In Person Therapists in Oakland, CA
Many of my clients are people who have spent much of their lives moving between cultures or struggling to belong. In a complex world- therapy can be a place to slow down, teach our nervous system to experience safety, and make space for all parts of ourselves to exist. I have special interest in working with queer Christians or ex-Christians recovering from religious trauma, bicultural folks who grew up in complex or invalidating environments, as well as men who are unpacking inherited ideas of masculinity and stepping into more authentic ways of being in relationship with themselves and others.
Many of my clients are people who have spent much of their lives moving between cultures or struggling to belong. In a complex world- therapy can be a place to slow down, teach our nervous system to experience safety, and make space for all parts of ourselves to exist. I have special interest in working with queer Christians or ex-Christians recovering from religious trauma, bicultural folks who grew up in complex or invalidating environments, as well as men who are unpacking inherited ideas of masculinity and stepping into more authentic ways of being in relationship with themselves and others.
Things haven’t felt right for a while. You’ve been pushing through your depression or stress, doing what’s expected, but inside, it’s heavy. Maybe you’re dealing with trauma or anxiety that won’t let up. Or you're burned out from personal relationships, stuck in self-doubt, or wondering why the same patterns keep repeating. You might not even know what you need. Therapy begins with not having all the answers, but with being honest about what hurts. From there, real change is possible.
Things haven’t felt right for a while. You’ve been pushing through your depression or stress, doing what’s expected, but inside, it’s heavy. Maybe you’re dealing with trauma or anxiety that won’t let up. Or you're burned out from personal relationships, stuck in self-doubt, or wondering why the same patterns keep repeating. You might not even know what you need. Therapy begins with not having all the answers, but with being honest about what hurts. From there, real change is possible.
Are you experiencing relationship issues with your partner or family members? I’m passionate about helping people have healthier relationships within themselves and with others. I work with couples and families who are stuck in conflict, seeking better communication, healing from past wounds, bridging cultural gaps, or adjusting to life transitions. I also provide individual therapy to support those affected by relational issues. We can work on managing anxiety, processing trauma, overcoming people-pleasing habits, improving emotional regulation, working through codependency, and embarking on a journey of healing and well-being.
Are you experiencing relationship issues with your partner or family members? I’m passionate about helping people have healthier relationships within themselves and with others. I work with couples and families who are stuck in conflict, seeking better communication, healing from past wounds, bridging cultural gaps, or adjusting to life transitions. I also provide individual therapy to support those affected by relational issues. We can work on managing anxiety, processing trauma, overcoming people-pleasing habits, improving emotional regulation, working through codependency, and embarking on a journey of healing and well-being.
Who is driving you crazy? Your partner, your boss, your teacher, your mother? Are you feeling overwhelmed, trapped, unsatisfied? Would you like to be more assertive, establish stronger boundaries & have more satisfying relationships? Would you like to remove obstacles that are preventing you from achieving your dreams? I want to help you develop life-long patterns to sustain a richer, more gratifying life. I specialize in working with adults going through transitions relating to work, school & relationships. I love working with intelligent, creative, motivated & insightful clients.
Who is driving you crazy? Your partner, your boss, your teacher, your mother? Are you feeling overwhelmed, trapped, unsatisfied? Would you like to be more assertive, establish stronger boundaries & have more satisfying relationships? Would you like to remove obstacles that are preventing you from achieving your dreams? I want to help you develop life-long patterns to sustain a richer, more gratifying life. I specialize in working with adults going through transitions relating to work, school & relationships. I love working with intelligent, creative, motivated & insightful clients.
In-person therapy sessions offered in the Montclair neighborhood of Oakland as well as online therapy across California.
If you have been struggling with anxiety, panic, stress, trauma, or fears/phobias you have landed in the right place. I have had the honor of helping people overcome their greatest struggles for over 22 years. Utilizing several evidence-based, trauma-informed approaches has been integral to having the skills necessary to create a path of healing with several options while always bearing in mind the need for a strong therapeutic relationship that focuses on warmth, empowerment, acceptance, and engagement while always considering the need for trust and safety at the center of our work together.
In-person therapy sessions offered in the Montclair neighborhood of Oakland as well as online therapy across California.
If you have been struggling with anxiety, panic, stress, trauma, or fears/phobias you have landed in the right place. I have had the honor of helping people overcome their greatest struggles for over 22 years. Utilizing several evidence-based, trauma-informed approaches has been integral to having the skills necessary to create a path of healing with several options while always bearing in mind the need for a strong therapeutic relationship that focuses on warmth, empowerment, acceptance, and engagement while always considering the need for trust and safety at the center of our work together.
I have practiced as a therapist for over twenty years and specialize in helping people integrate unresolved aspects of the past in order to live more freely in the present. Exploring adaptive strategies which used to help but have become limiting over time; meeting all parts of ourselves with curiosity and compassion; cultivating consciousness around thinking and feeling patterns; bringing attention to the body and working with the nervous system to soften areas of tension and holding - these are ways therapy can deepen insight and support ease and well being.
I have practiced as a therapist for over twenty years and specialize in helping people integrate unresolved aspects of the past in order to live more freely in the present. Exploring adaptive strategies which used to help but have become limiting over time; meeting all parts of ourselves with curiosity and compassion; cultivating consciousness around thinking and feeling patterns; bringing attention to the body and working with the nervous system to soften areas of tension and holding - these are ways therapy can deepen insight and support ease and well being.
With over 20 years as a CA-licensed psychologist & 40-plus in the field, I enjoy working with individuals with a variety of concerns. I have seen children as young as 3 and seniors in their 80s. Some issues I have experience with: parenting, friendship and partner relationships, difficulties with self-regulation, general and social anxiety, depression, search for meaning, transitions re: culture, career, stage of life. The goals: improved family functioning, more fluidity, greater engagement and curiosity re: self and others, better boundaries, improved coping, increased energy. Let's see if we are a good fit to work together.
With over 20 years as a CA-licensed psychologist & 40-plus in the field, I enjoy working with individuals with a variety of concerns. I have seen children as young as 3 and seniors in their 80s. Some issues I have experience with: parenting, friendship and partner relationships, difficulties with self-regulation, general and social anxiety, depression, search for meaning, transitions re: culture, career, stage of life. The goals: improved family functioning, more fluidity, greater engagement and curiosity re: self and others, better boundaries, improved coping, increased energy. Let's see if we are a good fit to work together.
John Connors McConville
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MDiv, MA, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94610
I work with people who face challenges that often arise in the second half of life such as, the trauma of illness & death, caring for aging parents, loss of satisfaction or sense of meaning in relationships and work, loss of a job, isolation, and loneliness. These challenges can often be baffling and carry symptoms of depression, fear and anxiety. The rational mind may understand what is going on but somehow the emotional and physical body can't always take solace in rational solutions.
I work with people who face challenges that often arise in the second half of life such as, the trauma of illness & death, caring for aging parents, loss of satisfaction or sense of meaning in relationships and work, loss of a job, isolation, and loneliness. These challenges can often be baffling and carry symptoms of depression, fear and anxiety. The rational mind may understand what is going on but somehow the emotional and physical body can't always take solace in rational solutions.
I work both in-office and via telehealth.
My love of psychotherapy is rooted in deep belief of the transformative potential of individuals to heal, grow, and realize their most healthy and happy selves, and in turn to have greater capacity and freedom to change our communities and society. As a nurse practitioner I aim to work with you towards that goal. In much the same way that we are shaped by our early relationships, environment, and experiences, healing too happens in relationship. In an attuned therapeutic relationship, we are able to have different experiences and develop a greater sense of authenticity and connection to ourselves and the world around us.
I work both in-office and via telehealth.
My love of psychotherapy is rooted in deep belief of the transformative potential of individuals to heal, grow, and realize their most healthy and happy selves, and in turn to have greater capacity and freedom to change our communities and society. As a nurse practitioner I aim to work with you towards that goal. In much the same way that we are shaped by our early relationships, environment, and experiences, healing too happens in relationship. In an attuned therapeutic relationship, we are able to have different experiences and develop a greater sense of authenticity and connection to ourselves and the world around us.
I offer sessions in Walnut Creek and Oakland in person, and tele-health throughout California.
It can feel like there are so many demands on the modern human that we have no space to slow down and listen our quiet yet wise inner voice. This can result in surprise feelings of anxiety, depression, and overwhelm that have us seeking any means of relief. Whether it be tuning out on social media, overindulging in substances from food to drugs, or creating an over-stuffed social calendar, relief is only temporary. I'm here to help find sustainable ways to live at your own pace, and to help increase contact with your innate wisdom.
I offer sessions in Walnut Creek and Oakland in person, and tele-health throughout California.
It can feel like there are so many demands on the modern human that we have no space to slow down and listen our quiet yet wise inner voice. This can result in surprise feelings of anxiety, depression, and overwhelm that have us seeking any means of relief. Whether it be tuning out on social media, overindulging in substances from food to drugs, or creating an over-stuffed social calendar, relief is only temporary. I'm here to help find sustainable ways to live at your own pace, and to help increase contact with your innate wisdom.
Becoming a parent, getting married, or going through a divorce can shake you to your core—parts of you feel like they’re disappearing, and other parts are showing up for the very first time. These transitions often stir up old attachment wounds and painful questions: Am I enough? Will I get this right? Whether you're adjusting to life with a baby, navigating partnership struggles, or sitting with the heartbreak or relief of a breakup, you're not alone. I can’t take away the pain—but I will walk with you through it, holding space for the grief, the growth, and everything in between.
Becoming a parent, getting married, or going through a divorce can shake you to your core—parts of you feel like they’re disappearing, and other parts are showing up for the very first time. These transitions often stir up old attachment wounds and painful questions: Am I enough? Will I get this right? Whether you're adjusting to life with a baby, navigating partnership struggles, or sitting with the heartbreak or relief of a breakup, you're not alone. I can’t take away the pain—but I will walk with you through it, holding space for the grief, the growth, and everything in between.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others, and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others, and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability, and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience.
If you yearn to focus on you and your needs, welcome! In this world of AI we can experience IRL Walk/Talk therapy in the Oakland hills on Ohlone lands. Whether on the land or online, we'll start with the understanding that while you want to change, also there is nothing “wrong” with you; where you are now makes sense. We’ll work on enhancing what is helping you, support what is your true nature, and with self-compassion process past hurts, while developing new insights and skills. I bring training in EMDR, Somatic and IFS informed EMDR, eco-therapy principles, and more, to honor who you’ve been and supporting who you’re becoming.
If you yearn to focus on you and your needs, welcome! In this world of AI we can experience IRL Walk/Talk therapy in the Oakland hills on Ohlone lands. Whether on the land or online, we'll start with the understanding that while you want to change, also there is nothing “wrong” with you; where you are now makes sense. We’ll work on enhancing what is helping you, support what is your true nature, and with self-compassion process past hurts, while developing new insights and skills. I bring training in EMDR, Somatic and IFS informed EMDR, eco-therapy principles, and more, to honor who you’ve been and supporting who you’re becoming.
We all want to be understood, accepted and loved; this can only happen through honest communication. Making the decision to seek help for you or your family can be part of that communication. I provide a safe space to explore, discuss and process important issues that affect the lives of you and your family members. I have an eclectic approach to providing psychotherapy. As one size does not fit all, therapy cannot be approached in the same way for everyone. It must be tailored to the specific needs, issues and problems that each person uniquely presents.
We all want to be understood, accepted and loved; this can only happen through honest communication. Making the decision to seek help for you or your family can be part of that communication. I provide a safe space to explore, discuss and process important issues that affect the lives of you and your family members. I have an eclectic approach to providing psychotherapy. As one size does not fit all, therapy cannot be approached in the same way for everyone. It must be tailored to the specific needs, issues and problems that each person uniquely presents.
I enjoy working with adults who are interested in becoming more conscious. We all have reactions to things but there are some reactions or triggers that cause emotional pain. These triggers are usually a leftover piece of unprocessed pain. Unless they are understood and healed, they'll keep coming up. I enjoy working with clients who are motivated and curious about this process. The result is more peace of mind and a more fulfilling relationship with oneself and others.
I enjoy working with adults who are interested in becoming more conscious. We all have reactions to things but there are some reactions or triggers that cause emotional pain. These triggers are usually a leftover piece of unprocessed pain. Unless they are understood and healed, they'll keep coming up. I enjoy working with clients who are motivated and curious about this process. The result is more peace of mind and a more fulfilling relationship with oneself and others.
Are you feeling alone, unheard, or stuck? Are you experiencing anxiety, fatigue, and excessive worrying that impact your relationships and career? I’m glad you’re taking the time to notice these changes and to invest in yourself to become a better version of yourself. In sessions, I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help identify ways to incorporate positive changes for your negative thought patterns. Thus, you will learn to become better equipped in maintaining your personal or professional goals. I am committed to helping my clients decrease anxiety and manage healthy relationships.
Are you feeling alone, unheard, or stuck? Are you experiencing anxiety, fatigue, and excessive worrying that impact your relationships and career? I’m glad you’re taking the time to notice these changes and to invest in yourself to become a better version of yourself. In sessions, I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help identify ways to incorporate positive changes for your negative thought patterns. Thus, you will learn to become better equipped in maintaining your personal or professional goals. I am committed to helping my clients decrease anxiety and manage healthy relationships.
I offer telehealth sessions and in person sessions are also a possibility if you live in the Bay Area.
Many clients come to me after months or year of talk therapy, still feeling stuck. They’re self-aware but not moving forward. That’s where the deeper work begins. I help people uncover the root causes of their emotional pain, anxiety, and patterns that keep repeating. Together, we go beyond surface-level insight and start to unravel the core knots—so real, lasting change can finally happen.
Using a blend of integrative approaches tailored to your needs, I create a safe, supportive space for deep exploration and healing. Along the way, you’ll also learn practical tools and skills to support your growth. Clinical supervision avail.
I offer telehealth sessions and in person sessions are also a possibility if you live in the Bay Area.
Many clients come to me after months or year of talk therapy, still feeling stuck. They’re self-aware but not moving forward. That’s where the deeper work begins. I help people uncover the root causes of their emotional pain, anxiety, and patterns that keep repeating. Together, we go beyond surface-level insight and start to unravel the core knots—so real, lasting change can finally happen.
Using a blend of integrative approaches tailored to your needs, I create a safe, supportive space for deep exploration and healing. Along the way, you’ll also learn practical tools and skills to support your growth. Clinical supervision avail.
I offer video, phone and in person sessions (if no access to video/privacy.
I believe in the healing power of bearing witness to and participating in my clients' self-exploration. Whether we are exploring feelings, systems of oppression and their effects on us, patterns in relationships, or family of origin issues, the strength and compassion of an empathic partner in this journey can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and a relief in symptoms. I bring empathy and mindful curiosity to our work together.
I offer video, phone and in person sessions (if no access to video/privacy.
I believe in the healing power of bearing witness to and participating in my clients' self-exploration. Whether we are exploring feelings, systems of oppression and their effects on us, patterns in relationships, or family of origin issues, the strength and compassion of an empathic partner in this journey can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and a relief in symptoms. I bring empathy and mindful curiosity to our work together.
I love my work! My expertise lies in repairing relationships. I'm a certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapist through ICCEFT. EFT offers an ideal approach for working with couples, individuals, and families alike. Additionally, my practice is enriched by the invaluable insights from the Gottman Institute, where I have achieved Level 3 training. My clinical journey includes comprehensive training from UCSF's Infant-Parent Program in San Francisco, along with The Psychotherapy Institute, and The Women's Therapy Center, both in Berkeley.
I love my work! My expertise lies in repairing relationships. I'm a certified Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapist through ICCEFT. EFT offers an ideal approach for working with couples, individuals, and families alike. Additionally, my practice is enriched by the invaluable insights from the Gottman Institute, where I have achieved Level 3 training. My clinical journey includes comprehensive training from UCSF's Infant-Parent Program in San Francisco, along with The Psychotherapy Institute, and The Women's Therapy Center, both in Berkeley.
I primarily specialize in early childhood and the surrounding relationships. I work with children ages 0-8 focusing on life's adjustments, both the expected and the unexpected. I can offer support to children coping with adjustments, grief/loss, trauma, and anxiety. I also specialize in supporting parents as they navigate this journey alongside their children. I offer parent consultation as well as supportive parenting therapy, helping to nurture the parent-child relationship and improve communication.
I primarily specialize in early childhood and the surrounding relationships. I work with children ages 0-8 focusing on life's adjustments, both the expected and the unexpected. I can offer support to children coping with adjustments, grief/loss, trauma, and anxiety. I also specialize in supporting parents as they navigate this journey alongside their children. I offer parent consultation as well as supportive parenting therapy, helping to nurture the parent-child relationship and improve communication.
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