Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Newbury Park, CA
Rarely is the step towards seeking help from a therapist easy, or without contemplation. Here is a description of what I've found works best. During our first meeting, I engage you in a process to help you find the best fit possible for your particular needs. Together we can work on defining the right type and style of treatment best for you. We can define specific needs for either long or short term problems that are specific to you individually. This short process will give needed direction to your personal journey.
Rarely is the step towards seeking help from a therapist easy, or without contemplation. Here is a description of what I've found works best. During our first meeting, I engage you in a process to help you find the best fit possible for your particular needs. Together we can work on defining the right type and style of treatment best for you. We can define specific needs for either long or short term problems that are specific to you individually. This short process will give needed direction to your personal journey.
Seth Fenton, LMFT | Convenience Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Newbury Park, CA 91320
In far too many situations, individuals, adolescents, and couples living with severe anxiety and depression internalize the belief that there is no hope—that they are defined by their struggles and unable to reach meaningful life goals. My primary focus is on challenging that belief. My work centers on helping clients develop the skills needed to manage symptoms, navigate everyday challenges, and improve overall quality of life. I provide a supportive, collaborative environment where each person is understood, needs are addressed, and strengths are used as the foundation for lasting growth and change.
In far too many situations, individuals, adolescents, and couples living with severe anxiety and depression internalize the belief that there is no hope—that they are defined by their struggles and unable to reach meaningful life goals. My primary focus is on challenging that belief. My work centers on helping clients develop the skills needed to manage symptoms, navigate everyday challenges, and improve overall quality of life. I provide a supportive, collaborative environment where each person is understood, needs are addressed, and strengths are used as the foundation for lasting growth and change.
Do you sometimes feel misunderstood, unloved, or dismissed—or that your life experience is somehow different from friends or family? You may notice distressing sensations such as a heavy chest, upset stomach, trembling hands, racing heart, muscle tension, or headaches. Perhaps current relationships feel strained, or you tend to replay the past, wishing you’d handled things differently. Seeking support to process lingering pain and everyday challenges can open the way to greater ease, deeper connection, and renewed joy. You’re not alone—there is a way through.
Do you sometimes feel misunderstood, unloved, or dismissed—or that your life experience is somehow different from friends or family? You may notice distressing sensations such as a heavy chest, upset stomach, trembling hands, racing heart, muscle tension, or headaches. Perhaps current relationships feel strained, or you tend to replay the past, wishing you’d handled things differently. Seeking support to process lingering pain and everyday challenges can open the way to greater ease, deeper connection, and renewed joy. You’re not alone—there is a way through.
Too often psychotherapy focuses on causality, pathology and cures. However, rather than being "sick" or 'broken", often we are just lost inside ourselves or relationships. Everyone is a unique person with their own story, experience and perspective. The goal of therapy is to achieve a deeper awareness of where we are, to discover internal meaning for our many experiences, and to experience a life worth living. While working towards that awareness, I also feel it important to teach individuals, couples and families the skills needed to cope with the pain and day to day stressors that bring them into therapy.
Too often psychotherapy focuses on causality, pathology and cures. However, rather than being "sick" or 'broken", often we are just lost inside ourselves or relationships. Everyone is a unique person with their own story, experience and perspective. The goal of therapy is to achieve a deeper awareness of where we are, to discover internal meaning for our many experiences, and to experience a life worth living. While working towards that awareness, I also feel it important to teach individuals, couples and families the skills needed to cope with the pain and day to day stressors that bring them into therapy.
EVENING APPTS. I chose a PhD in Clinical Psychology in order to help individuals suffering with the emotional pain and upheaval that life's ups and downs can bring. I enjoy a close working relationship and collaborative trust based connection with my patients, which brings the reward of personal growth and stimulates the healing process. With more than 28 years in the mental health profession, and 25+ years in private practice, I continue working to expand my education and experience to include a wide variety of psychotherapeutical skill sets.
EVENING APPTS. I chose a PhD in Clinical Psychology in order to help individuals suffering with the emotional pain and upheaval that life's ups and downs can bring. I enjoy a close working relationship and collaborative trust based connection with my patients, which brings the reward of personal growth and stimulates the healing process. With more than 28 years in the mental health profession, and 25+ years in private practice, I continue working to expand my education and experience to include a wide variety of psychotherapeutical skill sets.
The New Beginnings Center - Sean Baker
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with people who are addressing the challenges of resolving trauma, whose symptoms often appear as depression, anxiety, eating disorders, chronic pain and illness. As an LMFT, I hold certifications in both Somatic Experiencing and gestalt therapy. I specialize in addressing emotional health/well-being and relationship concerns of the queer community. I support my clients' discovery and expression of their gender and sexual identity in ways that honor their unique individuality and sense of self.
I work with people who are addressing the challenges of resolving trauma, whose symptoms often appear as depression, anxiety, eating disorders, chronic pain and illness. As an LMFT, I hold certifications in both Somatic Experiencing and gestalt therapy. I specialize in addressing emotional health/well-being and relationship concerns of the queer community. I support my clients' discovery and expression of their gender and sexual identity in ways that honor their unique individuality and sense of self.
You can’t outthink your own anxiety—but you can learn how to work with it.
Many men and high achievers try to manage anxiety the same way they manage everything else: by analyzing it, pushing through it, or trying to control it. The problem is that overthinking, white-knuckling, and “powering through” often make anxiety louder, not quieter.
We'll work on practical tools that help you create real change. This isn’t talk therapy for the sake of talking—this is structured work designed to help you function better, improve relationships, and grow.
You can’t outthink your own anxiety—but you can learn how to work with it.
Many men and high achievers try to manage anxiety the same way they manage everything else: by analyzing it, pushing through it, or trying to control it. The problem is that overthinking, white-knuckling, and “powering through” often make anxiety louder, not quieter.
We'll work on practical tools that help you create real change. This isn’t talk therapy for the sake of talking—this is structured work designed to help you function better, improve relationships, and grow.
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Are you struggling with inner conflicts or relationship tensions that leave you feeling stuck? Through psychoanalytic therapy, you can gain the capacity to heal from complex traumas, family historical behavioral patterns, sexual trauma, personality disorders, addiction, PTSD, relationship issues and disordered eating. By learning how your physical symptoms relate to your emotional experiences, from the fight or flight (neuro-sympathetic) nervous system, a person can heal not only emotionally but physically.
Are you struggling with inner conflicts or relationship tensions that leave you feeling stuck? Through psychoanalytic therapy, you can gain the capacity to heal from complex traumas, family historical behavioral patterns, sexual trauma, personality disorders, addiction, PTSD, relationship issues and disordered eating. By learning how your physical symptoms relate to your emotional experiences, from the fight or flight (neuro-sympathetic) nervous system, a person can heal not only emotionally but physically.
Growing up with narcissistic parents, we become creative at finding ways to avoid their criticism, rejection or abandonment.
We all develop creative strategies for surviving difficult childhoods. Together we will help you feel through your emotions and express your neejds, heal shame, process negative memories, learn new life skills - and whatever else it is you uniquely need. My goal by the end of our work is for you to feel "at home" within yourself and relationships.
Growing up with narcissistic parents, we become creative at finding ways to avoid their criticism, rejection or abandonment.
We all develop creative strategies for surviving difficult childhoods. Together we will help you feel through your emotions and express your neejds, heal shame, process negative memories, learn new life skills - and whatever else it is you uniquely need. My goal by the end of our work is for you to feel "at home" within yourself and relationships.
Meridian Counseling: Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90064
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
My ideal client is an individual adult, or couple in a relationship, having problems they want to resolve. I don't choose my clients, they choose me. With over 50 years of experience as a clinical psychologist, I continue to love what I do as much or more than when I began my career. I am not a "how does that make you feel" kind of therapist. I will challenge, confront and engage when appropriate if I feel doing so will aid getting you to where you said you wanted to go in our goal-oriented therapy. My wife and I do couples therapy together offering a unique balance. I offer a free initial 15 min. phone call to answer questions
My ideal client is an individual adult, or couple in a relationship, having problems they want to resolve. I don't choose my clients, they choose me. With over 50 years of experience as a clinical psychologist, I continue to love what I do as much or more than when I began my career. I am not a "how does that make you feel" kind of therapist. I will challenge, confront and engage when appropriate if I feel doing so will aid getting you to where you said you wanted to go in our goal-oriented therapy. My wife and I do couples therapy together offering a unique balance. I offer a free initial 15 min. phone call to answer questions
If you have been emotionally abused by a narcissistic, parent, spouse, or a loved one, you may feel unheard, unseen, and lost in the chaos of their needs.
As a clinical psychotherapist with 40 years of experience, specializing and trauma from narcissistic abuse. I provide a safe, compassionate space to help you heal. Together, we will work on rebuilding your sense of self leaning essential Self-care and nurturing the parts of you that were neglected.
If you have been emotionally abused by a narcissistic, parent, spouse, or a loved one, you may feel unheard, unseen, and lost in the chaos of their needs.
As a clinical psychotherapist with 40 years of experience, specializing and trauma from narcissistic abuse. I provide a safe, compassionate space to help you heal. Together, we will work on rebuilding your sense of self leaning essential Self-care and nurturing the parts of you that were neglected.
Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, but we’re here to make it as seamless as possible. We offer both in-person and telehealth appointments, with flexible scheduling including evenings and weekends. Once you reach out, our intake team will match you with a therapist whose experience, style, and specialty best align with your goals.
Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, but we’re here to make it as seamless as possible. We offer both in-person and telehealth appointments, with flexible scheduling including evenings and weekends. Once you reach out, our intake team will match you with a therapist whose experience, style, and specialty best align with your goals.
You're in the chaos right now - relationship just ended, porn use spiraling, recovering from a narcissistic ex, or stuck in anxious-avoidant dating patterns.
I'm attachment-focused and heavy on psychoeducation and grief work. My approach is direct and unfiltered - I love dark humor, don't shy from awkward topics, and I'm not here to tiptoe around what needs to be said. I'm a gay, liberal, Hispanic, male veteran who is ready to help you figure out your situation.
You're in the chaos right now - relationship just ended, porn use spiraling, recovering from a narcissistic ex, or stuck in anxious-avoidant dating patterns.
I'm attachment-focused and heavy on psychoeducation and grief work. My approach is direct and unfiltered - I love dark humor, don't shy from awkward topics, and I'm not here to tiptoe around what needs to be said. I'm a gay, liberal, Hispanic, male veteran who is ready to help you figure out your situation.
I maintain a central focus on the experiences of trauma, especially within the domain of narcissistic abuse, high conflict divorce and custody disputes, coercive control, post separation abuse, co-parenting & all forms of truama.
No matter the circumstance, one of the most common beliefs I hear is some version of feeling unworthy or unlovable. I believe the final developmental stage is self-acceptance. It is my honor to help you learn to love yourself completely. You can learn to set boundaries, speak your truth, and ask for what you need and want.
I maintain a central focus on the experiences of trauma, especially within the domain of narcissistic abuse, high conflict divorce and custody disputes, coercive control, post separation abuse, co-parenting & all forms of truama.
No matter the circumstance, one of the most common beliefs I hear is some version of feeling unworthy or unlovable. I believe the final developmental stage is self-acceptance. It is my honor to help you learn to love yourself completely. You can learn to set boundaries, speak your truth, and ask for what you need and want.
Ramani Durvasula, I now work extensively with clients navigating narcissistic abuse and coercive control, including those involved in post‑separation conflict.
I am also attuned to diversity and culture; my clients typically identify as Neurodivergent, BIPOC and LGBTQ+. Because of your background, we may also cover topics like anxiety, grief, loneliness, CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), and self discovery.
Ramani Durvasula, I now work extensively with clients navigating narcissistic abuse and coercive control, including those involved in post‑separation conflict.
I am also attuned to diversity and culture; my clients typically identify as Neurodivergent, BIPOC and LGBTQ+. Because of your background, we may also cover topics like anxiety, grief, loneliness, CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), and self discovery.
I work best with clients who are ready for honest, collaborative therapy—people who have tried on their own and now want support making meaningful change. Whether recovering from toxic relationships, rebuilding self-worth, or reconnecting with purpose, my clients value clear goals, ways to extend the work between sessions, personal growth, and deeper connection with others without self-loss. They seek a seasoned therapist who treats them with dignity and respect. Together, we focus on authentic living, reclaiming core values, and building a life that feels more loving, alive, and true.
I work best with clients who are ready for honest, collaborative therapy—people who have tried on their own and now want support making meaningful change. Whether recovering from toxic relationships, rebuilding self-worth, or reconnecting with purpose, my clients value clear goals, ways to extend the work between sessions, personal growth, and deeper connection with others without self-loss. They seek a seasoned therapist who treats them with dignity and respect. Together, we focus on authentic living, reclaiming core values, and building a life that feels more loving, alive, and true.
Claudia Sinay-Mosias, Mft Online Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MHS, LFMT
Online Only
I specialize in treating survivors of NPD and other personality disorders, relationship issues, anxiety and depression.
My style is interactive and humanistic meaning that I will listen, talk, offer opinions and sometimes give advice. I've been in a relationship for 45 years and meditating for 50. In my 30's I suffered from anxiety. These facts, along with my education and experience, inform my work to a tremendous degree.
I specialize in treating survivors of NPD and other personality disorders, relationship issues, anxiety and depression.
My style is interactive and humanistic meaning that I will listen, talk, offer opinions and sometimes give advice. I've been in a relationship for 45 years and meditating for 50. In my 30's I suffered from anxiety. These facts, along with my education and experience, inform my work to a tremendous degree.
Particularly, if you or someone in your life identifies with traits of Narcissistic or Borderline Personality Disorder, I can help you cope, whether it's you or your loved one suffering from these symptoms.
As a relationship expert and personality disorder specialist, I offer insight on your relationships and how you interact with others. This can include interpersonal effectiveness, assertiveness training, confidence building, dating advice, anxiety reduction, couples therapy, intimacy issues, communication tools, managing / healing from toxic relationships.
Particularly, if you or someone in your life identifies with traits of Narcissistic or Borderline Personality Disorder, I can help you cope, whether it's you or your loved one suffering from these symptoms.
As a relationship expert and personality disorder specialist, I offer insight on your relationships and how you interact with others. This can include interpersonal effectiveness, assertiveness training, confidence building, dating advice, anxiety reduction, couples therapy, intimacy issues, communication tools, managing / healing from toxic relationships.
Shana Bujake - EMDR, Relationships, Trauma
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90025
Are you stuck in painful patterns or struggling to feel safe and connected in your relationships? I help individuals and couples heal from trauma, rebuild trust, and break free from cycles of conflict or disconnection. In therapy, you'll find a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and develop the tools you need to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships—with others and with yourself.
Are you stuck in painful patterns or struggling to feel safe and connected in your relationships? I help individuals and couples heal from trauma, rebuild trust, and break free from cycles of conflict or disconnection. In therapy, you'll find a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and develop the tools you need to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships—with others and with yourself.
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.