Male Therapists in Cupertino, CA

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Kyle Yamasaki MFT / Behavioral Sleep Ctr.
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
1 Endorsed
Cupertino, CA 95014
Compassionate, and Integrative. Welcome! My approach to well-being and psychological health is influenced by over 15 years of experience applying science and best practices, and is also inspired by holistic psychologies that can be described as compassionate and genuine. This experience integrates "what works", along with an emphasis on authenticity and personal growth. Goals range from reduction of symptoms, improving day-to-day functioning (work/school), or exploring and uncovering parts of our deeper selves.
Compassionate, and Integrative. Welcome! My approach to well-being and psychological health is influenced by over 15 years of experience applying science and best practices, and is also inspired by holistic psychologies that can be described as compassionate and genuine. This experience integrates "what works", along with an emphasis on authenticity and personal growth. Goals range from reduction of symptoms, improving day-to-day functioning (work/school), or exploring and uncovering parts of our deeper selves.
(408) 922-9008 View (408) 922-9008
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John Carswell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
My unique approach is that I don't just focus on your symptoms or your behaviors. I work with you to go "behind the scenes" of what lies underneath your thoughts, feelings and actions that has caused the problems you're experiencing now. My work focuses on helping you move from feeling stuck to becoming empowered to overcome personal life challenges and conflicts within yourself or with others. As a licensed clinician I bring over 20 years' experience and training that will come to bare in our work together. The goal is for you to regain control of your life that's filled with meaning and happiness.
My unique approach is that I don't just focus on your symptoms or your behaviors. I work with you to go "behind the scenes" of what lies underneath your thoughts, feelings and actions that has caused the problems you're experiencing now. My work focuses on helping you move from feeling stuck to becoming empowered to overcome personal life challenges and conflicts within yourself or with others. As a licensed clinician I bring over 20 years' experience and training that will come to bare in our work together. The goal is for you to regain control of your life that's filled with meaning and happiness.
(650) 881-6858 View (650) 881-6858
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Wen Fan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Do you feel like you can’t live your life to the fullest because of the “What ifs”? Is your anxiety holding you back from taking the actions needed to advance your career and/or relationship? Worse yet, do you feel like you should somehow just get over it because everyone else seems to be doing just that? I know those feelings well, but I won’t sit here and pretend that I know exactly how YOU are feeling. So, let’s work together to start decoding the complexity of your emotions to not just simply control it, but learn to accept it as an intricate part of yourself.
Do you feel like you can’t live your life to the fullest because of the “What ifs”? Is your anxiety holding you back from taking the actions needed to advance your career and/or relationship? Worse yet, do you feel like you should somehow just get over it because everyone else seems to be doing just that? I know those feelings well, but I won’t sit here and pretend that I know exactly how YOU are feeling. So, let’s work together to start decoding the complexity of your emotions to not just simply control it, but learn to accept it as an intricate part of yourself.
(408) 539-6631 View (408) 539-6631
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Peter Shum
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Cupertino, CA 95014
Waitlist for new clients
Our world today is full of challenges. Many stressors in life knock us off balance, and we feel overwhelmed, distressed, sometimes angry, sad and lonely. But you do not need to face the challenges alone. I am passionate to help people regain the balance by being more attuned to themselves - their identities, emotions, and physical needs. I work collaboratively with my clients to explore and identify ways to meet their goals, and provide tools and interventions as fitting. Most importantly, I walk alongside them in their journey to attain health and growth.
Our world today is full of challenges. Many stressors in life knock us off balance, and we feel overwhelmed, distressed, sometimes angry, sad and lonely. But you do not need to face the challenges alone. I am passionate to help people regain the balance by being more attuned to themselves - their identities, emotions, and physical needs. I work collaboratively with my clients to explore and identify ways to meet their goals, and provide tools and interventions as fitting. Most importantly, I walk alongside them in their journey to attain health and growth.
(408) 889-7589 View (408) 889-7589
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Chad Dispenza
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MS
Cupertino, CA 95014
Hi, I'm Chad. I work with ADULTS, COUPLES, and TEENS who feel caught in cycles of stress, anxiety, or life transitions. For adults, this might mean finding balance between career and personal life, or coping with big changes. For couples, I focus on enhancing communication, rebuilding trust, and fostering a deeper connection. And for teens, I address the unique challenges they face, from navigating identity and relationships to managing the pressures of the digital world. I offer virtual / telehealth therapy (via Zoom) all across California. I am currently accepting new clients. Let's chat.
Hi, I'm Chad. I work with ADULTS, COUPLES, and TEENS who feel caught in cycles of stress, anxiety, or life transitions. For adults, this might mean finding balance between career and personal life, or coping with big changes. For couples, I focus on enhancing communication, rebuilding trust, and fostering a deeper connection. And for teens, I address the unique challenges they face, from navigating identity and relationships to managing the pressures of the digital world. I offer virtual / telehealth therapy (via Zoom) all across California. I am currently accepting new clients. Let's chat.
(424) 799-3479 View (424) 799-3479
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Francis Abueg
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Cupertino, CA 95014
You are ready to make a big change finally and this may be your best year ever. Paradoxically, in the midst of greatest stress and suffering you reach out to therapy. After 33 years as a clinical psychologist, I have great confidence that I can partner with you to manage overwhelming pain, loss and fear. More than that, you can reawaken resilience and wisdom, and find your way to great meaning and purpose once again in your life.
You are ready to make a big change finally and this may be your best year ever. Paradoxically, in the midst of greatest stress and suffering you reach out to therapy. After 33 years as a clinical psychologist, I have great confidence that I can partner with you to manage overwhelming pain, loss and fear. More than that, you can reawaken resilience and wisdom, and find your way to great meaning and purpose once again in your life.
(408) 337-2953 View (408) 337-2953
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A Center for Growth - Peter Seimas, Ph.D.
Pastoral Counselor, PhD
Cupertino, CA 95014
Pastoral Counselor: Pastoral Marriage and Family Counselor, & Certified Conflict Resolution Mediator, Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling - Atlantic Coast Seminary, Ph.D. in Theology - Atlantic Coast Seminary, MA in Counseling Psychology Marriage and Family Therapy - University of San Francisco, MDiv - St. Patrick’s Seminary & University, BA in Business Management - San Jose State University, Clinical Pastoral Counseling Training (CPE) - Stanford University Hospital and Clinics Conflict Resolution Mediation Certification - National Conflict Resolution Center Sex Addiction Training - American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT).
Pastoral Counselor: Pastoral Marriage and Family Counselor, & Certified Conflict Resolution Mediator, Ph.D. in Pastoral Counseling - Atlantic Coast Seminary, Ph.D. in Theology - Atlantic Coast Seminary, MA in Counseling Psychology Marriage and Family Therapy - University of San Francisco, MDiv - St. Patrick’s Seminary & University, BA in Business Management - San Jose State University, Clinical Pastoral Counseling Training (CPE) - Stanford University Hospital and Clinics Conflict Resolution Mediation Certification - National Conflict Resolution Center Sex Addiction Training - American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy (AASAT).
(408) 590-5847 View (408) 590-5847
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Charles Chang
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Cupertino, CA 95014
Whether you’re an adult, teenager, or child, I help you to know more about who you are, who you want to be, and what you want to be about. I strive to help everyone find hope and healing from present challenges and past wounds so they can have more freedom to pursue their dreams and live their lives to the fullest. With children and teenagers, I help them in the challenges they face with stress, anxiety, loneliness, depression, academics, anger, friends, and identity. I help parents better understand and support their children. I provide a safe and supportive space, with empathy and understanding, and without judgment or shame.
Whether you’re an adult, teenager, or child, I help you to know more about who you are, who you want to be, and what you want to be about. I strive to help everyone find hope and healing from present challenges and past wounds so they can have more freedom to pursue their dreams and live their lives to the fullest. With children and teenagers, I help them in the challenges they face with stress, anxiety, loneliness, depression, academics, anger, friends, and identity. I help parents better understand and support their children. I provide a safe and supportive space, with empathy and understanding, and without judgment or shame.
(408) 606-2993 View (408) 606-2993
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Jeffrey Ly I Porn Addiction Relationship
Verified Verified
Online Only
If you’re silently struggling with porn addiction, you already know the emotional toll: shame, secrecy, and the frustration of breaking promises to yourself. Whether it’s Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or endless scrolling, your partner may feel hurt and disconnected. You’re likely overwhelmed by guilt and stuck in patterns you swore you’d quit. Even if you’re not in a relationship, porn may still be affecting your confidence, focus, or ability to connect. It doesn’t have to stay this way. I help men who feel stuck in this cycle break free from compulsive porn use and rebuild intimacy without shame or judgment.
If you’re silently struggling with porn addiction, you already know the emotional toll: shame, secrecy, and the frustration of breaking promises to yourself. Whether it’s Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or endless scrolling, your partner may feel hurt and disconnected. You’re likely overwhelmed by guilt and stuck in patterns you swore you’d quit. Even if you’re not in a relationship, porn may still be affecting your confidence, focus, or ability to connect. It doesn’t have to stay this way. I help men who feel stuck in this cycle break free from compulsive porn use and rebuild intimacy without shame or judgment.
(408) 542-0570 View (408) 542-0570
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Michael W. Ridgway
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Cupertino, CA 95014
My ideal client is thoughtful and high-functioning but struggling beneath the surface — often with anxiety, intrusive thoughts, burnout, or uncertainty about identity, purpose, or relationships. They may feel stuck in old patterns or overwhelmed by new transitions. What they want isn't perfection or quick fixes — they want clarity, relief, and a sense of alignment between their values and their choices. They’re ready to be honest, even if they’re unsure where to start.
My ideal client is thoughtful and high-functioning but struggling beneath the surface — often with anxiety, intrusive thoughts, burnout, or uncertainty about identity, purpose, or relationships. They may feel stuck in old patterns or overwhelmed by new transitions. What they want isn't perfection or quick fixes — they want clarity, relief, and a sense of alignment between their values and their choices. They’re ready to be honest, even if they’re unsure where to start.
(408) 617-9814 View (408) 617-9814
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Kevin Kuhlow
Verified Verified
Cupertino, CA 95014
Is alcohol or another substance holding you back? Are you a professional or executive who has found that the one thing you haven't been able to overcome is substance use? Many clinicians don't truly understand the stress and loneliness that professional success can create. My experience as a senior executive and addiction professional can help you break free and achieve your true potential. Don't let substance abuse be the one thing you haven't been able to overcome as a professional. I utilize positive counseling techniques designed to capitalize on your strengths to help you overcome substance use and achieve your potential.
Is alcohol or another substance holding you back? Are you a professional or executive who has found that the one thing you haven't been able to overcome is substance use? Many clinicians don't truly understand the stress and loneliness that professional success can create. My experience as a senior executive and addiction professional can help you break free and achieve your true potential. Don't let substance abuse be the one thing you haven't been able to overcome as a professional. I utilize positive counseling techniques designed to capitalize on your strengths to help you overcome substance use and achieve your potential.
(650) 420-4560 View (650) 420-4560
Dustin Weissman
Psychologist, PsyD
Cupertino, CA 95014
By finding my page you are already on the right track to becoming a better you! I know there are many options out there and am excited that we are this close to working together. I imagine you've had a pretty tough time recently and are looking for some help. I imagine you're ready to make a positive change. Well, you wouldn't be here, on my profile, reading this if you weren't. I praise you for your courage and making it this far. Are you looking to learn strategies to help improve your situation? We will get through this time together and help you and your loved ones live your best lives possible.
By finding my page you are already on the right track to becoming a better you! I know there are many options out there and am excited that we are this close to working together. I imagine you've had a pretty tough time recently and are looking for some help. I imagine you're ready to make a positive change. Well, you wouldn't be here, on my profile, reading this if you weren't. I praise you for your courage and making it this far. Are you looking to learn strategies to help improve your situation? We will get through this time together and help you and your loved ones live your best lives possible.
(805) 243-1388 View (805) 243-1388
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Scott Henrywestwood
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LAADC, NCAC-II, SAP, IS-E
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My goal is to provide clients with safe, effective, comprehensive, and life-changing counseling-therapy. I use both time tested and cutting-edge methods to break the cycle of poor behaviors. I never suggest to a client to do something that I have not tried myself. I assist the client to stay abstinent from negative behaviors for the long-term, stabilize mental health, and to restore relationships. I enjoy being able to guide a client through the changes they want to make on their life journey. I witness extraordinary miracles daily. Please consider allowing me to help you. direct 408 203 0964 Virtual Only - Stopped Interventions.
My goal is to provide clients with safe, effective, comprehensive, and life-changing counseling-therapy. I use both time tested and cutting-edge methods to break the cycle of poor behaviors. I never suggest to a client to do something that I have not tried myself. I assist the client to stay abstinent from negative behaviors for the long-term, stabilize mental health, and to restore relationships. I enjoy being able to guide a client through the changes they want to make on their life journey. I witness extraordinary miracles daily. Please consider allowing me to help you. direct 408 203 0964 Virtual Only - Stopped Interventions.
(408) 409-8277 View (408) 409-8277
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Junichi Shimaoka
Psychologist, PsyD
2 Endorsed
Online Only
There has been so much changes and uncertainties around us and there's a never ending pressure to produce, strive for the next accomplishment, and showcase the best and happiest versions of yourself to the world. These pressures really take a toll on us over time and you might end up feeling burned out, stuck, and not at your best. You might also be struggling with: Overwhelming demands and changes in life; Issues related to intersecting identities (queer, trans, immigrant, etc); Relationship stress with loved ones; Grief, loss, and trauma; or Unhelpful habits & inner dialogues you somehow keep repeating. I'm here for you!
There has been so much changes and uncertainties around us and there's a never ending pressure to produce, strive for the next accomplishment, and showcase the best and happiest versions of yourself to the world. These pressures really take a toll on us over time and you might end up feeling burned out, stuck, and not at your best. You might also be struggling with: Overwhelming demands and changes in life; Issues related to intersecting identities (queer, trans, immigrant, etc); Relationship stress with loved ones; Grief, loss, and trauma; or Unhelpful habits & inner dialogues you somehow keep repeating. I'm here for you!
(341) 237-4892 View (341) 237-4892
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Dexter Mai
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ABS
22 Endorsed
Online Only
When was the last time you felt TRULY happy? Are you feeling overwhelmed by life? Have past traumas left you feeling stressed and anxious? Or maybe you're on a journey to better understand yourself and find lasting happiness. If any of this resonates with you, I can help. As a Taiwanese American who immigrated to the United States at a young age, I know firsthand the struggles faced by individuals from AAPI and immigrant communities. I also recognize the unique challenges the LGBTQ+ community faces, and I'm committed to creating a safe and inclusive environment for all my clients.
When was the last time you felt TRULY happy? Are you feeling overwhelmed by life? Have past traumas left you feeling stressed and anxious? Or maybe you're on a journey to better understand yourself and find lasting happiness. If any of this resonates with you, I can help. As a Taiwanese American who immigrated to the United States at a young age, I know firsthand the struggles faced by individuals from AAPI and immigrant communities. I also recognize the unique challenges the LGBTQ+ community faces, and I'm committed to creating a safe and inclusive environment for all my clients.
(408) 478-9309 View (408) 478-9309
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Tim Holtzman
Counselor, LPCC, MS
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you tried therapy before, but still have a hard time managing your anxiety? Are you a pragmatic person who values a therapeutic approach that establishes well-defined objectives and delivers tangible outcomes? If so, you're in the right place. I use a potent style of therapy that gently guides you through a process of retraining your brain to let go of anxiety that doesn’t serve you. We’ll set clear and achievable goals from the very beginning, and track your progress every step of the way.
Have you tried therapy before, but still have a hard time managing your anxiety? Are you a pragmatic person who values a therapeutic approach that establishes well-defined objectives and delivers tangible outcomes? If so, you're in the right place. I use a potent style of therapy that gently guides you through a process of retraining your brain to let go of anxiety that doesn’t serve you. We’ll set clear and achievable goals from the very beginning, and track your progress every step of the way.
(510) 851-8367 View (510) 851-8367
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Brian J Thomason
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS (2), LMFT, CCH
Serves Area
I work with ages 8 and up. I have expertise in working with minors, parents, couples, adults, and athletes. I have extensive training in working with individuals with ADHD and attachment/relationship difficulties. My primary modalities are RTT, EFT and ACT. I am also a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist. I work a lot on the Cognitive (mind/thoughts/images/beliefs) using talk therapy as well as Cognitive-based guided meditation. Changing your current beliefs starts with an understanding of what they are and where they came from. I also offer micro intensive sessions of 2-4 hours for faster results.
I work with ages 8 and up. I have expertise in working with minors, parents, couples, adults, and athletes. I have extensive training in working with individuals with ADHD and attachment/relationship difficulties. My primary modalities are RTT, EFT and ACT. I am also a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist. I work a lot on the Cognitive (mind/thoughts/images/beliefs) using talk therapy as well as Cognitive-based guided meditation. Changing your current beliefs starts with an understanding of what they are and where they came from. I also offer micro intensive sessions of 2-4 hours for faster results.
(408) 583-6760 View (408) 583-6760
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Rickey Bates
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I have been practicing as a psychotherapist for over 7 years. My Master's in Social Work focused on Critical Race Theory and Intersectionality and how our different life experiences shape how we navigate our surroundings. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a veteran of the United States Armed Forces, some of my approaches to helping my clients identify their challenges and barriers to their identified problems.
I have been practicing as a psychotherapist for over 7 years. My Master's in Social Work focused on Critical Race Theory and Intersectionality and how our different life experiences shape how we navigate our surroundings. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a veteran of the United States Armed Forces, some of my approaches to helping my clients identify their challenges and barriers to their identified problems.
(951) 382-5373 View (951) 382-5373
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Michael Loza, LMFT #98140
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Serves Area
Life can feel overwhelming, and it’s not always easy to manage challenges alone. Whether you’re struggling with relationships, sadness, anger, stress, anxiety, or work issues, therapy can help bring clarity and direction. I provide a calm, safe space where you can openly share your thoughts and feelings, build coping skills, and move toward meaningful goals. With a supportive, unbiased, and non-judgmental approach, I work alongside you to navigate life’s changes while fostering healing, personal growth, and lasting positive change.
Life can feel overwhelming, and it’s not always easy to manage challenges alone. Whether you’re struggling with relationships, sadness, anger, stress, anxiety, or work issues, therapy can help bring clarity and direction. I provide a calm, safe space where you can openly share your thoughts and feelings, build coping skills, and move toward meaningful goals. With a supportive, unbiased, and non-judgmental approach, I work alongside you to navigate life’s changes while fostering healing, personal growth, and lasting positive change.
(559) 785-0671 View (559) 785-0671
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Luis Abbott
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has experience in the field of eating disorders at the partial hospitalization and intensive outpatient levels. I am specialized and trained in various trauma work modalities, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Trauma Focused-Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). Prior to specializing in eating disorder treatment, I worked in community mental health in the Juvenile Justice Department, working with children and teenagers in the Juvenile Probation and Social Services Department.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has experience in the field of eating disorders at the partial hospitalization and intensive outpatient levels. I am specialized and trained in various trauma work modalities, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Trauma Focused-Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT). Prior to specializing in eating disorder treatment, I worked in community mental health in the Juvenile Justice Department, working with children and teenagers in the Juvenile Probation and Social Services Department.
(323) 370-4853 View (323) 370-4853

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Male Therapists

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.