Male Therapists in Oakland, CA
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José L. Alemán
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I have many years of experience working with adult
men
and women of all ages struggling with a wide range of issues.
Congrats on taking time to think about yourself and seek out support. I invite this curiosity into our sessions to explore what your wants/needs are and what is getting in the way of them being achieved and lived. Compassion, space, intrigue, and appreciation are cornerstones of my practice when exploring our selves, and our connection to the world. Let's bring out to the forefront the you that wants change; the one that inherently knows what it needs. With this part of yourself given more space to be heard, we will develop specific strategies to make those changes occur.

Max Littman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a gay and
male
identified therapist who specializes in improving intimate relationships, job related stress relief, LGBTQ+ issues, and healing childhood trauma.
It's common for people to crave validation and acceptance for their true selves, and this desire is completely natural and deserving of attention. In therapy with me, you can expect to have these needs met as we work together to explore and understand your unique experiences and emotions. Through our sessions, you will feel truly heard and understood as we delve into your current struggles and gain deeper insights into your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Together, we will uncover patterns and explore how they may be impacting your life, helping you gain clarity about what's going on for you right now and what to do next.

Dr. Tyler Wasson - Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy
PsyD
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
As a queer
man
myself, I’m particularly drawn to helping other LGBTQ+ people and find that, whereas we all have a unique queer experience, there is something very healing about a therapeutic relationship in which there is a sense of shared language and identity.
What do Mindfulness and Ketamine have to do with YOU? They are two of the most powerful healing methods for transforming mental health challenges, and either/both may be the key to removing your barriers to reveal the best of who you already are: free, fulfilled, and utterly fabulous… Sometimes it’s hard to see ourselves as whole, and feel complete. In fact it’s pretty universal. However there are times in life when the struggles of life—work stress, relationships, family dynamics, personal identity, loss, life transitions, social and cultural issues, etc.—become so heavy that we forget who we are and who we can become.

Dr. Chris Guthrey
Psychologist, MA, PsyD
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
I tend to work mostly with
men
who searching to find deeper meaning and purpose in life and are interested in taking a mindful approach to their spirituality. My other specialties are working with my clients to communicate more effectively, develop healthy boundaries, and increase their ability for self-care. I also have experience in helping people process challenging relationships with parents and other family members and establishing healthier dynamics with them.

Sarwang Parikh
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I am especially committed to supporting
men
of color in navigating relationship, trauma, internalized oppression and/or intersections of identity (sexuality, ethnicity, etc).
I support my clients to cultivate awareness and capacity to unwind from unhealthy thought and behavior patterns. I do this by drawing on their innate strengths and resilience. Collaboratively we learn to navigate challenging emotions and life transitions to rediscover aliveness, power, joy, purpose, care and a sense of connection. I bring dynamic qualities including curiosity, creativity and warmth into sessions for growth towards wholeness. My approach is guided by mindful awareness, honest inquiry and deep compassion. I am grounded in social justice, recognizing how social-historical factors impact well-being. I believe healing is a journey towards liberation.
Not accepting new clients

Paul J. Wensley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a survivor of depression, and the trauma of living in this world as a gay
man
.
Life has its ups and downs, ins and outs, mountains, plateaus, and valleys, and sometimes you just need someone to talk to. Is it a loss, feeling anxious, depressed, unaccepted, overwhelmed or fragile. Are some of these things holding you back? Together we can learn coping skills, healthy ways of living, and how to move forward in your life. I use a compassionate, non- judgmental, understanding, strength based approach by acknowledging and welcoming your whole person, body, mind, and spirit.

Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Verified
Verified
My goal for each
man
I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process.
Welcome to my practice. I have about 15 years of clinical experience and have been featured on NBC/KCAL/HLN as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with
men
who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These
men
are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.

Jim Conwell MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
Verified
I specialize in effective couples therapy. I work with adult individuals, and
men
with issues in the area of sexuality and intimacy. In working with couples I focus on self-responsibility, communication (listening when listening is hard, self revealing instead of finger-pointing), expectations, self-awareness, and remaining intimate through difficulty. Throughout the whole process I integrate a focus on kindness without abandoning or avoiding the truth. I also specialize in assisting and supporting both
men
and women with building the skill and ability to feel and share their feelings effectively in intimate relationships.

Eric Burns
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I work with individuals, couples, and families struggling with a variety of life challenges; addiction and chemical dependency (abstinence and harm reduction), dual diagnosis, codependency,
men
in transition, grief and loss, anger management, self-esteem and healthy self-image for teenagers and adults.
Your mental health is very important. Whether you are struggling with a new problem or one that has been ongoing, an emotional problem or a biochemical one, or even relationship challenges, getting support can make a world of difference. Establishing a safe environment to talk and building a trusting relationship is essential in building a therapeutic relationship. I provide a warm and caring environment for you to trust and share intimate thoughts and feelings, including at times, conflicting thoughts, anxious feelings, depressed mood, and traumatic events.

Nick Wightman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
I work with all populations, especially
men
and young adults, using an integrative approach that emphasizes mindfulness and a holistic view of the self.
Choosing to start therapy is a sign of strength, not weakness. I believe all people have a natural inclination toward growth and wholeness and sometimes things get in the way. Exploring these obstacles with compassion and courage can help you cultivate the most important relationship of your life -- your relationship with yourself. Whether your challenge is depression, anxiety, grief and loss, relationships, addictions or career challenges, all you need to get started is the desire to change.

David Hassin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I work with
men
of all ages who are experiencing significant loss or change and are having difficulty re adjusting.
Life is change...but some changes leave wounds that no one can see. I work with
men
..regular guys, who may never have thought that they would ever need to speak to "a professional'. I know how hard it is to talk about the things that are bothering you. I know what it is to be alone and hurting. There is no magic in what I do. You don't even have to talk about your feelings, if you don't want to.. I stop the bleeding, I clean the wounds, and I help the healing start.

Justin McGahan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, PhD, LMFT
Verified
Verified
A good therapist helps us get to know ourselves fully. Better understanding our motivations, thoughts and feelings reveals more fulfilling, effective choices. Exploring what is getting in our way of having deeply satisfying relationships is essential to living a full life. I often address issues of: understanding a partner's motivations, life purpose & transition, transparent vulnerable & authentic communication, finding/creating fulfilling relationship, confidence & leadership,
men
in relationship, trauma, and integrating presence in daily living.

DeShannon Williamson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I also serve as a Board member for 2 organizations where we mentor hundreds of young
men
of color to be successful.
I offer expertise in evidence-based treatments for anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties. I use a collaborative and strengths-based approach that integrates cultural factors as appropriate. I was raised in an inner-city, urban area, and I carry a high level of understanding for individuals that come from marginalized environments like myself. I also specialize in professional and work stress. I have been a business owner, philanthropist, and investor for almost 30 years. I have experience with high output career stress and how it can affect us.

Dr. Mitch and Lisa Private Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Relationship Coach (30 Years) are truly very Caring Professional's having a
Male
/Female Perspective on your Relationship.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Four 75 Minute Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Does Not Work). During these 4 to 6 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.

"Sex Addiction"-Sexual Misbehavior Absolute Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
My clients are high functioning
men
, accustomed to superior services, who want to put an end to these self destructive actions.
Absolute "sex addiction " elite level expert 25 years 40,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided brings faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sex Apps, Strip Clubs,Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to not act out these self destructive actions while simultaneously loving yourself and the life you have. I love to he

Eliot Schain
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MFA
Verified
Verified
I work with adults, teens, and couples struggling with depression, anxiety, and the inability to effectively communicate. With individuals, I help reframe challenges and liberate talents, especially in
men
alienated from the economy and meaningful purpose. I taught for years in a high school, and thus am comfortable working with adolescents. My orientation is eclectic, however I draw mostly from psychodynamic and relational theory, as well as CBT techniques. I find these approaches complementary, even necessary to establish a holistic treatment plan.

Vernon Lee
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT-S
Verified
Verified
moMENtum provides primary treatment (education/counseling services) for
male
individuals who have admitted to committing acts of domestic violence or have been convicted of criminal offenses against a current or former adult family member or intimate partner.
In a field with very few recognized experts, Dr. Lee is an acknowledged professional in the assessment and treatment of persons with addictive sexual disorders and domestic violence.Clients come to us for professional and compassionate guidance in creating the most appropriate treatment plan for their success.
Waitlist for new clients

Walt Odets
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
About three-quarters of my practice is devoted to individual therapy with gay
men
and counseling for gay couples. The remainder of my therapy hours are devoted to women, the parents of gay
men
, and others. I specialize in gay and bisexual issues, depression, anxiety, self-esteem, aging, trauma, personal isolation, relationships, intimacy, sex, HIV, and survivor issues. I have written extensively about the psychological and social issues of gay
men
and gay communities. My most recent book, released in June 2019 by Farrar, Straus and Giroux (and Penguin in the U.K.), is "Out of the Shadows: Reimagining Gay
Men
's Lives."

David L. Raughton
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
Verified
My work is practical, eclectic, and deep. I am gentle and caring, yet focused and effective. I utilize mindfulness, cognitive therapy, and psychodynamic understanding to help clients make the changes they want. I value diversity, and I look to see the goodness and strength of each person I meet. My interest in psychotherapy began with my own healing as a young
man
, and I have continued to grow as a person and a therapist.

Hawlan Ng
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
As an Asian American
male
who has experienced, taught and presented on racial/ethnic dynamics and identity issues, I have a deep appreciation for the way life's challenges can be further complicated by problems that stem from intergenerational and intercultural conflicts, especially with our intersecting identities.
If you are struggling with unbearable feelings, loneliness, identity issues, shame, guilt, and/or relationship difficulties, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for you to explore yourself in relation to your world. My approach rests on the belief that our ways of understanding and coping with the present may be limited by our previous experiences. By working together, we find new expanded ways to help you understand and cope more effectively.
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What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the United States, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
What type of therapist is right for me?
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist, psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors. Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.