Polyamory and ENM Therapists in Idyllwild, CA
I see clients throughout California via video sessions. Most of the people I work with are told they need to be different than they are. Sometimes they get that message explicitly, always they get that message in the way people treat them. Therapy with me doesn’t aim to make you different. We’ll work to help you navigate the world while being healthy and fully you. Specific issues my clients are navigating include: being neurodivergent (mostly autistic and ADHD), being transgender or outside the gender binary, being non-monogamous, or being deep in grief.
I see clients throughout California via video sessions. Most of the people I work with are told they need to be different than they are. Sometimes they get that message explicitly, always they get that message in the way people treat them. Therapy with me doesn’t aim to make you different. We’ll work to help you navigate the world while being healthy and fully you. Specific issues my clients are navigating include: being neurodivergent (mostly autistic and ADHD), being transgender or outside the gender binary, being non-monogamous, or being deep in grief.
Janeen Wilson, LMFT 43646. I am a caring professional with 23 years of experience in most life issues (adoption, family issues, addiction, codependency, recovery, moderation management) with a variety of populations including the Blind community, Native American Communities, and Kink Communities. I am a believer in Hope and pride myself in meeting the client where they are at, pacing therapy to not overwhelm the client, and creating a safe, nurturing space.
Janeen Wilson, LMFT 43646. I am a caring professional with 23 years of experience in most life issues (adoption, family issues, addiction, codependency, recovery, moderation management) with a variety of populations including the Blind community, Native American Communities, and Kink Communities. I am a believer in Hope and pride myself in meeting the client where they are at, pacing therapy to not overwhelm the client, and creating a safe, nurturing space.
Most of us are not born knowing how to navigate relationships, understand and manage our emotions or process our traumas. Many things throughout our life influence us and how we react and behave in different situations, however that doesn’t mean we can’t grow and develop as individuals. My goal is to help clients become confident in who they are through discovering their own self-worth and practicing self-compassion. We can work together to create a space where you can find the tools and support you are looking for during this period of your life.
Most of us are not born knowing how to navigate relationships, understand and manage our emotions or process our traumas. Many things throughout our life influence us and how we react and behave in different situations, however that doesn’t mean we can’t grow and develop as individuals. My goal is to help clients become confident in who they are through discovering their own self-worth and practicing self-compassion. We can work together to create a space where you can find the tools and support you are looking for during this period of your life.
You have questions about yourself that seem more pressing after watching a video in which you heard the speaker share your own experiences navigating your sexuality or gender expression through their words. The realizations about who you are and what you want have brought levels of self-doubt about how to show up in your current relationships; platonic, coworker, familial or romantic. How do you now identify, how do you express that identity? You continue to struggle with the need to love/accept yourself exactly as you are and with what the social consequences may be should you choose to express that part of yourself openly.
You have questions about yourself that seem more pressing after watching a video in which you heard the speaker share your own experiences navigating your sexuality or gender expression through their words. The realizations about who you are and what you want have brought levels of self-doubt about how to show up in your current relationships; platonic, coworker, familial or romantic. How do you now identify, how do you express that identity? You continue to struggle with the need to love/accept yourself exactly as you are and with what the social consequences may be should you choose to express that part of yourself openly.
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My approach is trauma informed, relational, and affirming of LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, perinatal, and polyamorous experiences.
You’re the one who holds it all together. The helper, the fixer, the steady one. You make life easier for everyone else, but it’s getting harder to breathe under the weight of it all.
Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or stuck in patterns of people-pleasing and over-functioning. You’ve been on autopilot so long you’re not sure who you are without the doing. You crave rest, connection, and space to be yourself again without guilt or pressure.
My approach is trauma informed, relational, and affirming of LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, perinatal, and polyamorous experiences.
You’re the one who holds it all together. The helper, the fixer, the steady one. You make life easier for everyone else, but it’s getting harder to breathe under the weight of it all.
Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or stuck in patterns of people-pleasing and over-functioning. You’ve been on autopilot so long you’re not sure who you are without the doing. You crave rest, connection, and space to be yourself again without guilt or pressure.
Welcome! I'm So Glad You're Here. I’m a Licensed Psychotherapist offering compassionate, client-centered therapy to adults (18+) across California, Hawaii, and Virginia. I provide telehealth therapy in all three states, with in-person sessions available in California. Whether you're navigating life transitions, experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, or working through issues related to self-esteem, life transition, relationships, or coping skills, you're not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
A Safe, Supportive Space to Be Your Authentic Self. I believe therapy should be a space where you feel seen, and heard.
Welcome! I'm So Glad You're Here. I’m a Licensed Psychotherapist offering compassionate, client-centered therapy to adults (18+) across California, Hawaii, and Virginia. I provide telehealth therapy in all three states, with in-person sessions available in California. Whether you're navigating life transitions, experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, or working through issues related to self-esteem, life transition, relationships, or coping skills, you're not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.
A Safe, Supportive Space to Be Your Authentic Self. I believe therapy should be a space where you feel seen, and heard.
It feels like you’re living separate lives under the same roof. He’s glued to screens from morning until night, and you feel like you're always on the back burner, waiting for his attention. You've been there for him through work stress, therapy, and trauma, but when you need support, he struggles to show up. Resentment is building. You’re tired of feeling taken for granted, and you're starting to disengage because you don't want to chase him anymore. You’re here because you want to work through the years of baggage and feel connected again.
It feels like you’re living separate lives under the same roof. He’s glued to screens from morning until night, and you feel like you're always on the back burner, waiting for his attention. You've been there for him through work stress, therapy, and trauma, but when you need support, he struggles to show up. Resentment is building. You’re tired of feeling taken for granted, and you're starting to disengage because you don't want to chase him anymore. You’re here because you want to work through the years of baggage and feel connected again.
Dr. Andrew Khalil - The Poly Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT, LPCC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
As someone who understands ENM and polyamory, I help you move through jealousy, fear, and uncertainty.
You thought opening your relationship would bring energy, closeness, and possibility. You imagined feeling more alive, more connected, and more like yourself. Instead, you find yourself carrying worries you never expected. Maybe you feel insecure when your partner sees someone new. Maybe you feel guilty for wanting more than one connection. Or maybe the two of you are stuck in loops of communication that leave you hurt, confused, and questioning the future. You want this to work, but right now it feels heavier than it should. What was supposed to be fun has become overwhelming. Something needs to change.
As someone who understands ENM and polyamory, I help you move through jealousy, fear, and uncertainty.
You thought opening your relationship would bring energy, closeness, and possibility. You imagined feeling more alive, more connected, and more like yourself. Instead, you find yourself carrying worries you never expected. Maybe you feel insecure when your partner sees someone new. Maybe you feel guilty for wanting more than one connection. Or maybe the two of you are stuck in loops of communication that leave you hurt, confused, and questioning the future. You want this to work, but right now it feels heavier than it should. What was supposed to be fun has become overwhelming. Something needs to change.
In the words of Ted Lasso: “Be curious, not judgmental.” I bring a multidisciplinary perspective to the work, with a focus on supporting individuals experiencing depression, anxiety disorders, neurodiversity, and those seeking gender-affirming care.
The journey into counseling is rooted in two core passions: a deep curiosity about the human mind and a love for meaningful collaboration. I draw from both psychoanalytic and client-centered approaches to help explore each person’s unique challenges, desires, and goals. My aim is to bring empathy, humor, and—above all—curiosity into the therapeutic space.
In the words of Ted Lasso: “Be curious, not judgmental.” I bring a multidisciplinary perspective to the work, with a focus on supporting individuals experiencing depression, anxiety disorders, neurodiversity, and those seeking gender-affirming care.
The journey into counseling is rooted in two core passions: a deep curiosity about the human mind and a love for meaningful collaboration. I draw from both psychoanalytic and client-centered approaches to help explore each person’s unique challenges, desires, and goals. My aim is to bring empathy, humor, and—above all—curiosity into the therapeutic space.
Ruby Bridges Walker is a Sex and Relationship Therapist specializing in polyamory & open relationships, kink & BDSM, queer & interracial relationships, and sexual empowerment.
I take a sex-positive approach to help my clients navigate ethical non-monogamy, sexual exploration, kink, LGBTQ issues and out of control sexual behaviors (aka sex addiction). I also help autistic / ADHD / neurodivergent adults navigate sex, dating, and everyday life in the neurotypical world.
Ruby Bridges Walker is a Sex and Relationship Therapist specializing in polyamory & open relationships, kink & BDSM, queer & interracial relationships, and sexual empowerment.
I take a sex-positive approach to help my clients navigate ethical non-monogamy, sexual exploration, kink, LGBTQ issues and out of control sexual behaviors (aka sex addiction). I also help autistic / ADHD / neurodivergent adults navigate sex, dating, and everyday life in the neurotypical world.
My ideal clients are individuals, couples, and polycules who want healthier, more fulfilling connections but feel stuck in painful patterns. Some are navigating non-monogamy, intimacy struggles, or conflicts that won’t resolve. Others are new parents adjusting to shifting roles, or individuals facing anxiety, depression, or identity concerns that affect relationships. What they all share is a desire for clarity, connection, and growth, and a willingness to do the work with support that feels affirming, practical, and nonjudgmental.
My ideal clients are individuals, couples, and polycules who want healthier, more fulfilling connections but feel stuck in painful patterns. Some are navigating non-monogamy, intimacy struggles, or conflicts that won’t resolve. Others are new parents adjusting to shifting roles, or individuals facing anxiety, depression, or identity concerns that affect relationships. What they all share is a desire for clarity, connection, and growth, and a willingness to do the work with support that feels affirming, practical, and nonjudgmental.
I offer a supportive and calm environment. I try to infuse a blend of optimism and realism to empower and motivate clients to make the most of their lives. My therapeutic orientation is eclectic and includes Humanistic, Existential, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), action-oriented, life coaching, EMDR and Biofeedback.
I offer a supportive and calm environment. I try to infuse a blend of optimism and realism to empower and motivate clients to make the most of their lives. My therapeutic orientation is eclectic and includes Humanistic, Existential, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), action-oriented, life coaching, EMDR and Biofeedback.
I help adults, couples, creatives, professionals, and high-achieving individuals struggling with anxiety, trauma, shame, relationship conflict, emotional disconnection, and major life transitions. Many of my clients appear successful externally while internally feeling overwhelmed, lonely, burned out, or stuck in painful emotional patterns.
I help adults, couples, creatives, professionals, and high-achieving individuals struggling with anxiety, trauma, shame, relationship conflict, emotional disconnection, and major life transitions. Many of my clients appear successful externally while internally feeling overwhelmed, lonely, burned out, or stuck in painful emotional patterns.
I work with individuals navigating grief, relationships, and major life transitions, with a particular interest in how trauma shapes coping, including self-critical stories and patterns of avoidance. Whether you are feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed, therapy can help you understand what is driving those patterns and develop a more compassionate relationship with your own inner life. I also work with couples, helping partners turn toward each other rather than away, building connection through curiosity rather than criticism.
I work with individuals navigating grief, relationships, and major life transitions, with a particular interest in how trauma shapes coping, including self-critical stories and patterns of avoidance. Whether you are feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed, therapy can help you understand what is driving those patterns and develop a more compassionate relationship with your own inner life. I also work with couples, helping partners turn toward each other rather than away, building connection through curiosity rather than criticism.
Are you feeling stuck under stress, anxiety, or depression? You don't have to navigate it alone. Whether you're exploring your identity, healing from outdated coping patterns, or looking to build stronger connections in your relationships, this is a place where you can feel affirmed and deeply heard. Together, we'll gently regulate your nervous system and expand your capacity to connect, heal, and grow.
Are you feeling stuck under stress, anxiety, or depression? You don't have to navigate it alone. Whether you're exploring your identity, healing from outdated coping patterns, or looking to build stronger connections in your relationships, this is a place where you can feel affirmed and deeply heard. Together, we'll gently regulate your nervous system and expand your capacity to connect, heal, and grow.
Terry L Gatewood
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT-S, SEP
Palm Springs, CA 92262
Waitlist for new clients
My Clients are adults grappling with compulsive sexual behaviors, encompassing sex addiction, porn addiction, sex offending, infidelity, and trauma. Despite feeling overwhelmed, they bravely confront their struggles, seeking healing and change. They have a genuine commitment to therapy, aiming to unravel underlying trauma and break free from destructive patterns. With empathy and evidence-based interventions, they embark on a journey of self-discovery, striving to reclaim agency over their sexuality and rebuild trust with themselves and others. Their hard work results in sexual healing and the restoration of authentic intimacy.
My Clients are adults grappling with compulsive sexual behaviors, encompassing sex addiction, porn addiction, sex offending, infidelity, and trauma. Despite feeling overwhelmed, they bravely confront their struggles, seeking healing and change. They have a genuine commitment to therapy, aiming to unravel underlying trauma and break free from destructive patterns. With empathy and evidence-based interventions, they embark on a journey of self-discovery, striving to reclaim agency over their sexuality and rebuild trust with themselves and others. Their hard work results in sexual healing and the restoration of authentic intimacy.
My approach is Consensual Non-Monogamy, Polyamory and Kink affirmative.
We don't have to go through it alone. Even when we feel stuck and overwhelmed, meaningful change is always possible. I take a solution oriented approach that applies evidence-based techniques for exploring and shifting old patterns of feeling and thinking that are getting in the way of growth. Employing curiosity and compassion, we can heal wounded parts and build new connections to your authentic self. A primary focus of my couples work is to practice new ways of communicating our needs more effectively with both our partners and ourselves. I also specialize in supporting the unique concerns and strengths of the LGBTQIA+ community.
My approach is Consensual Non-Monogamy, Polyamory and Kink affirmative.
We don't have to go through it alone. Even when we feel stuck and overwhelmed, meaningful change is always possible. I take a solution oriented approach that applies evidence-based techniques for exploring and shifting old patterns of feeling and thinking that are getting in the way of growth. Employing curiosity and compassion, we can heal wounded parts and build new connections to your authentic self. A primary focus of my couples work is to practice new ways of communicating our needs more effectively with both our partners and ourselves. I also specialize in supporting the unique concerns and strengths of the LGBTQIA+ community.
You’re the client who reads self-help books, listens to psychology podcasts, and still wonders why old patterns won’t budge. Maybe anxiety, trauma, or substance use keeps hijacking your plans. You long for relationships that feel real and a life directed by your values, not your fears. You want a therapist who gets LGBTQ+ and non-traditional relationships, honours culture, and speaks plainly. If that sounds like you, I built my virtual practice with you in mind.
You’re the client who reads self-help books, listens to psychology podcasts, and still wonders why old patterns won’t budge. Maybe anxiety, trauma, or substance use keeps hijacking your plans. You long for relationships that feel real and a life directed by your values, not your fears. You want a therapist who gets LGBTQ+ and non-traditional relationships, honours culture, and speaks plainly. If that sounds like you, I built my virtual practice with you in mind.
It has been hard to focus on you lately. You have been going, going, going, and somewhere you got lost along the way. Parts of your journey have been particularly challenging and perhaps some parts have been enjoyable too. Recent events have told you that you just need some extra support. You are here seeking a safe place to connect with a more meaningful and enjoyable life, be it for yourself or for your relationship.
It has been hard to focus on you lately. You have been going, going, going, and somewhere you got lost along the way. Parts of your journey have been particularly challenging and perhaps some parts have been enjoyable too. Recent events have told you that you just need some extra support. You are here seeking a safe place to connect with a more meaningful and enjoyable life, be it for yourself or for your relationship.
Having extensive experience treating a variety of demographics both in private practice and Residential Treatment Settings. Especially, I understand the wide range of stressors young people face in this day and age, and the resulting symptoms – for example: how peer conflict, parent-child relationship difficulties, and social media addiction can lead to anxiety, depression, panic/overwhelm, substance use, identity crisis, self-harm, etc.
Having extensive experience treating a variety of demographics both in private practice and Residential Treatment Settings. Especially, I understand the wide range of stressors young people face in this day and age, and the resulting symptoms – for example: how peer conflict, parent-child relationship difficulties, and social media addiction can lead to anxiety, depression, panic/overwhelm, substance use, identity crisis, self-harm, etc.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.