Brett
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Let's Connect (916) 619-2801

You may be used to explaining parts of yourself before therapy can even begin. I work with Jewish clients navigating antisemitism, identity, safety, and belonging — and with individuals, couples, and polycules exploring or practicing ethical non-monogamy.
I'm closely connected to the Jewish community through family, study, and community involvement, including serving on the board of the Jewish Community Relations Council of the Sacramento Region. I also identify as polyamorous. In both areas, you won't need to explain the basics before the real work can begin.
My approach is relational, thoughtful, and engaged. I won't leave you on your own to figure things out, but I won't tell you what to do either. Most clients experience our work as a balance — space to think and feel more clearly, alongside guidance that helps connect patterns and respond to them more effectively.
Clients often arrive worn down, misunderstood, or unsure how to move forward. You don't need to have everything figured out before reaching out. If this sounds like what you're looking for, I'd welcome a brief consultation to talk about what you're carrying and whether working together feels like a good fit.
Call or Email Brett Coder now for a free 15 minute consultation - (916) 619-2801
Let's Connect (916) 619-2801

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $200
- Couple Sessions $250
Insurance
- Out of Network
Brett Coder
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (916) 619-2801
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 98109 Brett Stephen Coder
- Attended California State University, Sacramento, M.S. Counseling (MFT Specialization), Graduated 2012
Education and Years In Practice
Brett Coder
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (916) 619-2801
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Antisemitism, antizionism, and Jewish belonging
- Polyamory & ENM
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Jewish identity
- Life Transitions
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
Brett Coder
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (916) 619-2801
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Culturally Sensitive
- Existential
- Humanistic
- Interpersonal
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
Brett Coder
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (916) 619-2801