Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in La Jolla, CA

Meridian Counseling: Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
(424) 327-9198 View (424) 327-9198
Hanna Tannenbaum
Psychologist, PsyD
3 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Our life experiences are layered, complex, and at times can feel overwhelming. Therapy offers us a safe and nurturing environment where we can explore these experiences, comprehend their effects, and nurture a sense of compassion as we move toward who we are intended to be. Dr. Hanna is passionate about supporting teens and adults struggling with OCD, life transitions, relationships, anxiety, and depression, as well as performance anxiety, transitions after injury, and identity. She integrates psychodynamic and holistic approaches in her work with clients.
Our life experiences are layered, complex, and at times can feel overwhelming. Therapy offers us a safe and nurturing environment where we can explore these experiences, comprehend their effects, and nurture a sense of compassion as we move toward who we are intended to be. Dr. Hanna is passionate about supporting teens and adults struggling with OCD, life transitions, relationships, anxiety, and depression, as well as performance anxiety, transitions after injury, and identity. She integrates psychodynamic and holistic approaches in her work with clients.
(760) 417-6056 View (760) 417-6056
Sex Therapy San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
"RISE ABOVE THE NOISE AND CHAOS FOR CHANGE AND SUCCESS!" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected. The therapeutic alliance with Dr Silbert promotes the desirable change the individual is seeking in treatment. Arousal, Erectile Dysfunction, Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Orgasm, Anorgasmia, Sex Aversion, Performance Anxiety are Sex problems treated by Dr Silbert. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Trauma, Loss, Divorce, Lack of Control, Emotional Overload treated.
"RISE ABOVE THE NOISE AND CHAOS FOR CHANGE AND SUCCESS!" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected. The therapeutic alliance with Dr Silbert promotes the desirable change the individual is seeking in treatment. Arousal, Erectile Dysfunction, Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Orgasm, Anorgasmia, Sex Aversion, Performance Anxiety are Sex problems treated by Dr Silbert. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Trauma, Loss, Divorce, Lack of Control, Emotional Overload treated.
(858) 863-6986 View (858) 863-6986
Claudia Law-Greenberg, PhD
Psychologist, PhD
La Jolla, CA 92037
People seek a psychotherapist because they are experiencing emotional distress, often caused by issues related to relationships, family, marital problems, stress, and general dissatisfaction with one's life or work. My job as a psychologist is to find a path leading to both relief of these symptoms and to an understanding of oneself, which together provide for both short term and long term relief from these states. I do this by providing a non-judgmental and supportive therapeutic environment which promotes a deeper understanding and exploration of oneself, with the belief that this increased self-awareness ultimately leads to positive changes and better coping skills.
People seek a psychotherapist because they are experiencing emotional distress, often caused by issues related to relationships, family, marital problems, stress, and general dissatisfaction with one's life or work. My job as a psychologist is to find a path leading to both relief of these symptoms and to an understanding of oneself, which together provide for both short term and long term relief from these states. I do this by providing a non-judgmental and supportive therapeutic environment which promotes a deeper understanding and exploration of oneself, with the belief that this increased self-awareness ultimately leads to positive changes and better coping skills.
(858) 314-3574 View (858) 314-3574
Dana Glasser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, CLC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
With a clinical focus in ADHD, life transitions, EMDR ,Trauma and survivors of Narcissistic abuse, I meet my clients where they are at and support them through this life changing process.
I work with individuals, couples, adolescents and adults. I am trained in Crisis intervention, Trauma informed therapy, Talk therapy, Strength based case Management, Gottman method, Somatic tools, Mindfulness, CBT and DBT. I am trained in EMDR, Anxiety, Depression, Mood disorders, Trauma, OCD, ADHD and Dual diagnosis.
With a clinical focus in ADHD, life transitions, EMDR ,Trauma and survivors of Narcissistic abuse, I meet my clients where they are at and support them through this life changing process.
I work with individuals, couples, adolescents and adults. I am trained in Crisis intervention, Trauma informed therapy, Talk therapy, Strength based case Management, Gottman method, Somatic tools, Mindfulness, CBT and DBT. I am trained in EMDR, Anxiety, Depression, Mood disorders, Trauma, OCD, ADHD and Dual diagnosis.
(619) 349-9667 View (619) 349-9667
Hawley Winter
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CEDS, BC-TMH
La Jolla, CA 92037
I feel honored to assist in healing journeys, whether relational with couples and families or individual explorations where together we meet what needs our curiosity, attention and loving presence. My approach is highly collaborative with the perspective that improving insight and awareness allows for meaningful shifts in how we relate to others, behave in the world and feel about ourselves. I work with adults, adolescents, families, couples and groups, offering a supportive environment for change through authentic warmth and compassion. I am also gently and respectfully challenging and direct.
I feel honored to assist in healing journeys, whether relational with couples and families or individual explorations where together we meet what needs our curiosity, attention and loving presence. My approach is highly collaborative with the perspective that improving insight and awareness allows for meaningful shifts in how we relate to others, behave in the world and feel about ourselves. I work with adults, adolescents, families, couples and groups, offering a supportive environment for change through authentic warmth and compassion. I am also gently and respectfully challenging and direct.
(858) 217-4973 View (858) 217-4973
Charles Cutler, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD, LP
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Everyone has the capacity to grow into a more meaningful, fulling life. It takes a willingness to try and the perseverance to keep going when it is hard. My goal is to create a therapeutic experience tailored to you - one where we can make sense of what's happening, ease the pain you are carrying, and work through the places where you feel stuck. Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, loneliness, relationship difficulties, or low self-confidence, we'll work together to understand these struggles and find a path forward. I bring genuine passion to this work, along with extensive training and years of clinical experience.
Everyone has the capacity to grow into a more meaningful, fulling life. It takes a willingness to try and the perseverance to keep going when it is hard. My goal is to create a therapeutic experience tailored to you - one where we can make sense of what's happening, ease the pain you are carrying, and work through the places where you feel stuck. Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, loneliness, relationship difficulties, or low self-confidence, we'll work together to understand these struggles and find a path forward. I bring genuine passion to this work, along with extensive training and years of clinical experience.
(858) 521-9382 View (858) 521-9382
Ina von Ber
Psychologist, PhD
La Jolla, CA 92037
COUPLES & INDIV: Do you feel like you have a bump in your relationship and need to hit the reset button? Are you wondering what’s next, but don’t know where to begin? Do you feel like you're stuck in a cycle of worry and loss of control? As a highly experienced psychologist with over 30 years of expertise, I can help you make lasting changes and achieve your goals. Whether you're seeking guidance as a couple or as an individual, I offer a strength-based approach that can help you navigate through stressful times and find fulfillment in your relationships. Reach out and take the first step towards a happier, more balanced life.
COUPLES & INDIV: Do you feel like you have a bump in your relationship and need to hit the reset button? Are you wondering what’s next, but don’t know where to begin? Do you feel like you're stuck in a cycle of worry and loss of control? As a highly experienced psychologist with over 30 years of expertise, I can help you make lasting changes and achieve your goals. Whether you're seeking guidance as a couple or as an individual, I offer a strength-based approach that can help you navigate through stressful times and find fulfillment in your relationships. Reach out and take the first step towards a happier, more balanced life.
(858) 295-1058 View (858) 295-1058
New Reflection Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist
La Jolla, CA 92037
Many of our clients are recovering from emotionally manipulative or narcissistic relationships, struggling with trauma, or navigating the challenges of ADHD.
New Reflection Therapy is a therapist-owned telehealth practice serving adults in California and Florida. Many of our clients come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, stuck in painful relationship patterns, struggling with anxiety, trauma, or difficulty focusing and managing daily life.
Many of our clients are recovering from emotionally manipulative or narcissistic relationships, struggling with trauma, or navigating the challenges of ADHD.
New Reflection Therapy is a therapist-owned telehealth practice serving adults in California and Florida. Many of our clients come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, stuck in painful relationship patterns, struggling with anxiety, trauma, or difficulty focusing and managing daily life.
(858) 533-2122 View (858) 533-2122
Bernadette M. Di Toro
Psychologist, PsyD, MS
La Jolla, CA 92037
I work with thoughtful, capable individuals who are seeking more than symptom relief. Many of my clients are high-functioning on the outside, yet privately navigating stress, grief, life transition, relationship strain, health concerns, or emotional patterns that no longer feel aligned with who they are becoming. They may be moving through divorce, loss, parenting challenges, burnout, aging-related concerns, or a deeper desire to understand themselves more fully. My work helps clients slow down, listen inward, strengthen emotional capacity, and move forward with greater clarity, self-trust, and resilience.
I work with thoughtful, capable individuals who are seeking more than symptom relief. Many of my clients are high-functioning on the outside, yet privately navigating stress, grief, life transition, relationship strain, health concerns, or emotional patterns that no longer feel aligned with who they are becoming. They may be moving through divorce, loss, parenting challenges, burnout, aging-related concerns, or a deeper desire to understand themselves more fully. My work helps clients slow down, listen inward, strengthen emotional capacity, and move forward with greater clarity, self-trust, and resilience.
(858) 742-8218 View (858) 742-8218
Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
La Jolla, CA 92037
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(858) 704-2349 View (858) 704-2349
Sarah Schreiber
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I am a psychiatrist in San Diego specializing in psychodynamic psychotherapy with integrated medications when needed. My goal is to create a safe and comfortable space where we can explore aspects of your life that are difficult, unsatisfying, or confusing. My style is warm and authentic and my approach seeks to honor and understand how your past experiences may be impacting your current struggles. I believe that each individual has unique strengths and resiliencies which we will explore and harness in creating a treatment plan that is aligned with your values, needs, and goals.
I am a psychiatrist in San Diego specializing in psychodynamic psychotherapy with integrated medications when needed. My goal is to create a safe and comfortable space where we can explore aspects of your life that are difficult, unsatisfying, or confusing. My style is warm and authentic and my approach seeks to honor and understand how your past experiences may be impacting your current struggles. I believe that each individual has unique strengths and resiliencies which we will explore and harness in creating a treatment plan that is aligned with your values, needs, and goals.
(858) 428-2268 View (858) 428-2268
Hili Mann
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
I specialize in helping adults navigate anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges—both with others and within themselves. Our first phone or video consultation is a supportive space to explore your concerns and ensure we’re a good fit. Rooted in a psychoanalytic approach, my work goes beyond symptom relief to uncover deeper patterns, including unconscious influences shaping your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Together, we’ll build insight, resilience, and meaningful, lasting change to help you move toward a more fulfilling and authentic life.
I specialize in helping adults navigate anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges—both with others and within themselves. Our first phone or video consultation is a supportive space to explore your concerns and ensure we’re a good fit. Rooted in a psychoanalytic approach, my work goes beyond symptom relief to uncover deeper patterns, including unconscious influences shaping your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Together, we’ll build insight, resilience, and meaningful, lasting change to help you move toward a more fulfilling and authentic life.
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Help Therapy | Mental Health Services
Psychologist, PsyD, LCSW, LMFT, NP, PNP
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Help Therapy boasts a network of more than 150 licensed clinical psychologists, LCSWs, LMFTs, and NPs, spanning over 100 specialties and treatment areas. Services we provide including psychotherapy, psychological evaluations and psychiatric services. By completing an intake form on HelpTherapy.com, you'll be paired with a therapist tailored to your specific treatment requirements, insurance coverage, and location preferences. You have the flexibility to choose how you'd like to connect with your provider—whether in-person, online, or via phone.
Help Therapy boasts a network of more than 150 licensed clinical psychologists, LCSWs, LMFTs, and NPs, spanning over 100 specialties and treatment areas. Services we provide including psychotherapy, psychological evaluations and psychiatric services. By completing an intake form on HelpTherapy.com, you'll be paired with a therapist tailored to your specific treatment requirements, insurance coverage, and location preferences. You have the flexibility to choose how you'd like to connect with your provider—whether in-person, online, or via phone.
(858) 481-8827 View (858) 481-8827
Rina Podolsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
You're lying awake feeling alone, even with your partner beside you. Maybe you're having the same argument again, or trust has been shattered by an affair. Perhaps you're navigating parenting conflicts, empty nest struggles, or grief over a relationship ending. You want to feel connected again—to your partner, to yourself, to hope. You need clarity about whether to stay or go. You're looking for tools to communicate without fighting. You want to move from stuck to hopeful, from confusion to clarity, from lonely to connected. You're ready to do the work—you just need guidance.
You're lying awake feeling alone, even with your partner beside you. Maybe you're having the same argument again, or trust has been shattered by an affair. Perhaps you're navigating parenting conflicts, empty nest struggles, or grief over a relationship ending. You want to feel connected again—to your partner, to yourself, to hope. You need clarity about whether to stay or go. You're looking for tools to communicate without fighting. You want to move from stuck to hopeful, from confusion to clarity, from lonely to connected. You're ready to do the work—you just need guidance.
(619) 901-2224 View (619) 901-2224
Wendi Moore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
You may appear capable and put-together on the outside, yet feel anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally drained inside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, high-functioning adults who struggle with overthinking, follow through, boundaries, people-pleasing, relationship stress, or burnout. You want a more peaceful life and you're self-aware, but insight alone hasn’t been enough to create lasting change.
You may appear capable and put-together on the outside, yet feel anxious, overwhelmed, or emotionally drained inside. Many of my clients are thoughtful, high-functioning adults who struggle with overthinking, follow through, boundaries, people-pleasing, relationship stress, or burnout. You want a more peaceful life and you're self-aware, but insight alone hasn’t been enough to create lasting change.
(619) 333-4185 View (619) 333-4185
Charles E Nelson
Psychologist, PhD, MFT
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Charlie is recognized as a seasoned, direct, warm, ethical, "practical" therapist with experience since 1973. He's licensed as both Psychologist & Marriage and Family Therapist, competently helping individuals, couples, and families. Along with a broad general practice, he also specializes in: Relationship Issues (premarital & marital problems, communication, co-parenting, financial stress, affairs, infidelity, divorce, sexual health); Substance Abuse and Behavioral addictions (alcohol, marijuana, cocaine, methamphetamine, codependence, ACOA, enabling, gambling, "sex addiction", out of control sexual behavior); Trauma Recovery (crime victims, post traumatic stress, loss, death, dying, grief, identity theft); Men's Issues: ("Men behaving badly", fatherhood, communication problems, intimacy concerns).
Charlie is recognized as a seasoned, direct, warm, ethical, "practical" therapist with experience since 1973. He's licensed as both Psychologist & Marriage and Family Therapist, competently helping individuals, couples, and families. Along with a broad general practice, he also specializes in: Relationship Issues (premarital & marital problems, communication, co-parenting, financial stress, affairs, infidelity, divorce, sexual health); Substance Abuse and Behavioral addictions (alcohol, marijuana, cocaine, methamphetamine, codependence, ACOA, enabling, gambling, "sex addiction", out of control sexual behavior); Trauma Recovery (crime victims, post traumatic stress, loss, death, dying, grief, identity theft); Men's Issues: ("Men behaving badly", fatherhood, communication problems, intimacy concerns).
(858) 376-7957 View (858) 376-7957
Linda S. Rose
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PsyD, LPCC, LCSW
Online Only
For individuals, I offer expertise in healing the issues of adult children of alcoholics, adult children of narcissistic parents, abuse, depression, anxiety, addiction, codependency, and coping with mental illness in a family member.
For couples, I provide proven techniques to improve communication, increase awareness and understanding, and manage differences. For parents and children, I also offer my extensive experience with providing streamlined guidance for effective and rational parenting, as well as sand play and play therapies.
For individuals, I offer expertise in healing the issues of adult children of alcoholics, adult children of narcissistic parents, abuse, depression, anxiety, addiction, codependency, and coping with mental illness in a family member.
For couples, I provide proven techniques to improve communication, increase awareness and understanding, and manage differences. For parents and children, I also offer my extensive experience with providing streamlined guidance for effective and rational parenting, as well as sand play and play therapies.
(858) 524-3187 View (858) 524-3187
Eye4Peace Therapy Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC
Serves Area
My ideal client is a human being seeking relief from emotional pain, disconnection, or patterns that no longer serve them, often shaped by past wounds, overwhelm, or unprocessed experiences. They may struggle with anxiety, depression, shame, relationship difficulties, or a loss of meaning, but beneath these issues they need safety, understanding, and to be seen without judgment. Their goals are not just symptom reduction, but greater self-trust, emotional freedom, healthier relationships, and a sense of wholeness. What they truly want is to feel at home in themselves and to believe they are not broken.
My ideal client is a human being seeking relief from emotional pain, disconnection, or patterns that no longer serve them, often shaped by past wounds, overwhelm, or unprocessed experiences. They may struggle with anxiety, depression, shame, relationship difficulties, or a loss of meaning, but beneath these issues they need safety, understanding, and to be seen without judgment. Their goals are not just symptom reduction, but greater self-trust, emotional freedom, healthier relationships, and a sense of wholeness. What they truly want is to feel at home in themselves and to believe they are not broken.
(404) 334-5438 View (404) 334-5438
Kevin Wittenberg, Psychologist and Psychoanalyst
Psychologist, PhD, PsyD
Online Only
Our capacity to connect, both with ourselves (i.e. our passions, feelings, and body) and with others, is crucial to our feelings of well-being. When we connect, we generally feel a sense of aliveness in ourselves and the world. When we can't connect, we feel anxious, isolated, empty, or depressed. I feel my job is to help clients to more fully connect to the range of their experiences. I help adults, adolescents, and couples explore why they lose connection. I help them identify, understand, and overcome the deep root of their disconnection. I help them find well-being, which gives me great joy.
Our capacity to connect, both with ourselves (i.e. our passions, feelings, and body) and with others, is crucial to our feelings of well-being. When we connect, we generally feel a sense of aliveness in ourselves and the world. When we can't connect, we feel anxious, isolated, empty, or depressed. I feel my job is to help clients to more fully connect to the range of their experiences. I help adults, adolescents, and couples explore why they lose connection. I help them identify, understand, and overcome the deep root of their disconnection. I help them find well-being, which gives me great joy.
(310) 889-0384 View (310) 889-0384

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.