Divorce Therapists in Berkeley, CA
Bay Area Couples Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, Emotion, Focused, Couples
3 Endorsed
Berkeley, CA 94705
IN THE TIME OF COVID, WE ALL HAVE TO UP OUR CONNECTION GAME. Face it, you love your partner, they drive you crazy. And now that we’re around each other 24/7 and some of us with kids crawling all over us, we are not getting our needs met and we are hurting each in ways we are not proud of. Before it was an option to just let our old patterns kind of work. Not now! You are not alone! The whole world is experiencing this. What is essential now is for couples to upgrade. You won't have an 8 hour break (at work) to recover from what your partner just did. We need to actively practice COUPLES SKILLS THAT WORK. It's not optional now!
IN THE TIME OF COVID, WE ALL HAVE TO UP OUR CONNECTION GAME. Face it, you love your partner, they drive you crazy. And now that we’re around each other 24/7 and some of us with kids crawling all over us, we are not getting our needs met and we are hurting each in ways we are not proud of. Before it was an option to just let our old patterns kind of work. Not now! You are not alone! The whole world is experiencing this. What is essential now is for couples to upgrade. You won't have an 8 hour break (at work) to recover from what your partner just did. We need to actively practice COUPLES SKILLS THAT WORK. It's not optional now!
You may feel called to therapy not because you’re broken, but because something in you is ready to awaken. Trauma, loss, or chronic stress may live in your body as anxiety, hypervigilance, numbness, or disconnection from your truth. You might be LGBTQ+, coming out later in life, or shedding old identities that once kept you safe. You’re seeking EMDR and trauma therapy that honors the nervous system, intuition, dreamwork, and the deeper rhythms of your inner world. You long for steadiness, self-trust, and a life that feels embodied, authentic, and alive.
You may feel called to therapy not because you’re broken, but because something in you is ready to awaken. Trauma, loss, or chronic stress may live in your body as anxiety, hypervigilance, numbness, or disconnection from your truth. You might be LGBTQ+, coming out later in life, or shedding old identities that once kept you safe. You’re seeking EMDR and trauma therapy that honors the nervous system, intuition, dreamwork, and the deeper rhythms of your inner world. You long for steadiness, self-trust, and a life that feels embodied, authentic, and alive.
I bring 35+years of experience to working with marriage, divorce and remarriage.
I believe that fulfilling relationships are the central component of growth and healing. In couples therapy whether you are struggling with sexual issues or problems with money, mess, time, work or children, I will focus on helping you develop a closer connection and greater security which will enable you to more effectively address your concerns. In individual therapy, I will work to develop an authentic, attuned therapy relationship with you through which we can understand and develop your capacity in your relational world with partner, children, parents, work, creative and spiritual quests on a path of growth and healing.
I bring 35+years of experience to working with marriage, divorce and remarriage.
I believe that fulfilling relationships are the central component of growth and healing. In couples therapy whether you are struggling with sexual issues or problems with money, mess, time, work or children, I will focus on helping you develop a closer connection and greater security which will enable you to more effectively address your concerns. In individual therapy, I will work to develop an authentic, attuned therapy relationship with you through which we can understand and develop your capacity in your relational world with partner, children, parents, work, creative and spiritual quests on a path of growth and healing.
I have a great desire to see you do well in this world! I have been working as a clinical counselor for over a decade and bring a wealth of experience to the table across a wide array of issues and concerns, including depression, anxiety, and poor coping. I can be described as nurturing, caring, and warm; I also like to challenge some of your conventional ways of thinking to help you see the bigger picture. I espouse an action-oriented and direct approach to identifying and solving problems, but I also believe that inner wisdom comes through reflection and self-compassion. I very much look forward to walking alongside you!
I have a great desire to see you do well in this world! I have been working as a clinical counselor for over a decade and bring a wealth of experience to the table across a wide array of issues and concerns, including depression, anxiety, and poor coping. I can be described as nurturing, caring, and warm; I also like to challenge some of your conventional ways of thinking to help you see the bigger picture. I espouse an action-oriented and direct approach to identifying and solving problems, but I also believe that inner wisdom comes through reflection and self-compassion. I very much look forward to walking alongside you!
I Support Individuals & Couples With:
Divorce & conscious uncoupling
Rebuilding trust & emotional intimacy
Navigating non-monogamous relationships (CNM)
Healing from trauma & attachment wounds
Therapy is a space for growth, not perfection.
Welcome — I'm Glad You're Here
Beginning therapy is a powerful step toward healing. Whether you're moving through a life transition or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, therapy can help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and purpose.
I offer a warm, collaborative, and respectfully direct approach to therapy. I believe every person’s story is unique and deserving of care. Together, we'll explore what's holding you back and create a path forward that feels aligned and authentic.
I Support Individuals & Couples With:
Divorce & conscious uncoupling
Rebuilding trust & emotional intimacy
Navigating non-monogamous relationships (CNM)
Healing from trauma & attachment wounds
Therapy is a space for growth, not perfection.
Welcome — I'm Glad You're Here
Beginning therapy is a powerful step toward healing. Whether you're moving through a life transition or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, therapy can help you reconnect with your strength, clarity, and purpose.
I offer a warm, collaborative, and respectfully direct approach to therapy. I believe every person’s story is unique and deserving of care. Together, we'll explore what's holding you back and create a path forward that feels aligned and authentic.
You have been experiencing emotionally out-of-balance, blocked, stuck, or "off," or when you look at your future, you can't really see a way forward that interests you. You may relate to the idea of "being in limbo." Or else, you have experienced a loss so great it has seized your mental and emotional life and you feel there is no "space" to continue to carry out your daily responsibilities. Or else you are aware of an addictive or compulsive process, and to surmount this issue feels nearly impossible, so much that you don't even want to admit it is there.
You have been experiencing emotionally out-of-balance, blocked, stuck, or "off," or when you look at your future, you can't really see a way forward that interests you. You may relate to the idea of "being in limbo." Or else, you have experienced a loss so great it has seized your mental and emotional life and you feel there is no "space" to continue to carry out your daily responsibilities. Or else you are aware of an addictive or compulsive process, and to surmount this issue feels nearly impossible, so much that you don't even want to admit it is there.
You met someone; you fell in love…is it time to build a family together? What about all the fights you have been having recently? Now you are a mother/father, juggling childcare, professional development, housework… what about US? What about ME? How to teach our kids when we don’t even agree? Things are not working out; Shall we give it one last try before separating? My partner wants to open up the relationship/marriage. What does it even mean?
You met someone; you fell in love…is it time to build a family together? What about all the fights you have been having recently? Now you are a mother/father, juggling childcare, professional development, housework… what about US? What about ME? How to teach our kids when we don’t even agree? Things are not working out; Shall we give it one last try before separating? My partner wants to open up the relationship/marriage. What does it even mean?
Life transitions, such as childbirth, parenting, divorce, and stepfamilies can be challenging.
I have written extensively as a family therapist and on numerous websites. My website, MakingHealthyFamilies.com won an award from the AAMFT for benefit to parents. Visit to browse free resources available on marriage, parenting, particularly the focus on healthy family development and research on characteristics of healthy relationships.
Life transitions, such as childbirth, parenting, divorce, and stepfamilies can be challenging.
I have written extensively as a family therapist and on numerous websites. My website, MakingHealthyFamilies.com won an award from the AAMFT for benefit to parents. Visit to browse free resources available on marriage, parenting, particularly the focus on healthy family development and research on characteristics of healthy relationships.
I offer consultation, psychotherapy and shamanic healing. Consultation may be with other professional healers or with people who want to explore an issue. Psychotherapy may look like: counseling, coaching, in-depth psychodynamic uncovering of unconscious material, support through a life transition, or assistance with addictive habits. It depends on who you are. Often we feel we could use some help but we can't quite articulate what the issue is. My goal here is to assist you in navigating your journey and in being your true self.
I offer consultation, psychotherapy and shamanic healing. Consultation may be with other professional healers or with people who want to explore an issue. Psychotherapy may look like: counseling, coaching, in-depth psychodynamic uncovering of unconscious material, support through a life transition, or assistance with addictive habits. It depends on who you are. Often we feel we could use some help but we can't quite articulate what the issue is. My goal here is to assist you in navigating your journey and in being your true self.
I specialize in child assessment as well as parent support during separation and divorce.
With an approach that is supportive but direct, I will help you to understand yourself and your current circumstances. Together, we will examine intergenerational patterns, unconscious dynamics, and how you developed your innermost beliefs. I will support you to process and manage the ways difficult and even tragic experiences influence your relationships, parenting, and self-worth with my extensive training in treating trauma. My approach is rooted in attachment theory, child development, and object relations. In my practice, I treat mood disorders, anxiety, complex trauma, childhood abuse and neglect, and family system problems.
I specialize in child assessment as well as parent support during separation and divorce.
With an approach that is supportive but direct, I will help you to understand yourself and your current circumstances. Together, we will examine intergenerational patterns, unconscious dynamics, and how you developed your innermost beliefs. I will support you to process and manage the ways difficult and even tragic experiences influence your relationships, parenting, and self-worth with my extensive training in treating trauma. My approach is rooted in attachment theory, child development, and object relations. In my practice, I treat mood disorders, anxiety, complex trauma, childhood abuse and neglect, and family system problems.
I specialize in work with couples and individual adults dealing with relationship problems. Common issues for couples I see include communication difficulties, affairs, arguing or withdrawing, parenting conflict. I have experience working with a diverse range of people, including couples in mixed race/culture relationships, inter-faith relationships and members of the LGBTQ+ community.
I specialize in work with couples and individual adults dealing with relationship problems. Common issues for couples I see include communication difficulties, affairs, arguing or withdrawing, parenting conflict. I have experience working with a diverse range of people, including couples in mixed race/culture relationships, inter-faith relationships and members of the LGBTQ+ community.
Usually, a person is compelled to seek-out a therapist because of desperation: Desperation to extricate her/himself from depression, anxiety and or behaviors that contribute to conflict, or loneliness. Sometimes a person wants to be more successful in relationships or at work, A couple seeks-out a therapist because their frequent bickering has led to frustration, isolation and loneliness, and they don't know how get out of it. You may feel that your partner no longer values you. You need to be heard, valued and supported-to regain the closeness and understanding you once had.
Usually, a person is compelled to seek-out a therapist because of desperation: Desperation to extricate her/himself from depression, anxiety and or behaviors that contribute to conflict, or loneliness. Sometimes a person wants to be more successful in relationships or at work, A couple seeks-out a therapist because their frequent bickering has led to frustration, isolation and loneliness, and they don't know how get out of it. You may feel that your partner no longer values you. You need to be heard, valued and supported-to regain the closeness and understanding you once had.
My ideal client is someone facing challenges in co-parenting, divorce, or building healthy relationships.
I specialize in family therapy, co-parenting, discernment counseling, couples therapy, and mediation. I offer trauma recovery, ketamine-assisted programs, relationship healing, premarital counseling, and coaching with practical tools and expert support to help you navigate life’s challenges. I offer several online support groups for divorce and processing.
My ideal client is someone facing challenges in co-parenting, divorce, or building healthy relationships.
I specialize in family therapy, co-parenting, discernment counseling, couples therapy, and mediation. I offer trauma recovery, ketamine-assisted programs, relationship healing, premarital counseling, and coaching with practical tools and expert support to help you navigate life’s challenges. I offer several online support groups for divorce and processing.
Many have heard the phrase "healing your inner child," but what does it mean? Internal Family Systems, addresses just that and so much more. If you're curious, look it up on YouTube and see what it's all about. IFS can be thought of as a deep mindfulness practice. Those in long-term recovery, or who have a mindfulness or meditation practice often find it to be a powerful healing tool, but no experience is necessary. No matter what brings you to this point, whether it be depression, anxiety, relational problems, self-esteem issues, or just overall unhappiness, I am here to help you navigate this important moment.
Many have heard the phrase "healing your inner child," but what does it mean? Internal Family Systems, addresses just that and so much more. If you're curious, look it up on YouTube and see what it's all about. IFS can be thought of as a deep mindfulness practice. Those in long-term recovery, or who have a mindfulness or meditation practice often find it to be a powerful healing tool, but no experience is necessary. No matter what brings you to this point, whether it be depression, anxiety, relational problems, self-esteem issues, or just overall unhappiness, I am here to help you navigate this important moment.
Life isn't always easy. Whether you're dealing with an existing challenge, a current stressful situation, or you're turning a page to start a new chapter of your life, I believe we all can benefit from someone helping us to manage these changes and transitions. My therapeutic goal is to help you better manage your life's challenges and to provide you with tools and strategies to achieve your personal goals.
Life isn't always easy. Whether you're dealing with an existing challenge, a current stressful situation, or you're turning a page to start a new chapter of your life, I believe we all can benefit from someone helping us to manage these changes and transitions. My therapeutic goal is to help you better manage your life's challenges and to provide you with tools and strategies to achieve your personal goals.
If you find yourself struggling in life to feel whole, happy, at ease with yourself and being in the world, or feel frustrated with a lack of intimacy in your relationships, I can help you. It is important when searching for a therapist that you feel an honest connection. I give a free 30-minute consultation to help you decide if working with me is a match. My focus has been in trauma recovery for the last two decades, utilizing Bioenergetic Analysis, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Mindfulness and Psychodynamic work. I specialize in a holistic approach to healing anxiety, panic, body imagine issues and marital relationship issues.
If you find yourself struggling in life to feel whole, happy, at ease with yourself and being in the world, or feel frustrated with a lack of intimacy in your relationships, I can help you. It is important when searching for a therapist that you feel an honest connection. I give a free 30-minute consultation to help you decide if working with me is a match. My focus has been in trauma recovery for the last two decades, utilizing Bioenergetic Analysis, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Mindfulness and Psychodynamic work. I specialize in a holistic approach to healing anxiety, panic, body imagine issues and marital relationship issues.
I understand the piercing pain and trauma that stems from sexual or emotional betrayal. Infidelity can leave you feeling wholly disoriented. Reconstituting yourself in the wake of an affair takes support. Therapy can provide essential relief during a very dark period, for each partner.
I provide support around other major life changes, such as navigating relationships with adult children or, equally, individuating from parents as you enter your 20's and 30's.
I passionately believe that psychotherapy with a trusted therapist offers relief from the natural and very human difficulties that inevitably arise for each one of us.
I understand the piercing pain and trauma that stems from sexual or emotional betrayal. Infidelity can leave you feeling wholly disoriented. Reconstituting yourself in the wake of an affair takes support. Therapy can provide essential relief during a very dark period, for each partner.
I provide support around other major life changes, such as navigating relationships with adult children or, equally, individuating from parents as you enter your 20's and 30's.
I passionately believe that psychotherapy with a trusted therapist offers relief from the natural and very human difficulties that inevitably arise for each one of us.
Growing up in today’s world isn’t easy! As a parent you want to ensure your 'GenZ'er has the emotional support they need to thrive in life. Imagine your child or teen with an improved sense of self-awareness and confidence in themselves. I provide a safe space to explore and manage their emotions and thoughts so they can develop a better sense of self. Our mission at Therapyology is to empower the next generation to lead a more valued life! It takes a village, am I right? I practice with a team approach working together with parents/doctors/teachers/school counselors to ensure each individual and family receives the best care.
Growing up in today’s world isn’t easy! As a parent you want to ensure your 'GenZ'er has the emotional support they need to thrive in life. Imagine your child or teen with an improved sense of self-awareness and confidence in themselves. I provide a safe space to explore and manage their emotions and thoughts so they can develop a better sense of self. Our mission at Therapyology is to empower the next generation to lead a more valued life! It takes a village, am I right? I practice with a team approach working together with parents/doctors/teachers/school counselors to ensure each individual and family receives the best care.
I help singles develop the capacity to find, create & maintain the best romantic relationship of their life. Clients gain the self-awareness and skills for satisfying long-term intimacy, understand past patterns, heal old wounds, quickly assess who's a good match, & create the foundation for a healthy lasting relationship. I've taught graduate level Human Sexuality, workshops and groups in every area of romantic relationship. As a writer I coach clients in creating compelling, successful online profiles. You'll get weekly tasks to accelerate progress toward your goals.
I help singles develop the capacity to find, create & maintain the best romantic relationship of their life. Clients gain the self-awareness and skills for satisfying long-term intimacy, understand past patterns, heal old wounds, quickly assess who's a good match, & create the foundation for a healthy lasting relationship. I've taught graduate level Human Sexuality, workshops and groups in every area of romantic relationship. As a writer I coach clients in creating compelling, successful online profiles. You'll get weekly tasks to accelerate progress toward your goals.
Are you interested in growing and looking at your patterns and the wisdom behind them? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression in a relationship or with the anxiety of not being in a relationship? Are you willing to risk making changes in your life? Together we will understand the intelligence behind your patterns and help you shift into more conscious life choices. I am active, direct and passionate about supporting you as you mature into a healthier, happier and more fulfilled you.
Are you interested in growing and looking at your patterns and the wisdom behind them? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression in a relationship or with the anxiety of not being in a relationship? Are you willing to risk making changes in your life? Together we will understand the intelligence behind your patterns and help you shift into more conscious life choices. I am active, direct and passionate about supporting you as you mature into a healthier, happier and more fulfilled you.
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How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.