Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Spring Lake, NJ

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Maria Cowan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
Simply put, life can be hard. Personal, professional, emotional, and physical stressors bombard us daily. These last 2 years alone have added many layers of complexities to our lives that sometimes make it difficult to feel positive and fulfilled. Let me partner with you in your growth to a happier and healthier you!
Simply put, life can be hard. Personal, professional, emotional, and physical stressors bombard us daily. These last 2 years alone have added many layers of complexities to our lives that sometimes make it difficult to feel positive and fulfilled. Let me partner with you in your growth to a happier and healthier you!
(732) 538-9105 View (732) 538-9105
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Carrie Balesterri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
As my real-life Social Worker Hero, Brene Brown, stated, "Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals... compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared community." I truly believe that this represents my framework for conducting effective and rewarding therapy.
As my real-life Social Worker Hero, Brene Brown, stated, "Compassion is not a relationship between the healer and the wounded. It's a relationship between equals... compassion becomes real when we recognize our shared community." I truly believe that this represents my framework for conducting effective and rewarding therapy.
(848) 257-5168 View (848) 257-5168
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Andrea Kenoff
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
I believe in a holistic approach with an appreciation that the mind, body, brain and spirit are intimately intertwined and impacted by one another. Therefore, I focus as much on client’s strengths as I do on their challenges. My approach is primarily psychodynamic, helping clients bring unconscious thoughts and behaviors to the conscious, helping clients shift to more effective and fulfilling patterns of functioning.
I believe in a holistic approach with an appreciation that the mind, body, brain and spirit are intimately intertwined and impacted by one another. Therefore, I focus as much on client’s strengths as I do on their challenges. My approach is primarily psychodynamic, helping clients bring unconscious thoughts and behaviors to the conscious, helping clients shift to more effective and fulfilling patterns of functioning.
(732) 517-7547 View (732) 517-7547
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Dana Cux
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do, it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn’t do”. Reaching out for therapy is the definition of strength. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s degree from Monmouth University. I have 16 years of experience working intensively alongside a psychiatrist in an outpatient mental health setting prior to starting my own private practice. This experience was extremely valuable in sharpening my diagnostic skills and treatment planning abilities with clients. I enjoy working with individuals, families, and couples as well as other relationship conflict issues.
“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do, it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn’t do”. Reaching out for therapy is the definition of strength. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s degree from Monmouth University. I have 16 years of experience working intensively alongside a psychiatrist in an outpatient mental health setting prior to starting my own private practice. This experience was extremely valuable in sharpening my diagnostic skills and treatment planning abilities with clients. I enjoy working with individuals, families, and couples as well as other relationship conflict issues.
(732) 829-7377 View (732) 829-7377
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Rachel Golfeiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Spring Lake, NJ 07762  (Online Only)
I am passionate about helping and guiding people to become their best possible selves. I do this with empathy and an open mind, while taking my clients on a journey of self-discovery; a discovery of their strengths and potential that on their own they may not have known they possess. I believe that everyone has strengths that they can utilize to better their relationships and emotional well-being. By providing my clients with a safe space to analyze themselves, their experiences, and the choices they make, I guide them through the journey of therapy, ultimately coming out of it empowered to live their lives to its fullest potential.
I am passionate about helping and guiding people to become their best possible selves. I do this with empathy and an open mind, while taking my clients on a journey of self-discovery; a discovery of their strengths and potential that on their own they may not have known they possess. I believe that everyone has strengths that they can utilize to better their relationships and emotional well-being. By providing my clients with a safe space to analyze themselves, their experiences, and the choices they make, I guide them through the journey of therapy, ultimately coming out of it empowered to live their lives to its fullest potential.
(346) 567-6648 View (346) 567-6648
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Tara Chalakani
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD , LPC, ACS, NCC, RN
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
Waitlist for new clients
Dr. Tara is a Licensed Professional Counselor who is passionate about her work. To help people grow, heal, and overcome obstacles brings her great joy. Her expansive knowledge makes her a well-known expert in her field. She believes that her clients possess the capacity to heal, but sometimes they need the right environment to foster their true potential. She is holistic and views each person as an individual. Dr. Tara has extensive experience and is well versed in several counseling modalities and understands that each person's needs are unique.
Dr. Tara is a Licensed Professional Counselor who is passionate about her work. To help people grow, heal, and overcome obstacles brings her great joy. Her expansive knowledge makes her a well-known expert in her field. She believes that her clients possess the capacity to heal, but sometimes they need the right environment to foster their true potential. She is holistic and views each person as an individual. Dr. Tara has extensive experience and is well versed in several counseling modalities and understands that each person's needs are unique.
(732) 410-6873 View (732) 410-6873
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Morgan Crease
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
To fully heal, you must move through the emotions, not around them or shutting the door on them. I understand that seems scary but I am here to help you not do it alone. I believe one of the bravest things you can do is face your pain and move towards healing. I am person-centered and focus on how to create an individualized approach because everyone is unique and has different needs. I want you to feel comfortable and safe to explore your emotions within therapy. I am here to support you through your journey and am excited to help you find peace within your everyday life.
To fully heal, you must move through the emotions, not around them or shutting the door on them. I understand that seems scary but I am here to help you not do it alone. I believe one of the bravest things you can do is face your pain and move towards healing. I am person-centered and focus on how to create an individualized approach because everyone is unique and has different needs. I want you to feel comfortable and safe to explore your emotions within therapy. I am here to support you through your journey and am excited to help you find peace within your everyday life.
(732) 605-6141 View (732) 605-6141
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Annmarie Iuni
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Spring Lake, NJ 07762
(732) 823-6467 View (732) 823-6467
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James J. Maher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
Spring Lake, NJ 07762  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
No matter the struggle everyone has the capacity for self-empowerment and to enhance the quality of their lives. People seek therapy for many different reasons: mental health, existential questions, old wounds, and the problems of everyday living. Whatever your reason, I will partner with you to turn toward your distress and cultivate conditions that lead to insight and healing. My approach is client-centered and recognizes the complexity of the human experience. I promote an understanding of your own mind, self-determination, and the development of evidence-based skills that can help you respond more effectively to your challenges.
No matter the struggle everyone has the capacity for self-empowerment and to enhance the quality of their lives. People seek therapy for many different reasons: mental health, existential questions, old wounds, and the problems of everyday living. Whatever your reason, I will partner with you to turn toward your distress and cultivate conditions that lead to insight and healing. My approach is client-centered and recognizes the complexity of the human experience. I promote an understanding of your own mind, self-determination, and the development of evidence-based skills that can help you respond more effectively to your challenges.
(609) 245-5214 View (609) 245-5214

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Photo of Maryellen Stanisci, Psychologist in Spring Lake, NJ
Maryellen Stanisci
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Belmar, NJ 07719
I provide Individual, Couples, and Family Cognitive Behavioral Psychotherapy to children, adolescents, adults and geriatrics. My specialties include: Adult Children of Alcoholics, Anger Management, Anxiety, Bereavement/Grief, Child Abuse/Neglect, Chronic Illness, Depression, Domestic Violence, Eating Disorders, Family Conflict, Impulse Control Disorders, Marital/Couples Issues, Meditation/Mindfulness, Mood Disorders, OCD/Compulsion, Pain Management, Panic Attacks, Personality Disorders (e.g., Borderline, Narcissistic, etc.), Phobias, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)/Trauma, Relationship Issues, School Issues, Self-acceptance, Self-mutilation/Cutting, Sex Abuse Victim, Sleep Disorders, Social Skills, Stress, Substance Abuse, Suicidality, Weight Loss, and Women's Issues.
I provide Individual, Couples, and Family Cognitive Behavioral Psychotherapy to children, adolescents, adults and geriatrics. My specialties include: Adult Children of Alcoholics, Anger Management, Anxiety, Bereavement/Grief, Child Abuse/Neglect, Chronic Illness, Depression, Domestic Violence, Eating Disorders, Family Conflict, Impulse Control Disorders, Marital/Couples Issues, Meditation/Mindfulness, Mood Disorders, OCD/Compulsion, Pain Management, Panic Attacks, Personality Disorders (e.g., Borderline, Narcissistic, etc.), Phobias, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)/Trauma, Relationship Issues, School Issues, Self-acceptance, Self-mutilation/Cutting, Sex Abuse Victim, Sleep Disorders, Social Skills, Stress, Substance Abuse, Suicidality, Weight Loss, and Women's Issues.
(732) 289-9594 View (732) 289-9594
Photo of Ellen Sweeney, Licensed Professional Counselor in Spring Lake, NJ
Ellen Sweeney
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC , LCADC, CCTP-II, ACS, CCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wall, NJ 07719
I take a client-centered approach to counseling & work to provide a safe, non-judgmental, & validating environment to build trust with my client’s & to foster our therapeutic relationship. I believe that life is a balance of acceptance & change & I work with my clients to explore areas of their lives causing them difficulty & to find balance between the processes of acceptance & the change necessary to foster improvements in one’s life. I can help the client explore the complexities of this balance & teach & provide the skills necessary to enact changes. I have a therapy dog Milo in training that is in office with me for appts.
I take a client-centered approach to counseling & work to provide a safe, non-judgmental, & validating environment to build trust with my client’s & to foster our therapeutic relationship. I believe that life is a balance of acceptance & change & I work with my clients to explore areas of their lives causing them difficulty & to find balance between the processes of acceptance & the change necessary to foster improvements in one’s life. I can help the client explore the complexities of this balance & teach & provide the skills necessary to enact changes. I have a therapy dog Milo in training that is in office with me for appts.
(848) 229-9715 View (848) 229-9715
Photo of Cheryl M Manfredi, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Spring Lake, NJ
Cheryl M Manfredi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Manasquan, NJ 08736
Cheryl Manfredi, LCSW has 20 years experience working with adults and couples. She is a certified psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with four years post graduate training in Object Relations Therapy. "Therapy frequently promotes a more deeply experienced sense of self and others through gradual awareness and honesty with ourselves. "Through listening, witnessing, recognizing and understanding, therapy becomes a greenhouse for the self to develop more fully.
Cheryl Manfredi, LCSW has 20 years experience working with adults and couples. She is a certified psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with four years post graduate training in Object Relations Therapy. "Therapy frequently promotes a more deeply experienced sense of self and others through gradual awareness and honesty with ourselves. "Through listening, witnessing, recognizing and understanding, therapy becomes a greenhouse for the self to develop more fully.
(646) 798-5592 View (646) 798-5592
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Lisa M Dittman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CtH
Verified Verified
Manasquan, NJ 08736  (Online Only)
Lisa received her Master’s in Counseling at Montclair University. She’s worked in various positions in the field utilizing her counseling skills and innate problem solving abilities as a Guidance Counselor, a Crisis Counselor, Substance Abuse Counselor, and an In home counselor for the last 15 years where she has molded and guided at risk youth in crisis. Lisa holds certifications in: Eye Movement and Densitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapy (Ct.H), National Board-Certified Counselor (NCC), Mind/Body Personal Trainer, Certified Hatha Yoga Instructor, and CANS certified SNA (NA/BPS).
Lisa received her Master’s in Counseling at Montclair University. She’s worked in various positions in the field utilizing her counseling skills and innate problem solving abilities as a Guidance Counselor, a Crisis Counselor, Substance Abuse Counselor, and an In home counselor for the last 15 years where she has molded and guided at risk youth in crisis. Lisa holds certifications in: Eye Movement and Densitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapy (Ct.H), National Board-Certified Counselor (NCC), Mind/Body Personal Trainer, Certified Hatha Yoga Instructor, and CANS certified SNA (NA/BPS).
(732) 800-5157 View (732) 800-5157
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Cobi Beyda
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wall, NJ 07719
Waitlist for new clients
Trauma is often the root of our struggles. Childhood and adult trauma can leave visible and invisible marks on our bodies and souls. These marks show up in our relationships, our parenting, and our physical health, among other places. It takes bravery to face the feelings that trauma brings up within us. I tailor my techniques and connections to the individual needs of each person who walks through my door because not one of us can, or should, be boxed into a category. I specialize in working with adults; individuals, couples, and families.
Trauma is often the root of our struggles. Childhood and adult trauma can leave visible and invisible marks on our bodies and souls. These marks show up in our relationships, our parenting, and our physical health, among other places. It takes bravery to face the feelings that trauma brings up within us. I tailor my techniques and connections to the individual needs of each person who walks through my door because not one of us can, or should, be boxed into a category. I specialize in working with adults; individuals, couples, and families.
(848) 305-1174 View (848) 305-1174
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Denise F DePalma-Karpf
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manasquan, NJ 08736
Are you in a place in life where you feel "stuck" but recognize positive changes need to occur? Do you experience emotional pain and/or fear? Is your mood so unpredictable it impacts your mental health? Is past trauma still affecting your well-being? You may be dealing with something really difficult, but you don't have to do it alone. I realize it takes courage and strength to reach out for help. However, you've already taken the first step! Whether you are looking for short term therapy or more long term to process and heal from deeper issues, I would like to help you. A session with me is just a phone call away!
Are you in a place in life where you feel "stuck" but recognize positive changes need to occur? Do you experience emotional pain and/or fear? Is your mood so unpredictable it impacts your mental health? Is past trauma still affecting your well-being? You may be dealing with something really difficult, but you don't have to do it alone. I realize it takes courage and strength to reach out for help. However, you've already taken the first step! Whether you are looking for short term therapy or more long term to process and heal from deeper issues, I would like to help you. A session with me is just a phone call away!
(732) 344-4635 View (732) 344-4635
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Mena Charalambidis-Urban Psy.d
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Sea Girt, NJ 08750
Life is full of transitions: Marriages, divorces, change of career, retirement, mid life crisis, illness. At times we feel overwhelmed. But no matter how hopeless things may appear at a time, I believe that there is a wholeness and healthiness within. I help men and women to get in touch with the part of them that is well, to heal the part that is hurting.Happiness in life comes through knowing what to hold onto, what to let go of and what to change and how. Things we perceive as negative gain a new meaning when viewed from a place of power, when new skills are learned. See what my patients say about me in Yelp, under Mena Urban
Life is full of transitions: Marriages, divorces, change of career, retirement, mid life crisis, illness. At times we feel overwhelmed. But no matter how hopeless things may appear at a time, I believe that there is a wholeness and healthiness within. I help men and women to get in touch with the part of them that is well, to heal the part that is hurting.Happiness in life comes through knowing what to hold onto, what to let go of and what to change and how. Things we perceive as negative gain a new meaning when viewed from a place of power, when new skills are learned. See what my patients say about me in Yelp, under Mena Urban
(732) 806-5059 View (732) 806-5059
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Caterina Carlin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wall Township, NJ 07719
Change, it is something we all have to face at some point in our lives. Change looks different to everyone; postpartum depression as our body changes from bringing a new life into this world, grief after we have lost a loved one that played a crucial role in our life, traumatic events that altered our life’s path, or anxiety that causes us to no longer enjoy the things we used to. Sometimes change is good, and other times it is not so good, but ultimately change is inevitable. Sometimes we need support and guidance to navigate change and therapy is a great place to learn how to navigate and overcome change.
Change, it is something we all have to face at some point in our lives. Change looks different to everyone; postpartum depression as our body changes from bringing a new life into this world, grief after we have lost a loved one that played a crucial role in our life, traumatic events that altered our life’s path, or anxiety that causes us to no longer enjoy the things we used to. Sometimes change is good, and other times it is not so good, but ultimately change is inevitable. Sometimes we need support and guidance to navigate change and therapy is a great place to learn how to navigate and overcome change.
(732) 627-2643 View (732) 627-2643
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Cheryl M. Manfredi Lcsw-R
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Manasquan, NJ 08736
Cheryl Manfredi, LCSW has over 20 years experience working with adults and couples. She is a certified psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with four years post graduate training in Object Relations Therapy. "Therapy frequently promotes a more deeply experienced sense of self and others through gradual awareness and honesty with ourselves. "Through listening, witnessing, recognizing and understanding, therapy becomes a greenhouse for the self to develop more fully."
Cheryl Manfredi, LCSW has over 20 years experience working with adults and couples. She is a certified psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with four years post graduate training in Object Relations Therapy. "Therapy frequently promotes a more deeply experienced sense of self and others through gradual awareness and honesty with ourselves. "Through listening, witnessing, recognizing and understanding, therapy becomes a greenhouse for the self to develop more fully."
(551) 486-0091 View (551) 486-0091
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Adnan Kastrat
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Brielle, NJ 08730  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Associate Counselor with a Master's in Clinical and Counseling Psychology from William Paterson University and a Bachelor's in Psychology from Rutgers University. My extensive training at the Kessler Institute focused on psychotherapy for adults and older adults with neurological conditions. As a clinician in the Statewide Clinical Outreach Program for the Elderly, I conducted on-site interventions for mental health crises. In my role as a Case Manager, I emphasized wellness and recovery for individuals with mental disorders.
I am a Licensed Associate Counselor with a Master's in Clinical and Counseling Psychology from William Paterson University and a Bachelor's in Psychology from Rutgers University. My extensive training at the Kessler Institute focused on psychotherapy for adults and older adults with neurological conditions. As a clinician in the Statewide Clinical Outreach Program for the Elderly, I conducted on-site interventions for mental health crises. In my role as a Case Manager, I emphasized wellness and recovery for individuals with mental disorders.
(848) 285-6145 View (848) 285-6145
Photo of Brittany A Weber, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Spring Lake, NJ
Brittany A Weber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Manasquan, NJ 08736
Life's journey can be challenging, even for the strongest among us. In today's often unforgiving world, we may find it daunting and cold, sometimes feeling like we're just trying to "get through" it. But together, we can simplify life by facing its challenges head-on. Every client I've had the privilege of working with has played a crucial role in my growth as a therapist, just as I have supported them in their own unique journeys. Each individual's experiences enrich our collective knowledge, offering opportunities for personalized solutions. Your openness and engagement in therapy empower us to craft the life you dream of.
Life's journey can be challenging, even for the strongest among us. In today's often unforgiving world, we may find it daunting and cold, sometimes feeling like we're just trying to "get through" it. But together, we can simplify life by facing its challenges head-on. Every client I've had the privilege of working with has played a crucial role in my growth as a therapist, just as I have supported them in their own unique journeys. Each individual's experiences enrich our collective knowledge, offering opportunities for personalized solutions. Your openness and engagement in therapy empower us to craft the life you dream of.
(732) 592-3710 View (732) 592-3710

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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.