Codependency Therapists in Los Angeles, CA

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Sharon Kwon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, RYT 200
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in working with immigrant & BIPOC populations and issues pertaining to: identity, cultural assimilation, religious trauma, differentiating from family, living authentically, coming out, spirituality, boundaries, codependency, and healthy relationships.
Are you an adult child of immigrants who struggles with setting boundaries with your parents, family, friends, and/or partner? Maybe you're used to being the fixer, caregiver, co-parent, and all around problem solver for your family. Does the idea of saying "no" make you feel guilty? Perhaps you've never really put yourself first because the idea of choosing yourself over others is unthinkable. Do you feel a constant battle between your head and your heart? It's hard not to feel stuck when you're unable to move forward on the path you really want for yourself or when you don't even know what you want and need.
I specialize in working with immigrant & BIPOC populations and issues pertaining to: identity, cultural assimilation, religious trauma, differentiating from family, living authentically, coming out, spirituality, boundaries, codependency, and healthy relationships.
Are you an adult child of immigrants who struggles with setting boundaries with your parents, family, friends, and/or partner? Maybe you're used to being the fixer, caregiver, co-parent, and all around problem solver for your family. Does the idea of saying "no" make you feel guilty? Perhaps you've never really put yourself first because the idea of choosing yourself over others is unthinkable. Do you feel a constant battle between your head and your heart? It's hard not to feel stuck when you're unable to move forward on the path you really want for yourself or when you don't even know what you want and need.
(323) 379-0310 View (323) 379-0310
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Suzanne Eanes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I most recently worked for 9 years in substance use/mental health treatment center environments and my specialities include, substance use, addictions, grief/loss, trauma, suicidality, self harm, and codependency.
Does life ever feel overwhelming, stressful, or suffocating? Are you feeling unheard, lost, or simply in need of understanding? If this resonates with you, welcome and I hope to get to know you! I strive to create a safe space for my clients that includes curiosity, non-judgment, and most importantly, unconditional positive regard. I believe growth comes from leaning into vulnerability and practicing acceptance of all our parts.
I most recently worked for 9 years in substance use/mental health treatment center environments and my specialities include, substance use, addictions, grief/loss, trauma, suicidality, self harm, and codependency.
Does life ever feel overwhelming, stressful, or suffocating? Are you feeling unheard, lost, or simply in need of understanding? If this resonates with you, welcome and I hope to get to know you! I strive to create a safe space for my clients that includes curiosity, non-judgment, and most importantly, unconditional positive regard. I believe growth comes from leaning into vulnerability and practicing acceptance of all our parts.
(323) 940-6074 View (323) 940-6074
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Alexa Golding People Pleasers Overthinkers
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you are struggling with anxiety, codependency and people pleasing in your relationships, I would love to help you.
If you’re the one keeping the peace, overthinking every text, and doubting yourself in your relationships, you’re in the right place. You might feel like you’re carrying the emotional weight of everyone around you. You say “it’s fine” when it’s not, hide your feelings to avoid conflict, and twist yourself into knots trying to be easy to love. Deep down, you’re exhausted. You want to speak up, set boundaries, and stop second-guessing yourself, but the guilt, fear, and self-doubt make it feel impossible. No matter how much you give, it’s never enough. You’re likely responding to old patterns that once helped you survive.
If you are struggling with anxiety, codependency and people pleasing in your relationships, I would love to help you.
If you’re the one keeping the peace, overthinking every text, and doubting yourself in your relationships, you’re in the right place. You might feel like you’re carrying the emotional weight of everyone around you. You say “it’s fine” when it’s not, hide your feelings to avoid conflict, and twist yourself into knots trying to be easy to love. Deep down, you’re exhausted. You want to speak up, set boundaries, and stop second-guessing yourself, but the guilt, fear, and self-doubt make it feel impossible. No matter how much you give, it’s never enough. You’re likely responding to old patterns that once helped you survive.
(310) 789-2157 View (310) 789-2157
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Mariam L. Moini
Psychologist, MA, PsyD
Online Only
Specifically, those recovering from codependency, narcissistic abuse, religious groups, drug and alcohol abuse, and wrongful termination.
I strive to help people become their own authority, which may have been compromised by unhealthy relationships, substance abuse, depression, and anxiety. I focus on the individual's relationship with themselves, fostering an understanding and compassion towards personal strengths and vulnerabilities. I believe it is imperative to address underlying issues with out judgment or shame, so that we can heal parts of the self that are no longer serving us. My clinical training is in psychodynamic therapy, and I tend to gravitate towards an attachment based and humanistic approach.
Specifically, those recovering from codependency, narcissistic abuse, religious groups, drug and alcohol abuse, and wrongful termination.
I strive to help people become their own authority, which may have been compromised by unhealthy relationships, substance abuse, depression, and anxiety. I focus on the individual's relationship with themselves, fostering an understanding and compassion towards personal strengths and vulnerabilities. I believe it is imperative to address underlying issues with out judgment or shame, so that we can heal parts of the self that are no longer serving us. My clinical training is in psychodynamic therapy, and I tend to gravitate towards an attachment based and humanistic approach.
(310) 906-2565 View (310) 906-2565
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Brie Ciraulo Rosenfield
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Los Angeles, CA 90064
My specialties include adults and young adults, trauma, depression, anxiety, couples, codependency, addiction, family dynamics, post-treatment integration, and parenting.
The parts of us that require healing are often sites of trauma, fear or shame; my therapeutic approach creates a safe space for exploring this often painful territory, with emphasis on providing you with tools and techniques to maintain that sense of safety in both other therapeutic settings and in day-to-day life. My clinical work, is based in expertise and a passion for empowering you to meet and overcome what is holding you back.
My specialties include adults and young adults, trauma, depression, anxiety, couples, codependency, addiction, family dynamics, post-treatment integration, and parenting.
The parts of us that require healing are often sites of trauma, fear or shame; my therapeutic approach creates a safe space for exploring this often painful territory, with emphasis on providing you with tools and techniques to maintain that sense of safety in both other therapeutic settings and in day-to-day life. My clinical work, is based in expertise and a passion for empowering you to meet and overcome what is holding you back.
(424) 610-8112 View (424) 610-8112
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Miri Jedeikin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
5 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90025
As a trauma-informed, collaborative therapist, we will work together to uncover underlying issues and overcome perfectionism, people-pleasing, negative self-talk and codependency.
You’re looking for tools to deal with life’s challenges. Stronger coping skills and more meaningful relationships. More authenticity and personal empowerment. Less anxiety and fear. A safe, judgment-free space where you can gain awareness and grow. I help people process and heal from the harmful stories that have dominated and shaped their experiences. In our work together, you'll learn how to cope with feelings of overwhelm, set better boundaries and limit unhealthy relationships. You’ll discover how to navigate life’s ups and downs while gaining insight and taking active, effective steps to embody your deepest, truest self.
As a trauma-informed, collaborative therapist, we will work together to uncover underlying issues and overcome perfectionism, people-pleasing, negative self-talk and codependency.
You’re looking for tools to deal with life’s challenges. Stronger coping skills and more meaningful relationships. More authenticity and personal empowerment. Less anxiety and fear. A safe, judgment-free space where you can gain awareness and grow. I help people process and heal from the harmful stories that have dominated and shaped their experiences. In our work together, you'll learn how to cope with feelings of overwhelm, set better boundaries and limit unhealthy relationships. You’ll discover how to navigate life’s ups and downs while gaining insight and taking active, effective steps to embody your deepest, truest self.
(323) 593-4352 View (323) 593-4352
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Nicole A. Gabbay
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA , LMFT
4 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in attachment wounds, codependency, cultural dynamics, and generational trauma.
The therapeutic relationship is like no other. I help first-generation Americans, especially those raised by immigrant parents, uncover the roots of their emotional struggles and relationship patterns. You may feel torn between honoring your culture and honoring yourself — stuck in relationships, unsure how to set boundaries, or carrying guilt you don’t understand. Together, we’ll explore the deeper “why” behind your patterns, build confidence, and help you feel more connected to yourself and others.
I specialize in attachment wounds, codependency, cultural dynamics, and generational trauma.
The therapeutic relationship is like no other. I help first-generation Americans, especially those raised by immigrant parents, uncover the roots of their emotional struggles and relationship patterns. You may feel torn between honoring your culture and honoring yourself — stuck in relationships, unsure how to set boundaries, or carrying guilt you don’t understand. Together, we’ll explore the deeper “why” behind your patterns, build confidence, and help you feel more connected to yourself and others.
(323) 968-5791 View (323) 968-5791
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Kaaren Migdale
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90027
I am a relationship therapist with a passion for working with individuals and couples to reduce codependency, making space for real communication, tolerance, and adult love.
Love requires care. Maybe you need help having hard or awkward conversations about sex, equitable partnerships, money or deepening connection and intimacy? Perhaps you are struggling to move past infidelity, resolve past resentments, or dissolve your marriage? My therapeutic approach is rooted in your personal growth, allowing the authentic self to safely emerge in connection with others. You can grow into a less reactive, defensive, or avoidant person. Relationship therapy can help you feel seen, let go of expectations, repair past hurt, enjoy more satisfying sex, and find real partnership.
I am a relationship therapist with a passion for working with individuals and couples to reduce codependency, making space for real communication, tolerance, and adult love.
Love requires care. Maybe you need help having hard or awkward conversations about sex, equitable partnerships, money or deepening connection and intimacy? Perhaps you are struggling to move past infidelity, resolve past resentments, or dissolve your marriage? My therapeutic approach is rooted in your personal growth, allowing the authentic self to safely emerge in connection with others. You can grow into a less reactive, defensive, or avoidant person. Relationship therapy can help you feel seen, let go of expectations, repair past hurt, enjoy more satisfying sex, and find real partnership.
(818) 350-5519 View (818) 350-5519
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Barbara Wilson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90049
I have a lot of experience working with addiction and codependency.
I consider it a privilege and an honor to work with people who want to find balance in their lives. People come into therapy seeking help for a variety of problems. You may be in severe pain, suffering the effects of trauma, stressful events, ruptured relationships or addiction problems. You may need help to achieve healthy emotional boundaries with friends, loved ones, co-workers. Perhaps you wish to live a more full and satisfying life. While I typically draw from psychodynamic, family systems and relational/humanistic approaches, I am very flexible and tailor my approach to each individual.
I have a lot of experience working with addiction and codependency.
I consider it a privilege and an honor to work with people who want to find balance in their lives. People come into therapy seeking help for a variety of problems. You may be in severe pain, suffering the effects of trauma, stressful events, ruptured relationships or addiction problems. You may need help to achieve healthy emotional boundaries with friends, loved ones, co-workers. Perhaps you wish to live a more full and satisfying life. While I typically draw from psychodynamic, family systems and relational/humanistic approaches, I am very flexible and tailor my approach to each individual.
(310) 256-4815 View (310) 256-4815
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Ross Kellogg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Whether you’re experiencing codependency, chronic shame, communication challenges, trauma responses, or something else, my somatic & mindfulness-based approach can support you in healing emotional pain and creating the life you want.
Are you noticing patterns in your feelings or relationships that you want to change? You might be able to pinpoint some past experiences that are influencing life today, or maybe you just know something is “off.”. You’re noticing the same arguments with your partner or the same feelings of anxiety or depression crop up, even though you’ve tried to change them on your own. You feel like you bend over backwards for others at home or work, sometimes at the expense of your own wants and needs. You want to get back to a place of connection and confidence in life and experience the freedom and peace that’s missing right now.
Whether you’re experiencing codependency, chronic shame, communication challenges, trauma responses, or something else, my somatic & mindfulness-based approach can support you in healing emotional pain and creating the life you want.
Are you noticing patterns in your feelings or relationships that you want to change? You might be able to pinpoint some past experiences that are influencing life today, or maybe you just know something is “off.”. You’re noticing the same arguments with your partner or the same feelings of anxiety or depression crop up, even though you’ve tried to change them on your own. You feel like you bend over backwards for others at home or work, sometimes at the expense of your own wants and needs. You want to get back to a place of connection and confidence in life and experience the freedom and peace that’s missing right now.
(323) 990-8121 View (323) 990-8121
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Melanie Rashbaum
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90019
I specialize in ERP for OCD, EMDR trauma, Attachment styles and codependency, LGBTQ+ affirming, and Gottman couples counseling.
Therapy can be "hard work," and you are worth it. You are the single most important relationship that you will have in your life. I want to support you in reaching self-acceptance and self-empowerment, which in turn will lead you to experience more meaningful and fulfilling relationships with others. I am an empathic active listener who will assist you in discovering and recovering parts of yourself, who will challenge your limiting beliefs and expose maladaptive patterns of behavior, and who will support you as you process the myriad of emotions that you are carrying. To learn more about me theextrovertedtherapist. com
I specialize in ERP for OCD, EMDR trauma, Attachment styles and codependency, LGBTQ+ affirming, and Gottman couples counseling.
Therapy can be "hard work," and you are worth it. You are the single most important relationship that you will have in your life. I want to support you in reaching self-acceptance and self-empowerment, which in turn will lead you to experience more meaningful and fulfilling relationships with others. I am an empathic active listener who will assist you in discovering and recovering parts of yourself, who will challenge your limiting beliefs and expose maladaptive patterns of behavior, and who will support you as you process the myriad of emotions that you are carrying. To learn more about me theextrovertedtherapist. com
(213) 375-1152 View (213) 375-1152
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Gurudarshan DeLorme
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90065
I can support those struggling with difficult relational patterns, codependency, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Sometimes it feels as though the wounds we experienced in our early lives have control over our well-being and emotions in the present. These wounded places, which often show up in our relationships can be healed and repaired. I'm here to help you untangle those past hurts, to connect more deeply with yourself and in turn with your partner. Relationships are one of the most vital and potentially rewarding ways in which we can feel both secure and alive, which is why I’m interested in helping to guide you through the work of building healthy relationships and giving you the tools to learn how to be your true and most authentic self.
I can support those struggling with difficult relational patterns, codependency, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Sometimes it feels as though the wounds we experienced in our early lives have control over our well-being and emotions in the present. These wounded places, which often show up in our relationships can be healed and repaired. I'm here to help you untangle those past hurts, to connect more deeply with yourself and in turn with your partner. Relationships are one of the most vital and potentially rewarding ways in which we can feel both secure and alive, which is why I’m interested in helping to guide you through the work of building healthy relationships and giving you the tools to learn how to be your true and most authentic self.
(323) 870-9452 View (323) 870-9452
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Nacera Mekki
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Online Only
Drawing from psychodynamic, somatic, and relational modalities, I specialize in anxiety, trauma, mood disorders, and relationship issues (including high-conflict dynamics, codependency, and self-esteem).
My toolkit includes Jungian techniques that address the unconscious mind, as well as somatic and parts work. If you're looking to enhance self-awareness, foster personal growth, and make real, lasting changes in your life, I'm here to support you —without judgment and with genuine care. I offer free 15 minute consultations.
Drawing from psychodynamic, somatic, and relational modalities, I specialize in anxiety, trauma, mood disorders, and relationship issues (including high-conflict dynamics, codependency, and self-esteem).
My toolkit includes Jungian techniques that address the unconscious mind, as well as somatic and parts work. If you're looking to enhance self-awareness, foster personal growth, and make real, lasting changes in your life, I'm here to support you —without judgment and with genuine care. I offer free 15 minute consultations.
(415) 909-3173 View (415) 909-3173
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Jaime Hubbard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Los Angeles, CA 90048
Clinical emphasis: depression, anxiety, isolation/lonliness, trauma, managing emotions, self-esteem, codependency, grief and loss, addiction and recovery, 12 step programs, improving communication, career transitions, LGBTQ, and entertainment industry issues.
I engage in conversations that explore the ideas and understandings you have of yourself, others and of the world. Together we identify your strengths and values so that you may generate productive and effective choices that enable you to achieve the goals in life you desire.
Clinical emphasis: depression, anxiety, isolation/lonliness, trauma, managing emotions, self-esteem, codependency, grief and loss, addiction and recovery, 12 step programs, improving communication, career transitions, LGBTQ, and entertainment industry issues.
I engage in conversations that explore the ideas and understandings you have of yourself, others and of the world. Together we identify your strengths and values so that you may generate productive and effective choices that enable you to achieve the goals in life you desire.
(323) 553-3892 View (323) 553-3892
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Jill Solomon-Hardie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
11 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90048
I also work with individuals on issues of recovery, codependency, chronic pain and illness, relationship and intimacy issues, NPD abuse healing, anxiety/depression and early attachment wounds.
I specialize working with COUPLES and individuals. I am PACT level 2 trained by Stan Tatkin. This approach to couples work is based on attachment styles and can help couples learn to love each other well. I am also trained in Terry Real and Gottman’s couples work. I am a somatic experiencing practitioner and work with trauma and chronic pain/illness.
I also work with individuals on issues of recovery, codependency, chronic pain and illness, relationship and intimacy issues, NPD abuse healing, anxiety/depression and early attachment wounds.
I specialize working with COUPLES and individuals. I am PACT level 2 trained by Stan Tatkin. This approach to couples work is based on attachment styles and can help couples learn to love each other well. I am also trained in Terry Real and Gottman’s couples work. I am a somatic experiencing practitioner and work with trauma and chronic pain/illness.
(323) 647-5126 View (323) 647-5126
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Carolina Louis
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in working with adults who are recovering from narcissistic abuse and codependency.
My approach to therapy focuses on establishing a warm, trusting relationship with my clients to help us explore deep personal issues. My areas of focus include depression, anxiety, trauma, addictive behaviors, co-dependency, and life transitions. In my approach I use psycho-dynamic and solution-focused approaches to help dislodge old behavioral patterns and emphasize the importance of how our previous relationships impact our present. In therapy we will look to find meaning in our present-day challenges, experiment with new ways of thinking and seek resolution.
I specialize in working with adults who are recovering from narcissistic abuse and codependency.
My approach to therapy focuses on establishing a warm, trusting relationship with my clients to help us explore deep personal issues. My areas of focus include depression, anxiety, trauma, addictive behaviors, co-dependency, and life transitions. In my approach I use psycho-dynamic and solution-focused approaches to help dislodge old behavioral patterns and emphasize the importance of how our previous relationships impact our present. In therapy we will look to find meaning in our present-day challenges, experiment with new ways of thinking and seek resolution.
(562) 210-0269 View (562) 210-0269
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Helen Sohn-Hood
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Online Only
Korean-American Marriage & Family Therapist with 14+ years of experience, author of a book on narcissism, collectivistic cultures, and codependency
I incorporate holistic interventions such as breathing exercises, and mindfulness meditation. I listen actively to understand your unique experiences and support your healing journey. Learn how to manage stress, emotional triggers, and foster overall well. Sessions available via Zoom, telehealth.
Korean-American Marriage & Family Therapist with 14+ years of experience, author of a book on narcissism, collectivistic cultures, and codependency
I incorporate holistic interventions such as breathing exercises, and mindfulness meditation. I listen actively to understand your unique experiences and support your healing journey. Learn how to manage stress, emotional triggers, and foster overall well. Sessions available via Zoom, telehealth.
(213) 817-5179 View (213) 817-5179
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Ashley Leila Nahai
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Los Angeles, CA 90024
While I specialize in substance abuse treatment, I have extensive experience working with clients suffering from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship issues, and codependency, to name a few.
I specialize in working with individuals, families, and couples affected by substance abuse and co-occuring disorders. The effects of substance abuse and addiction can be devastating to individuals and their loved ones, and my goal is to help you navigate through the confusion and pain in order to establish a more fulfilling life. I have years of experience working with a diverse array of clients in residential treatment settings and bring a wealth of knowledge about the most effective treatment modalities to my private practice.
While I specialize in substance abuse treatment, I have extensive experience working with clients suffering from depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship issues, and codependency, to name a few.
I specialize in working with individuals, families, and couples affected by substance abuse and co-occuring disorders. The effects of substance abuse and addiction can be devastating to individuals and their loved ones, and my goal is to help you navigate through the confusion and pain in order to establish a more fulfilling life. I have years of experience working with a diverse array of clients in residential treatment settings and bring a wealth of knowledge about the most effective treatment modalities to my private practice.
(424) 531-9647 View (424) 531-9647
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Kelly Benini
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Los Angeles, CA 90025
You want to feel seen and supported as you work through anxiety, depression, or codependency, hoping to reclaim your voice and build a life that truly reflects who you are.
I offer compassionate therapy tailored to your experiences, using approaches like EMDR therapy to address trauma and help you embrace your authentic self. Together, we focus on healing and growth, so you can overcome obstacles and step confidently into the life and career you envision.
You want to feel seen and supported as you work through anxiety, depression, or codependency, hoping to reclaim your voice and build a life that truly reflects who you are.
I offer compassionate therapy tailored to your experiences, using approaches like EMDR therapy to address trauma and help you embrace your authentic self. Together, we focus on healing and growth, so you can overcome obstacles and step confidently into the life and career you envision.
(323) 990-7074 View (323) 990-7074
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Crystal Barrera
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I specialize working with working anxiety/depression, teen issues, parenting challenges, domestic violence, trauma issues, postpartum depression, infertility challenges, codependency, PTSD, women’s issues, parenting and family.
I am a licensed clinical social worker who has a passion for helping clients develop a better understanding of themselves and their lives. I am bilingual in English and Spanish and provide a culturally sensitive environment.
I specialize working with working anxiety/depression, teen issues, parenting challenges, domestic violence, trauma issues, postpartum depression, infertility challenges, codependency, PTSD, women’s issues, parenting and family.
I am a licensed clinical social worker who has a passion for helping clients develop a better understanding of themselves and their lives. I am bilingual in English and Spanish and provide a culturally sensitive environment.
(415) 903-9997 View (415) 903-9997

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Codependency Therapists

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.