Codependency Therapists in Del Mar, CA
Are you ready to talk about it? I’m an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion for helping individuals, couples, teens (and their parents!) find the path to peace of mind. If you are not sure about therapy but sensing that something is in the way of you feeling ok, or maybe you know what the problem is but can't seem to find your way, I‘m ready with kindness, compassion and evidence-based practices to help you transform your life and relationships. I invite you to my cozy, judgment free office by the ocean (with parking!) or if you like, we can even talk as we walk along the beautiful Del Mar beach.
Are you ready to talk about it? I’m an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion for helping individuals, couples, teens (and their parents!) find the path to peace of mind. If you are not sure about therapy but sensing that something is in the way of you feeling ok, or maybe you know what the problem is but can't seem to find your way, I‘m ready with kindness, compassion and evidence-based practices to help you transform your life and relationships. I invite you to my cozy, judgment free office by the ocean (with parking!) or if you like, we can even talk as we walk along the beautiful Del Mar beach.
Are you A GUY who feels confused and clueless about how to create a deeper emotional connection with your intimate partner? Perhaps just as important, is it possible for you to do that in a way that would not sacrifice your sense of masculinity?!? Not only is it possible for you to learn how to speak the Truth of how you feel in a way that will feel masculine, but it will also become a source of personal strength that will help you build a more mature and honest relationship with yourself and with the person you love. I have specialized in working with adult men for 35 years.
Are you A GUY who feels confused and clueless about how to create a deeper emotional connection with your intimate partner? Perhaps just as important, is it possible for you to do that in a way that would not sacrifice your sense of masculinity?!? Not only is it possible for you to learn how to speak the Truth of how you feel in a way that will feel masculine, but it will also become a source of personal strength that will help you build a more mature and honest relationship with yourself and with the person you love. I have specialized in working with adult men for 35 years.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed out or sad to the point that you can't live the life you want? Do you want to feel better & have a life worth living? Personal Evolution Psychotherapy (PEP) is a team of therapists that use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, family conflict, panic, excessive worry & depression. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed out or sad to the point that you can't live the life you want? Do you want to feel better & have a life worth living? Personal Evolution Psychotherapy (PEP) is a team of therapists that use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, family conflict, panic, excessive worry & depression. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly.
I believe therapy can be a challenging and illuminating journey in which you have the chance to learn more about yourself, your approach/perspective on life, and the dynamics in important relationships. Throughout the therapy process, I view my clients through a lens of strength where common life dilemmas are seen as an opportunity to develop a stronger capacity for personal understanding and nurture deeper, more intimate relationships. Whether you are seeking support in response to relationship concerns, life transitions, addiction/recovery, or are the loved one of an addict, therapy can help identify & clarify underlying feelings & patterns of behavior.
I believe therapy can be a challenging and illuminating journey in which you have the chance to learn more about yourself, your approach/perspective on life, and the dynamics in important relationships. Throughout the therapy process, I view my clients through a lens of strength where common life dilemmas are seen as an opportunity to develop a stronger capacity for personal understanding and nurture deeper, more intimate relationships. Whether you are seeking support in response to relationship concerns, life transitions, addiction/recovery, or are the loved one of an addict, therapy can help identify & clarify underlying feelings & patterns of behavior.
Many of us would like to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life with a reduction of pain and suffering. By understanding patterns and beliefs we can then decide how want will allow us to live a life of greater satisfaction and joy. Therapy is a process of getting to understand your blind spots and then evaluating and achieving the changes you would like. Specialties: feeling stuck, anxiety, emotional regulation, stress, depression, relationship issues, loss, financial, lonely or isolated, trauma, and just not feeling like you want to be. I look forward to exploring your goals and bettering your life.
Many of us would like to live a more meaningful and fulfilling life with a reduction of pain and suffering. By understanding patterns and beliefs we can then decide how want will allow us to live a life of greater satisfaction and joy. Therapy is a process of getting to understand your blind spots and then evaluating and achieving the changes you would like. Specialties: feeling stuck, anxiety, emotional regulation, stress, depression, relationship issues, loss, financial, lonely or isolated, trauma, and just not feeling like you want to be. I look forward to exploring your goals and bettering your life.
There comes a time in our lives when we feel stuck; sometimes devastating loss can overwhelm us. It may manifest as physical symptoms, anxiety, or relationship distress. This is the moment for therapy.
There comes a time in our lives when we feel stuck; sometimes devastating loss can overwhelm us. It may manifest as physical symptoms, anxiety, or relationship distress. This is the moment for therapy.
Hi there! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with young adults navigating anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, identity exploration, and life transitions. I also enjoy working with adolescents and adults. My goal is to create a space where you feel understood, supported, and able to show up just as you are. Together, we'll better understand what's keeping you stuck, strengthen your relationships, build confidence, and help you navigate life's challenges with greater clarity and self-compassion.
Hi there! I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with young adults navigating anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, identity exploration, and life transitions. I also enjoy working with adolescents and adults. My goal is to create a space where you feel understood, supported, and able to show up just as you are. Together, we'll better understand what's keeping you stuck, strengthen your relationships, build confidence, and help you navigate life's challenges with greater clarity and self-compassion.
Do you feel disconnected from yourself or others? Have you had a life transition, trauma or adversity and you're trying to figure out how to cope? Has your sleep, mood or daily functioning been impacted? Perhaps you're struggling with anxiety, relationships, parenting/caregiving stress, low self-esteem, or addictive behaviors and feel ready to prioritize your own needs. I believe positive change is always possible! I’m a dedicated and experienced therapist committed to guiding you on a journey towards healing. I offer a safe space to process thoughts, feelings and experiences, and develop increased capacity for positive growth.
Do you feel disconnected from yourself or others? Have you had a life transition, trauma or adversity and you're trying to figure out how to cope? Has your sleep, mood or daily functioning been impacted? Perhaps you're struggling with anxiety, relationships, parenting/caregiving stress, low self-esteem, or addictive behaviors and feel ready to prioritize your own needs. I believe positive change is always possible! I’m a dedicated and experienced therapist committed to guiding you on a journey towards healing. I offer a safe space to process thoughts, feelings and experiences, and develop increased capacity for positive growth.
If you're suffering from depression, traumatic memories, anxiety, or OCD, Image Transformation Therapy (ImTT) can restore your effectiveness in the world and the balance in your life. I developed ImTT while working at Camp Pendleton Marine Base because I needed a treatment that could release the most intense pain, terror, and memories without the person having to experience the feelings or relive the memories. The result is that ImTT treatment enables a person to live without self-consciousness and fear -- spending more of their life in the "creative zone."
If you're suffering from depression, traumatic memories, anxiety, or OCD, Image Transformation Therapy (ImTT) can restore your effectiveness in the world and the balance in your life. I developed ImTT while working at Camp Pendleton Marine Base because I needed a treatment that could release the most intense pain, terror, and memories without the person having to experience the feelings or relive the memories. The result is that ImTT treatment enables a person to live without self-consciousness and fear -- spending more of their life in the "creative zone."
I am a licensed clinical psychologist and licensed marriage and family therapist. I began in this field 25+ years ago. My experience includes working in private practice (20yrs), and psychiatric inpatient and outpatient facilities. Primarily I specialize in stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, difficult life situations, and relationships. I have extensive training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness modalities. I enjoy working with humanistic psychology as well as whatever modality that apply. Support is provided in an understanding, respectful and caring office setting work toward toward your goals.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist and licensed marriage and family therapist. I began in this field 25+ years ago. My experience includes working in private practice (20yrs), and psychiatric inpatient and outpatient facilities. Primarily I specialize in stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, difficult life situations, and relationships. I have extensive training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness modalities. I enjoy working with humanistic psychology as well as whatever modality that apply. Support is provided in an understanding, respectful and caring office setting work toward toward your goals.
If you're reading this, you might be feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns that are hard to break. Maybe you’ve always been the one to keep it together, but lately, that’s felt harder to do. If you’re dealing with anxiety, perfectionism, or just feel like something is off, therapy can be a space to slow down and feel understood. Often, the ways we learned to cope, especially in childhood or after painful experiences, can make life harder over time. You may find yourself overthinking, shutting down, or being hard on yourself without fully knowing why.
If you're reading this, you might be feeling burned out, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns that are hard to break. Maybe you’ve always been the one to keep it together, but lately, that’s felt harder to do. If you’re dealing with anxiety, perfectionism, or just feel like something is off, therapy can be a space to slow down and feel understood. Often, the ways we learned to cope, especially in childhood or after painful experiences, can make life harder over time. You may find yourself overthinking, shutting down, or being hard on yourself without fully knowing why.
For individuals, I offer expertise in healing the issues of adult children of alcoholics, adult children of narcissistic parents, abuse, depression, anxiety, addiction, codependency, and coping with mental illness in a family member.
For couples, I provide proven techniques to improve communication, increase awareness and understanding, and manage differences. For parents and children, I also offer my extensive experience with providing streamlined guidance for effective and rational parenting, as well as sand play and play therapies.
For individuals, I offer expertise in healing the issues of adult children of alcoholics, adult children of narcissistic parents, abuse, depression, anxiety, addiction, codependency, and coping with mental illness in a family member.
For couples, I provide proven techniques to improve communication, increase awareness and understanding, and manage differences. For parents and children, I also offer my extensive experience with providing streamlined guidance for effective and rational parenting, as well as sand play and play therapies.
Julieann Myers-Center For Healthy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CACIII, MAC, EMDR, CSAT
Del Mar, CA 92014
There is HOPE! I believe counseling is a "product!" You should have measurable improvements in your life when you are in counseling. We provide a safe relationship where you can explore the ways you "turn against yourself" through defenses and adaptations while learning new ways to address long-standing challenges. We will identify what has NOT been working and what IS working, with the goal of practicing effective strategies to create more positive results and get more out of your life. I couple three decades of clinical practice with my intuitive and relational expertise to help you realize your goals.
There is HOPE! I believe counseling is a "product!" You should have measurable improvements in your life when you are in counseling. We provide a safe relationship where you can explore the ways you "turn against yourself" through defenses and adaptations while learning new ways to address long-standing challenges. We will identify what has NOT been working and what IS working, with the goal of practicing effective strategies to create more positive results and get more out of your life. I couple three decades of clinical practice with my intuitive and relational expertise to help you realize your goals.
I love working with married or dating couples who want to strengthen their relationship. These couples may love each other very much, but struggle with communication and often feel disconnected, frustrated, criticized, rejected, lonely, or disappointed. They yearn for more emotional and physical intimacy, yet fall into negative patterns that create more distance. They often want to rekindle their romantic spark and cultivate more playfulness, curiosity, exploration, and fun in their sexual relationship. These couples want to heal from past hurts to nurture a safe and secure bond built on trust, commitment, and mutual respect.
I love working with married or dating couples who want to strengthen their relationship. These couples may love each other very much, but struggle with communication and often feel disconnected, frustrated, criticized, rejected, lonely, or disappointed. They yearn for more emotional and physical intimacy, yet fall into negative patterns that create more distance. They often want to rekindle their romantic spark and cultivate more playfulness, curiosity, exploration, and fun in their sexual relationship. These couples want to heal from past hurts to nurture a safe and secure bond built on trust, commitment, and mutual respect.
Do you feel like your relationship is heavy with little hope of change? Like you've hit a wall, stuck in the same arguments, struggling to "get on the same page," or even figure out what that means? That exhaustion, disconnection, and cycle you are in is real. And so is the possibility of something different. You don't have to keep going in circles. Relief, clarity, and connection are possible, and you deserve all three.
Do you feel like your relationship is heavy with little hope of change? Like you've hit a wall, stuck in the same arguments, struggling to "get on the same page," or even figure out what that means? That exhaustion, disconnection, and cycle you are in is real. And so is the possibility of something different. You don't have to keep going in circles. Relief, clarity, and connection are possible, and you deserve all three.
I deeply enjoy creating therapeutic relationships which catalyze personal growth and transformation!
My clinical specialties include
1) Depression and Anxiety Disorders: By combining evidence based interventions such as CBT and DBT with a trusting therapeutic relationship, I help patients significantly decrease distressing mental health symptoms.
2) Executive Functioning Development for Teens and Young Adults: I provide neuro-educational coaching and build core-competencies to increase self-directed living. This empowers teens/young adults to better manage the demands of school and social life with newfound confidence.
I deeply enjoy creating therapeutic relationships which catalyze personal growth and transformation!
My clinical specialties include
1) Depression and Anxiety Disorders: By combining evidence based interventions such as CBT and DBT with a trusting therapeutic relationship, I help patients significantly decrease distressing mental health symptoms.
2) Executive Functioning Development for Teens and Young Adults: I provide neuro-educational coaching and build core-competencies to increase self-directed living. This empowers teens/young adults to better manage the demands of school and social life with newfound confidence.
Do you struggle with anxiety? Does your motivation seem blocked in terms of advancing your career? Would you like to improve your relationships? Are there difficult people in your life that overwhelm you? What patterns would you like to change? Gain insight on what keeps you from feeling calm and happiness. I provide evidence based therapeutic interventions individualized to you. A licensed psychologist since 2001, I am experienced in helping individuals cope with major life changes and every day stress in their busy lives.
Do you struggle with anxiety? Does your motivation seem blocked in terms of advancing your career? Would you like to improve your relationships? Are there difficult people in your life that overwhelm you? What patterns would you like to change? Gain insight on what keeps you from feeling calm and happiness. I provide evidence based therapeutic interventions individualized to you. A licensed psychologist since 2001, I am experienced in helping individuals cope with major life changes and every day stress in their busy lives.
Hi there, I’m Lucy! My name is Lucy Olsen and I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist (LMFT) based in San Diego, California working with clients statewide via Telehealth. I work with children, adolescents, adults, individuals, couples, and families specializing in anxiety, depression, and problem-solving, using Client-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help my clients make progress and start feeling better.
Hi there, I’m Lucy! My name is Lucy Olsen and I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist (LMFT) based in San Diego, California working with clients statewide via Telehealth. I work with children, adolescents, adults, individuals, couples, and families specializing in anxiety, depression, and problem-solving, using Client-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help my clients make progress and start feeling better.
It hurts every day- despite you doing the best you can to distract yourself, the minute you stop pre-occupying yourself with distractions, you connect immediately with that emotional pain inside and the emptiness and alienation. The emotional pain comes from disconnection. You don’t feel your partner is responsive and present with you. You don’t feel wanted and needed or important. When you try to address this, it doesn't go anywhere, or you end up having a fight, which makes you feel even more devastated and distant from each other. You work so hard and give so much, you are still feeling not good enough and get no acknowledgement.
It hurts every day- despite you doing the best you can to distract yourself, the minute you stop pre-occupying yourself with distractions, you connect immediately with that emotional pain inside and the emptiness and alienation. The emotional pain comes from disconnection. You don’t feel your partner is responsive and present with you. You don’t feel wanted and needed or important. When you try to address this, it doesn't go anywhere, or you end up having a fight, which makes you feel even more devastated and distant from each other. You work so hard and give so much, you are still feeling not good enough and get no acknowledgement.
Hi, I'm Denise, welcome to my practice. I support individuals who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck in the same patterns, struggling in your relationships, or just tired of being so hard on yourself. Maybe you're dealing with stress, divorce, marital struggles, career problems, transitional life changes, or things from your past that still affect you today. If any of that sounds familiar, you're in the right place. I help people feel more confident, communicate better, worry less, and start showing up for themselves in a healthier way.
Hi, I'm Denise, welcome to my practice. I support individuals who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck in the same patterns, struggling in your relationships, or just tired of being so hard on yourself. Maybe you're dealing with stress, divorce, marital struggles, career problems, transitional life changes, or things from your past that still affect you today. If any of that sounds familiar, you're in the right place. I help people feel more confident, communicate better, worry less, and start showing up for themselves in a healthier way.
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Codependency Therapists
What therapy types help with codependency problems?
Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.
What happens in therapy for codependency?
Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.
How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?
Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.
What is the goal of therapy for codependency?
One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.


