Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in 74114

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Meryl Audrey Mathewson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114  (Online Only)
I have a passion for helping others understand their mental health issues and how to recover. I enjoy working with people who have eating disorders, borderline personality disorder, mood disorders and suicidal ideation. I believe that recovery is a daily choice and although it can be difficult, it’s possible to live a full life.
I have a passion for helping others understand their mental health issues and how to recover. I enjoy working with people who have eating disorders, borderline personality disorder, mood disorders and suicidal ideation. I believe that recovery is a daily choice and although it can be difficult, it’s possible to live a full life.
(539) 424-2817 View (539) 424-2817
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Katrina Mondragon, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
It's hard to be strong for everyone all the time. You feel life is pulling in too many directions and there is no time to just stop and breathe. Your thoughts won't even shut up long enough to get some sleep. Life wasn't always this hard, but you may not even remember the last time something was actually fun. Feeling broken and beaten by the world is exhausting. It may seem hopeless now, but other people swear by therapy so maybe it will work for you too.
It's hard to be strong for everyone all the time. You feel life is pulling in too many directions and there is no time to just stop and breathe. Your thoughts won't even shut up long enough to get some sleep. Life wasn't always this hard, but you may not even remember the last time something was actually fun. Feeling broken and beaten by the world is exhausting. It may seem hopeless now, but other people swear by therapy so maybe it will work for you too.
(918) 393-4294 View (918) 393-4294
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Tulsa Dialectical Behavior Therapy, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
Living with 'out-of-control' emotions is a powerless and miserable experience. You have unstable relationships, intense anger, extreme mood swings, impulsive and risky behavior, chronic feelings of emptiness, self-harm or suicidal behaviors. It's like you're on an emotional roller coaster and it is SO painful. Left untreated, these problems can be catastrophic to your relationships, career, health and general well-being. There is hope...
Living with 'out-of-control' emotions is a powerless and miserable experience. You have unstable relationships, intense anger, extreme mood swings, impulsive and risky behavior, chronic feelings of emptiness, self-harm or suicidal behaviors. It's like you're on an emotional roller coaster and it is SO painful. Left untreated, these problems can be catastrophic to your relationships, career, health and general well-being. There is hope...
(918) 215-7395 View (918) 215-7395
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Flourish Wellness, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, CEDS-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
Our goal at Flourish Wellness is to offer individuals a non-judgmental environment in which diversity is honored and respected. We recognize especially in women as women, the stress and anxiety related to the world we live in today. We hope that we can offer you a safe space to open yourself up to having compassion for yourself and to one another to find ultimate healing.
Our goal at Flourish Wellness is to offer individuals a non-judgmental environment in which diversity is honored and respected. We recognize especially in women as women, the stress and anxiety related to the world we live in today. We hope that we can offer you a safe space to open yourself up to having compassion for yourself and to one another to find ultimate healing.
(918) 228-0739 View (918) 228-0739
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Dr. Donita Smith
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
Waitlist for new clients
This thing we call LIFE is a beautiful thing but there are times that we are challenged by things that can be very difficult. It could be something that is haunting us from our past that we need to work through so that we can have a better future. It may be something that is currently challenging you in your life to include; relationships, addiction, self-esteem, grief or a multitude of other things.
This thing we call LIFE is a beautiful thing but there are times that we are challenged by things that can be very difficult. It could be something that is haunting us from our past that we need to work through so that we can have a better future. It may be something that is currently challenging you in your life to include; relationships, addiction, self-esteem, grief or a multitude of other things.
(918) 228-5262 View (918) 228-5262
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Terri L Frazee
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74114  (Online Only)
As we continue on our journey through life, we sometimes face periods of discontent, wondering why we are here. We ask ourselves if our lives have meaning. Are we connected to those we care about? Other times we struggle with challenges and grow weary of trying to restore ourselves. I can help you through those struggles in a safe and quiet place.
As we continue on our journey through life, we sometimes face periods of discontent, wondering why we are here. We ask ourselves if our lives have meaning. Are we connected to those we care about? Other times we struggle with challenges and grow weary of trying to restore ourselves. I can help you through those struggles in a safe and quiet place.
(918) 400-3272 View (918) 400-3272
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Susan Hurtado
LMSW
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74114
My goal is to provide low-barrier access for those who are concerned about their mental health. I specialize in management of anxiety, panic, grief and loss, and emotional dysregulation using a Compassion Focused Therapy model and Somatic techniques. I have 15 years of experience working with people who have had a gestational or infant loss or who are at risk of post-partum depression. My practice individualizes treatment based on your lived experience, identities, and beliefs. I am currently booking new client appointments for evenings and weekends and will return all inquiries on Friday afternoons.
My goal is to provide low-barrier access for those who are concerned about their mental health. I specialize in management of anxiety, panic, grief and loss, and emotional dysregulation using a Compassion Focused Therapy model and Somatic techniques. I have 15 years of experience working with people who have had a gestational or infant loss or who are at risk of post-partum depression. My practice individualizes treatment based on your lived experience, identities, and beliefs. I am currently booking new client appointments for evenings and weekends and will return all inquiries on Friday afternoons.
(918) 803-0076 View (918) 803-0076
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Dianna Jurena
Licensed Professional Counselor, MHR, LPC, CTS
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74114
Since May of 2000 I have worked via therapy with those who are feeling hopeless, helpless, worthless and out of control of their lives,experiencing relationship difficulties, connecting with ease with those who are hurting. My passion in life is people. Because I deeply care, my goal is to facilitate lasting positive change in the lives of others. I have since gained effective skills to aid those who have experienced traumatic incidents as well as a long list of pain-causing issues, challenges and disorders.
Since May of 2000 I have worked via therapy with those who are feeling hopeless, helpless, worthless and out of control of their lives,experiencing relationship difficulties, connecting with ease with those who are hurting. My passion in life is people. Because I deeply care, my goal is to facilitate lasting positive change in the lives of others. I have since gained effective skills to aid those who have experienced traumatic incidents as well as a long list of pain-causing issues, challenges and disorders.
(918) 376-3928 View (918) 376-3928
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Linda A Johnstone
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S, CCTP, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
Sometimes life throws problems at you that are bigger than you know how to handle. Struggling with pain can make you wonder where or when you went wrong or if there's something you could have done differently. You feel like you've tried everything but nothing seems to work and you're worried things will get worse. You might feel disconnected from others or even yourself. You do not have to live with shame and guilt. Working with someone who understands you can open up possibilities for change and growth to help you get your life back.
Sometimes life throws problems at you that are bigger than you know how to handle. Struggling with pain can make you wonder where or when you went wrong or if there's something you could have done differently. You feel like you've tried everything but nothing seems to work and you're worried things will get worse. You might feel disconnected from others or even yourself. You do not have to live with shame and guilt. Working with someone who understands you can open up possibilities for change and growth to help you get your life back.
(918) 721-0861 View (918) 721-0861
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Therapeutic Services Inc. P.C. - Wakie Johnson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74114
YOUR well-being is my primary focus. The desired outcome is YOUR ability to maintain healthy resolutions to psychological issues or life stressors. Compassionate professional counseling is provided for children (utilizing play therapy techniques), teens, adults, and families with relational issues, emotional disturbances, trauma, depression, anxiety, and life stressors. The thrust of my eclectic approach is to ENHANCE the quality of YOUR WELL-BEING.
YOUR well-being is my primary focus. The desired outcome is YOUR ability to maintain healthy resolutions to psychological issues or life stressors. Compassionate professional counseling is provided for children (utilizing play therapy techniques), teens, adults, and families with relational issues, emotional disturbances, trauma, depression, anxiety, and life stressors. The thrust of my eclectic approach is to ENHANCE the quality of YOUR WELL-BEING.
(918) 631-7725 View (918) 631-7725
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Matthew Ackenhausen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, EMDR, Consult
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
Do you feel stuck or bogged down, experiencing anxious or fearful thoughts that are keeping you from the things you would like to enjoy or living the life you want? Do you feel exhausted and weighed down by a sense of sadness or emptiness? If this sounds like the difficulties you are experiencing give me a call, I can help. Anxiety and depression are often common responses to loss, grief, or the challenging and traumatic events that happen in our lives.
Do you feel stuck or bogged down, experiencing anxious or fearful thoughts that are keeping you from the things you would like to enjoy or living the life you want? Do you feel exhausted and weighed down by a sense of sadness or emptiness? If this sounds like the difficulties you are experiencing give me a call, I can help. Anxiety and depression are often common responses to loss, grief, or the challenging and traumatic events that happen in our lives.
(918) 791-0251 View (918) 791-0251
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Mary Tidwell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74114
There are so many reasons we may find ourselves struggling with our mental health, whether it be from a traumatic childhood to current life stress. I see clients with a variety of issues but mostly focus on anxiety, depression, stress management, suicidality, and religious trauma. While I respect and value all my clients' personal religious and spiritual backgrounds, I operate from a non-religious standpoint in my counseling process. As a member of the LGBTQIA+ community myself, I also work with clients on issues surrounding gender and sexuality and consider my office a safe space for others within the community.
There are so many reasons we may find ourselves struggling with our mental health, whether it be from a traumatic childhood to current life stress. I see clients with a variety of issues but mostly focus on anxiety, depression, stress management, suicidality, and religious trauma. While I respect and value all my clients' personal religious and spiritual backgrounds, I operate from a non-religious standpoint in my counseling process. As a member of the LGBTQIA+ community myself, I also work with clients on issues surrounding gender and sexuality and consider my office a safe space for others within the community.
(918) 303-5260 View (918) 303-5260
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Jamie R Weiland
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CRC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
(918) 203-8617 View (918) 203-8617

Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.