Divorce Therapists in Bonita, CA
Therapy shouldn't be a one-size-fits-all approach. We each approach life and all that life has to offer in different ways that highlight the diversity of the human experience. Sometimes we need a little help discovering what that looks like for us.
Therapy shouldn't be a one-size-fits-all approach. We each approach life and all that life has to offer in different ways that highlight the diversity of the human experience. Sometimes we need a little help discovering what that looks like for us.
Deciding to come to therapy can be a difficult decision. To enter a successful therapeutic relationship you have to find the right therapist for you. I offer you a safe, caring, and nurturing environment. I was born and raised in Mexico, and greatly embrace my bi-cultural experience. Throughout my years of practice, I have helped people with a wide variety of psychological and relationship problems to create positive changes in your life.
Deciding to come to therapy can be a difficult decision. To enter a successful therapeutic relationship you have to find the right therapist for you. I offer you a safe, caring, and nurturing environment. I was born and raised in Mexico, and greatly embrace my bi-cultural experience. Throughout my years of practice, I have helped people with a wide variety of psychological and relationship problems to create positive changes in your life.
I am a licensed therapist with 18 years of clinical experience in the field working with individuals, couples, and groups. I use a client-centered, solution-focused approach to assist clients in their healing. I commit to creating a comfortable, safe, and non-judgmental space for you to discuss what burdens you. It is my goal to help you understand your symptoms of anxiety, panic, trauma, depression, and grief; so that you may experience your best life. I will assist you through clinical mental health and substance use issues, as well as everyday life transitions.
I am a licensed therapist with 18 years of clinical experience in the field working with individuals, couples, and groups. I use a client-centered, solution-focused approach to assist clients in their healing. I commit to creating a comfortable, safe, and non-judgmental space for you to discuss what burdens you. It is my goal to help you understand your symptoms of anxiety, panic, trauma, depression, and grief; so that you may experience your best life. I will assist you through clinical mental health and substance use issues, as well as everyday life transitions.
Hello, I’m Tracy Gardinera, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in San Diego. While I’m local to the area, I also work with clients across the state through telehealth. I’ve spent most of my career supporting both adults and adolescents, offering a compassionate and accepting space. My approach integrates solution-focused therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help clients navigate their challenges effectively. I’m so glad you’ve found me!
Hello, I’m Tracy Gardinera, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in San Diego. While I’m local to the area, I also work with clients across the state through telehealth. I’ve spent most of my career supporting both adults and adolescents, offering a compassionate and accepting space. My approach integrates solution-focused therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help clients navigate their challenges effectively. I’m so glad you’ve found me!
To give you the tools to resolve your life challenges/problems is one of my goals. I can help you to find and expand your internal resources, and to create the lasting, positive changes that you are looking for. I provide a supportive, nurturing environment for your safety and comfort. I specialize in depression, anxiety, stress, relationship issues, trauma and more. I love working with adolescents to help them resolve issues and make the right choices. For couples, we work to create a safe space, good communication, problem solving, balance, love and intimacy. I have ample experience working with spiritual issues upon request.
To give you the tools to resolve your life challenges/problems is one of my goals. I can help you to find and expand your internal resources, and to create the lasting, positive changes that you are looking for. I provide a supportive, nurturing environment for your safety and comfort. I specialize in depression, anxiety, stress, relationship issues, trauma and more. I love working with adolescents to help them resolve issues and make the right choices. For couples, we work to create a safe space, good communication, problem solving, balance, love and intimacy. I have ample experience working with spiritual issues upon request.
I am an LCSW in California. I grew up in Brazil and moved to California to pursue my career as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I truly believe that due to life challenges, stressful jobs, careers, and busy lifestyles, it's very easy to dismiss our inner voice. That is the voice that wants to be heard, tell us about our emotions and hurdles. Allowing your inner voice to be heard will empower you to embrace the beautiful journey of self-discovery. I am here to assist you in creating goals, adjusting to a new life or career, and managing depression and anxiety in challenging times.
I am an LCSW in California. I grew up in Brazil and moved to California to pursue my career as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I truly believe that due to life challenges, stressful jobs, careers, and busy lifestyles, it's very easy to dismiss our inner voice. That is the voice that wants to be heard, tell us about our emotions and hurdles. Allowing your inner voice to be heard will empower you to embrace the beautiful journey of self-discovery. I am here to assist you in creating goals, adjusting to a new life or career, and managing depression and anxiety in challenging times.
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Whether you are deciding whether to stay or go in your marriage, navigating the painful road of divorce, or struggling to put the pieces together after trauma or grief, I can help you heal your wounds, rediscover your worth, and find hope in your future so you can turn the page and write a beautiful new chapter.
I specialize in working with people who are navigating the painful, confusing path of divorce but want it to culminate with strength, peace, & ultimately JOY. I’ll help you save time, money, & emotional stress during the divorce process so when you’re done you have no regrets, believe in yourself, & feel confident that you can cultivate the best new chapter.
Whether you are deciding whether to stay or go in your marriage, navigating the painful road of divorce, or struggling to put the pieces together after trauma or grief, I can help you heal your wounds, rediscover your worth, and find hope in your future so you can turn the page and write a beautiful new chapter.
I specialize in working with people who are navigating the painful, confusing path of divorce but want it to culminate with strength, peace, & ultimately JOY. I’ll help you save time, money, & emotional stress during the divorce process so when you’re done you have no regrets, believe in yourself, & feel confident that you can cultivate the best new chapter.
As a therapist, I aim to help clients build healthy relationships with themselves and others by promoting authenticity, empathy, self-love, boundaries, and awareness to facilitate positive, lasting change. I focus on establishing a natural and accepting setting where clients can freely express themselves, and work through their challenges, insecurities, and fears while feeling safe and accepted. I use a combination of evidence-based practices, modalities, and interventions customized to each client's specific needs.
As a therapist, I aim to help clients build healthy relationships with themselves and others by promoting authenticity, empathy, self-love, boundaries, and awareness to facilitate positive, lasting change. I focus on establishing a natural and accepting setting where clients can freely express themselves, and work through their challenges, insecurities, and fears while feeling safe and accepted. I use a combination of evidence-based practices, modalities, and interventions customized to each client's specific needs.
I use an eclectic approach to working with my clients in a holistic way. It’s important for me to meet my clients where they are and figure out how we want to move forward together in our sessions. How we think about our challenges in life has a strong impact on how we respond to them.
I use an eclectic approach to working with my clients in a holistic way. It’s important for me to meet my clients where they are and figure out how we want to move forward together in our sessions. How we think about our challenges in life has a strong impact on how we respond to them.
I can help with divorce, transition, pre-college counseling, experiences with bullying , school drama, children with trauma, military families pre-and post deployment adjustments counseling, middle school adjustment, coping with cyber bullying, self harming behaviors, eating disorders, sibling mediation, school motivational behavioral and academic issues.
Hello, my name is Kassandra Estrella and I am a bilingual Associate Marriage and Family Therapist. I specialize in supporting children, teens, young adults, and families through life’s challenges. I am also experienced and enjoy working with military/veteran and first responder families. My focus areas include anxiety, depression, and trauma, where I aim to provide effective strategies to help my clients regain balance and peace of mind. My approach is rooted in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), both of which are powerful tools for managing stressors and cultivating a meaningful life.
I can help with divorce, transition, pre-college counseling, experiences with bullying , school drama, children with trauma, military families pre-and post deployment adjustments counseling, middle school adjustment, coping with cyber bullying, self harming behaviors, eating disorders, sibling mediation, school motivational behavioral and academic issues.
Hello, my name is Kassandra Estrella and I am a bilingual Associate Marriage and Family Therapist. I specialize in supporting children, teens, young adults, and families through life’s challenges. I am also experienced and enjoy working with military/veteran and first responder families. My focus areas include anxiety, depression, and trauma, where I aim to provide effective strategies to help my clients regain balance and peace of mind. My approach is rooted in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), both of which are powerful tools for managing stressors and cultivating a meaningful life.
Hi, I’m Patricia Navarro, a bilingual (Spanish/English) therapist with over 40 years of experience helping individuals, couples, families, and children. I specialize in supporting people through challenges like anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, and work stress. I’m certified in grief counseling, trained in mindfulness, and use different approaches to meet your unique needs. My style is warm, collaborative, and focused on helping you feel heard, supported, and empowered.
Hi, I’m Patricia Navarro, a bilingual (Spanish/English) therapist with over 40 years of experience helping individuals, couples, families, and children. I specialize in supporting people through challenges like anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, and work stress. I’m certified in grief counseling, trained in mindfulness, and use different approaches to meet your unique needs. My style is warm, collaborative, and focused on helping you feel heard, supported, and empowered.
Treatment specialization includes: Abuse & Trauma Recovery, EMDR (EMDRIA Certified), EMDR with Children & Adolescents, Registered Play Therapist, Therapy for Depression, Anxiety & Mood disorders, Grief & Loss Counseling, Blended Families & Divorce, Child Custody Evaluations, Parent Mediation, Co-parenting Facilitation & Reunification Therapy.
With compassion and understanding, I work with each individual to help them build on strengths and attain the personal growth they desire. Whether you have lost hope, have recently been betrayed or are dealing with deep wounds from childhood, my engaging and integrated style of therapy will help guide you on the journey to healing.
Treatment specialization includes: Abuse & Trauma Recovery, EMDR (EMDRIA Certified), EMDR with Children & Adolescents, Registered Play Therapist, Therapy for Depression, Anxiety & Mood disorders, Grief & Loss Counseling, Blended Families & Divorce, Child Custody Evaluations, Parent Mediation, Co-parenting Facilitation & Reunification Therapy.
With compassion and understanding, I work with each individual to help them build on strengths and attain the personal growth they desire. Whether you have lost hope, have recently been betrayed or are dealing with deep wounds from childhood, my engaging and integrated style of therapy will help guide you on the journey to healing.
Hi there, I'm Peterkai! My passion is helping people overcome self-limiting thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families using a strengths-based, collaborative approach.
Hi there, I'm Peterkai! My passion is helping people overcome self-limiting thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families using a strengths-based, collaborative approach.
Clients come to me depressed, grief stricken, or at a loss for where to proceed in life. Faulty thinking can block the ability to realize new options for new behaviors. Training, and wisdom from life experiences allow me to help guide my clients to their best outcomes. I personalize treatment to help you find your purpose. I work with trauma survivors, the disabled, life crises and transitions, hospice care, death, and chronic anxiety. I specialize in compassionate adult children's family interactions with boundaries and I support artists through their creative struggles providing the foundation for strength and future challenges.
Clients come to me depressed, grief stricken, or at a loss for where to proceed in life. Faulty thinking can block the ability to realize new options for new behaviors. Training, and wisdom from life experiences allow me to help guide my clients to their best outcomes. I personalize treatment to help you find your purpose. I work with trauma survivors, the disabled, life crises and transitions, hospice care, death, and chronic anxiety. I specialize in compassionate adult children's family interactions with boundaries and I support artists through their creative struggles providing the foundation for strength and future challenges.
When your child is struggling with big emotions, challenging behaviors, or difficult life experiences, it can leave you feeling unsure, exhausted, and worried about what to do next. You may have tried different strategies, but things still feel stuck and the tension at home continues to build. If this sounds familiar, I want you to know you are not alone.
In our work together, your child will have a safe and supportive space to explore emotions, process experiences, and build coping skills in a way that feels natural and comfortable.
When your child is struggling with big emotions, challenging behaviors, or difficult life experiences, it can leave you feeling unsure, exhausted, and worried about what to do next. You may have tried different strategies, but things still feel stuck and the tension at home continues to build. If this sounds familiar, I want you to know you are not alone.
In our work together, your child will have a safe and supportive space to explore emotions, process experiences, and build coping skills in a way that feels natural and comfortable.
I utilize these specialized trainings in both play therapy and trauma resolution to resolve concerns such as: family stress, divorce, relational trauma, discipline and behavioral problems, and anxiety.
I have spent much of my career pursuing advanced trainings in PT, SE, and NARM, as well as healing from my own experiences. I believe we can only take our clients as far as we have been willing to go ourselves. We all experience relational trauma on some level and the healing from these experiences requires a collaborative, attuned, and safe relationship.
I utilize these specialized trainings in both play therapy and trauma resolution to resolve concerns such as: family stress, divorce, relational trauma, discipline and behavioral problems, and anxiety.
I have spent much of my career pursuing advanced trainings in PT, SE, and NARM, as well as healing from my own experiences. I believe we can only take our clients as far as we have been willing to go ourselves. We all experience relational trauma on some level and the healing from these experiences requires a collaborative, attuned, and safe relationship.
Everyone, at one time or another, encounters challenging experiences which can leave a lasting, negative effect. These challenging or traumatic experiences can leave wounds of shame that can hinder one from being they're true, authentic self. Depression, anxiety, OCD, lowered self esteem and other negative effects can result. I specialize in helping people heal these wounds and resolve the negative effects which results in living a more authentic and assertive life. We will journey and collaborate together to help you achieve your goals. I work with teens, individuals, couples and families on a variety of areas.
Everyone, at one time or another, encounters challenging experiences which can leave a lasting, negative effect. These challenging or traumatic experiences can leave wounds of shame that can hinder one from being they're true, authentic self. Depression, anxiety, OCD, lowered self esteem and other negative effects can result. I specialize in helping people heal these wounds and resolve the negative effects which results in living a more authentic and assertive life. We will journey and collaborate together to help you achieve your goals. I work with teens, individuals, couples and families on a variety of areas.
I work with couples who are considering divorce but are not sure about separating.
I have advanced training in an evidence based model called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this model helps couples understand how they react to each other and helps them communicate from vulnerability rather than from reactivity. I am a couple therapist who is in charge of facilitating a conversation where the couple can listen to each other.
I work with couples who are considering divorce but are not sure about separating.
I have advanced training in an evidence based model called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this model helps couples understand how they react to each other and helps them communicate from vulnerability rather than from reactivity. I am a couple therapist who is in charge of facilitating a conversation where the couple can listen to each other.
Kelli Olds LMFT Owner at Mood and Motion Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, HHP
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I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience in the health and wellness industry. I hold a MA in Counseling Psychology and served on the Board of the San Diego North County chapter of CAMFT.
I offer both virtual and in-person therapy in Encinitas, where I provide a supportive space for clients to explore and overcome challenges. My work focuses on helping individuals create and maintain healthy relationships with themselves and those around them, including spouses, children, family members, friends and co-parents. All while exploring tools, boundaries, communication and clear understand.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 25 years of experience in the health and wellness industry. I hold a MA in Counseling Psychology and served on the Board of the San Diego North County chapter of CAMFT.
I offer both virtual and in-person therapy in Encinitas, where I provide a supportive space for clients to explore and overcome challenges. My work focuses on helping individuals create and maintain healthy relationships with themselves and those around them, including spouses, children, family members, friends and co-parents. All while exploring tools, boundaries, communication and clear understand.
I have a passion for working with couples, whether it be through premarital counseling, relationship issues, or the steps of resolution for divorce.
I’m an attachment-focused, trauma-informed, therapist who helps adults and couples heal at the root. If you’ve spent years holding everything together on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, anxious, disconnected, or “not enough” on the inside, you’re not alone. Your system has been in survival mode for a long time. And you don’t have to keep doing this on your own.
I know what it’s like to grow up with trauma, insecure attachment, self-abandonment, and the chronic feeling of not being “enough.”
My healing informs my compassion.
My training informs my clarity.
Both shape how I show up for you.
I have a passion for working with couples, whether it be through premarital counseling, relationship issues, or the steps of resolution for divorce.
I’m an attachment-focused, trauma-informed, therapist who helps adults and couples heal at the root. If you’ve spent years holding everything together on the outside while feeling overwhelmed, anxious, disconnected, or “not enough” on the inside, you’re not alone. Your system has been in survival mode for a long time. And you don’t have to keep doing this on your own.
I know what it’s like to grow up with trauma, insecure attachment, self-abandonment, and the chronic feeling of not being “enough.”
My healing informs my compassion.
My training informs my clarity.
Both shape how I show up for you.
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Divorce Therapists
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

