Neurodivergent Therapists in Oceanside, CA
I help individuals and couples who are ready for something to be different. Whether you're struggling in your relationships, feeling weighed down by life's challenges, or realizing that what you've been trying isn't working, therapy offers a space to make sense of your experiences, find relief, and discover a new way forward.
I help individuals and couples who are ready for something to be different. Whether you're struggling in your relationships, feeling weighed down by life's challenges, or realizing that what you've been trying isn't working, therapy offers a space to make sense of your experiences, find relief, and discover a new way forward.
Jacqueline Johnson Balance and Bloom Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, MEd, PhD
2 Endorsed
Oceanside, CA 92054
I also work with couples navigating neurodivergence (including mixed neurotypes), who feel stuck in cycles of miscommunication, disconnection, or hurt.
You’ve spent a long time learning how to take up less space. Reading the room. Adjusting your tone. Shrinking parts of yourself just to stay safe, accepted, or understood. And now something in you is tired of that. I work with women who are carrying the weight of complex trauma, especially the kind that doesn’t always get named. The microaggressions. The quiet invalidations. The pressure to be “easy,” “strong,” or “grateful” in spaces that don’t always feel safe to fully exist in. If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between being accepted and being yourself… I see you. I’ve lived that too.
I also work with couples navigating neurodivergence (including mixed neurotypes), who feel stuck in cycles of miscommunication, disconnection, or hurt.
You’ve spent a long time learning how to take up less space. Reading the room. Adjusting your tone. Shrinking parts of yourself just to stay safe, accepted, or understood. And now something in you is tired of that. I work with women who are carrying the weight of complex trauma, especially the kind that doesn’t always get named. The microaggressions. The quiet invalidations. The pressure to be “easy,” “strong,” or “grateful” in spaces that don’t always feel safe to fully exist in. If you’ve ever felt like you had to choose between being accepted and being yourself… I see you. I’ve lived that too.
Hello, and welcome. I am accepting new clients in California and I have a few immediate openings. My expertise is in helping my clients deeply heal, rebuild, and adapt tools and techniques to improve self-esteem, place boundaries without feeling guilty, manage trauma triggers, overcome anxiety, and manage stress. I work with clients with trauma, addiction, narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, OCD, C-PTSD/PTSD, and more. I also serve as a certified sex therapist, and I am a clinical expert in sex and porn addiction.
Therapy offers a safe space to heal, and you deserve a trusted and trained guide on your journey.
Hello, and welcome. I am accepting new clients in California and I have a few immediate openings. My expertise is in helping my clients deeply heal, rebuild, and adapt tools and techniques to improve self-esteem, place boundaries without feeling guilty, manage trauma triggers, overcome anxiety, and manage stress. I work with clients with trauma, addiction, narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, OCD, C-PTSD/PTSD, and more. I also serve as a certified sex therapist, and I am a clinical expert in sex and porn addiction.
Therapy offers a safe space to heal, and you deserve a trusted and trained guide on your journey.
My ideal clients are adults struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, relationship challenges, or major life transitions. Many have spent years putting others first while carrying emotional pain, chronic stress, difficulty focusing, or unresolved trauma. Others are coping with grief, obsessive thoughts, parenting challenges, or family conflict and are ready to heal, build resilience, and create lasting, meaningful change.
My ideal clients are adults struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, relationship challenges, or major life transitions. Many have spent years putting others first while carrying emotional pain, chronic stress, difficulty focusing, or unresolved trauma. Others are coping with grief, obsessive thoughts, parenting challenges, or family conflict and are ready to heal, build resilience, and create lasting, meaningful change.
Sydney Hafer, Balance and Bloom
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may feel worn down by an eating disorder, complex trauma, or the weight of mood and anxiety symptoms that make daily life feel overwhelming. Maybe perfectionism keeps you stuck, your body feels like a battleground, or old wounds shape how you see yourself and your relationships. You want relief, safety, and space to breathe. In our work together, we create a compassionate, grounded place to heal, strengthen your voice, and build a life that feels authentic, peaceful, and wholly your own.
You may feel worn down by an eating disorder, complex trauma, or the weight of mood and anxiety symptoms that make daily life feel overwhelming. Maybe perfectionism keeps you stuck, your body feels like a battleground, or old wounds shape how you see yourself and your relationships. You want relief, safety, and space to breathe. In our work together, we create a compassionate, grounded place to heal, strengthen your voice, and build a life that feels authentic, peaceful, and wholly your own.
Wenonah is a licensed therapist at Bonmente, a full-service mental health clinic that offers online appointments, accepts insurance (Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross, Cigna, United, and more), and has same-week appointments available. She has several years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults, and she specializes in helping students and young adults manage anxiety, depression and ADHD. Wenonah utilizes evidence-based practices and maintains a trauma-informed, warm, and collaborative approach in her clinical work.
Wenonah is a licensed therapist at Bonmente, a full-service mental health clinic that offers online appointments, accepts insurance (Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross, Cigna, United, and more), and has same-week appointments available. She has several years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults, and she specializes in helping students and young adults manage anxiety, depression and ADHD. Wenonah utilizes evidence-based practices and maintains a trauma-informed, warm, and collaborative approach in her clinical work.
As a neurodiversity-affirming therapist, my approach is rooted in the belief that we all have unique strengths, struggles, and difference.
Even when your body is still, your brain won’t stop running and it’s exhausting. You’re used to pushing through but that doesn’t mean it’s easy, especially when you have such high expectations for yourself. What if you could feel comfortable letting your mind wander without worrying about what path it will take you down? That probably sounds scary because you know how many paths it can go down, and it goes fast, but it is possible. You have a strong sense of empathy towards others, now it’s time to show yourself that same compassion.
As a neurodiversity-affirming therapist, my approach is rooted in the belief that we all have unique strengths, struggles, and difference.
Even when your body is still, your brain won’t stop running and it’s exhausting. You’re used to pushing through but that doesn’t mean it’s easy, especially when you have such high expectations for yourself. What if you could feel comfortable letting your mind wander without worrying about what path it will take you down? That probably sounds scary because you know how many paths it can go down, and it goes fast, but it is possible. You have a strong sense of empathy towards others, now it’s time to show yourself that same compassion.
I am neurodivergent myself and absolutely LOVE serving the community!
A seasoned professional who has worked with thousands of individuals & families-all who have taught & continue to teach me something valuable. I am well-versed in mental health & special education resources-IEP/504, Regional Centers, NAMI,etc. I use EMDR, Collaborative Problem Solving, CBT, DBT, Polyvagal Theory, and Family Systems.
I am neurodivergent myself and absolutely LOVE serving the community!
A seasoned professional who has worked with thousands of individuals & families-all who have taught & continue to teach me something valuable. I am well-versed in mental health & special education resources-IEP/504, Regional Centers, NAMI,etc. I use EMDR, Collaborative Problem Solving, CBT, DBT, Polyvagal Theory, and Family Systems.
I specialize in working with postpartum parents, trauma and clinicians. I'm trained in EMDR and enjoy helping clients to process their trauma and and set future goals to enjoy their lives and manage stressors.
I specialize in working with postpartum parents, trauma and clinicians. I'm trained in EMDR and enjoy helping clients to process their trauma and and set future goals to enjoy their lives and manage stressors.
I help neurodivergent adults and mixed-neurotype couples build stronger, more connected relationships.
I help individuals with ADHD and executive functioning challenges using ACT, Narrative, and Feminist therapy to build self-understanding, flexibility, and confidence. With couples, I use EFT and SFBT to strengthen communication, repair connection, and navigate conflict, trust, and relationship growth.
I help neurodivergent adults and mixed-neurotype couples build stronger, more connected relationships.
I help individuals with ADHD and executive functioning challenges using ACT, Narrative, and Feminist therapy to build self-understanding, flexibility, and confidence. With couples, I use EFT and SFBT to strengthen communication, repair connection, and navigate conflict, trust, and relationship growth.
Hello Hello, I'm Tabitha :) I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in San Diego, California. I believe in empathetic listening, transparency, and empowerment as a means to unravel inner conflict. I have a client-centered, trauma-informed approach, integrating conventional and holistic therapeutic modalities. I encourage mind-body oriented integrative methods in providing counseling, mental health and wellness approaches. My approach is to reveal the barriers we build in attempts to protect ourselves from childhood and adult relationship traumas.
Hello Hello, I'm Tabitha :) I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in San Diego, California. I believe in empathetic listening, transparency, and empowerment as a means to unravel inner conflict. I have a client-centered, trauma-informed approach, integrating conventional and holistic therapeutic modalities. I encourage mind-body oriented integrative methods in providing counseling, mental health and wellness approaches. My approach is to reveal the barriers we build in attempts to protect ourselves from childhood and adult relationship traumas.
Healing is not a linear journey, and it doesn’t have to be. Growth can feel messy, layered, and uncertain, yet it is always possible within a safe and supportive therapeutic relationship. The connection between therapist and client is at the heart of meaningful change, and I strive to build that relationship with authenticity, compassion, and respect for your lived experience.
I am grounded in social justice and social awareness, recognizing how systems of power, inequality, and oppression impact our mental health, especially in a world where many are experiencing their rights being challenged or taken away. My work is informed by
Healing is not a linear journey, and it doesn’t have to be. Growth can feel messy, layered, and uncertain, yet it is always possible within a safe and supportive therapeutic relationship. The connection between therapist and client is at the heart of meaningful change, and I strive to build that relationship with authenticity, compassion, and respect for your lived experience.
I am grounded in social justice and social awareness, recognizing how systems of power, inequality, and oppression impact our mental health, especially in a world where many are experiencing their rights being challenged or taken away. My work is informed by
My goal is to provide a secure place where you can discover your awesomeness. Using openness, curiosity, and humor, I will be right by your side as you work through the difficulties of the past. Trauma, addiction, relationship/attachment difficulties, and the emotional pain you're experiencing will begin to resolve as you are not just accepted, but actually celebrated for all that you are!
My goal is to provide a secure place where you can discover your awesomeness. Using openness, curiosity, and humor, I will be right by your side as you work through the difficulties of the past. Trauma, addiction, relationship/attachment difficulties, and the emotional pain you're experiencing will begin to resolve as you are not just accepted, but actually celebrated for all that you are!
Hi, I'm Chelsea. I enjoy working with adults navigating trauma, PTSD, anxiety, depression, domestic violence, and life transitions. My experience includes working with first responders, their families and the LGBTQ+ community. I'm a Certified Domestic Violence Counselor and a trained EMDR therapist. My aim is to build on your current strengths, explore new skills and approaches to improve your mental health.
Hi, I'm Chelsea. I enjoy working with adults navigating trauma, PTSD, anxiety, depression, domestic violence, and life transitions. My experience includes working with first responders, their families and the LGBTQ+ community. I'm a Certified Domestic Violence Counselor and a trained EMDR therapist. My aim is to build on your current strengths, explore new skills and approaches to improve your mental health.
Mary Okoth - Caregiver Burnout, Stress, &
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
4 Endorsed
Oceanside, CA 92054
I provide affirming care for BIPOC, LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, and immigrant communities, and those impacted by the legal system and incarceration.
You spend so much of your life caring for others. As a caregiver, helping professional, healthcare worker, educator, or community organizer, you may be used to being the person others rely on. Bearing witness to trauma and suffering, working in high-stress environments, and navigating oppressive systems can leave you feeling exhausted, disconnected, overwhelmed, and unsure how to find your way back to yourself.
I provide affirming care for BIPOC, LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, and immigrant communities, and those impacted by the legal system and incarceration.
You spend so much of your life caring for others. As a caregiver, helping professional, healthcare worker, educator, or community organizer, you may be used to being the person others rely on. Bearing witness to trauma and suffering, working in high-stress environments, and navigating oppressive systems can leave you feeling exhausted, disconnected, overwhelmed, and unsure how to find your way back to yourself.
I look forward to working with you so that you may experience the best version of yourself. If you need support with coping in healthier ways with the challenges you are experiencing, let's talk. I offer a safe, supportive, strength based, client centered approach. We build on your existing strengths & support network.
I look forward to working with you so that you may experience the best version of yourself. If you need support with coping in healthier ways with the challenges you are experiencing, let's talk. I offer a safe, supportive, strength based, client centered approach. We build on your existing strengths & support network.
Starting therapy can be nerve wracking and I recognize the strength and bravery it takes to try it out. I prioritize creating an environment that feels safe and comfortable for you to show up exactly as you are. All parts of you are welcome! I support people moving through life transitions, relationship issues, identity exploration, trauma, grief and loss, existential matters, burnout, and more. I also work with all types of couple’s wanting to improve their communication, intimacy, and conflict resolution skills.
Starting therapy can be nerve wracking and I recognize the strength and bravery it takes to try it out. I prioritize creating an environment that feels safe and comfortable for you to show up exactly as you are. All parts of you are welcome! I support people moving through life transitions, relationship issues, identity exploration, trauma, grief and loss, existential matters, burnout, and more. I also work with all types of couple’s wanting to improve their communication, intimacy, and conflict resolution skills.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have been licensed for over 25 years and enjoy working with teens, children, individual adults, and families. I take a supportive, matter-of-fact approach to guide clients along a healthier path toward a more peace-filled life. I use an eclectic approach to treatment that includes mindfulness, psychoeducation, and CBT. I am trained as a cognitive behavioral therapist.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I have been licensed for over 25 years and enjoy working with teens, children, individual adults, and families. I take a supportive, matter-of-fact approach to guide clients along a healthier path toward a more peace-filled life. I use an eclectic approach to treatment that includes mindfulness, psychoeducation, and CBT. I am trained as a cognitive behavioral therapist.
Neurodiversity-affirming and collaborative — your goals, not a checklist of skills to "fix
This isn't about masking better or "managing" who you are. It's about building a life that fits how your brain and body actually work.
My clients are autistic and ADHD adults — newly diagnosed, late-diagnosed, or self-identified — who've spent years masking, compensating, and pushing through to the point of burnout.
I help you move from compensation to actually living: sensory regulation that fits your nervous system, executive function strategies that work the way you think, and daily routines that don't drain you.
Neurodiversity-affirming and collaborative — your goals, not a checklist of skills to "fix
This isn't about masking better or "managing" who you are. It's about building a life that fits how your brain and body actually work.
My clients are autistic and ADHD adults — newly diagnosed, late-diagnosed, or self-identified — who've spent years masking, compensating, and pushing through to the point of burnout.
I help you move from compensation to actually living: sensory regulation that fits your nervous system, executive function strategies that work the way you think, and daily routines that don't drain you.
I can help you with managing depression and anxiety symptoms, healing attachment wounds, processing past trauma, learning communication and relationship skills, normalizing neurodivergence, and/or exploring emotional regulation tools.
I'm glad you are reaching out for support during difficult times. Therapy can help. I specialize in working with queer and trans folx and couples/partners of all identities and backgrounds. With me you will find a safe and affirming environment in which your problems are understood and your own identity is embraced and celebrated; you will feel seen, heard, validated, and supported. I am accepting new clients and I offer services statewide via telehealth.
I can help you with managing depression and anxiety symptoms, healing attachment wounds, processing past trauma, learning communication and relationship skills, normalizing neurodivergence, and/or exploring emotional regulation tools.
I'm glad you are reaching out for support during difficult times. Therapy can help. I specialize in working with queer and trans folx and couples/partners of all identities and backgrounds. With me you will find a safe and affirming environment in which your problems are understood and your own identity is embraced and celebrated; you will feel seen, heard, validated, and supported. I am accepting new clients and I offer services statewide via telehealth.
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FAQ - Neurodivergent Counselling
What does neurodivergent mean?
Neurodivergent is a broad term used to describe people whose brains process, learn, or respond to information in ways that differ from what is considered “typical.” Neurodivergence can include autism, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), dyslexia, Tourette syndrome, and other forms of neurological difference. The term comes from the idea of neurodiversity, which recognizes that differences in brain function are a natural part of human variation. Rather than viewing neurodivergence only through the lens of neurological disorders, this perspective acknowledges that neurodivergent people may experience both strengths and challenges. For example, a person may be very creative and intelligent, while also needing support with sensory sensitivity or learning differences.
What issues do neurodivergent people commonly bring to therapy?
Neurodivergent people often seek therapy for many of the same reasons as anyone else, including anxiety, depression, stress, relationship concerns, or major life transitions. They may also want support with challenges specifically related to neurodivergence; for example, therapy may help with executive functioning, social communication, sensory sensitivity, school/learning stress, or the experience of feeling misunderstood in society. Therapists can also help individuals and families diagnose conditions, as well as distinguish regular challenges associated with childhood and/or adolescence from more enduring conditions. When needed, a therapist may also provide referrals to additional specialists, such as occupational therapists or psychiatrists who can prescribe psychiatric medication.
What therapeutic approaches work well for neurodivergent clients?
Therapy for neurodivergent clients is often most helpful when it is flexible and affirming. Rather than expecting every client to fit one standard model of therapy, neurodivergent-affirming therapists may adapt sessions to each person’s needs and therapy goals. Often, this includes visual aids, movement breaks, or other therapy supports. Common structured therapeutic approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can be useful for some neurodivergent clients, but the approach may need to be modified to avoid feeling overly rigid or focused on changing traits that are part of a person’s natural neurodivergence. Other approaches, including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and mindfulness-based approaches, may also be helpful depending on the client’s needs.
Who is included in Psychology Today's directory of neurodivergent therapists?
Psychology Today’s directory of neurodivergent therapists includes professionals who self-identify as neurodivergent, as well as therapists who describe their work as neurodivergent-affirming or who specialize in areas such as ADHD, autism, learning differences, or sensory processing concerns. When reviewing a therapist’s profile, look at their bio, listed specialties, treatment approach, and experience working with neurodivergent clients. You may also want to consider whether they offer supports that matter to you, such as online therapy, accessible office space, or familiarity with specific concerns like anxiety, depression, or trauma.


