Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Gramercy Park, New York, NY

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Sibi Selvarajah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD(c), MA, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10011  (Online Only)
I specialized in working with adolescents and adults who struggle with comorbidity - such as substance use disorder and PTSD, anxiety, depression, psychosis, borderline personality disorder, etc.
I work very well with adolescents and adults whom struggle to believe that therapy could be beneficial for them. Through my experience, I learned that utilizing psychodynamic theory with the individual during the first several months of therapy aids in building a strong therapeutic relationship. Thus, my initial goal is to help the individual understand how their experiences in life - both positive and negative - contributed to shaping their behaviors, thought patterns, interests, etc. This will help the individual to identify unconscious stressors and improve their emotional response.
I specialized in working with adolescents and adults who struggle with comorbidity - such as substance use disorder and PTSD, anxiety, depression, psychosis, borderline personality disorder, etc.
I work very well with adolescents and adults whom struggle to believe that therapy could be beneficial for them. Through my experience, I learned that utilizing psychodynamic theory with the individual during the first several months of therapy aids in building a strong therapeutic relationship. Thus, my initial goal is to help the individual understand how their experiences in life - both positive and negative - contributed to shaping their behaviors, thought patterns, interests, etc. This will help the individual to identify unconscious stressors and improve their emotional response.
(646) 713-0200 View (646) 713-0200
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Megan Magruder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010  (Online Only)
Family members and friends of those who have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder are welcome to join Wise Mind's support group and receive support and resources. All are welcome! Please reach out for more information.
Family members and friends of those who have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder are welcome to join Wise Mind's support group and receive support and resources. All are welcome! Please reach out for more information.
(332) 248-0656 View (332) 248-0656
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Zoë Wais
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010
My areas of focus include anxiety in all its forms (avoidance, overthinking, perfectionism, ocd), depression, low self-esteem, borderline traits, relationship issues, gender and sexuality, sexual functioning, and trauma.
I prioritize an interactive and relational approach to therapy, helping clients to understand the factors contributing to destructive patterns, uncover their strengths, and develop the skills and opportunities necessary for improvement and their version of success. I understand the impacts of an invalidating narrative and strive to help people build greater confidence and a sense of productivity in their personal and professional lives.
My areas of focus include anxiety in all its forms (avoidance, overthinking, perfectionism, ocd), depression, low self-esteem, borderline traits, relationship issues, gender and sexuality, sexual functioning, and trauma.
I prioritize an interactive and relational approach to therapy, helping clients to understand the factors contributing to destructive patterns, uncover their strengths, and develop the skills and opportunities necessary for improvement and their version of success. I understand the impacts of an invalidating narrative and strive to help people build greater confidence and a sense of productivity in their personal and professional lives.
(646) 457-4139 View (646) 457-4139
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Alex S Buckner
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10017
I specialize in treating couples, college students and young professionals, and individuals with borderline personality disorder.
I believe that each person wants to find fulfillment in life, and that through the therapeutic relationship, we can work together to achieve this goal. In today's world, there are so many pressures and obstacles that people face on a daily basis. I work to help people identify the factors that affect their lives, assist them in gaining insight into the causes of their problems, and develop real-life solutions to address problematic issues. I use techniques from various types of therapy to achieve this. I work to help people identify their strengths in order to increase resiliency and autonomy and develop growing self-respect.
I specialize in treating couples, college students and young professionals, and individuals with borderline personality disorder.
I believe that each person wants to find fulfillment in life, and that through the therapeutic relationship, we can work together to achieve this goal. In today's world, there are so many pressures and obstacles that people face on a daily basis. I work to help people identify the factors that affect their lives, assist them in gaining insight into the causes of their problems, and develop real-life solutions to address problematic issues. I use techniques from various types of therapy to achieve this. I work to help people identify their strengths in order to increase resiliency and autonomy and develop growing self-respect.
(914) 618-5723 View (914) 618-5723
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Rachel Friedman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
As a member of the team at NYCBT, I provide individual therapy to adults who are struggling with a wide range of difficulties. In working together, my hope is to help you decrease your emotional suffering, enhance your relationships, and work towards meaningful change in your life. Additionally, I have experience in working with those who struggle with depression, anxiety, coping with past traumas, and relationship dilemmas.
As a member of the team at NYCBT, I provide individual therapy to adults who are struggling with a wide range of difficulties. In working together, my hope is to help you decrease your emotional suffering, enhance your relationships, and work towards meaningful change in your life. Additionally, I have experience in working with those who struggle with depression, anxiety, coping with past traumas, and relationship dilemmas.
(646) 653-0933 View (646) 653-0933
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Mia A. Lee
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
I aim to help people reduce suffering while nurturing strengths and potential in a collaborative pursuit of their life goals. Together we'll create a comfortable, culturally sensitive environment where you can work on increasing self-compassion through understanding your thoughts and behaviors. Using validation and change strategies, I can help you achieve your goals and build meaning in your life. I help clients work through emotion dysregulation that occurs from personality disorders, PTSD, mood and anxiety disorders, as well as the demands of our face-paced, sometimes stressful, world.
I aim to help people reduce suffering while nurturing strengths and potential in a collaborative pursuit of their life goals. Together we'll create a comfortable, culturally sensitive environment where you can work on increasing self-compassion through understanding your thoughts and behaviors. Using validation and change strategies, I can help you achieve your goals and build meaning in your life. I help clients work through emotion dysregulation that occurs from personality disorders, PTSD, mood and anxiety disorders, as well as the demands of our face-paced, sometimes stressful, world.
(646) 798-4818 View (646) 798-4818
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Ellie Lord
PhD
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
I am a psychologist at NYCBT, a private group psychology practice in downtown Manhattan. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), working primarily with adults. I work in partnership with my clients to help them identify and achieve their goals by drawing on their unique individual strengths, while addressing their challenges with compassion. These changes usually involve addressing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors by learning to manage difficult emotions.
I am a psychologist at NYCBT, a private group psychology practice in downtown Manhattan. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), working primarily with adults. I work in partnership with my clients to help them identify and achieve their goals by drawing on their unique individual strengths, while addressing their challenges with compassion. These changes usually involve addressing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors by learning to manage difficult emotions.
(646) 402-6608 View (646) 402-6608
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Maria Rocio Hernandez
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
Hello there, I'm Maria, a compassionate ally committed to guiding you on your path to emotional well-being. Life can be overwhelming, and seeking support is a courageous step. In our shared space, free from judgment, we'll explore your unique narrative. As a behavioral psychologist, I blend evidence-based practices with empathy to help you navigate challenges, fostering growth and resilience. Whatever your challenges are, I'm here to accompany you towards a more fulfilling and authentic life.
Hello there, I'm Maria, a compassionate ally committed to guiding you on your path to emotional well-being. Life can be overwhelming, and seeking support is a courageous step. In our shared space, free from judgment, we'll explore your unique narrative. As a behavioral psychologist, I blend evidence-based practices with empathy to help you navigate challenges, fostering growth and resilience. Whatever your challenges are, I'm here to accompany you towards a more fulfilling and authentic life.
(646) 722-6832 View (646) 722-6832
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Elliot Weiner
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), working together with my clients to develop a focused, personalized plan to achieve their goals. This typically includes addressing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through learning specific skills to take control of their emotions. I am one of the co-founders of NYCBT, a private psychology group practice in Manhattan, and I also have an office in Greenwich, CT.
I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), working together with my clients to develop a focused, personalized plan to achieve their goals. This typically includes addressing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors through learning specific skills to take control of their emotions. I am one of the co-founders of NYCBT, a private psychology group practice in Manhattan, and I also have an office in Greenwich, CT.
(646) 846-0146 View (646) 846-0146
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Dr. Kyle M Haney
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
I am a licensed clinical psychologist working at NYCBT, specializing in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) & Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for adolescents, young adults, and adults. Are you or your teen suffering from anxiety or difficult to manage emotions? Do you struggle to utilize effective coping skills to change the way you think, feel, or behave? The therapy process can be daunting with the variety of providers who offer many different treatments. I can offer a supportive, collaborative, direct, and effective therapeutic environment to address anxiety, obsessional thinking, emotion dysregulation, suicidality, & trauma.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist working at NYCBT, specializing in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) & Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for adolescents, young adults, and adults. Are you or your teen suffering from anxiety or difficult to manage emotions? Do you struggle to utilize effective coping skills to change the way you think, feel, or behave? The therapy process can be daunting with the variety of providers who offer many different treatments. I can offer a supportive, collaborative, direct, and effective therapeutic environment to address anxiety, obsessional thinking, emotion dysregulation, suicidality, & trauma.
(646) 963-2498 View (646) 963-2498
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Wise Mind Counseling, LLC
Counselor, MA, LMHC, CASACT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010  (Online Only)
NEW WMC is offering a new Teens Body Image group to help individuals gain a healthier perception of their bodies, and to increase their coping skills toolbox surrounding body image concerns or positivity. Topics and skills include discussions around body checking, diet culture, social media, and more! Group Information: - Meets weekly, Tuesdays 6-7:30 pm starting 9/6 - Virtual skills-based group - This group is open to everyone, 18+, is LBGTQ+ affirming - Open to NY, CT, NJ & FL residents - $100/group (weekly) If interested, or for referrals, please email us!
NEW WMC is offering a new Teens Body Image group to help individuals gain a healthier perception of their bodies, and to increase their coping skills toolbox surrounding body image concerns or positivity. Topics and skills include discussions around body checking, diet culture, social media, and more! Group Information: - Meets weekly, Tuesdays 6-7:30 pm starting 9/6 - Virtual skills-based group - This group is open to everyone, 18+, is LBGTQ+ affirming - Open to NY, CT, NJ & FL residents - $100/group (weekly) If interested, or for referrals, please email us!
(646) 437-8508 View (646) 437-8508
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Lauren Laguna
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BFA, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010  (Online Only)
Authentic and empathetic therapist, here to help you feel empowered, safe, worthy, and free to live your life. I'm passionate about empowering my clients in achieving their goals, whatever that may look like. I have worked with a wide range of clients. Some looking to process and heal trauma; learn how to manage anxiety, stress, and overwhelming emotions; improve relationships; improve self-esteem, build self-confidence, learn self-compassion; build insight into unhelpful behaviors. I work with adults, teens, and children, struggling with trauma, anxiety, panic attacks, personality disorders, depression, and body image issues.
Authentic and empathetic therapist, here to help you feel empowered, safe, worthy, and free to live your life. I'm passionate about empowering my clients in achieving their goals, whatever that may look like. I have worked with a wide range of clients. Some looking to process and heal trauma; learn how to manage anxiety, stress, and overwhelming emotions; improve relationships; improve self-esteem, build self-confidence, learn self-compassion; build insight into unhelpful behaviors. I work with adults, teens, and children, struggling with trauma, anxiety, panic attacks, personality disorders, depression, and body image issues.
(347) 754-3702 View (347) 754-3702
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Dana L Moriarty
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010
Being a person is not easy. We are challenged everyday. Feelings of anxiety and depression are part of being a human being. The great skill is learning how to deal with these uncomfortable emotions. We can control how we think and act, but most people need encouragement, support, and knowledge to do this. As your therapist, I can support and guide you through this process. In addition I can teach you how to accept yourself with all your strengths and weaknesses and help you to identify and achieve your goals.
Being a person is not easy. We are challenged everyday. Feelings of anxiety and depression are part of being a human being. The great skill is learning how to deal with these uncomfortable emotions. We can control how we think and act, but most people need encouragement, support, and knowledge to do this. As your therapist, I can support and guide you through this process. In addition I can teach you how to accept yourself with all your strengths and weaknesses and help you to identify and achieve your goals.
(646) 461-4135 View (646) 461-4135
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Gilbert McCurdy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MBA, LCSW-R, CSAT, SEP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
While we might long for changes in life, making change can be painful and scary. Therapy is a collaborative process, and I will parther with you on this journey. My practice focuses on treating intimacy/relationship problems, sexual addiction/compulsivity, alcohol/substance abuse, codependency/co-addiction, personality issues, childhood traumas, anxiety/depression and career/workplace concerns. I also specialize in working with the LGBT community. My career began with an MBA working on Wall Street. Since 1995 I've been practicing psychotherapy as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and received my MSW from Columbia University.
While we might long for changes in life, making change can be painful and scary. Therapy is a collaborative process, and I will parther with you on this journey. My practice focuses on treating intimacy/relationship problems, sexual addiction/compulsivity, alcohol/substance abuse, codependency/co-addiction, personality issues, childhood traumas, anxiety/depression and career/workplace concerns. I also specialize in working with the LGBT community. My career began with an MBA working on Wall Street. Since 1995 I've been practicing psychotherapy as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and received my MSW from Columbia University.
(646) 600-5033 View (646) 600-5033
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Esther Lee
Psychologist, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010
Dr. Esther Lee approaches psychotherapy as collaborative work between the therapist and the individual seeking holistic well-being and meaning in life. Her clinical experience at Columbia University Medical Center gave her a broad scope of mental health treatments and a special interest in working with women who are expecting or recently postpartum. Furthermore, through her work at the counseling centers at Baruch College and Columbia University she developed a passion for helping young adults navigate the demands of academia and pursuit of their professional aspirations.
Dr. Esther Lee approaches psychotherapy as collaborative work between the therapist and the individual seeking holistic well-being and meaning in life. Her clinical experience at Columbia University Medical Center gave her a broad scope of mental health treatments and a special interest in working with women who are expecting or recently postpartum. Furthermore, through her work at the counseling centers at Baruch College and Columbia University she developed a passion for helping young adults navigate the demands of academia and pursuit of their professional aspirations.
(332) 334-8915 View (332) 334-8915
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Rachel Ende
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Not Verified Not Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010
My goal is to help you create a rich life for yourself by fostering your resilience and capacity to feel. I believe those seeking therapy have a “gut instinct” that understanding themselves in a more complete way can open the door to a more fulfilling life. Knowing ourselves is a critical tool that can empower us.
My goal is to help you create a rich life for yourself by fostering your resilience and capacity to feel. I believe those seeking therapy have a “gut instinct” that understanding themselves in a more complete way can open the door to a more fulfilling life. Knowing ourselves is a critical tool that can empower us.
(516) 701-2808 View (516) 701-2808
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Dr. Jeanine D. Costley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, LCSW-R, DSW
Verified Verified
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10010
As an experienced, licensed psychotherapist with 18 years of experience providing therapy, I understand that starting therapy takes courage. I provide a safe, nurturing, reliable setting that allows self-discovery and the opportunity to create a life and form relationships that support your highest expressions of self. My focus is exploring patterns and how traumatic experiences have shaped your decisions, behaviors and relationships and beliefs. The therapeutic relationship can assist you in living consciously and releasing behaviors and negative thought patterns. Your identities are special and unique.. I value each one.
As an experienced, licensed psychotherapist with 18 years of experience providing therapy, I understand that starting therapy takes courage. I provide a safe, nurturing, reliable setting that allows self-discovery and the opportunity to create a life and form relationships that support your highest expressions of self. My focus is exploring patterns and how traumatic experiences have shaped your decisions, behaviors and relationships and beliefs. The therapeutic relationship can assist you in living consciously and releasing behaviors and negative thought patterns. Your identities are special and unique.. I value each one.
(646) 362-9350 View (646) 362-9350
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Rebecca Grijalva
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
Hi and welcome! I’m glad you’re here. I'm happy that you've taken this step towards seeking support. As a therapist, I strive to embody qualities that are essential for our therapeutic journey together: warmth, directness, and honesty. My goal is to create a safe and secure environment that is judgment free while nurturing and supporting you as you navigate your challenges. Recognizing that each person's story is unique, I'm dedicated to meeting you exactly where you are in your life. I hold the belief that the struggles we face in our everyday lives often have roots in our past experiences, early connections, and attachments.
Hi and welcome! I’m glad you’re here. I'm happy that you've taken this step towards seeking support. As a therapist, I strive to embody qualities that are essential for our therapeutic journey together: warmth, directness, and honesty. My goal is to create a safe and secure environment that is judgment free while nurturing and supporting you as you navigate your challenges. Recognizing that each person's story is unique, I'm dedicated to meeting you exactly where you are in your life. I hold the belief that the struggles we face in our everyday lives often have roots in our past experiences, early connections, and attachments.
(646) 825-6809 View (646) 825-6809
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Lisa Benger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
In my clinical practice, I work with individual adults who struggle with forming their own identity (I often say I'm a good fit for people who feel like the "black sheep" of the family), discomfort in their body (which may express itself through difficulty with food, eating patterns, discomfort with sex). Working together in a safe and open space has been helpful and productive for my patients, allowing them to gain access to a sense of worth and fullness they didn't know was possible.
In my clinical practice, I work with individual adults who struggle with forming their own identity (I often say I'm a good fit for people who feel like the "black sheep" of the family), discomfort in their body (which may express itself through difficulty with food, eating patterns, discomfort with sex). Working together in a safe and open space has been helpful and productive for my patients, allowing them to gain access to a sense of worth and fullness they didn't know was possible.
(347) 620-7112 View (347) 620-7112
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Alexis Chapman
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Gramercy Park, New York, NY 10003
Welcome to Allied Psychotherapy Group practice! I am a dedicated and compassionate psychotherapist with a passion for helping individuals, couples, and groups overcome life obstacles and achieve emotional well-being. With me, you will find a supportive, private, and nonjudgmental space to unravel the conflicts in your life and in your mind, your emotions and actions, and uncover new possibilities for you. Above all, you will be met with empathy and acceptance, as we explore your past and current experiences, the layers of your identity, and your relationship with yourself, others, and the world.
Welcome to Allied Psychotherapy Group practice! I am a dedicated and compassionate psychotherapist with a passion for helping individuals, couples, and groups overcome life obstacles and achieve emotional well-being. With me, you will find a supportive, private, and nonjudgmental space to unravel the conflicts in your life and in your mind, your emotions and actions, and uncover new possibilities for you. Above all, you will be met with empathy and acceptance, as we explore your past and current experiences, the layers of your identity, and your relationship with yourself, others, and the world.
(646) 846-8954 View (646) 846-8954

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.