Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in La Mesa, CA

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Sonia Peterson
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LCPC
Online Only
Hi there, I'm Sonia! I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) with over two decades of experience working with individuals who are seeking personal growth and change in their lives. I have specialized experience in working with individuals who are experiencing anxiety, recovering from trauma, and/or are navigating career or other major life changes. I celebrate diversity and welcome clients from the LGBTQ community. I support individuals who are seeking recovery from serious mental illness and/or substance use disorders or have a loved one who is in or in need of recovery.
Hi there, I'm Sonia! I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) with over two decades of experience working with individuals who are seeking personal growth and change in their lives. I have specialized experience in working with individuals who are experiencing anxiety, recovering from trauma, and/or are navigating career or other major life changes. I celebrate diversity and welcome clients from the LGBTQ community. I support individuals who are seeking recovery from serious mental illness and/or substance use disorders or have a loved one who is in or in need of recovery.
(626) 606-9956 View (626) 606-9956
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Jose Manuel Feliciano
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
La Mesa, CA 91942
I work with adults, couples, families, and children who are seeking greater emotional balance, healthier relationships, and meaningful change. My approach is calm, collaborative, and tailored to each individual or family system. I support adults managing anxiety, life transitions, and stress; children and adolescents developing emotional regulation and coping skills; and families working to improve communication and boundaries. I integrate trauma-informed, psychodynamic, and cognitive-behavioral approaches. Private-pay therapy allows for flexible, individualized care focused on depth, growth, and long-term wellbeing.
I work with adults, couples, families, and children who are seeking greater emotional balance, healthier relationships, and meaningful change. My approach is calm, collaborative, and tailored to each individual or family system. I support adults managing anxiety, life transitions, and stress; children and adolescents developing emotional regulation and coping skills; and families working to improve communication and boundaries. I integrate trauma-informed, psychodynamic, and cognitive-behavioral approaches. Private-pay therapy allows for flexible, individualized care focused on depth, growth, and long-term wellbeing.
(619) 537-7838 View (619) 537-7838
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Julie Ellen Williams
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
La Mesa, CA 91942
Julie Williams (They/She) is a compassionate, authentic, and experienced Mental Health Clinician that guides clients in gaining greater self-awareness and self-acceptance using Holistic, Transpersonal, and Somatic approaches for individual adults, teens, children, &/or families. Holistic Psychotherapy with Julie is for you if you are looking to learn ways to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and/or post traumatic stress through the use of mindfulness-based coping skills. Centered on each individual’s unique needs and preferences, Julie weaves together several different therapeutic approaches and psychological theories.
Julie Williams (They/She) is a compassionate, authentic, and experienced Mental Health Clinician that guides clients in gaining greater self-awareness and self-acceptance using Holistic, Transpersonal, and Somatic approaches for individual adults, teens, children, &/or families. Holistic Psychotherapy with Julie is for you if you are looking to learn ways to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and/or post traumatic stress through the use of mindfulness-based coping skills. Centered on each individual’s unique needs and preferences, Julie weaves together several different therapeutic approaches and psychological theories.
(619) 598-0637 View (619) 598-0637
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Danny A Meadows
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
La Mesa, CA 91941
I believe that each person has a unique purpose. Life presents with situations where depression, addiction, anxiety, eating too much, eating too little, low self-esteem, and no self-identity can distract a person from finding this unique purpose. I like to explore a variety of issues that keep you from experiencing your purpose in life and help you find your meaning and make sense of that meaning.
I believe that each person has a unique purpose. Life presents with situations where depression, addiction, anxiety, eating too much, eating too little, low self-esteem, and no self-identity can distract a person from finding this unique purpose. I like to explore a variety of issues that keep you from experiencing your purpose in life and help you find your meaning and make sense of that meaning.
(858) 212-0289 View (858) 212-0289
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Kelsey Barillas, LMFT, #133292
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
How’s life? Want to talk about it? It can be hard to take the first step in finding a psychotherapist who is a good fit for you but, you’ve already gotten closer by exploring the web. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, and other Mental Health matters can be hard to manage and get in the way of having a peaceful and fulfilling life. If you or your teen/young adult are struggling with your emotional wellbeing, thoughts, feelings, or adjustments to life experiences, we can work together to look at how to make progress and the changes that you need to process some of the current matters you are facing.
How’s life? Want to talk about it? It can be hard to take the first step in finding a psychotherapist who is a good fit for you but, you’ve already gotten closer by exploring the web. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, and other Mental Health matters can be hard to manage and get in the way of having a peaceful and fulfilling life. If you or your teen/young adult are struggling with your emotional wellbeing, thoughts, feelings, or adjustments to life experiences, we can work together to look at how to make progress and the changes that you need to process some of the current matters you are facing.
(619) 375-5117 View (619) 375-5117
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Alex Bailey
Counselor, LPCC, MA, CEAP
2 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
I believe in emphasizing one’s own unique spiritual journey as the primary source of knowing; that there is nothing needed to “fix,” but rather an opportunity to explore with newfound curiosity and connection. Collaborating with our natural environment and translating what is discussed during our time in into lived experiences is incredibly powerful and useful for sustained growth and learning. I am also licensed in CO as a certified psychedelic assisted therapy facilitator and offer psilocybin and ketamine facilitation as appropriate.
I believe in emphasizing one’s own unique spiritual journey as the primary source of knowing; that there is nothing needed to “fix,” but rather an opportunity to explore with newfound curiosity and connection. Collaborating with our natural environment and translating what is discussed during our time in into lived experiences is incredibly powerful and useful for sustained growth and learning. I am also licensed in CO as a certified psychedelic assisted therapy facilitator and offer psilocybin and ketamine facilitation as appropriate.
(619) 404-4533 View (619) 404-4533
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Corina Bair - Queer Affirming
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
BLM. Protect the Dolls. FDT. Free Palestine & Sudan. F the patriarchy/capitalism. Sex & body positive. Phew, now that's done! If you're part of the LGBTQIA+ community, I'm here for you. As a queer person myself, I'm familiar with many of the unique challenges we face. Whether you're struggling with anxiety or sadness, have concerns about your relationships or self identity, have experienced religious trauma or abandonment, many of my clients find that working through the process together is incredibly rewarding and empowering. I'll help you on your journey by using an authentic, non-judgmental, and open-minded approach to therapy.
BLM. Protect the Dolls. FDT. Free Palestine & Sudan. F the patriarchy/capitalism. Sex & body positive. Phew, now that's done! If you're part of the LGBTQIA+ community, I'm here for you. As a queer person myself, I'm familiar with many of the unique challenges we face. Whether you're struggling with anxiety or sadness, have concerns about your relationships or self identity, have experienced religious trauma or abandonment, many of my clients find that working through the process together is incredibly rewarding and empowering. I'll help you on your journey by using an authentic, non-judgmental, and open-minded approach to therapy.
(619) 658-5137 View (619) 658-5137
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Taneesha Chambers
Counselor, LPCC
Online Only
Hello, I'm Taneesha! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who is passionate about assisting people while on their journey toward healing and growth in the face of the challenges they may be currently experiencing and/or past traumas that may be causing distress. I have experience with ages 18-97 and have worked with clients with many different experiences and diagnoses including Anxiety, Depression, PTSD/Trauma, Substance Abuse, Bipolar Disorder, Suicidal Ideation, and more.
Hello, I'm Taneesha! I am a Licensed Professional Counselor who is passionate about assisting people while on their journey toward healing and growth in the face of the challenges they may be currently experiencing and/or past traumas that may be causing distress. I have experience with ages 18-97 and have worked with clients with many different experiences and diagnoses including Anxiety, Depression, PTSD/Trauma, Substance Abuse, Bipolar Disorder, Suicidal Ideation, and more.
(408) 763-4866 View (408) 763-4866
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Alexander Bailey
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
La Mesa, CA 91942
Wilderness therapy embraces a relational and transpersonal approach to healing and recovery. Relying on the inherent interconnectedness of all living things, interest within this evidenced-based discipline has generated a variety of modalities for serving individuals who seek to uncover a deeper understanding of their own "wild" and genuine spirit. I have found my own personal healing to be intimately connected to spending time in nature, and it is here that I believe that we can all begin to rediscover our intrinsic humanity and let go of those things that distract us from our higher selves.
Wilderness therapy embraces a relational and transpersonal approach to healing and recovery. Relying on the inherent interconnectedness of all living things, interest within this evidenced-based discipline has generated a variety of modalities for serving individuals who seek to uncover a deeper understanding of their own "wild" and genuine spirit. I have found my own personal healing to be intimately connected to spending time in nature, and it is here that I believe that we can all begin to rediscover our intrinsic humanity and let go of those things that distract us from our higher selves.
(323) 498-3318 View (323) 498-3318
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Allison Radoff, ADHD + Autism Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
2 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
I work from a sex positive lens, and work with all relationship configurations including working with consensual non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, and LGBTQ+ communities.
Welcome! I work with couples and polycules looking to deepen their understanding of one another, improve trust, communication and intimacy. As a neurodivergent therapist, I enjoy working with mixed-neurotype relationships (where one or more partners identifies as ADHD, autistic, PDA / demand avoidant, or OCD). I support my clients in better understanding the ways their neurotype, past trauma and attachment affect communication and the patterns and cycles within their relationship. I help create a safe space where both partners can show up as their full selves and heal together creating lasting change.
I work from a sex positive lens, and work with all relationship configurations including working with consensual non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, and LGBTQ+ communities.
Welcome! I work with couples and polycules looking to deepen their understanding of one another, improve trust, communication and intimacy. As a neurodivergent therapist, I enjoy working with mixed-neurotype relationships (where one or more partners identifies as ADHD, autistic, PDA / demand avoidant, or OCD). I support my clients in better understanding the ways their neurotype, past trauma and attachment affect communication and the patterns and cycles within their relationship. I help create a safe space where both partners can show up as their full selves and heal together creating lasting change.
(619) 503-0929 View (619) 503-0929
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Rob Martin
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91941
Waitlist for new clients
I have a relaxed approach that is spiced with humor and education. My goal is to have a comfortable and creative environment to help you make the changes you want to see. I'm big on education and will likely push books, articles, and videos on you; or at least summarize to the best of my ability. I'm also big on self acceptance and self-awareness, using practical mindfulness and personal intelligence as a guide. This means getting to know yourself and your strengths to learn how to use them to help yourself.
I have a relaxed approach that is spiced with humor and education. My goal is to have a comfortable and creative environment to help you make the changes you want to see. I'm big on education and will likely push books, articles, and videos on you; or at least summarize to the best of my ability. I'm also big on self acceptance and self-awareness, using practical mindfulness and personal intelligence as a guide. This means getting to know yourself and your strengths to learn how to use them to help yourself.
(619) 558-0891 View (619) 558-0891
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Lauren Goebel, Child and Teen Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
1 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
Welcome, I am glad you are here! I am Lauren and I am a therapist specializing in working with children, pre-teens and teens. I work with a variety of issues/topics including: neurodiversity (ADHD, Autism, PDA), depression, anxiety, academic issues, bullying/peer issues, trauma and family relationships. I work with the LGBTQIA+ community and enjoy working with teens who are questioning or exploring sexuality or gender identity.
Welcome, I am glad you are here! I am Lauren and I am a therapist specializing in working with children, pre-teens and teens. I work with a variety of issues/topics including: neurodiversity (ADHD, Autism, PDA), depression, anxiety, academic issues, bullying/peer issues, trauma and family relationships. I work with the LGBTQIA+ community and enjoy working with teens who are questioning or exploring sexuality or gender identity.
(619) 383-1263 View (619) 383-1263
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Brookelynn McGeorge: Autism and ADHD therapist
Pre-Licensed Professional, APCC
La Mesa, CA 91942
Hi, I am Brookelynn and I work with neurodivergent adults and teens in therapy! Aside from my clinical experience, I am neurodivergent (Autistic and ADHD) myself. I have a passion for working with clients to understand their brain and neurotype, unmask, manage burn out, and cope in ways that work with their brains and not against them! Whether you are struggling with relationships, work, school, or parenting - I can meet you where you are at and support you. We can thrive when we accommodate ourselves in the ways that we need, and I am here to support you in understanding what this looks like for you.
Hi, I am Brookelynn and I work with neurodivergent adults and teens in therapy! Aside from my clinical experience, I am neurodivergent (Autistic and ADHD) myself. I have a passion for working with clients to understand their brain and neurotype, unmask, manage burn out, and cope in ways that work with their brains and not against them! Whether you are struggling with relationships, work, school, or parenting - I can meet you where you are at and support you. We can thrive when we accommodate ourselves in the ways that we need, and I am here to support you in understanding what this looks like for you.
(619) 648-2591 View (619) 648-2591
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Lauren Goebel Neurodiversity Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
La Mesa, CA 91942
A little more about my approach: I am attachment and trauma informed, LGBTQIA+ affirming and knowledgable, poly/ kink affirming, and sex positive.
Are you seeking a couples therapist that specifically works with ADHD, autism, and mixed neurotype couples? That's me! I am neurodivergent myself, and I love exploring with couples how they can learn to communicate in ways that are affirming for each other's neurotype. Our neurotype (ADHD, Autism) affects the way we perceive the world, communicate, regulate our emotions, and the ways we express love. I am trained in couples therapy methods (such as the Gottman Method, EFT) and I work intentionally to make these methods neurodiversity affirming. I love to help couples understand each other and have those lightbulb moments!
A little more about my approach: I am attachment and trauma informed, LGBTQIA+ affirming and knowledgable, poly/ kink affirming, and sex positive.
Are you seeking a couples therapist that specifically works with ADHD, autism, and mixed neurotype couples? That's me! I am neurodivergent myself, and I love exploring with couples how they can learn to communicate in ways that are affirming for each other's neurotype. Our neurotype (ADHD, Autism) affects the way we perceive the world, communicate, regulate our emotions, and the ways we express love. I am trained in couples therapy methods (such as the Gottman Method, EFT) and I work intentionally to make these methods neurodiversity affirming. I love to help couples understand each other and have those lightbulb moments!
(619) 514-1645 View (619) 514-1645
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Kira Sweetlove
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Serves Area
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed out or sad to the point that you can't live the life you want? Do you want to feel better & have a life worth living? Personal Evolution Psychotherapy (PEP) is a team of therapists that use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, family conflict, panic, excessive worry & depression. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed out or sad to the point that you can't live the life you want? Do you want to feel better & have a life worth living? Personal Evolution Psychotherapy (PEP) is a team of therapists that use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, family conflict, panic, excessive worry & depression. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly.
(619) 787-6676 View (619) 787-6676
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R. Clarke Heyes
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Online Only
Do you ever feel at a crossroads—unsure what you want to do, who you want to be, or how you want to be seen? Sometimes it feels like there are no options—or far too many. These questions can weigh heavily on your thoughts, health, and wellbeing. I help individuals, couples, and families explore these moments, uncover strengths, and navigate obstacles. My work includes supporting people with anxiety, depression, and trauma, and I’m especially passionate about helping youth and adults explore their interests, motivations, and identities.
Do you ever feel at a crossroads—unsure what you want to do, who you want to be, or how you want to be seen? Sometimes it feels like there are no options—or far too many. These questions can weigh heavily on your thoughts, health, and wellbeing. I help individuals, couples, and families explore these moments, uncover strengths, and navigate obstacles. My work includes supporting people with anxiety, depression, and trauma, and I’m especially passionate about helping youth and adults explore their interests, motivations, and identities.
(619) 393-2833 View (619) 393-2833
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Cody Gustaveson
Psychologist, PhD, BCB
Serves Area
I'm Dr. Gustaveson, a Navy veteran a clinical psychologist in the San Diego area. I have been helping people manage through chronic pain, chronic illness, chemical dependency, OCD, insomnia, and other psychological challenges since 2017. Some of the people I work with never imagined they would be working with a psychologist. They suffer from conditions like heart disease, cancer, Parkinson's disease, migraines, insomnia, and other chronic health conditions. Some are actively seeking mental health support. I know it's hard to take that next step. Call us today to see if Clinic Ovis is the right fit for you.
I'm Dr. Gustaveson, a Navy veteran a clinical psychologist in the San Diego area. I have been helping people manage through chronic pain, chronic illness, chemical dependency, OCD, insomnia, and other psychological challenges since 2017. Some of the people I work with never imagined they would be working with a psychologist. They suffer from conditions like heart disease, cancer, Parkinson's disease, migraines, insomnia, and other chronic health conditions. Some are actively seeking mental health support. I know it's hard to take that next step. Call us today to see if Clinic Ovis is the right fit for you.
(619) 330-5477 View (619) 330-5477
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Kayla Whaley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ADV-SEP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi, my name is Kayla and my hope is to continue to support individuals in navigating the effects of daily stress and anxiety to more complex issues of depression and post traumatic stress disorder. Whether it's learning to understand our own mental health or just gain a better understanding of our own thoughts and feelings, I believe that each of us hold the ability to heal, and in doing so, find what helps us thrive. My approach to each session is to provide a safe space for clients to be at ease in the present and gain clarity while exploring, challenging and healing core wounds, values and behaviors.
Hi, my name is Kayla and my hope is to continue to support individuals in navigating the effects of daily stress and anxiety to more complex issues of depression and post traumatic stress disorder. Whether it's learning to understand our own mental health or just gain a better understanding of our own thoughts and feelings, I believe that each of us hold the ability to heal, and in doing so, find what helps us thrive. My approach to each session is to provide a safe space for clients to be at ease in the present and gain clarity while exploring, challenging and healing core wounds, values and behaviors.
(619) 373-9421 View (619) 373-9421
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Miranda Millican, Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also work with couples practicing kink/BDSM.
I work with couples where one or both partners has experienced trauma and help them gain insight into how they can be healing to each other. I offer couples EMDR sessions, which is a unique way to do trauma work together and share vulnerability. If you are not ready to do trauma work together, we can focus on skills and exercises to assist communication.
I also work with couples practicing kink/BDSM.
I work with couples where one or both partners has experienced trauma and help them gain insight into how they can be healing to each other. I offer couples EMDR sessions, which is a unique way to do trauma work together and share vulnerability. If you are not ready to do trauma work together, we can focus on skills and exercises to assist communication.
(510) 272-7281 View (510) 272-7281
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Breanne Ferrara - Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My services are queer, kink, & poly friendly and I am a bisexual queer woman.
My training & education is in psychedelic assisted therapy, expressive arts, and yoga. I offer Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy for CA residents in person & online. Plant medicine and psychedelics are growing in popularity. I study ancient wisdom and modern science so people can alter their consciousness safely and with intention.
My services are queer, kink, & poly friendly and I am a bisexual queer woman.
My training & education is in psychedelic assisted therapy, expressive arts, and yoga. I offer Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy for CA residents in person & online. Plant medicine and psychedelics are growing in popularity. I study ancient wisdom and modern science so people can alter their consciousness safely and with intention.
(562) 352-0714 View (562) 352-0714

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.