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Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
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Briton Kolber

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (he, him)

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Seattle, WA 98121
The world around us had gotten harder to live in and thrive. I’m in the practice of helping people wake up from the trances of fear and distraction to reconnect with their partners, the dreams they gave up on, and the partner they have or even want to have. I help individuals, families, and couples (polycules, too). I love working with neurodivergent, "neurospicy", geeks, devs, tech leads, managers, engineers, and scientists. Politically divided families welcome. I help people to find sense and meaning in a life filled with neurodiversity, stressful jobs, AI fears, unending to do lists, and more. Let's find out how you can thrive.
I don't believe in therapy as a permanent feature, but I have had some clients that have ongoing challenges and we have gotten to know each other for over a decade; many of my clients resolve symptoms in 6 to 9 months. I use metaphors, stories, and quests as tools for relating to others, ourselves, and even a spiritual unknown.
I'd like to earn your trust, hear your stories, feel your pain, and find out what fun things light you up on the inside. Ask me about the connection between comedy and healing. Bring me your trauma, worries, your stresses. Learn how to update the default settings from childhood, upgrade your capabilities, and get your life out of beta.
Call or Briton Kolber now for a free 15 minute consultation - (206) 455-7268

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Briton Kolber Relationship Therapy

Seattle, WA 98121

(206) 455-7268
My website
I have been exclusively meeting with people online since April of 2020. We are making this work warmly and effectively.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Depression and Anxiety 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Experienced with helping people who self-identify as geeks since 2012. Bring your neurodiversity, anxiety, loss of joy, kinks, and more.
Briton Kolber
Let's Connect (206) 455-7268
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Briton Kolber Relationship Therapy

Seattle, WA 98121

(206) 455-7268
My website
I have been exclusively meeting with people online since April of 2020. We are making this work warmly and effectively.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Depression and Anxiety 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Experienced with helping people who self-identify as geeks since 2012. Bring your neurodiversity, anxiety, loss of joy, kinks, and more.
Briton Kolber

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I work exclusively out of network and can provide a superbill for reimbursement. As of September 2025, I have some reduced fee spots available.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268
"
I work exclusively out of network and can provide a superbill for reimbursement. As of September 2025, I have some reduced fee spots available.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Washington / LF60998859 Briton Kolber
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 14 years
  • Attended Antioch University Seattle, Graduated 2012
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Washington State Department of Health LF60998859 / 2026
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Additional coursework in mindfulness, neurobiology, polyvagal theory, ADHD, autism spectrum, somatic experiencing, polyamory, and trauma.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268
"
Additional coursework in mindfulness, neurobiology, polyvagal theory, ADHD, autism spectrum, somatic experiencing, polyamory, and trauma.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Depression
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anger Management
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bisexual
  • Body Image
  • Coping Skills
  • Divorce
  • Drug Abuse
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Internet Addiction
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Neurodivergence
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Racial Identity
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Social challenges of the mentally gifted
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Video Game Addiction
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I treat anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and executive function (ADHD) challenges. I use a collaborative approach that works with your strengths, motivations, beliefs, and unique history to create a lasting and effective result. About 90 percent positive outcomes after working on average 6-9 months.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268
"
I treat anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and executive function (ADHD) challenges. I use a collaborative approach that works with your strengths, motivations, beliefs, and unique history to create a lasting and effective result. About 90 percent positive outcomes after working on average 6-9 months.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268

6 Endorsements

EFT Therapy & Psychedelically Assisted Therapy
EFT Therapy & Psychedelically Assisted Therapy
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTCEFTMAPS
I have known Briton for over 3 yrs and have grown to deeply respect the presence, intuition, and compassion he brings to his practice. There are not many male practicing psychotherapists I can wholeheartedly endorse in this manner.
Anne Auerbach
Anne Auerbach
Marriage & Family TherapistPhDLMFTLMHCCSTCMHS
Briton has a unique set of skills and experience i regularly refer patients to Briton He is committed to offering some of the best care in our community
Elise Thompson
Elise Thompson
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
As a colleague of Briton's, I value his therapeutic wisdom. He connects well and has deep insight. He brings a creative eye with a glint of humor to ease moments of unknowing or discovery. He is has compassion for men's changing role in relationships.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

German

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Asian

I also speak

German

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Mindfulness
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Play Therapy
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
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My practice is feedback-informed and strengths-based. I'm like an expedition leader: you decide where you want to go, and I will help us figure out how to get there, look at what the obstacles are, and be with you along the way. Kindness and laughter are encouraged. I integrate narrative, motivational interviewing, somatic, mindfulness, and more into meaningful understanding and heart-felt goals.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268
"
My practice is feedback-informed and strengths-based. I'm like an expedition leader: you decide where you want to go, and I will help us figure out how to get there, look at what the obstacles are, and be with you along the way. Kindness and laughter are encouraged. I integrate narrative, motivational interviewing, somatic, mindfulness, and more into meaningful understanding and heart-felt goals.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (206) 455-7268

Location

Primary Location

Briton Kolber Relationship Therapy

Seattle, WA 98121

(206) 455-7268
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I have been exclusively meeting with people online since April of 2020. We are making this work warmly and effectively.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (206) 455-7268
"
I have been exclusively meeting with people online since April of 2020. We are making this work warmly and effectively.
Photo of Briton Kolber, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Briton Kolber
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (206) 455-7268