Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Los Angeles, CA
If you identify as Poly/Non-monogamous, Kinky/fetishistic, Queer/Trans, or Anti-capitalist you already know the tyrannical way normativity polices “others” who deviate from conventional cultural scripts. Even more so when your preferred expressions of intimacy and embodiment are deemed “problematic”. I do not equate “healthy” with “normal”, nor aim to be prescriptive about how you “ought“ to experience being in this world. Living along the fringes of normativity isn’t an easy choice. But it can be a worthy choice, fulfilling and purposeful! Yet it may also be accompanied by high costs that feel compromising to dignity & self-worth.
If you identify as Poly/Non-monogamous, Kinky/fetishistic, Queer/Trans, or Anti-capitalist you already know the tyrannical way normativity polices “others” who deviate from conventional cultural scripts. Even more so when your preferred expressions of intimacy and embodiment are deemed “problematic”. I do not equate “healthy” with “normal”, nor aim to be prescriptive about how you “ought“ to experience being in this world. Living along the fringes of normativity isn’t an easy choice. But it can be a worthy choice, fulfilling and purposeful! Yet it may also be accompanied by high costs that feel compromising to dignity & self-worth.
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
I specialize in relationship issues, non-monogamy, kink, sexuality, and trauma, and I offer a warm, engaged, nonjudgmental space where clients can heal old wounds, strengthen self-trust, and create more honest, connected, and fulfilling lives and relationships.
My work goes beyond traditional talk therapy. Depending on your needs, I may integrate EMDR, somatic therapy, Internal Parts Work, mindfulness, guided visualization, and, when appropriate, ketamine-assisted therapy to help you heal and create lasting change.
I specialize in relationship issues, non-monogamy, kink, sexuality, and trauma, and I offer a warm, engaged, nonjudgmental space where clients can heal old wounds, strengthen self-trust, and create more honest, connected, and fulfilling lives and relationships.
My work goes beyond traditional talk therapy. Depending on your needs, I may integrate EMDR, somatic therapy, Internal Parts Work, mindfulness, guided visualization, and, when appropriate, ketamine-assisted therapy to help you heal and create lasting change.
With both clinical and lived experience, I can help guide you on that road from a sex positive, trauma informed perspective.
As a sex positive trauma therapist, I use EMDR, 4 Blinks, IFS and Somatic Psychotherapy to help decrease your pain. I use the PACT model with couples to transform the conflict cycle in your relationship, and incorporate EDSE's sex education principles to establish or enhance a connection to your own sexual energy.
With both clinical and lived experience, I can help guide you on that road from a sex positive, trauma informed perspective.
As a sex positive trauma therapist, I use EMDR, 4 Blinks, IFS and Somatic Psychotherapy to help decrease your pain. I use the PACT model with couples to transform the conflict cycle in your relationship, and incorporate EDSE's sex education principles to establish or enhance a connection to your own sexual energy.
I am particularly interested in working with people on:
• Career struggles
• Gender identity and expectations
• Masculinity and its challenges
• Relationship difficulties
• Anxiety and depression
• Existential struggles
I am particularly interested in working with people on:
• Career struggles
• Gender identity and expectations
• Masculinity and its challenges
• Relationship difficulties
• Anxiety and depression
• Existential struggles
If you locate yourself within polyamorous, kinky, queer/trans, or anti-capitalist orientations, then you already know the ways normativity disciplines bodies, desires, and relationality. The costs of stepping outside dominant scripts are often high, especially when your modes of embodiment or intimacy are cast as deviant or disordered. At The Normative Exit Clinic, we recognize that “health” is not synonymous with “normal,” and that freedom is rarely granted—it must be authored.
Living at the edges of what’s socially sanctioned isn’t a pathology; it’s often a deeply conscious and courageous stance.
If you locate yourself within polyamorous, kinky, queer/trans, or anti-capitalist orientations, then you already know the ways normativity disciplines bodies, desires, and relationality. The costs of stepping outside dominant scripts are often high, especially when your modes of embodiment or intimacy are cast as deviant or disordered. At The Normative Exit Clinic, we recognize that “health” is not synonymous with “normal,” and that freedom is rarely granted—it must be authored.
Living at the edges of what’s socially sanctioned isn’t a pathology; it’s often a deeply conscious and courageous stance.
In a culture that equates your productivity to your self-worth, it can be a challenge to fully feel the pleasure in taking care of yourself. I reject the cultural beliefs that shame us and try to force us to endure, rather than enjoy. Seeking support is a show of strength, there is no shame in it, and you shouldn’t have to “tough it out” on your own or “just get by”. Whatever it is about your relationships, connections, or experiences with intimacy that brought you here deserves attention. I’m interested in helping you feel more like yourself, more alive, & more at ease in the world.
In a culture that equates your productivity to your self-worth, it can be a challenge to fully feel the pleasure in taking care of yourself. I reject the cultural beliefs that shame us and try to force us to endure, rather than enjoy. Seeking support is a show of strength, there is no shame in it, and you shouldn’t have to “tough it out” on your own or “just get by”. Whatever it is about your relationships, connections, or experiences with intimacy that brought you here deserves attention. I’m interested in helping you feel more like yourself, more alive, & more at ease in the world.
I work with a diverse group of clients addressing challenges of identity, sexuality/ kink/fetish, anxiety, intimacy and relationships.
My work aims to help you to dismantle the sex-negativity or social bias that prevents you from moving forward. I am psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapist with experience working with diverse populations. I create a safe and supportive space that acknowledges your unique background and life experience, building your health and strength to allow you to explore and develop paradigms and beliefs to support your goals and aspirations.
I work with a diverse group of clients addressing challenges of identity, sexuality/ kink/fetish, anxiety, intimacy and relationships.
My work aims to help you to dismantle the sex-negativity or social bias that prevents you from moving forward. I am psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapist with experience working with diverse populations. I create a safe and supportive space that acknowledges your unique background and life experience, building your health and strength to allow you to explore and develop paradigms and beliefs to support your goals and aspirations.
I offer support to high-functioning adults who feel stuck despite outward success. They struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or burnout. Deep down, they want relief, clarity, and self-trust. They’re ready to explore their inner world, heal past wounds, and live with more ease, integrity, and connection to who they really are.
I offer support to high-functioning adults who feel stuck despite outward success. They struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or burnout. Deep down, they want relief, clarity, and self-trust. They’re ready to explore their inner world, heal past wounds, and live with more ease, integrity, and connection to who they really are.
Your life contains a series of meaningful stories, each chapter shaped by your choices, circumstances, and relationships. Yet, at times, you may find yourself doubting your decisions, feeling lost, and no longer the protagonist of your own story. In my practice, I use narrative and trauma-informed approaches to explore those moments with you. Together, we will uncover the meaning you’ve created by gaining a deeper understanding of yourself and the cultural and social contexts that shape your experiences, empowering you to rewrite narratives that no longer support your growth and well-being.
Your life contains a series of meaningful stories, each chapter shaped by your choices, circumstances, and relationships. Yet, at times, you may find yourself doubting your decisions, feeling lost, and no longer the protagonist of your own story. In my practice, I use narrative and trauma-informed approaches to explore those moments with you. Together, we will uncover the meaning you’ve created by gaining a deeper understanding of yourself and the cultural and social contexts that shape your experiences, empowering you to rewrite narratives that no longer support your growth and well-being.
I have over 30 years of experience in the field of mental health, helping people from age 0 - 90 plus, My passion is for helping those who have had sexual trauma, childhood abuse, etc, as well as I am sex positive, kink positive, open, friendly and caring.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to empty their mental cup and be prepared to do some good, productive work on the issues that cause them to continue living lives that are barely functioning. I am NOT the expert of anyone's lives; however, I can offer insight into the experiences that have molded me to become the person I am today. I am extremely transparent, not easily offended, and willing to do the hard work, alongside my clients to help them take the reign of their lives back.
I have over 30 years of experience in the field of mental health, helping people from age 0 - 90 plus, My passion is for helping those who have had sexual trauma, childhood abuse, etc, as well as I am sex positive, kink positive, open, friendly and caring.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to empty their mental cup and be prepared to do some good, productive work on the issues that cause them to continue living lives that are barely functioning. I am NOT the expert of anyone's lives; however, I can offer insight into the experiences that have molded me to become the person I am today. I am extremely transparent, not easily offended, and willing to do the hard work, alongside my clients to help them take the reign of their lives back.
I specialize in working with LGBTQ+ folk, those in open/polyamorous relationships, and those in the kink/bdsm lifestyle.
I enjoy working with individuals from a diverse range of backgrounds to alleviate their pain and live their best lives. My practice is inclusive, however I specialize in working with LGBTQ+ folk, those in open/polyamorous relationships, and those in the kink/bdsm lifestyle.
I specialize in working with LGBTQ+ folk, those in open/polyamorous relationships, and those in the kink/bdsm lifestyle.
I enjoy working with individuals from a diverse range of backgrounds to alleviate their pain and live their best lives. My practice is inclusive, however I specialize in working with LGBTQ+ folk, those in open/polyamorous relationships, and those in the kink/bdsm lifestyle.
Maybe on the outside you seem put-together, but inside you feel anxious, stuck, or disconnected from yourself. You’re tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, or second-guessing your relationships and life choices. You want clarity, steadiness, and to feel more like you again. I work best with adults navigating stress, identity, intimacy, and life transitions, including non-traditional relationships. Together we slow things down, understand your patterns, and build practical tools using mindfulness, somatic awareness, and values-based work so you can feel grounded, confident, and authentic. I’m sex-positive and LGBTQIA+ affirming.
Maybe on the outside you seem put-together, but inside you feel anxious, stuck, or disconnected from yourself. You’re tired of overthinking, people-pleasing, or second-guessing your relationships and life choices. You want clarity, steadiness, and to feel more like you again. I work best with adults navigating stress, identity, intimacy, and life transitions, including non-traditional relationships. Together we slow things down, understand your patterns, and build practical tools using mindfulness, somatic awareness, and values-based work so you can feel grounded, confident, and authentic. I’m sex-positive and LGBTQIA+ affirming.
I am a sexologist as well as a sex therapist in private practice for over 25 years. I can help you with any aspect of your sexuality. I conduct most of my sessions over the telephone, so I have clients around the world, as well as around the block. I'm also the bestselling author of several books including Advertising for Love, The 10 Commandments of Pleasure, Being a Woman and The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.
I am a sexologist as well as a sex therapist in private practice for over 25 years. I can help you with any aspect of your sexuality. I conduct most of my sessions over the telephone, so I have clients around the world, as well as around the block. I'm also the bestselling author of several books including Advertising for Love, The 10 Commandments of Pleasure, Being a Woman and The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure.
I'm ENM, Poly, LS/BDSM/ Kink aligned.
Are you longing for a deeper sense of self and struggling to identify or voice your own needs? Falling back into old patterns of thinking or behaving that derails your relationships or trigger diminished feelings of self worth? Are you struggling to connect intimately with your partner and can't find the words to talk it about it without shame, blame or conflict? Do you struggle to feel connected to people in your life, feel isolated, or overly anxious? When trauma or past experiences are the building blocks of unhelpful core beliefs, it's time to get to know and decenter the parts of you that hold you back from being truly self-led
I'm ENM, Poly, LS/BDSM/ Kink aligned.
Are you longing for a deeper sense of self and struggling to identify or voice your own needs? Falling back into old patterns of thinking or behaving that derails your relationships or trigger diminished feelings of self worth? Are you struggling to connect intimately with your partner and can't find the words to talk it about it without shame, blame or conflict? Do you struggle to feel connected to people in your life, feel isolated, or overly anxious? When trauma or past experiences are the building blocks of unhelpful core beliefs, it's time to get to know and decenter the parts of you that hold you back from being truly self-led
I provide affirming care for clients exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, kink, or BDSM.
My approach blends sex-positive therapy, trauma-informed care, and relational work. You’ll experience a calm, judgment-free environment where every part of you — your culture, identity, and desires - is welcome. Clients describe my style as warm, grounded, and empowering — blending authentic conversation, insight, and gentle accountability to promote growth.
I provide affirming care for clients exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, kink, or BDSM.
My approach blends sex-positive therapy, trauma-informed care, and relational work. You’ll experience a calm, judgment-free environment where every part of you — your culture, identity, and desires - is welcome. Clients describe my style as warm, grounded, and empowering — blending authentic conversation, insight, and gentle accountability to promote growth.
Do you feel like you are "not enough"? Do you struggle with people-pleasing? I support individuals and partners to resolve issues around dating difficulties, low self-worth, relationship & sexual dissatisfaction, troubling sexual behavior/addiction, abuse & trauma, and motivation. I use effective modalities including somatic and attachment-based interventions coupled with my compassionate model of change to help uncover and celebrate your authentic self.
Do you feel like you are "not enough"? Do you struggle with people-pleasing? I support individuals and partners to resolve issues around dating difficulties, low self-worth, relationship & sexual dissatisfaction, troubling sexual behavior/addiction, abuse & trauma, and motivation. I use effective modalities including somatic and attachment-based interventions coupled with my compassionate model of change to help uncover and celebrate your authentic self.
Do you want to learn to love deeper? Need to move through reoccurring bickering? Do you find yourself at the same point over and over again? I'm Joey. I'm a young queer Punjabi who loves building bridges and creating bonds. I specialize in non-traditional relationships and other queer and gay dynamics. I'm a relationship therapist with over 7 years of training in interpersonal connection, conflict resolution, and building strong relationships. All sorts of connection and relationships are at the core of everyday life.
Do you want to learn to love deeper? Need to move through reoccurring bickering? Do you find yourself at the same point over and over again? I'm Joey. I'm a young queer Punjabi who loves building bridges and creating bonds. I specialize in non-traditional relationships and other queer and gay dynamics. I'm a relationship therapist with over 7 years of training in interpersonal connection, conflict resolution, and building strong relationships. All sorts of connection and relationships are at the core of everyday life.
Couples, thruples, situationships, all are welcome! My passion is to help you to love first, for yourself and those around you. I help clients find balance and inner healing while navigating an unjust world. Our work together will be guided by your unique journey and perspective. All needs are welcome. No experience necessary, you don't need to know how to "do" therapy. Each step towards where you want to go can be as long or as short as is helpful.
Couples, thruples, situationships, all are welcome! My passion is to help you to love first, for yourself and those around you. I help clients find balance and inner healing while navigating an unjust world. Our work together will be guided by your unique journey and perspective. All needs are welcome. No experience necessary, you don't need to know how to "do" therapy. Each step towards where you want to go can be as long or as short as is helpful.
Hello, I'm Kai. I am a queer & trans/genderqueer mixed-race pilpinx therapist providing telehealth throughout the state of California. I am especially passionate about supporting those who identify as qtbipoc, trans, neurodivergent, disabled, kinky, swers, nonmonogamous, formerly incarcerated, immigrant, and activists or anarchists.
My educational training was centered around a psychodynamic lens, and I have been particularly drawn toward incorporating relational therapy, liberation psychology, somatic therapy, parts work, ERP, and trauma-focused therapies such as EMDR in my work.
Hello, I'm Kai. I am a queer & trans/genderqueer mixed-race pilpinx therapist providing telehealth throughout the state of California. I am especially passionate about supporting those who identify as qtbipoc, trans, neurodivergent, disabled, kinky, swers, nonmonogamous, formerly incarcerated, immigrant, and activists or anarchists.
My educational training was centered around a psychodynamic lens, and I have been particularly drawn toward incorporating relational therapy, liberation psychology, somatic therapy, parts work, ERP, and trauma-focused therapies such as EMDR in my work.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.