Lesbian Therapists in La Jolla, CA
Hi, I'm Jenny. I see clients in-person in La Jolla and can work with anyone virtually who is located in California. I work with adults, teens, and children. My specialties include grief, loss, anxiety, identity exploration, life transitions, early attachment experiences, relationship dynamics, and working with the LGBTQIA+ community. I offer a gentle space where healing unfolds at a pace that feels comfortable for you, honoring your story as you move toward greater self-compassion, resilience, and connection.
Hi, I'm Jenny. I see clients in-person in La Jolla and can work with anyone virtually who is located in California. I work with adults, teens, and children. My specialties include grief, loss, anxiety, identity exploration, life transitions, early attachment experiences, relationship dynamics, and working with the LGBTQIA+ community. I offer a gentle space where healing unfolds at a pace that feels comfortable for you, honoring your story as you move toward greater self-compassion, resilience, and connection.
Is past trauma is getting in the way of living your best life? Constantly fatigued, burnt out or overwhelmed? Are you looking for a therapist who can hold ground for some of the "squishier" parts of you, like overthinking, questions of gender & (a)sexuality, big feelings, or a fear that you missed receiving the instruction manual on "how to human"? I'm a trans nonbinary ND therapist who specializes in complex trauma, navigating neurodivergence (ADHD and Autism), exploring and celebrating trans, nonbinary and other LGBTQIA+ identities, and managing chronic illness / disability.
Is past trauma is getting in the way of living your best life? Constantly fatigued, burnt out or overwhelmed? Are you looking for a therapist who can hold ground for some of the "squishier" parts of you, like overthinking, questions of gender & (a)sexuality, big feelings, or a fear that you missed receiving the instruction manual on "how to human"? I'm a trans nonbinary ND therapist who specializes in complex trauma, navigating neurodivergence (ADHD and Autism), exploring and celebrating trans, nonbinary and other LGBTQIA+ identities, and managing chronic illness / disability.
Welcome! Do you have chronic pain, chronic fatigue, or chronic illness you are managing? Or, do you love someone or care for someone with these issues? If so, you are in the right place. I specialize in working with chronic pain, chronic illness, medical trauma, neurocognitive issues (memory). Living with pain/illness comes with enormous grief, and it can be incredibly lonely. You might find you are irritable, have trouble with sleeping, can't concentrate or focus or struggle with daily tasks that used to be easy. Your relationships might be suffering as you can't show up how you used to. I am here to support you.
Welcome! Do you have chronic pain, chronic fatigue, or chronic illness you are managing? Or, do you love someone or care for someone with these issues? If so, you are in the right place. I specialize in working with chronic pain, chronic illness, medical trauma, neurocognitive issues (memory). Living with pain/illness comes with enormous grief, and it can be incredibly lonely. You might find you are irritable, have trouble with sleeping, can't concentrate or focus or struggle with daily tasks that used to be easy. Your relationships might be suffering as you can't show up how you used to. I am here to support you.
I help people who feel stuck — in their careers, in their relationships, or just in life — find more clarity, connection, and joy. Many people I work with are successful on the outside but feel exhausted on the inside. They might be struggling with workaholism, feeling 'blah' about their relationships, dealing with the impact of trauma, or learning how to finally set boundaries that stick. They come to me feeling frustrated with talking about the same things over and over again but not feeling any better.
I help people who feel stuck — in their careers, in their relationships, or just in life — find more clarity, connection, and joy. Many people I work with are successful on the outside but feel exhausted on the inside. They might be struggling with workaholism, feeling 'blah' about their relationships, dealing with the impact of trauma, or learning how to finally set boundaries that stick. They come to me feeling frustrated with talking about the same things over and over again but not feeling any better.
You need to talk, and I'm here to listen. But listening isn’t all I’ll do. I collaborate with clients in a dynamic process of exploration, discovery, and change. I will ask you thought-provoking questions, invite you to consider new perspectives, and engage you in an experience that promotes insight and growth. I believe a trusting, authentic relationship is the foundation for healing. My style is warm, direct, and collaborative. I may challenge you to "try on" a new approach, but I'll always lead with respect and compassion. Together, we can transform anxiety, depression, and trauma into relief, hope, and change for the better.
You need to talk, and I'm here to listen. But listening isn’t all I’ll do. I collaborate with clients in a dynamic process of exploration, discovery, and change. I will ask you thought-provoking questions, invite you to consider new perspectives, and engage you in an experience that promotes insight and growth. I believe a trusting, authentic relationship is the foundation for healing. My style is warm, direct, and collaborative. I may challenge you to "try on" a new approach, but I'll always lead with respect and compassion. Together, we can transform anxiety, depression, and trauma into relief, hope, and change for the better.
I’m passionate about working with children and young adults, especially those who are queer, neurodivergent, and/or Asian American. I have had the opportunity to work with neurodivergent children aged 5+, as well as those with emotional regulation challenges. I strongly believe that our kids are yearning to be heard, loved, and accepted as they are, especially in our fast-paced society that tends to place unrealistic expectations and demands on their developing minds. My clinical practice is thus guided by the phrase “meet them where they are, and not from where we want them to be”.
I’m passionate about working with children and young adults, especially those who are queer, neurodivergent, and/or Asian American. I have had the opportunity to work with neurodivergent children aged 5+, as well as those with emotional regulation challenges. I strongly believe that our kids are yearning to be heard, loved, and accepted as they are, especially in our fast-paced society that tends to place unrealistic expectations and demands on their developing minds. My clinical practice is thus guided by the phrase “meet them where they are, and not from where we want them to be”.
I'm Candice. I offer therapeutic care for clients who have endured traumatic, stressful or overwhelming experiences that have impacted their relationship with their body and their sense of self. My clients often have complex health histories, medical trauma, sexual trauma, fertility obstacles or a strained relationship with identity and sexuality. Often, my clients have navigated these experiences alone. This is where that changes. Here, I offer an affirming space to finally allow the story of your lived experience to be held outside of the confines of your body and mind. Nothing is "too weird" or "too much" for this space to hold.
I'm Candice. I offer therapeutic care for clients who have endured traumatic, stressful or overwhelming experiences that have impacted their relationship with their body and their sense of self. My clients often have complex health histories, medical trauma, sexual trauma, fertility obstacles or a strained relationship with identity and sexuality. Often, my clients have navigated these experiences alone. This is where that changes. Here, I offer an affirming space to finally allow the story of your lived experience to be held outside of the confines of your body and mind. Nothing is "too weird" or "too much" for this space to hold.
Julie Williams (They/She) is a compassionate, authentic, and experienced Mental Health Clinician that guides clients in gaining greater self-awareness and self-acceptance using Holistic, Transpersonal, and Somatic approaches for individual adults, teens, children, &/or families. Holistic Psychotherapy with Julie is for you if you are looking to learn ways to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and/or post traumatic stress through the use of mindfulness-based coping skills. Centered on each individual’s unique needs and preferences, Julie weaves together several different therapeutic approaches and psychological theories.
Julie Williams (They/She) is a compassionate, authentic, and experienced Mental Health Clinician that guides clients in gaining greater self-awareness and self-acceptance using Holistic, Transpersonal, and Somatic approaches for individual adults, teens, children, &/or families. Holistic Psychotherapy with Julie is for you if you are looking to learn ways to reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, and/or post traumatic stress through the use of mindfulness-based coping skills. Centered on each individual’s unique needs and preferences, Julie weaves together several different therapeutic approaches and psychological theories.
You have already taken an enormous step towards your healing by beginning to look for a therapist, so first take a moment to express gratitude for yourself. You want to feel at ease, liberated, seen, understood, connected to others, and comfortable taking up space. I can help! As a 2-SQT/LGBTQ+ Affirming, Anti-Racist, Trauma-Informed, Intersectional, and Liberation-Based therapist, I acknowledge that systemic harm, like white supremacy, generational trauma, and the violence and abuse that is perpetuated by trauma and oppression can have deep, lasting scars that that impact our relationships with ourselves and others.
You have already taken an enormous step towards your healing by beginning to look for a therapist, so first take a moment to express gratitude for yourself. You want to feel at ease, liberated, seen, understood, connected to others, and comfortable taking up space. I can help! As a 2-SQT/LGBTQ+ Affirming, Anti-Racist, Trauma-Informed, Intersectional, and Liberation-Based therapist, I acknowledge that systemic harm, like white supremacy, generational trauma, and the violence and abuse that is perpetuated by trauma and oppression can have deep, lasting scars that that impact our relationships with ourselves and others.
NOTE: joining the weekly support group is the first step towards being seen individually.
Are you just damn TIRED? Tired of the constant hustle and bustle. You’ve survived childhood and complex trauma, and your ability to overfunction helped you survive. But now, you're in cycles of anxiety, overwhelm, & negative self-talk because your nervous system never experienced what it's like to truly rest and feel like you're enough. But the time is now to come home to yourself. Together, we’ll work to calm your body, quiet the inner critic, and build a grounded sense of self.
NOTE: joining the weekly support group is the first step towards being seen individually.
Are you just damn TIRED? Tired of the constant hustle and bustle. You’ve survived childhood and complex trauma, and your ability to overfunction helped you survive. But now, you're in cycles of anxiety, overwhelm, & negative self-talk because your nervous system never experienced what it's like to truly rest and feel like you're enough. But the time is now to come home to yourself. Together, we’ll work to calm your body, quiet the inner critic, and build a grounded sense of self.
Therapy can help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface and develop practical tools to create real change. Our therapists provide thoughtful, supportive, and structured care that helps clients gain clarity, strengthen relationships, and feel more confident navigating life’s challenges. Many of our clients are recovering from emotionally manipulative or narcissistic relationships, struggling with trauma, or navigating the challenges of ADHD. We specialize in relationship and attachment issue, anxiety, depression, trauma and adult ADHD.
Therapy can help you understand what’s happening beneath the surface and develop practical tools to create real change. Our therapists provide thoughtful, supportive, and structured care that helps clients gain clarity, strengthen relationships, and feel more confident navigating life’s challenges. Many of our clients are recovering from emotionally manipulative or narcissistic relationships, struggling with trauma, or navigating the challenges of ADHD. We specialize in relationship and attachment issue, anxiety, depression, trauma and adult ADHD.
You have found a safe, judgment-free space for kinksters, non-monogamists, swingers, and people with otherwise “alternative” relationship structures, dynamics, and roles to discuss issues of sexuality and identity. As a gay, kinky, queer therapist, I understand the complexities and importance of relationships - both with each other and with ourselves. If you experience disordered eating, we will work together, utilizing the Healthy at Every Size (HAES) approach, to holistically heal and restructure your overall mindset toward food and your physical body. Because bodies of all sizes deserve to be loved and respected.
You have found a safe, judgment-free space for kinksters, non-monogamists, swingers, and people with otherwise “alternative” relationship structures, dynamics, and roles to discuss issues of sexuality and identity. As a gay, kinky, queer therapist, I understand the complexities and importance of relationships - both with each other and with ourselves. If you experience disordered eating, we will work together, utilizing the Healthy at Every Size (HAES) approach, to holistically heal and restructure your overall mindset toward food and your physical body. Because bodies of all sizes deserve to be loved and respected.
Hello! I am Dany Wilson, MFT. I have been in the field for over 15 years providing therapy to individuals, adolescents, couples and groups as well as directing operations for a large health care company. I specialize in trauma, anxiety, depression, personality disorders, professional coaching using interpersonal neurobiology, EMDR, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Trauma Informed Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Family Systems, Insight Adaptive Therapy and more.
Hello! I am Dany Wilson, MFT. I have been in the field for over 15 years providing therapy to individuals, adolescents, couples and groups as well as directing operations for a large health care company. I specialize in trauma, anxiety, depression, personality disorders, professional coaching using interpersonal neurobiology, EMDR, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Trauma Informed Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Family Systems, Insight Adaptive Therapy and more.
Do you feel like you’re surviving instead of living? Are you in a constant state of stress and physical and mental exhaustion? Do you find yourself using alcohol, drugs, sex, relationships, or other unhealthy behaviors to cope, escape, or numb your pain? Now more than ever, people are feeling increasingly depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future while still being haunted by their past. If this experience resonates with you, you are not alone. With expertise in mood, addiction, relational, and trauma-related disorders, I customize my therapeutic approach to fit your unique needs and desires.
Do you feel like you’re surviving instead of living? Are you in a constant state of stress and physical and mental exhaustion? Do you find yourself using alcohol, drugs, sex, relationships, or other unhealthy behaviors to cope, escape, or numb your pain? Now more than ever, people are feeling increasingly depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future while still being haunted by their past. If this experience resonates with you, you are not alone. With expertise in mood, addiction, relational, and trauma-related disorders, I customize my therapeutic approach to fit your unique needs and desires.
What is commonly referred to as "mental health" is not an absolute. During my 40 years of practice, I've come to think of psychotherapy/counseling as a combination of external focus (how we manage or cope in the world) and internal focus (what needs to be healed se we feel better about who we are). I would like to help you with either/both. My practice includes work with individuals as well as couples.
What is commonly referred to as "mental health" is not an absolute. During my 40 years of practice, I've come to think of psychotherapy/counseling as a combination of external focus (how we manage or cope in the world) and internal focus (what needs to be healed se we feel better about who we are). I would like to help you with either/both. My practice includes work with individuals as well as couples.
I am a licensed psychologist with an emphasis in anxiety disorders and perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Other areas of focus have been on stress related issues, relationship issues, and life changing events which include completing college, career changes, and coping with loss.
I am a licensed psychologist with an emphasis in anxiety disorders and perinatal mood and anxiety disorders. Other areas of focus have been on stress related issues, relationship issues, and life changing events which include completing college, career changes, and coping with loss.
Sex Addiction San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
Dr. Thomas is a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in substance addiction, dual diagnosis, depression, anxiety, acute stress, relationship problems, and chronic pain. With an emphasis in living from and connecting to personal values, his approach is highly compassionate, culturally sensitive, strengths-based, and evidenced-based. He integrates CBT and mindfulness-based interventions to help individuals to uncover, discover, and discard thinking and behavioral patterns that are blocking them from living enriched and empowered lives.
Dr. Thomas is a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in substance addiction, dual diagnosis, depression, anxiety, acute stress, relationship problems, and chronic pain. With an emphasis in living from and connecting to personal values, his approach is highly compassionate, culturally sensitive, strengths-based, and evidenced-based. He integrates CBT and mindfulness-based interventions to help individuals to uncover, discover, and discard thinking and behavioral patterns that are blocking them from living enriched and empowered lives.
I work with individuals who are looking to better understand themselves, heal from past or present family dynamics, and build healthier patterns in their relationships, as well as couples who want to reconnect, communicate differently, and create a relationship that feels more fulfilling and emotionally connected. I see clients exclusively via telehealth, offering the flexibility to do meaningful therapeutic work from wherever you feel most comfortable.
I work with individuals who are looking to better understand themselves, heal from past or present family dynamics, and build healthier patterns in their relationships, as well as couples who want to reconnect, communicate differently, and create a relationship that feels more fulfilling and emotionally connected. I see clients exclusively via telehealth, offering the flexibility to do meaningful therapeutic work from wherever you feel most comfortable.
I am a psychologist who provides treatment for clients addressing depression, anxiety, and other common psychological concerns. I also work with clients who are navigating significant life, career, relationship, and health transitions. My goals in therapy are to establish a strong therapeutic relationship as patients develop insight and perspective into their problems, and to help patients connect with who and what matter, all in the service of helping patients lead more productive and rewarding lives.
I am a psychologist who provides treatment for clients addressing depression, anxiety, and other common psychological concerns. I also work with clients who are navigating significant life, career, relationship, and health transitions. My goals in therapy are to establish a strong therapeutic relationship as patients develop insight and perspective into their problems, and to help patients connect with who and what matter, all in the service of helping patients lead more productive and rewarding lives.
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Lesbian Therapists
What is lesbian-affirming therapy?
Lesbian-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client's lesbian identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual's sexual orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of lesbian women. This support is especially important, as research shows that lesbian individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges compared to heterosexual populations. Lesbian-affirming therapy acknowledges that lesbian individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as coming out challenges, family rejection, workplace discrimination, and minority stress—that require specialized understanding and intervention. Lesbian-affirming therapists often work with clients across all age groups, from adolescents navigating their emerging identity to adults and older individuals addressing life transitions and relationship concerns. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for lesbian partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. It is important to note that therapists provide talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
Why should I see a lesbian therapist?
Some clients prefer to work with lesbian therapists who may bring personal lived experience to the therapeutic relationship. Choosing to work with a lesbian therapist can offer a deeper sense of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. A therapist who identifies as lesbian may require clients to give less background explanation—whether it’s about navigating romantic relationships, feeling unseen in certain spaces, or processing the impact of past relationship challenges. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. Additionally, many lesbian-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organizations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection.
How do I find a lesbian therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding lesbian-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialize in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. Look for profiles where therapists explicitly mention working with lesbian clients, or where they describe their approach as identity-affirming, inclusive, or trauma-informed. Many providers will also list their own identities, which may help you find someone with shared lived experience if that is important to you. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.