Therapists in La Costa, CA
I believe a lot of us are carrying some degree of self-judgment, shame, or unresolved pain. Until those wounds are neutralized, nothing you do to try and change will work.The combination of therapies that I use are designed to release negative belief systems and painful emotions. To heal them at the core so that you are free from them completely. My years of experience have taught me how to identify the root of the problem and to know what will be most effective in healing what is keeping you stuck.
I believe a lot of us are carrying some degree of self-judgment, shame, or unresolved pain. Until those wounds are neutralized, nothing you do to try and change will work.The combination of therapies that I use are designed to release negative belief systems and painful emotions. To heal them at the core so that you are free from them completely. My years of experience have taught me how to identify the root of the problem and to know what will be most effective in healing what is keeping you stuck.
Whether you are struggling in relationships, going through a season of transition or seeking a greater sense of purpose and meaning in your life, I would be honored to work with you. My intention as a counselor is to be a healing presence in the life of my clients by offering unconditional acceptance and holding the space for you to be your truest self. I believe that every challenge is an invitation to transformation, and together we will seek wisdom and reflect on the growth that longs to occur in your life.
Whether you are struggling in relationships, going through a season of transition or seeking a greater sense of purpose and meaning in your life, I would be honored to work with you. My intention as a counselor is to be a healing presence in the life of my clients by offering unconditional acceptance and holding the space for you to be your truest self. I believe that every challenge is an invitation to transformation, and together we will seek wisdom and reflect on the growth that longs to occur in your life.
Maria Ballesteros, LPCC I am passionate about helping people overcome obstacles that are affecting their ability to live a fulfilling, purposeful, and happy life. I believe in creating an environment where clients can grow and explore their issues. I work with adults that are dealing with depression, anxiety, stress, and life transitions. I will provide a safe and secure environment where clients can share, explore, grow, and heal from your present struggles and past pains.
Maria Ballesteros, LPCC I am passionate about helping people overcome obstacles that are affecting their ability to live a fulfilling, purposeful, and happy life. I believe in creating an environment where clients can grow and explore their issues. I work with adults that are dealing with depression, anxiety, stress, and life transitions. I will provide a safe and secure environment where clients can share, explore, grow, and heal from your present struggles and past pains.
Excessive pornography use can eat away at the foundation of trust in relationships, leaving your partner feeling deeply hurt and inadequate. How can something so common and seemingly benign be so hard to control? It starts with casual screen use for work that morphs effortlessly into social media, then adult content, cam sites, or OnlyFans. This is especially challenging for ambitious men used to figuring things out alone. I’m not just a professional; I’ve been in your shoes and know the cost to your integrity when this goes unaddressed. If you're tired of this cycle, there is a clear path out.
Excessive pornography use can eat away at the foundation of trust in relationships, leaving your partner feeling deeply hurt and inadequate. How can something so common and seemingly benign be so hard to control? It starts with casual screen use for work that morphs effortlessly into social media, then adult content, cam sites, or OnlyFans. This is especially challenging for ambitious men used to figuring things out alone. I’m not just a professional; I’ve been in your shoes and know the cost to your integrity when this goes unaddressed. If you're tired of this cycle, there is a clear path out.
Rhonda E. Allen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Are you feeling sad, anxious, or just not yourself? Do you overthink the past? Worry too much about the future? Reach for quick fixes that don’t work, or do you ignore the problem and tell yourself that, eventually, things will change? Your sad thoughts and anxious feelings zap your energy, and the quick fixes only cause more painful struggles; distancing yourself from the problem only worsens things. There is a reason for your sadness, worry, dependency, and detachment. Reaching out for help is the courageous first step toward finding relief and a solution.
Are you feeling sad, anxious, or just not yourself? Do you overthink the past? Worry too much about the future? Reach for quick fixes that don’t work, or do you ignore the problem and tell yourself that, eventually, things will change? Your sad thoughts and anxious feelings zap your energy, and the quick fixes only cause more painful struggles; distancing yourself from the problem only worsens things. There is a reason for your sadness, worry, dependency, and detachment. Reaching out for help is the courageous first step toward finding relief and a solution.
My experience as a therapist is wide-ranging: I have worked in adult rehab, child development, college counseling, women's trauma recovery, and individual online and in-person work with teens, adults, and seniors. I currently work exclusively with adults and seniors online.
I found my way to therapy, living and working across three continents, through careers in the theatre, and in teaching at all levels up to post-graduate professional development. My clinical and life experiences have taught me the value of community and a strong, dynamic sense of self-worth.
My experience as a therapist is wide-ranging: I have worked in adult rehab, child development, college counseling, women's trauma recovery, and individual online and in-person work with teens, adults, and seniors. I currently work exclusively with adults and seniors online.
I found my way to therapy, living and working across three continents, through careers in the theatre, and in teaching at all levels up to post-graduate professional development. My clinical and life experiences have taught me the value of community and a strong, dynamic sense of self-worth.
Hi, I’m Colleen! I'm an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) that works with children, teens, and young adults who are dealing with anxiety, depression, and all the tough, confusing life stuff that can come with growing and changing. I offer a warm, supportive, and down-to-earth space where clients can be themselves, build practical coping skills, better understand their emotions, and feel more confident navigating life.
Hi, I’m Colleen! I'm an LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) that works with children, teens, and young adults who are dealing with anxiety, depression, and all the tough, confusing life stuff that can come with growing and changing. I offer a warm, supportive, and down-to-earth space where clients can be themselves, build practical coping skills, better understand their emotions, and feel more confident navigating life.
A part of yourself feels like it’s missing.
From an early age, you were creative. Your creativity was how you got through difficulties. It used to bring you joy, but not anymore.
You don’t know why you don’t create like you used to. You have intentions, but then nothing happens. Feeling frozen and blocked, you long for a way back to yourself.
You’ve been in therapy before, but your creativity wasn’t integrated into sessions. You just know that if you could return to being more creative, it would help you move through your current challenges and heal. Today, you’re searching for an art therapist because you want a change.
A part of yourself feels like it’s missing.
From an early age, you were creative. Your creativity was how you got through difficulties. It used to bring you joy, but not anymore.
You don’t know why you don’t create like you used to. You have intentions, but then nothing happens. Feeling frozen and blocked, you long for a way back to yourself.
You’ve been in therapy before, but your creativity wasn’t integrated into sessions. You just know that if you could return to being more creative, it would help you move through your current challenges and heal. Today, you’re searching for an art therapist because you want a change.
Natalie Guevara-Lehman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Let's help you live the life you imagined! Are you aware of your strengths and how sacred it is to be uniquely YOU? Do you notice the mystery of the daily experience & wish to be more capable of enjoying your relationships? I am here to help you develop the skills to lead a healthier and more satisfying life.
Let's help you live the life you imagined! Are you aware of your strengths and how sacred it is to be uniquely YOU? Do you notice the mystery of the daily experience & wish to be more capable of enjoying your relationships? I am here to help you develop the skills to lead a healthier and more satisfying life.
I love working with and specialize in helping clients who struggle with perfectionism, people pleasing, and codependency. I find that these ways of being in relationship can often be traced back to early childhood traumatic experiences of neglect, abuse and/or abandonment. Clients who cope in these ways typically believe that they are not enough in some aspect of their personhood and often compensate for their lack by being overly responsible and overly doing in many aspects of their relationships. Left unresolved, these ways of coping can lead clients to experience burn-out, anxiety and depression.
I love working with and specialize in helping clients who struggle with perfectionism, people pleasing, and codependency. I find that these ways of being in relationship can often be traced back to early childhood traumatic experiences of neglect, abuse and/or abandonment. Clients who cope in these ways typically believe that they are not enough in some aspect of their personhood and often compensate for their lack by being overly responsible and overly doing in many aspects of their relationships. Left unresolved, these ways of coping can lead clients to experience burn-out, anxiety and depression.
I’m an attachment-focused, trauma-informed, therapist who helps adults and couples heal at the root. If you’ve spent years holding everything together on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, anxious, disconnected, or “not enough” on the inside, you’re not alone. Your system has been in survival mode for a long time. And you don’t have to keep doing this on your own.
I know what it’s like to grow up with trauma, insecure attachment, self-abandonment, and the chronic feeling of not being “enough.”
My healing informs my compassion.
My training informs my clarity.
Both shape how I show up for you.
I’m an attachment-focused, trauma-informed, therapist who helps adults and couples heal at the root. If you’ve spent years holding everything together on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, anxious, disconnected, or “not enough” on the inside, you’re not alone. Your system has been in survival mode for a long time. And you don’t have to keep doing this on your own.
I know what it’s like to grow up with trauma, insecure attachment, self-abandonment, and the chronic feeling of not being “enough.”
My healing informs my compassion.
My training informs my clarity.
Both shape how I show up for you.
Grief Therapy - You’re heartbroken and devastated about your loved one’s death. Everything reminds you of them, like the places you used to go together. It’s been hard to think about anything else. Their absence makes it hard to concentrate, organize your day, and remember where you put your keys. Your friends don’t know what to say and people appear awkward around you. They constantly say, “I’m so sorry for your loss,” and you’re sick of hearing it. You feel alone and on the outside of the rest of the world. It’s hard to imagine ever feeling differently than you feel right now.
Grief Therapy - You’re heartbroken and devastated about your loved one’s death. Everything reminds you of them, like the places you used to go together. It’s been hard to think about anything else. Their absence makes it hard to concentrate, organize your day, and remember where you put your keys. Your friends don’t know what to say and people appear awkward around you. They constantly say, “I’m so sorry for your loss,” and you’re sick of hearing it. You feel alone and on the outside of the rest of the world. It’s hard to imagine ever feeling differently than you feel right now.
Dr. Riser has over 10 years of experience providing Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and various other evidence-based approaches for the treatment of mood, anxiety, and personality disorders with special interest in emotion regulation, self-harm, and suicidality. Dr. Riser is an integrative psychologist, utilizing science-based interventions while also taking a holistic, mind + body, indivualized approach to treatment. Dr. Riser earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from The Chicago Medical School/RFUMS with a concentration in psychopathology.
Dr. Riser has over 10 years of experience providing Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and various other evidence-based approaches for the treatment of mood, anxiety, and personality disorders with special interest in emotion regulation, self-harm, and suicidality. Dr. Riser is an integrative psychologist, utilizing science-based interventions while also taking a holistic, mind + body, indivualized approach to treatment. Dr. Riser earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from The Chicago Medical School/RFUMS with a concentration in psychopathology.
Are you struggling with feeling overwhelmed in balancing your career and family life? Are you a new dad dealing with stressors of parenthood? Are you feeling anxious or stressed about a new change (e.g., leaving home for college, adjusting to married life, making a career change, becoming a father, or starting retirement)? Are you wanting to be more present and engaged with the people you care about, or want to learn better ways to communicate your needs/feelings with others? My approach is to offer a warm, empathic experience while offering strategies to help improve your quality of life and reach your therapy goals.
Are you struggling with feeling overwhelmed in balancing your career and family life? Are you a new dad dealing with stressors of parenthood? Are you feeling anxious or stressed about a new change (e.g., leaving home for college, adjusting to married life, making a career change, becoming a father, or starting retirement)? Are you wanting to be more present and engaged with the people you care about, or want to learn better ways to communicate your needs/feelings with others? My approach is to offer a warm, empathic experience while offering strategies to help improve your quality of life and reach your therapy goals.
On paper, you’re successful. But in high-stakes rooms—whether pitching investors, leading a team, or negotiating deals—old patterns can take over. You shrink, over-explain, or freeze just when you need your full presence. I specialize in helping entrepreneurs and executives use EMDR therapy to move past imposter syndrome, money fears, and burnout so you can show up with clarity, steadiness, and confidence that feels natural.
On paper, you’re successful. But in high-stakes rooms—whether pitching investors, leading a team, or negotiating deals—old patterns can take over. You shrink, over-explain, or freeze just when you need your full presence. I specialize in helping entrepreneurs and executives use EMDR therapy to move past imposter syndrome, money fears, and burnout so you can show up with clarity, steadiness, and confidence that feels natural.
Suddenly, it seems like you are not able to talk to your partner anymore. You experience long stretches of time passing where you are avoiding each other, or trying to communicate but keep ending up on separate pages. Are you frustrated with your relationship, but uninterested in talking about what is NOT working? Couples therapy is not just about discussing the problems, but about making things better. It is time to get past the blame, guilt, and helplessness that has sucked all of the love out of your relationship. Instead, let's work together to build the partnership skills that will return you to love and intimacy.
Suddenly, it seems like you are not able to talk to your partner anymore. You experience long stretches of time passing where you are avoiding each other, or trying to communicate but keep ending up on separate pages. Are you frustrated with your relationship, but uninterested in talking about what is NOT working? Couples therapy is not just about discussing the problems, but about making things better. It is time to get past the blame, guilt, and helplessness that has sucked all of the love out of your relationship. Instead, let's work together to build the partnership skills that will return you to love and intimacy.
I am now accepting NEW clients! I offer counseling to individuals and couples, providing assistance in navigating difficult life events, relationship challenges, mood-related disorders, and postpartum depression or anxiety. My background includes working with a diverse client population who present with wide-ranging diagnosis and clinical complexities. In addition to providing therapy to both adults and children, I have extensive experience working with co-occurring disorders in both outpatient and inpatient settings. I am dedicated to working with my clients on identifying and achieving their goals, whatever those may be!
I am now accepting NEW clients! I offer counseling to individuals and couples, providing assistance in navigating difficult life events, relationship challenges, mood-related disorders, and postpartum depression or anxiety. My background includes working with a diverse client population who present with wide-ranging diagnosis and clinical complexities. In addition to providing therapy to both adults and children, I have extensive experience working with co-occurring disorders in both outpatient and inpatient settings. I am dedicated to working with my clients on identifying and achieving their goals, whatever those may be!
Do you struggle with heightened stress, grief and loss, low self-esteem, or maybe challenging relationships that negatively impact your day-to-day functioning? Do you experience patterns of negative thinking, or have difficulty processing your emotions, internally or externally? Do you feel frustrated or overwhelmed to maintain a "healthy" standard of living that seems unattainable?
Do you struggle with heightened stress, grief and loss, low self-esteem, or maybe challenging relationships that negatively impact your day-to-day functioning? Do you experience patterns of negative thinking, or have difficulty processing your emotions, internally or externally? Do you feel frustrated or overwhelmed to maintain a "healthy" standard of living that seems unattainable?
My clients are individuals who often carry with them unresolved feelings from either their past or present challenges. Viewing those issues from an objective and trusted practitioner is vital to the change process. Always viewing my clients with unconditional positive regard is essential to us being successful. Therapy can often be the first time someone gets to step out of the day to day of their lives. My hope is during this introspection, I can coach you in the direction you need to go, not where my training thinks you should go. While I may illuminate potential paths, you're taking the steps with me right behind you!
My clients are individuals who often carry with them unresolved feelings from either their past or present challenges. Viewing those issues from an objective and trusted practitioner is vital to the change process. Always viewing my clients with unconditional positive regard is essential to us being successful. Therapy can often be the first time someone gets to step out of the day to day of their lives. My hope is during this introspection, I can coach you in the direction you need to go, not where my training thinks you should go. While I may illuminate potential paths, you're taking the steps with me right behind you!
Grayson
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC, CGT, NCC, BC-TMH
12 Endorsed
Serves Area
Couples tell me all the time that they had a relationship that started out great, and had high hopes for the future, and now there’s more conflict, stress and overwhelm than they ever wanted. They are not sure the relationship can still work, but are willing to give counseling a try and don’t know what else to do.
Couples tell me all the time that they had a relationship that started out great, and had high hopes for the future, and now there’s more conflict, stress and overwhelm than they ever wanted. They are not sure the relationship can still work, but are willing to give counseling a try and don’t know what else to do.
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Number of Therapists in La Costa, CA
20+
Average cost per session
$190
Therapists in La Costa, CA who prioritize treating:
| 95% | Anxiety |
| 86% | Self Esteem |
| 76% | Grief |
| 71% | Relationship Issues |
| 71% | Depression |
| 71% | Stress |
| 67% | Trauma and PTSD |
Average years in practice
13 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 67% | Aetna |
| 67% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 67% | Optum |
How Therapists in La Costa, CA see their clients
| 62% | In Person and Online | |
| 38% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 76% | Female | |
| 24% | Male |
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How can I find a therapist in La Costa?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.

