Adoption Therapists in Carlsbad, CA

Josh Beckman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
As an adoptee, my clinical focus is working through the lifelong traumatic impact of adoption, abandonment or relinquishment and process unmet childhood emotional needs.
I work with all members of the adoption triad and those who struggle with feelings of abandonment and feelings of disconnection. I have experience treating addiction, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, and finding relief from overwhelming psychological trauma. I use an integrative approach of psychotherapy attuned to the mind body connection.
As an adoptee, my clinical focus is working through the lifelong traumatic impact of adoption, abandonment or relinquishment and process unmet childhood emotional needs.
I work with all members of the adoption triad and those who struggle with feelings of abandonment and feelings of disconnection. I have experience treating addiction, depression, anxiety, relationship problems, and finding relief from overwhelming psychological trauma. I use an integrative approach of psychotherapy attuned to the mind body connection.
(760) 334-5619 View (760) 334-5619
Aurora J Romans
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Carlsbad, CA 92008
I have nearly two decades of experience treating depression, anxiety, substance abuse/co-occurring disorders, Trauma/CPTSD, foster care/ adoption, relational and family issues including high conflict divorce, coparenting and custody.
Life can be hectic and stressful- relationship issues, childhood trauma, depression and anxiety can make things seem unbearable at times. I believe we all have the capacity to heal ourselves with the right guidance and support. Being a therapist is a calling and a gift- it is my purpose to help those around me find their inner strength and take the steps to live their absolute best life! Creating a welcoming and inclusive environment is of utmost importance to me- I want to ensure that all of my clients feel that they belong and are seen, heard and valued for exactly who they are.
I have nearly two decades of experience treating depression, anxiety, substance abuse/co-occurring disorders, Trauma/CPTSD, foster care/ adoption, relational and family issues including high conflict divorce, coparenting and custody.
Life can be hectic and stressful- relationship issues, childhood trauma, depression and anxiety can make things seem unbearable at times. I believe we all have the capacity to heal ourselves with the right guidance and support. Being a therapist is a calling and a gift- it is my purpose to help those around me find their inner strength and take the steps to live their absolute best life! Creating a welcoming and inclusive environment is of utmost importance to me- I want to ensure that all of my clients feel that they belong and are seen, heard and valued for exactly who they are.
(760) 239-5187 View (760) 239-5187
Debra Schmid
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Trauma, attachment wounds, and anxiety can shape the way you see yourself and the world, making it difficult to feel safe, connected, or at peace. You may find yourself stuck in patterns of self-doubt, fear, or emotional distress, unsure of how to break free. Since earning my LMFT degree from the University of La Verne in 2006, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals heal from these struggles, driven by a deep passion for supporting others through life’s challenges. Therapy offers a space to process past experiences, rebuild trust in yourself, and develop the tools to move forward with confidence.
Trauma, attachment wounds, and anxiety can shape the way you see yourself and the world, making it difficult to feel safe, connected, or at peace. You may find yourself stuck in patterns of self-doubt, fear, or emotional distress, unsure of how to break free. Since earning my LMFT degree from the University of La Verne in 2006, I have dedicated my career to helping individuals heal from these struggles, driven by a deep passion for supporting others through life’s challenges. Therapy offers a space to process past experiences, rebuild trust in yourself, and develop the tools to move forward with confidence.
(760) 760-2150 View (760) 760-2150
Tyler Swycinsky
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPCC
3 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92011
Are you in a stage of life that’s filled with change? You may be starting your career or transitioning out of college and wondering “What’s next?” Maybe you’re trying to figure out who you really are, untangling what you’ve been told all your life from what’s truly important to you. It feels like there are more questions than answers, and you’re tired of this anxiety, overwhelm, or lack of motivation holding you back. You have ambitions and goals for your life, relationships, and career, but can’t seem to get out of this rut on your own. You’re ready to make a change.
Are you in a stage of life that’s filled with change? You may be starting your career or transitioning out of college and wondering “What’s next?” Maybe you’re trying to figure out who you really are, untangling what you’ve been told all your life from what’s truly important to you. It feels like there are more questions than answers, and you’re tired of this anxiety, overwhelm, or lack of motivation holding you back. You have ambitions and goals for your life, relationships, and career, but can’t seem to get out of this rut on your own. You’re ready to make a change.
(916) 269-5734 View (916) 269-5734
Meghan DeWees
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I believe that therapy is a unique opportunity for each person to explore the nuances of their inner world and build awareness around the patterns that inform how they navigate the outer world. I am here to support you in discovering how therapy can impact and improve your life from day to day.
I believe that therapy is a unique opportunity for each person to explore the nuances of their inner world and build awareness around the patterns that inform how they navigate the outer world. I am here to support you in discovering how therapy can impact and improve your life from day to day.
(626) 317-8216 View (626) 317-8216
Jt Tomy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Carlsbad, CA 92011
I work with individuals and couples of diverse backgrounds, and have advanced training and experience in parenting, adoption, and aging/geriatric issues.
Life can give us challenges that can feel overwhelming. Reaching out for help can be the most difficult step. If you are struggling, I can help. My name is JT Tomy and I work with individuals and couples to promote healing, positive change and personal growth. I provide a nonjudgmental, warm, caring, and safe atmosphere combined with a kind, compassionate and direct approach. I can help you address challenges, manage difficult emotions and make lasting changes in your life and relationships. My goal is to help you find your path through the difficulties life can bring and toward a more fulfilling life.
I work with individuals and couples of diverse backgrounds, and have advanced training and experience in parenting, adoption, and aging/geriatric issues.
Life can give us challenges that can feel overwhelming. Reaching out for help can be the most difficult step. If you are struggling, I can help. My name is JT Tomy and I work with individuals and couples to promote healing, positive change and personal growth. I provide a nonjudgmental, warm, caring, and safe atmosphere combined with a kind, compassionate and direct approach. I can help you address challenges, manage difficult emotions and make lasting changes in your life and relationships. My goal is to help you find your path through the difficulties life can bring and toward a more fulfilling life.
(707) 450-1651 View (707) 450-1651
Michelle North
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Your present circumstances don't determine where you go; they merely determine where you start. -Nido Qubein I take a whole person and collaborative approach to therapy, catering therapy to the individual sitting in front of me. My specialties are in the field of grief and loss. Grief is not just bereavement, it is also the loss of a job, a relationship or a dream.
Your present circumstances don't determine where you go; they merely determine where you start. -Nido Qubein I take a whole person and collaborative approach to therapy, catering therapy to the individual sitting in front of me. My specialties are in the field of grief and loss. Grief is not just bereavement, it is also the loss of a job, a relationship or a dream.
(760) 428-1876 View (760) 428-1876
Deborah (Debi) Fieri
Associate Clinical Social Worker, ACSW
4 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
I meet each client where they are with empathy, active listening and support for life's challenges. I partner with adult and adolescent clients who are coping with life transitions, trauma, women's issues, parenting challenges, grief & loss as well as anxiety and depression. My clients are frequently seeking healing from trauma, working toward emotional regulation in everyday life, or desiring guidance or life coaching. If requested by clients, I can include biblical ideals, scripture, meditation & prayer in my sessions. I am here to assist you with tools for coping with your struggles and pain.
I meet each client where they are with empathy, active listening and support for life's challenges. I partner with adult and adolescent clients who are coping with life transitions, trauma, women's issues, parenting challenges, grief & loss as well as anxiety and depression. My clients are frequently seeking healing from trauma, working toward emotional regulation in everyday life, or desiring guidance or life coaching. If requested by clients, I can include biblical ideals, scripture, meditation & prayer in my sessions. I am here to assist you with tools for coping with your struggles and pain.
(442) 261-5763 View (442) 261-5763
Meghan Musfeldt
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, ACSW
Carlsbad, CA 92008
I’m Meg, a therapist with many years of experience helping adolescents, young adults, and their families navigate the complexities of life. My goal is to create a space where clients can process their experiences, heal, and grow in ways that feel empowering and transformative. I take a no-nonsense approach to therapy—what you see is what you get. I’m known for being straightforward, and my directness comes from a place of deep compassion and respect for the people I work with. I believe that honesty and clarity are essential in therapy, and I’m here to help you face difficult truths in a way that fosters growth and healing.
I’m Meg, a therapist with many years of experience helping adolescents, young adults, and their families navigate the complexities of life. My goal is to create a space where clients can process their experiences, heal, and grow in ways that feel empowering and transformative. I take a no-nonsense approach to therapy—what you see is what you get. I’m known for being straightforward, and my directness comes from a place of deep compassion and respect for the people I work with. I believe that honesty and clarity are essential in therapy, and I’m here to help you face difficult truths in a way that fosters growth and healing.
(442) 250-1902 View (442) 250-1902
Jessica Oye-Trautloff
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
1 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
Dr. Oye-Trautloff is a Licensed Psychologist at JOT Psychology Inc. She earned her Psy.D. in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology in San Diego. Her training includes working in residential and outpatient settings with individuals who have culturally diverse backgrounds and various clinical presentations. She furthered her training experience in the administration of neurocognitive and psychological assessments for diagnostic clarification of mood disorders, learning disabilities, cognitive impairment, and personality disorders.
Dr. Oye-Trautloff is a Licensed Psychologist at JOT Psychology Inc. She earned her Psy.D. in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology in San Diego. Her training includes working in residential and outpatient settings with individuals who have culturally diverse backgrounds and various clinical presentations. She furthered her training experience in the administration of neurocognitive and psychological assessments for diagnostic clarification of mood disorders, learning disabilities, cognitive impairment, and personality disorders.
(619) 955-1316 View (619) 955-1316
Trish Eileen Vernazza
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR-BC
Carlsbad, CA 92008
Trish Vernazza, M.A. is an experienced, caring professional who can assist you in achieving a fully integrated life by focusing on your strengths and potential. Achieving a healthy and positive balance in our lives is the key to understanding our own mental, emotional, spiritual, physical health along with personal relationships. My goal is to provide a safe, supportive, confidential environment while assisting you to experience, identify and understand the personal barriers which are getting in your way. Working with many clients of many ethnic and culture backgrounds and alternative lifestyles I provide a environment that helps develop personal insight.
Trish Vernazza, M.A. is an experienced, caring professional who can assist you in achieving a fully integrated life by focusing on your strengths and potential. Achieving a healthy and positive balance in our lives is the key to understanding our own mental, emotional, spiritual, physical health along with personal relationships. My goal is to provide a safe, supportive, confidential environment while assisting you to experience, identify and understand the personal barriers which are getting in your way. Working with many clients of many ethnic and culture backgrounds and alternative lifestyles I provide a environment that helps develop personal insight.
(760) 684-8302 View (760) 684-8302
Kaley Berlin, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC
Online Only
Most people come to therapy wanting one thing: to finally feel deeply seen. That’s exactly what I’m here for. I’m a therapist who leads with compassion, validation, and even a little humor when the moment calls for it. Whether you’re carrying grief, processing trauma, navigating relational pain, or simply needing a place to breathe and sort through the noise, I’ll meet you there. Together, we’ll move through the hard stuff.
Most people come to therapy wanting one thing: to finally feel deeply seen. That’s exactly what I’m here for. I’m a therapist who leads with compassion, validation, and even a little humor when the moment calls for it. Whether you’re carrying grief, processing trauma, navigating relational pain, or simply needing a place to breathe and sort through the noise, I’ll meet you there. Together, we’ll move through the hard stuff.
(510) 455-7036 View (510) 455-7036
Joann Carter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Welcome to a safe place to start your therapy journey. You are the main character in the story—the expert on your own life & the one who has to do the heavy lifting, but sometimes we all could use some support, some shoring up if you will, & a guide to help us find our way, discover new possibilities, & change direction. I specialize in working with individuals navigating life transitions, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma. I take a client-centered, collaborative approach to therapy, tailoring each session to your unique needs & goals. I'd like to help navigate the way to a healthier you & would be honored to hear your story.
Welcome to a safe place to start your therapy journey. You are the main character in the story—the expert on your own life & the one who has to do the heavy lifting, but sometimes we all could use some support, some shoring up if you will, & a guide to help us find our way, discover new possibilities, & change direction. I specialize in working with individuals navigating life transitions, anxiety, depression, grief and trauma. I take a client-centered, collaborative approach to therapy, tailoring each session to your unique needs & goals. I'd like to help navigate the way to a healthier you & would be honored to hear your story.
(442) 233-8466 View (442) 233-8466
Lisa O'Connor-Riddle
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in San Diego, California, and have been in the mental health field for 25 years. Life can be filled with struggles, emotional pain, and unexpected challenges. On an average day, it can be difficult to navigate and on overwhelming days, we can be left feeling hopeless, helpless, and stuck. Please believe me that there is hope! Old wounds can be healed, unhealthy patterns can be changed and life can be fulfilling.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in San Diego, California, and have been in the mental health field for 25 years. Life can be filled with struggles, emotional pain, and unexpected challenges. On an average day, it can be difficult to navigate and on overwhelming days, we can be left feeling hopeless, helpless, and stuck. Please believe me that there is hope! Old wounds can be healed, unhealthy patterns can be changed and life can be fulfilling.
(424) 788-1376 View (424) 788-1376
Kaitlyn Nelson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACP-EFT, CYT-200
1 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92009
My aim is to guide you deep within yourself, helping you get to know all your parts - their fears, needs, and desires. I work with teens and adults who are ready to reconnect with their inner wisdom, move beyond old stories, and live with more peace, clarity, and purpose. You may be navigating anxiety, grief, trauma, or disconnection in your relationships, but deep down, you’re ready to take responsibility for your growth. You are ready to live with more inner peace and self-worth. I work best with thoughtful, growth-oriented clients who value self-reflection, accountability, and meaningful change.
My aim is to guide you deep within yourself, helping you get to know all your parts - their fears, needs, and desires. I work with teens and adults who are ready to reconnect with their inner wisdom, move beyond old stories, and live with more peace, clarity, and purpose. You may be navigating anxiety, grief, trauma, or disconnection in your relationships, but deep down, you’re ready to take responsibility for your growth. You are ready to live with more inner peace and self-worth. I work best with thoughtful, growth-oriented clients who value self-reflection, accountability, and meaningful change.
(442) 219-8087 View (442) 219-8087
A Guided Journey Counseling (Glenn L. Farr)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, Individ, Relatio, Family
1 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
Hi, do you want deeper peace, acceptance, love & joy for yourself, your relationships, and your family? Providing you with tools, perspective, and support is one of the most rewarding aspects of life for me. My name's Glenn and thank you for visiting my profile. I can't wait for you to turn life's challenges from stumbling blocks into stepping stones to a much better life than you ever thought possible. I look forward to our meeting, until then, take care. Your journey to a better life awaits. Call for a free phone consultation: 442-888-0873. Glenn Farr
Hi, do you want deeper peace, acceptance, love & joy for yourself, your relationships, and your family? Providing you with tools, perspective, and support is one of the most rewarding aspects of life for me. My name's Glenn and thank you for visiting my profile. I can't wait for you to turn life's challenges from stumbling blocks into stepping stones to a much better life than you ever thought possible. I look forward to our meeting, until then, take care. Your journey to a better life awaits. Call for a free phone consultation: 442-888-0873. Glenn Farr
(442) 244-9159 View (442) 244-9159
Kendra Claire Wilhelm
Marriage & Family Therapist, BS, MA, LMFT
4 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
You may understand your patterns and still feel stuck in them, especially in relationships. Many of the brave individuals I work with struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or relationships that leave them feeling disconnected or unsure of themselves. Some notice patterns around self-worth, body image, or a strong inner critic, while others feel the impact of past experiences or trauma. Often, one part understands what’s happening while another feels overwhelmed or reactive. They’re not looking for quick fixes, but for something that helps things truly shift toward a deeper sense of wholeness in mind, body, heart, and soul.
You may understand your patterns and still feel stuck in them, especially in relationships. Many of the brave individuals I work with struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or relationships that leave them feeling disconnected or unsure of themselves. Some notice patterns around self-worth, body image, or a strong inner critic, while others feel the impact of past experiences or trauma. Often, one part understands what’s happening while another feels overwhelmed or reactive. They’re not looking for quick fixes, but for something that helps things truly shift toward a deeper sense of wholeness in mind, body, heart, and soul.
(619) 367-8413 View (619) 367-8413
Jordan Murray
Pre-Licensed Professional, AMFT
Online Only
Hello! I'm Jordan, an AMFT 148250, supervised by Jessica Anderson, LCSW 61295. I provide a warm, collaborative space to help you navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, or life transitions. My approach integrates Depth and Archetypal Psychology with insight-oriented therapy and somatic awareness, helping you understand emotional patterns and build resilience. I am dedicated to offering compassionate, nonjudgmental support as you work toward your personal goals and a more fulfilling life.
Hello! I'm Jordan, an AMFT 148250, supervised by Jessica Anderson, LCSW 61295. I provide a warm, collaborative space to help you navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, or life transitions. My approach integrates Depth and Archetypal Psychology with insight-oriented therapy and somatic awareness, helping you understand emotional patterns and build resilience. I am dedicated to offering compassionate, nonjudgmental support as you work toward your personal goals and a more fulfilling life.
(442) 245-5963 View (442) 245-5963
Dr. Cynthia Chapman
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
2 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
Maybe you’ve been holding it together for everyone else,but inside you’re anxious, exhausted, or constantly second-guessing yourself. Therapy doesn’t have to be a place where you just vent. Together we’ll identify what’s keeping you stuck With 26 years of experience, I use Cognitive Behavioral, Internal Family Systems, Psychodynamic, Strengths-Based Therapy, Mindfulness, and Self-Compassion techniques to help you gain clarity, confidence, and emotional balance. Whether you're healing from past wounds or breaking free from negative thought patterns, I’m here to help. Together, we’ll create a path toward lasting emotional well-being.
Maybe you’ve been holding it together for everyone else,but inside you’re anxious, exhausted, or constantly second-guessing yourself. Therapy doesn’t have to be a place where you just vent. Together we’ll identify what’s keeping you stuck With 26 years of experience, I use Cognitive Behavioral, Internal Family Systems, Psychodynamic, Strengths-Based Therapy, Mindfulness, and Self-Compassion techniques to help you gain clarity, confidence, and emotional balance. Whether you're healing from past wounds or breaking free from negative thought patterns, I’m here to help. Together, we’ll create a path toward lasting emotional well-being.
(858) 352-7455 View (858) 352-7455
Cindy Bollman
Psychologist, PhD
Carlsbad, CA 92008
If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, or relationship issues, it is important to find a therapist with whom you feel safe and comfortable....a good fit for you. I have been in practice for over 30 years with an emphasis on early trauma and its effects on daily living. However, life can throw out curveballs and may have nothing to do with earlier childhood experiences. My approach is to get to the problem, agree on the goals, and work collaboratively to live in the solution. I focus on the “here and now” and welcome feedback along the way, positive and negative!
If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, or relationship issues, it is important to find a therapist with whom you feel safe and comfortable....a good fit for you. I have been in practice for over 30 years with an emphasis on early trauma and its effects on daily living. However, life can throw out curveballs and may have nothing to do with earlier childhood experiences. My approach is to get to the problem, agree on the goals, and work collaboratively to live in the solution. I focus on the “here and now” and welcome feedback along the way, positive and negative!
(760) 637-5006 View (760) 637-5006

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Adoption Therapists
Does my adopted child need therapy?
Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?
Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?
Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?
A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.