Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Farmingdale, NY

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Theresa DeSantis
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated or stressed? Is it effecting your sleep, work, motivation, personal relationships, or feel like you are stuck in a rut? Is it impacting other areas like your sex life, drinking too much, or turning to other unhealthy outlets? To make it worse, you feel all alone because anyone you talk with passes judgment or says that you are wrong for how you feel. How would it feel to find help from someone who is non-judgmental, will truly understand you, and be there for you every step of the way no matter what?
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated or stressed? Is it effecting your sleep, work, motivation, personal relationships, or feel like you are stuck in a rut? Is it impacting other areas like your sex life, drinking too much, or turning to other unhealthy outlets? To make it worse, you feel all alone because anyone you talk with passes judgment or says that you are wrong for how you feel. How would it feel to find help from someone who is non-judgmental, will truly understand you, and be there for you every step of the way no matter what?
(631) 392-6205 x11 View (631) 392-6205 x11
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Brian Alvarez Mental Health Counseling, PLLC
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC-2
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735
I believe that every person deserves to be genuinely happy and that no one should face their challenges alone. I am here to provide you with the support and skills you need to manage uncomfortable and unwanted mental health symptoms. While some may imagine their therapy experience to consist of traditional questions such as “how does that make you feel?”, I consider myself more of a modern therapist in which I effectively assist individuals to develop skills and learn tools that help them to manage difficulties in life.
I believe that every person deserves to be genuinely happy and that no one should face their challenges alone. I am here to provide you with the support and skills you need to manage uncomfortable and unwanted mental health symptoms. While some may imagine their therapy experience to consist of traditional questions such as “how does that make you feel?”, I consider myself more of a modern therapist in which I effectively assist individuals to develop skills and learn tools that help them to manage difficulties in life.
(516) 447-3436 View (516) 447-3436
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Jennifer Babekov
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735
Do you find yourself unable to cope with daily life stressors? Are you currently struggling with addictive, impulsive or self destructive behaviors that are impacting your current functioning and relationships? Are your emotions and mood becoming harder to regulate? If so, you have come to the right place. I help address these experiences by integrating multiple therapeutic modalities, with a specific emphasis on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to target maladaptive thoughts and behavioral patterns you may be engaging in.
Do you find yourself unable to cope with daily life stressors? Are you currently struggling with addictive, impulsive or self destructive behaviors that are impacting your current functioning and relationships? Are your emotions and mood becoming harder to regulate? If so, you have come to the right place. I help address these experiences by integrating multiple therapeutic modalities, with a specific emphasis on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) to target maladaptive thoughts and behavioral patterns you may be engaging in.
(631) 201-5791 View (631) 201-5791
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Katherine Orobona
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
Our childhood, history, and personal myths about ourselves are powerful forces that have the ability to shape our interpersonal relationships and behaviors; worldview and ourselves. At some point, we all have experiences, challenges or life altering experiences that will have the ability to change our trajectory, bring us to a cross road or that will challenge our core beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Through my work with individuals, families and couples I have enjoyed helping others to navigate these obstacles in order to transform these adverse experiences into opportunities of growth.
Our childhood, history, and personal myths about ourselves are powerful forces that have the ability to shape our interpersonal relationships and behaviors; worldview and ourselves. At some point, we all have experiences, challenges or life altering experiences that will have the ability to change our trajectory, bring us to a cross road or that will challenge our core beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Through my work with individuals, families and couples I have enjoyed helping others to navigate these obstacles in order to transform these adverse experiences into opportunities of growth.
(516) 212-6981 View (516) 212-6981
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Katherine Orobona
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735  (Online Only)
Our Childhood, history, and personal myths about ourselves are powerful forces that have the ability to shape our interpersonal relationships and behaviors; worldview and ourselves. At some point, we have all experiences, challenges or life altering experiences that will have the ability to change our trajectory, bring us to a cross road or that will challenge our core beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Through my work with individuals, families and couples I have enjoyed helping others to navigate these obstacles in order to transform these adverse experiences into opportunities of growth.
Our Childhood, history, and personal myths about ourselves are powerful forces that have the ability to shape our interpersonal relationships and behaviors; worldview and ourselves. At some point, we have all experiences, challenges or life altering experiences that will have the ability to change our trajectory, bring us to a cross road or that will challenge our core beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Through my work with individuals, families and couples I have enjoyed helping others to navigate these obstacles in order to transform these adverse experiences into opportunities of growth.
(516) 219-9782 View (516) 219-9782
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Debra Gruda
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735
Deciding that now is the time in your life to make a change is a difficult first step. I can be there for you on your journey to make these positive changes you desire. Whether it is your depression, substance abuse, relationship having someone there for you who understands these problems is essential.
Deciding that now is the time in your life to make a change is a difficult first step. I can be there for you on your journey to make these positive changes you desire. Whether it is your depression, substance abuse, relationship having someone there for you who understands these problems is essential.
(516) 730-9540 View (516) 730-9540
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Christina Minervini-Bertin
Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC, C-DBT, CCATP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735  (Online Only)
Are intense emotions often overwhelming and difficult to manage? Do persistent, intrusive thoughts and unidentified triggers cause anxiety or overpowering feelings, leaving you feeling stuck? If so, you're not alone. I'm Christina, a licensed therapist offering individual therapy services in New York. Specializing in anxiety, personality and mood disorder treatment, my goal is to provide guidance to individuals who are seeking assistance in managing their emotions and navigating through life's obstacles.
Are intense emotions often overwhelming and difficult to manage? Do persistent, intrusive thoughts and unidentified triggers cause anxiety or overpowering feelings, leaving you feeling stuck? If so, you're not alone. I'm Christina, a licensed therapist offering individual therapy services in New York. Specializing in anxiety, personality and mood disorder treatment, my goal is to provide guidance to individuals who are seeking assistance in managing their emotions and navigating through life's obstacles.
(631) 973-6059 View (631) 973-6059
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Claire Marie Lopardo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735  (Online Only)
Telehealth only- I want to thank you for taking the first step in your therapeutic journey. Whether you're new to therapy or returning, welcome. It can be so difficult to first acknowledge challenges that we face and then ask for help with those challenges. Creating a non-judgemental, inviting space for my clients is my number one priority. If you're struggling with interpersonal issues, mental health related concerns, substance misuse, or traumatic past events, I'm hoping to provide assistance in your journey.
Telehealth only- I want to thank you for taking the first step in your therapeutic journey. Whether you're new to therapy or returning, welcome. It can be so difficult to first acknowledge challenges that we face and then ask for help with those challenges. Creating a non-judgemental, inviting space for my clients is my number one priority. If you're struggling with interpersonal issues, mental health related concerns, substance misuse, or traumatic past events, I'm hoping to provide assistance in your journey.
(631) 825-9162 View (631) 825-9162
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Marcie May Soland-Mastrelli
Counselor, MA, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
As a licensed mental health counselor with over fifteen years in the counseling field, I understand the importance of living a life filled with joy. I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic relationship is in the connection made between therapist and client. My hope is that I can connect with you and that we can work in a safe and supportive environment to help you deal with any issues of concern in your life. I am here to support you in finding your true self and to help you find what brings the most meaning into your life.
As a licensed mental health counselor with over fifteen years in the counseling field, I understand the importance of living a life filled with joy. I believe that the key to a successful therapeutic relationship is in the connection made between therapist and client. My hope is that I can connect with you and that we can work in a safe and supportive environment to help you deal with any issues of concern in your life. I am here to support you in finding your true self and to help you find what brings the most meaning into your life.
(516) 537-9750 View (516) 537-9750
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Dena Cardillo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
Do you experience depression and anxiety? Maybe you’ve experienced trauma and don’t know where to turn for help coping with memories and daily reminders of what happened to you? Maybe you struggle with disordered eating? Do you want to heal your relationship with food?
Do you experience depression and anxiety? Maybe you’ve experienced trauma and don’t know where to turn for help coping with memories and daily reminders of what happened to you? Maybe you struggle with disordered eating? Do you want to heal your relationship with food?
(516) 789-2468 View (516) 789-2468
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Micky Rosario
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735
As an experienced Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-R), I have had the privilege of working with diverse populations, including children, adolescents, adults, and couples. With a strong foundation in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), I strive to create a rich, fulfilling, and effective therapeutic experience for individuals and couples in treatment. CBT, as you may know, emphasizes the interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. By focusing on the present moment and exploring new ways of thinking, clients can experience positive changes in their lives.
As an experienced Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-R), I have had the privilege of working with diverse populations, including children, adolescents, adults, and couples. With a strong foundation in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), I strive to create a rich, fulfilling, and effective therapeutic experience for individuals and couples in treatment. CBT, as you may know, emphasizes the interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. By focusing on the present moment and exploring new ways of thinking, clients can experience positive changes in their lives.
(516) 774-4172 View (516) 774-4172
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Dr. Funto Oyewole
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
In the times we live in now, life can sometimes feel overwhelming and challenging. You may feel all alone and as if there is no way out and this can affect the way you approach life and the decisions you make.
In the times we live in now, life can sometimes feel overwhelming and challenging. You may feel all alone and as if there is no way out and this can affect the way you approach life and the decisions you make.
(631) 201-0752 View (631) 201-0752
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Valerie Gelo
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735  (Online Only)
Asking for help can be difficult, especially with the mental health stigma that surrounds us. The reality is that everyone is subjected to the unpredictable stressors of life, and it's normal to feel the weight of that. Whether you are mandated or voluntarily seeking assistance, I will be here for you every step of the way. My approach to treatment is non-judgmental and empathetic, as everyone deserves a chance to be the best version of themselves no matter what their history entails. It is my belief that people are not defined by a single moment or period in their life. What matters is here and now, so let's make positive changes!
Asking for help can be difficult, especially with the mental health stigma that surrounds us. The reality is that everyone is subjected to the unpredictable stressors of life, and it's normal to feel the weight of that. Whether you are mandated or voluntarily seeking assistance, I will be here for you every step of the way. My approach to treatment is non-judgmental and empathetic, as everyone deserves a chance to be the best version of themselves no matter what their history entails. It is my belief that people are not defined by a single moment or period in their life. What matters is here and now, so let's make positive changes!
(855) 965-4425 View (855) 965-4425
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Jamie Bunsis
MHC-I, MSEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735
To establish a therapeutic relationship with trust and respect. Increasing their healthy coping skills and decreasing symptoms.
To establish a therapeutic relationship with trust and respect. Increasing their healthy coping skills and decreasing symptoms.
(631) 920-3858 View (631) 920-3858
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Brenna Tighe
Counselor, MSEd, LMHC, CRC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Farmingdale, NY 11735
Everyone can benefit from some extra support every now and then, right? Well, as a therapist that goes to therapy, I know exactly how it feels to be in your shoes. Finding the right therapist can be exhausting, but once you do, it's so worth it. The process of therapy & the journey of self-discovery can help untangle confusing thoughts, feelings, and behavioral patterns. I meet clients where they are to provide a safe, calm, and supportive environment for my clients to help them accomplish their goals.
Everyone can benefit from some extra support every now and then, right? Well, as a therapist that goes to therapy, I know exactly how it feels to be in your shoes. Finding the right therapist can be exhausting, but once you do, it's so worth it. The process of therapy & the journey of self-discovery can help untangle confusing thoughts, feelings, and behavioral patterns. I meet clients where they are to provide a safe, calm, and supportive environment for my clients to help them accomplish their goals.
(516) 703-4443 View (516) 703-4443
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InsightDBT - Merrick
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, CDBT
Verified Verified
Farmingdale, NY 11735
If you’re reading this, know you’re not alone. One in five Americans are diagnosed with a mental health condition every year, and one out of six teenagers struggle currently with depression. You’re probably looking for compassionate and effective therapy either for yourself or your child. Well, you’re in luck. At InsightDBT, we provide cutting edge, compassionate, and effective Dialectical Behavior Therapy to teens, adults, and their families.
If you’re reading this, know you’re not alone. One in five Americans are diagnosed with a mental health condition every year, and one out of six teenagers struggle currently with depression. You’re probably looking for compassionate and effective therapy either for yourself or your child. Well, you’re in luck. At InsightDBT, we provide cutting edge, compassionate, and effective Dialectical Behavior Therapy to teens, adults, and their families.
(516) 210-2327 View (516) 210-2327

More Therapists Nearby

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Sarah M Fiore
LMHC-LP, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bethpage, NY 11714  (Online Only)
Specialized in working with individuals who struggle with Eating Disorders, Substance Use Disorders and co-occurring disorders, such as PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality disorder, Suicide ideation, and self -injurious behaviors.
Focus on the step in front of you, not the whole staircase. Do you feel hopeless and trapped in an unhealthy cycle? Do you struggle with being trapped in a self-destructive cycle, due to life experiences that influenced your present day thoughts and perceptions about yourself? Are you someone struggling with an eating disorder or an addiction? When working with me, you don’t have to fix your problems overnight nor feel ashamed of where you are in your recovery. We will focus on the small steps needed to get you closer to where you want to be. Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step.
Specialized in working with individuals who struggle with Eating Disorders, Substance Use Disorders and co-occurring disorders, such as PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality disorder, Suicide ideation, and self -injurious behaviors.
Focus on the step in front of you, not the whole staircase. Do you feel hopeless and trapped in an unhealthy cycle? Do you struggle with being trapped in a self-destructive cycle, due to life experiences that influenced your present day thoughts and perceptions about yourself? Are you someone struggling with an eating disorder or an addiction? When working with me, you don’t have to fix your problems overnight nor feel ashamed of where you are in your recovery. We will focus on the small steps needed to get you closer to where you want to be. Sometimes the smallest step in the right direction ends up being the biggest step.
(516) 701-3471 View (516) 701-3471
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Victoria Romero Mental Health Counseling, PLLC
Mental Health Counselor, MSEd, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bethpage, NY 11714  (Online Only)
I work with individuals coping with various concerns such as depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, stress management, co-occurring disorders, and more. I believe that all individuals, with the right tools can grow to become more self-aware and make decisions that nurture ongoing motivation for continued wellness.
I work with individuals coping with various concerns such as depression, anxiety, addiction, trauma, stress management, co-occurring disorders, and more. I believe that all individuals, with the right tools can grow to become more self-aware and make decisions that nurture ongoing motivation for continued wellness.
(516) 210-0652 View (516) 210-0652
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Kimberly Meere
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Melville, NY 11747
Life can be easier! Learn specific tools in each session to reduce anxiety, stress, depression, and simply work through life's challenges. Over the last 10 years I have guided many individuals, families, couples, and groups to a new state of understanding and personal growth in their lives. I specialize in helping adults and children struggling with issues related to anxiety, panic attacks, depression, school refusal, divorce, and PTSD.. My style of counseling fosters personal growth and family cohesion in a warm, friendly, and safe environment.
Life can be easier! Learn specific tools in each session to reduce anxiety, stress, depression, and simply work through life's challenges. Over the last 10 years I have guided many individuals, families, couples, and groups to a new state of understanding and personal growth in their lives. I specialize in helping adults and children struggling with issues related to anxiety, panic attacks, depression, school refusal, divorce, and PTSD.. My style of counseling fosters personal growth and family cohesion in a warm, friendly, and safe environment.
(516) 490-8108 View (516) 490-8108
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Niva L. Correa
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Bethpage, NY 11714  (Online Only)
"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." ~Winston Churchill
"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." ~Winston Churchill
(516) 980-3039 View (516) 980-3039

Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.