills based on my knowledge and expertise. I will be gentle and follow at your pace.

Iihae Shin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Hello. My name is Iihae (pronounced E-heh). I am a licensed Marriage and Family therapist and I have been in this field for over 26 years. I have worked with clients of all ages and from all walks of life. My special interest is in working with trauma. I have extensive training in various therapeutic modalities including Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Brainspotting,
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
) and Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM).
Not accepting new clients

Catriona Waters
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I offer individual therapy, life coaching, and couples counseling (I am trained in
EFT
(
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy).
If you're feeling anxious, stressed, or depressed then I can help. It can be really unpleasant going through life not feeling your best self. Stress, worry, and negative thoughts can take the shine off things. You may feel you can't experience life to its fullest and that you're missing out. These feelings can impact your emotional wellbeing and your relationships, making everything feel worse. You may have tried a number of ways to improve things but nothing really sticks. If this is you then, with my training and experience, a healthier and more optimistic outlook is well within your reach. You deserve this.

Katie Phillips-Rector
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MDiv
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I utilize 10+ years of experience in working with children, teens, and families along with training in evidence-based approaches like Mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and
Emotionally Focused
Therapy.
I enjoy working with people of all ages facing various kinds of transition. Each new phase of life brings somewhat predictable changes, and then there are other changes that cause us to adapt and grow in somewhat unpredictable ways. Whatever you're facing, my goal is to work with you to find unique strengths and creative solutions that allow you to thrive in the midst of change.
Not accepting new clients

Emily Ma
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified
Verified
My approach is primarily psychodynamic and
emotionally focused
.
With curiosity and compassion, we'll explore how your mind works and understand how your experiences have shaped your relationships today. I support individuals and couples in witnessing and making sense of where they feel stuck in relationships and developing more connected relationships with themselves and others. As an Asian-American therapist, my clients appreciate my ability to integrate a culturally sensitive lens in understanding the interplay of cultural and familial dynamics. I also specialize in helping clients navigate grief and loss, and help clients become more comfortable with what shows up.
Not accepting new clients

Elizabeth Shon
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I have previously worked as a staff psychologist at CSUN and Caltech and have advanced training in
Emotionally Focused
Therapy (
EFT
) which enables me to work effectively with couples in distress.
I have had the privilege of working with adults and couples for over 35 years, helping with a wide range of issues including: depression, anxiety, self esteem, relationships, stress, ageing, family of origin issues, cross cultural issues, identity, grief/loss and mild addictions.

Kim Bielak
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I work with couples in-person in Pasadena and virtually throughout California and center my approach primarily in attachment theory and Sue Johnson's
Emotionally Focused
Couple Therapy.
By now you probably know that fighting about the dishes is never just about the dishes, issues in the bedroom are never just about sex, and infidelity is never just about an affair. Each of these are but tiny reflections of larger dances we do with our partners that give light to how we fight, how we communicate, and ultimately how we learned to love.

Sarah Jin, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
I am certified in
Emotionally Focused
Couple Therapy.
Hello, Welcome to Marriage Counseling for Asian American individuals and Cross-Cultural Couples! My focus is helping people develop deeper emotional bonding with their loved ones and build secure relationships. When we feel accepted, supported, loved, and understood by our partners and families, we can go out to the world and explore its possibilities. We cope better with life stresses, difficult life transitions, and simple daily challenges in safe, satisfying, and happy relationships.

Jonathan Damiani
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
In my work with couples, I use
Emotionally Focused
Couples Therapy to help couples identify and express deep longings in order to begin to reattach and heal relational wounds.
Author and psychologist Alice Miller once wrote, “Consciously experiencing our legitimate emotions is liberating. Repressed emotion can be resolved as soon as it is felt, understood, and recognized as legitimate.” Dr. Miller’s words capture my work as a psychotherapist. It is my hope to help my patients legitimately experience their complex emotional worlds in order to cultivate a rich and meaningful life. Although this is no easy task, I offer my partnership on this journey toward relief and healing, both internally and interpersonally.

Angel Butler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I enjoy working with couples of all backgrounds. I am trained in the best 2 therapeutic modalities in the world to help couples connect with each other. I use
Emotionally Focused
Therapy and the Gottman Method to help support couples obtain the best connection possible. I also support individuals better understand their lives using
EFT
-I.

Margaret Lauren
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
My approach includes cognitive, psychodynamic,
EFT
(
Emotionally Focused
Therapy), and Family Systems Therapy to help my clients process and understand their patterns of thoughts and behavior.
I provide a safe place for individuals, couples, and families to deal with their relationship, career, and other issues, as well as with the anxiety, depression and anger that often accompany them.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.