Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Valley Stream, NY

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Erica F Zajac
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Hi! Welcome to Sex Positive Therapy! I am a sex positive therapist and supervisor working with a wide range of issues. I have been practicing since 2006 and worked with a wide range of issues. I am a unique and eclectic therapist that challenges my clients to move towards emotional/behavioral change and work on their core attachment issues. My areas of speciality are: Borderline Personality/Narcissistic Personality disorders, Trauma/PTSD/CPTSD, Abuse/DV, Gender/sexuality, ENM/Poly, Kink/BDSM, and/or LGBTQIA+ folx. My approach is client focused and collaborative and I see my work with clients as a journey we take together.
Hi! Welcome to Sex Positive Therapy! I am a sex positive therapist and supervisor working with a wide range of issues. I have been practicing since 2006 and worked with a wide range of issues. I am a unique and eclectic therapist that challenges my clients to move towards emotional/behavioral change and work on their core attachment issues. My areas of speciality are: Borderline Personality/Narcissistic Personality disorders, Trauma/PTSD/CPTSD, Abuse/DV, Gender/sexuality, ENM/Poly, Kink/BDSM, and/or LGBTQIA+ folx. My approach is client focused and collaborative and I see my work with clients as a journey we take together.
(929) 205-5426 View (929) 205-5426
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Faye Fichera
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Valley Stream, NY 11580
“Fitting in allows you to blend in with everyone else, but being different allows you to be yourself, to be unique, and to be more creative.” – Sonya Parker. Do you often get comments about how different you are? It is ok to be different and unique, it allows you to be capable of self-acceptance. I am a firm believer that everyone's path in life is different, what we need to discover is how we will go about this path that we have been presented with. Sometimes, life can become difficult and feel like a never ending obstacle. Together we can overcome this obstacle and not let it defer you from your path.
“Fitting in allows you to blend in with everyone else, but being different allows you to be yourself, to be unique, and to be more creative.” – Sonya Parker. Do you often get comments about how different you are? It is ok to be different and unique, it allows you to be capable of self-acceptance. I am a firm believer that everyone's path in life is different, what we need to discover is how we will go about this path that we have been presented with. Sometimes, life can become difficult and feel like a never ending obstacle. Together we can overcome this obstacle and not let it defer you from your path.
(516) 667-1776 View (516) 667-1776
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Michelle Scantlebury@ Common Practice Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
At a time in your life you may need a little help making things more manageable. You might have tried to fix all your problems by yourself... you have asked family and friends for advise... a higher power to make things better , to give you the strength and foresight to face all your troubles. You've even tried to do your best until you learn better but nothing seem to change. If you don't make the time to work on creating the life you want , you are eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with the life you don't want.
At a time in your life you may need a little help making things more manageable. You might have tried to fix all your problems by yourself... you have asked family and friends for advise... a higher power to make things better , to give you the strength and foresight to face all your troubles. You've even tried to do your best until you learn better but nothing seem to change. If you don't make the time to work on creating the life you want , you are eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with the life you don't want.
(929) 207-6412 View (929) 207-6412
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The New Hope Mental Health Counseling Services
Counselor, MSEd, LMHC, CCTS-F, CAMS II
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580
The New Hope Mental Health Counseling Services is a group practice staffed by a mixed group of licensed clinicians trained to handle every area of life. We work with children who present with aggressive and disruptive behaviors, including ADHD, individuals involved in the criminal justice system, struggling with drug, recovery and family related problems. Our clients receives support for Anger Management, marriage, trauma, and parenting. Our clinicians utilize an eclectic approach to address your needs. We also offer medication therapy for ADHD, bipolar, anxiety and other mood disorders where needed.
The New Hope Mental Health Counseling Services is a group practice staffed by a mixed group of licensed clinicians trained to handle every area of life. We work with children who present with aggressive and disruptive behaviors, including ADHD, individuals involved in the criminal justice system, struggling with drug, recovery and family related problems. Our clients receives support for Anger Management, marriage, trauma, and parenting. Our clinicians utilize an eclectic approach to address your needs. We also offer medication therapy for ADHD, bipolar, anxiety and other mood disorders where needed.
(646) 681-7762 View (646) 681-7762
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Disha Robinson
Marriage & Family Therapist, Disha Robinson, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valley Stream, NY 11580
Step into each day a little closer to being the person you have always wanted to become. By using custom-tailored narrative therapy methods and solution-focused therapy methods, we will uncover meaning, direction and purpose for your life. My areas of expertise include anxiety, depression, insomnia, and low self-esteem, in addition to pre-martial counseling, couples therapy and family therapy. My approach is one of compassion and empathy with a dose of humor. Let’s explore trauma, relationships and negative self-talk that prevent you from becoming your best self and develop new healthy patterns. I look forward to hearing from you!
Step into each day a little closer to being the person you have always wanted to become. By using custom-tailored narrative therapy methods and solution-focused therapy methods, we will uncover meaning, direction and purpose for your life. My areas of expertise include anxiety, depression, insomnia, and low self-esteem, in addition to pre-martial counseling, couples therapy and family therapy. My approach is one of compassion and empathy with a dose of humor. Let’s explore trauma, relationships and negative self-talk that prevent you from becoming your best self and develop new healthy patterns. I look forward to hearing from you!
(516) 200-3762 View (516) 200-3762
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Veronica Hemmings: Hemmings LCSW Counseling PC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580
Everyone at some point in their life has been faced with a difficult or challenging situation. Through a supportive and nurturing relationship, we will work together to gain insight, greater self understanding and self acceptance about your thoughts, feelings and behavior; develop healthy ways to cope with stress to improve your quality of life. I assist my clients in overcoming their emotional pain to find a path to happiness they desire using a more eclectic and integrated approach tailored to your specific needs. My primary goal is to empower individuals to live their best life
Everyone at some point in their life has been faced with a difficult or challenging situation. Through a supportive and nurturing relationship, we will work together to gain insight, greater self understanding and self acceptance about your thoughts, feelings and behavior; develop healthy ways to cope with stress to improve your quality of life. I assist my clients in overcoming their emotional pain to find a path to happiness they desire using a more eclectic and integrated approach tailored to your specific needs. My primary goal is to empower individuals to live their best life
(917) 746-1569 View (917) 746-1569
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Joanna Reynolds
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580
I am a therapist with over 15 years of experience and there is no problem, issue, or group of people that I haven't worked with in my career. At a Long Island hospital I am in charge of training and supervising new therapists and I have taught in a CUNY graduate school program for mental health counselors.
I am a therapist with over 15 years of experience and there is no problem, issue, or group of people that I haven't worked with in my career. At a Long Island hospital I am in charge of training and supervising new therapists and I have taught in a CUNY graduate school program for mental health counselors.
(347) 708-8673 View (347) 708-8673
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Sunstone Psychotherapy Mental Health Counseling PC
MA, LMHC, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11581  (Online Only)
I have first hand experience as a member of the neurodivergent, LGBTQ+, and kink communities, and thus have a unique ability to provide insight and support to other members of those communities. I was inspired to become a therapist because of my own experiences with therapy and a desire to help those in marginalized communities
I have first hand experience as a member of the neurodivergent, LGBTQ+, and kink communities, and thus have a unique ability to provide insight and support to other members of those communities. I was inspired to become a therapist because of my own experiences with therapy and a desire to help those in marginalized communities
(516) 614-4749 View (516) 614-4749
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Juann Watson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LMSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580
I am an experienced Psychotherapist who specializes in Depression, Child and Adolescent Issues and Addiction and Substance Abuse. I treat individuals, families and couples. I provide therapy in a safe and comfortable environment.
I am an experienced Psychotherapist who specializes in Depression, Child and Adolescent Issues and Addiction and Substance Abuse. I treat individuals, families and couples. I provide therapy in a safe and comfortable environment.
(347) 309-5071 View (347) 309-5071
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Ayanna Kelly
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580  (Online Only)
Life is full of transitions and it's difficult to deal with the day-to-day challenges of family, work, school, health, or grieving a loss. The help of a professional counselor may be necessary to get through some of these moments. I use a Person-Centered technique to create a safe space for you to tell your story. I have over 15+ years of working as a Human Resource Professional and I have seen how workplace bias impacts an individual’s mental well-being. I transitioned into Mental Health Counseling because of my passion for working with individuals and families to find a pathway to getting unstuck and navigating the unknown.
Life is full of transitions and it's difficult to deal with the day-to-day challenges of family, work, school, health, or grieving a loss. The help of a professional counselor may be necessary to get through some of these moments. I use a Person-Centered technique to create a safe space for you to tell your story. I have over 15+ years of working as a Human Resource Professional and I have seen how workplace bias impacts an individual’s mental well-being. I transitioned into Mental Health Counseling because of my passion for working with individuals and families to find a pathway to getting unstuck and navigating the unknown.
(516) 788-5714 View (516) 788-5714
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(516) 614-4354 View (516) 614-4354
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(516) 219-0067 View (516) 219-0067
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Blossoming Cherry Mental Health Counseling
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valley Stream, NY 11580
We are a team of licensed counselors passionate about working with clients who are seeking mental wellness. We can support you as you combat anxiety and depression, explore your identity, wade through life transitions, or learn to build healthier relationships. We can help you discover the strengths that nourish your inner resilience - because we do believe experiences of trauma, oppression, and neglect shape you, but we also believe you have an incredible ability to heal. It is for this reason we adopted the blossoming cherry tree as a symbol of our work - it reminds us of the ways that being open to change builds resilience.
We are a team of licensed counselors passionate about working with clients who are seeking mental wellness. We can support you as you combat anxiety and depression, explore your identity, wade through life transitions, or learn to build healthier relationships. We can help you discover the strengths that nourish your inner resilience - because we do believe experiences of trauma, oppression, and neglect shape you, but we also believe you have an incredible ability to heal. It is for this reason we adopted the blossoming cherry tree as a symbol of our work - it reminds us of the ways that being open to change builds resilience.
(516) 219-1096 View (516) 219-1096
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Erica Klein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Do you want to do more than exist? Do you want to triumph over depression, anxiety and trauma? As humans, we all strive for happiness, fulfillment, and connection but are often met with obstacles that get in the way; however, you don’t have to go through them alone. I am dedicated to working with individuals who feel that they need a change. My belief is that awareness is key to enhancing mental health. Together, we will increase your self-awareness, thereby encouraging empowerment and growth. Utilizing client based psychotherapy, can help you find new tools and perspectives that will enhance your mental health and quality of life.
Do you want to do more than exist? Do you want to triumph over depression, anxiety and trauma? As humans, we all strive for happiness, fulfillment, and connection but are often met with obstacles that get in the way; however, you don’t have to go through them alone. I am dedicated to working with individuals who feel that they need a change. My belief is that awareness is key to enhancing mental health. Together, we will increase your self-awareness, thereby encouraging empowerment and growth. Utilizing client based psychotherapy, can help you find new tools and perspectives that will enhance your mental health and quality of life.
(516) 259-4006 View (516) 259-4006
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Justin Dantzler
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580  (Online Only)
Have the past few years been mentally challenging for you? Have you been mentally impacted by the pandemic? Justin provides supports and strategies to help you address concerns for more balanced living. At times, we can tend to be harder on ourselves than the external world. We are all people, being. Let’s work together to help achieve your ideal self!
Have the past few years been mentally challenging for you? Have you been mentally impacted by the pandemic? Justin provides supports and strategies to help you address concerns for more balanced living. At times, we can tend to be harder on ourselves than the external world. We are all people, being. Let’s work together to help achieve your ideal self!
(631) 818-2053 View (631) 818-2053

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Andrea Coleman
Counselor, LMHC, MEd, MA
Verified Verified
Rockville Centre, NY 11570
I am a NYS licensed Mental Health Counselor. I specialize in treating clients with borderline personality disorder, depression and anxiety disorders. My research interests focus on adolescents exhibiting cutting behavior as well as mindfulness meditation. I have presented at local and state conferences and have conducted several clinical trainings related to anxiety, autism, and developmental disabilities at surrounding regional agencies.
I am a NYS licensed Mental Health Counselor. I specialize in treating clients with borderline personality disorder, depression and anxiety disorders. My research interests focus on adolescents exhibiting cutting behavior as well as mindfulness meditation. I have presented at local and state conferences and have conducted several clinical trainings related to anxiety, autism, and developmental disabilities at surrounding regional agencies.
(631) 449-7688 View (631) 449-7688
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Samantha Farber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woodmere, NY 11598
Though I specialize primarily in eating disorders, I also have extensive experience in treating generalized anxiety disorder, borderline personality disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, relationship problems (whether that be with others, yourself, food, or your body), and life transition.
Samantha Farber is a passionate and dedicated therapist aiming to help clients of all ages feel more connected to others, to the life they want to live, and, most importantly, to their authentic self. She aims to create a safe and supportive space for those struggling with eating disorders, disordered eating, and those managing anxiety, depression, life transitions, and trauma.
Though I specialize primarily in eating disorders, I also have extensive experience in treating generalized anxiety disorder, borderline personality disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, relationship problems (whether that be with others, yourself, food, or your body), and life transition.
Samantha Farber is a passionate and dedicated therapist aiming to help clients of all ages feel more connected to others, to the life they want to live, and, most importantly, to their authentic self. She aims to create a safe and supportive space for those struggling with eating disorders, disordered eating, and those managing anxiety, depression, life transitions, and trauma.
(203) 409-8624 View (203) 409-8624
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Alyse November
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, ACSW, CST
Verified Verified
Woodmere, NY 11598
EMDR, Trauma, Brainspotting, CBT, DBT, Mindfulness modalities of treatment provided. Feel stressed, anxious, depressed, worried, hopeless and nothing that you try has helped? I work with children, teens, adults, older adults and families, specializing in trauma, anxiety, T1D, Chronic and Acute illness, Depression, Childhood trauma, Parenting, Mood disorders, Family conflict, Divorce/separation, Autism, ADHD, OCD, BPD, Bipolar, Sensory Disorders, LGBTQ, Racial challenges and More.. Life shouldn’t be so hard, I can help. Psychoeducational, disability and gifted testing also available. Telehealth sessions ok.
EMDR, Trauma, Brainspotting, CBT, DBT, Mindfulness modalities of treatment provided. Feel stressed, anxious, depressed, worried, hopeless and nothing that you try has helped? I work with children, teens, adults, older adults and families, specializing in trauma, anxiety, T1D, Chronic and Acute illness, Depression, Childhood trauma, Parenting, Mood disorders, Family conflict, Divorce/separation, Autism, ADHD, OCD, BPD, Bipolar, Sensory Disorders, LGBTQ, Racial challenges and More.. Life shouldn’t be so hard, I can help. Psychoeducational, disability and gifted testing also available. Telehealth sessions ok.
(561) 264-1012 View (561) 264-1012
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Wise Mind Psychological Services, P.L.L.C.
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Rockville Centre, NY 11570
Wise Mind Psychological Services is a group practice of highly trained therapists dedicated to helping you overcome life's challenges and build the life you want to live. Our therapists provide interventions that are specifically tailored to your individual needs and have been scientifically proven to achieve long lasting change. We look forward to meeting with you and helping you work towards your goals in a caring, supportive and nonjudgmental environment.
Wise Mind Psychological Services is a group practice of highly trained therapists dedicated to helping you overcome life's challenges and build the life you want to live. Our therapists provide interventions that are specifically tailored to your individual needs and have been scientifically proven to achieve long lasting change. We look forward to meeting with you and helping you work towards your goals in a caring, supportive and nonjudgmental environment.
(516) 262-5489 View (516) 262-5489
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Healing Hearts Therapy Group LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Springfield Gardens, NY 11413  (Online Only)
Are you tired of therapists who aren't responsive or warm? Have you experienced sessions longing for feedback, guidance, and solutions from your provider? Healing Heart Therapy Group is committed to providing genuine care to support you on your journey to mental wellness. We believe that clients are the experts on themselves, and we are here to help clients discover their hidden or unrealized potential. Our treatment approach varies as one size doesn't fit all. Our philosophy is; treatment should be uniquely tailored to suit your needs.
Are you tired of therapists who aren't responsive or warm? Have you experienced sessions longing for feedback, guidance, and solutions from your provider? Healing Heart Therapy Group is committed to providing genuine care to support you on your journey to mental wellness. We believe that clients are the experts on themselves, and we are here to help clients discover their hidden or unrealized potential. Our treatment approach varies as one size doesn't fit all. Our philosophy is; treatment should be uniquely tailored to suit your needs.
(516) 550-5408 View (516) 550-5408

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.