Emotionally Focused Therapists in Havelock, NC

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Che Hurt Ward
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Havelock, NC 28532
Its a TOXIC WORLD, social media and COVID have devastated our lives and caused so much pain. Its hard to know where to turn and who can actually understand or help. Having somewhere to go where you are understood and accepted is the first step. What comes after is amazing!
Its a TOXIC WORLD, social media and COVID have devastated our lives and caused so much pain. Its hard to know where to turn and who can actually understand or help. Having somewhere to go where you are understood and accepted is the first step. What comes after is amazing!
(252) 599-5027 View (252) 599-5027
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Hurt and Healing Behavioral Health and Wellness
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Havelock, NC 28532
HEALING IS AN ACTION WORD. It can be overwhelming finding a therapist. Reaching out for help can be difficult in itself. You’ve already taken the biggest step! Its important that the provider you choose understand you as an individual, your needs, YOUR definition of the problem (not anyone else’s). Even if we are not the best fit for you, we can provide a safe, confidential space to examine your needs in order to find the best provider for you.
HEALING IS AN ACTION WORD. It can be overwhelming finding a therapist. Reaching out for help can be difficult in itself. You’ve already taken the biggest step! Its important that the provider you choose understand you as an individual, your needs, YOUR definition of the problem (not anyone else’s). Even if we are not the best fit for you, we can provide a safe, confidential space to examine your needs in order to find the best provider for you.
(252) 652-6047 View (252) 652-6047
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Deborah Ashway
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC, LCAS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Havelock, NC 28532
EMDR Trained and Certified. Many people find themselves stuck in unconscious patterns that obstruct success, joy and the life they were meant to live. I work with you in exploring your daily patterns and how your experiences may have shaped you. After careful assessment, we work together to establish minor adjustments that set you on a course of optimal balance. Small changes can have profound effects. We target the root of the emotions, which have positive results in enhancing self-confidence, relationships, career, success, and ultimately bringing you back to your highest, most authentic self where you can experience true joy.
EMDR Trained and Certified. Many people find themselves stuck in unconscious patterns that obstruct success, joy and the life they were meant to live. I work with you in exploring your daily patterns and how your experiences may have shaped you. After careful assessment, we work together to establish minor adjustments that set you on a course of optimal balance. Small changes can have profound effects. We target the root of the emotions, which have positive results in enhancing self-confidence, relationships, career, success, and ultimately bringing you back to your highest, most authentic self where you can experience true joy.
(252) 424-0630 View (252) 424-0630
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Alex Bonicelli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA
Verified Verified
Havelock, NC 28532
Finding a therapist you can trust is key when pursuing mental health services. I believe that all aspects of a client's life are relevant and contribute to their overall mental health. I work with individuals/ families experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, irregular mood, stress, trauma, and behavioral issues. I also work with clients who are having a hard time adjusting to life changes, grief, and loss. I utilize a variety of interventions in order to provide the best quality of treatment for each client.
Finding a therapist you can trust is key when pursuing mental health services. I believe that all aspects of a client's life are relevant and contribute to their overall mental health. I work with individuals/ families experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, irregular mood, stress, trauma, and behavioral issues. I also work with clients who are having a hard time adjusting to life changes, grief, and loss. I utilize a variety of interventions in order to provide the best quality of treatment for each client.
(252) 254-2444 View (252) 254-2444
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R. David Morrow
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Havelock, NC 28532
Accepting New Clients: Is your dream of living happily ever after with your spouse becoming a frustrating nightmare? Does your conflict with your spouse devolve into criticism of each other? Do you feel like you are constantly defending yourself and developing feelings of contempt for your spouse? Has communication almost completely stopped? Have you or your spouse had an affair or been unfaithful by spending time, energy, and financial resources on things that do not represent the commitments you made to each other? If so, I hear you, and I have been there.
Accepting New Clients: Is your dream of living happily ever after with your spouse becoming a frustrating nightmare? Does your conflict with your spouse devolve into criticism of each other? Do you feel like you are constantly defending yourself and developing feelings of contempt for your spouse? Has communication almost completely stopped? Have you or your spouse had an affair or been unfaithful by spending time, energy, and financial resources on things that do not represent the commitments you made to each other? If so, I hear you, and I have been there.
(252) 254-2983 View (252) 254-2983
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Robin Jones
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Havelock, NC 28532  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am a licensed psychologist, PsyPACT member, and former adjunct faculty of Craven Community and Lenoir Community College. I work under the umbrella of Alpha Neurobehavioral Clinic in Jacksonville, NC. I help individuals ages 20 and older to manage conditions such as generalized anxiety, health anxiety, depression, adjustment disorders, panic attacks, PTSD and emotional eating. I also help individuals with things such as communication skills, building boundaries, life transitions, being a military spouse, weathering the throes of peri-menopause and menopause, adopting a vegan lifestyle, grief and much more!
I am a licensed psychologist, PsyPACT member, and former adjunct faculty of Craven Community and Lenoir Community College. I work under the umbrella of Alpha Neurobehavioral Clinic in Jacksonville, NC. I help individuals ages 20 and older to manage conditions such as generalized anxiety, health anxiety, depression, adjustment disorders, panic attacks, PTSD and emotional eating. I also help individuals with things such as communication skills, building boundaries, life transitions, being a military spouse, weathering the throes of peri-menopause and menopause, adopting a vegan lifestyle, grief and much more!
(910) 991-2044 View (910) 991-2044
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Vicki Howe
Counselor, MS, LCMHC, LCAS, CCTP, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Havelock, NC 28532
We all arrive at turning points in life, a place in which we realize that our current path no longer suits our needs or reflects our values. Often, we develop ways of coping with life’s stressors and continue to use these outdated coping methods long after they have lost their purpose. Therapy is most effective when it addresses bio-psycho-social wellness in all areas. I will listen to your needs and desired outcomes to help you create your ideal plan for recovery and wellness.
We all arrive at turning points in life, a place in which we realize that our current path no longer suits our needs or reflects our values. Often, we develop ways of coping with life’s stressors and continue to use these outdated coping methods long after they have lost their purpose. Therapy is most effective when it addresses bio-psycho-social wellness in all areas. I will listen to your needs and desired outcomes to help you create your ideal plan for recovery and wellness.
(252) 300-0862 View (252) 300-0862
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Compassion Counseling Center ENC, PC
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, DMin, MAEd, LCMHCS, NBCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Havelock, NC 28532
I have worked as a therapist for 23 years in various settings and have been licensed since 2006. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor/Supervisor, I have provided family, couple and individual counseling for adults. I am EMDR trained. I address parenting skills, marital issues, trauma, mood disorders, behavior disorders, thought disorders, career concerns, and spiritual concerns. As a professional Christian counselor, I believe that the Lord has the power to heal marriages, families, and individuals using Jesus as our example of how to live life and find perfect peace.
I have worked as a therapist for 23 years in various settings and have been licensed since 2006. As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor/Supervisor, I have provided family, couple and individual counseling for adults. I am EMDR trained. I address parenting skills, marital issues, trauma, mood disorders, behavior disorders, thought disorders, career concerns, and spiritual concerns. As a professional Christian counselor, I believe that the Lord has the power to heal marriages, families, and individuals using Jesus as our example of how to live life and find perfect peace.
(252) 648-7175 View (252) 648-7175
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Kailey C Sykes
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHC-A
Verified Verified
Havelock, NC 28532
Not accepting new clients
Step into a safe and accepting space for personal growth. As a caring and dedicated Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, my goal is to create a welcoming space where you can openly share your emotions and experiences, knowing that you will be met with understanding and support. At OTFC, we are a faith-based practice that respects the rights of every individual to embrace other faiths and make their own decisions about faith. We honor and embrace diversity, welcoming clients from all walks of life.
Step into a safe and accepting space for personal growth. As a caring and dedicated Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, my goal is to create a welcoming space where you can openly share your emotions and experiences, knowing that you will be met with understanding and support. At OTFC, we are a faith-based practice that respects the rights of every individual to embrace other faiths and make their own decisions about faith. We honor and embrace diversity, welcoming clients from all walks of life.
(252) 899-2697 View (252) 899-2697

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Ashley Hough Counseling PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cherry Point, NC 28533
Welcome to your first step of therapy, looking for a therapist! It can be nerve wracking to take that first step and reach out-but making that call or sending the email can make all the difference in your life. Let this be your moment! Feeling nervous, unsure, or overwhelmed? It’s totally normal. I’m here to help you. As your therapist I want to hear your story to help you work through those challenging issues. I'm here to assist you in finding and implementing tools that will help you cope with the stressors you are currently facing while also diving deeper to heal the root of the issue.
Welcome to your first step of therapy, looking for a therapist! It can be nerve wracking to take that first step and reach out-but making that call or sending the email can make all the difference in your life. Let this be your moment! Feeling nervous, unsure, or overwhelmed? It’s totally normal. I’m here to help you. As your therapist I want to hear your story to help you work through those challenging issues. I'm here to assist you in finding and implementing tools that will help you cope with the stressors you are currently facing while also diving deeper to heal the root of the issue.
(910) 504-9356 View (910) 504-9356
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Tabitha G Velotti
Counselor, LCMHC-A
Verified Verified
Cherry Point, NC 28533
Tabitha Velotti is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate (LCMHCa) with extensive experience providing mental health services to active duty service members and their families. She is passionate about helping individuals and families achieve mental wellness and build healthy relationships.
Tabitha Velotti is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate (LCMHCa) with extensive experience providing mental health services to active duty service members and their families. She is passionate about helping individuals and families achieve mental wellness and build healthy relationships.
(252) 888-6454 View (252) 888-6454
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Lisa Harden
Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Newport, NC 28570
I love my work with children, teens, and families. I am driven by my passion to help others discover their potential by using individualized methods to fit the needs of those I work with. I have found that many couples get lost in the day-to-day activities losing track of each others needs. I enjoy helping couples learn new skills that can help them reconnect and learn to navigate life stages together. Children and teens are faced with many societal pressures that can be challenging for adults to understand. By working collaboratively the discovery of healthy communication can benefit families.
I love my work with children, teens, and families. I am driven by my passion to help others discover their potential by using individualized methods to fit the needs of those I work with. I have found that many couples get lost in the day-to-day activities losing track of each others needs. I enjoy helping couples learn new skills that can help them reconnect and learn to navigate life stages together. Children and teens are faced with many societal pressures that can be challenging for adults to understand. By working collaboratively the discovery of healthy communication can benefit families.
(910) 501-2035 View (910) 501-2035
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Brighter Life Counseling, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC, LPC, LCAS, CCMC, DBTC
Verified Verified
Newport, NC 28570
Life can be very difficult at times, and I want to help. I have had the opportunity to train in a variety of therapeutic modalities, making me uniquely qualified to utilize the interventions that are most appropriate for each of my clients. In order to determine the most appropriate form of treatment, I collaborate with each of my clients to determine the issues they would like to address and the goals they would like to achieve. We are then in a better position to determine the most efficacious treatment modality.
Life can be very difficult at times, and I want to help. I have had the opportunity to train in a variety of therapeutic modalities, making me uniquely qualified to utilize the interventions that are most appropriate for each of my clients. In order to determine the most appropriate form of treatment, I collaborate with each of my clients to determine the issues they would like to address and the goals they would like to achieve. We are then in a better position to determine the most efficacious treatment modality.
(910) 378-3685 View (910) 378-3685
Mary Folger Summerlin
Counselor, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Newport, NC 28570
I enjoy working with individuals from a variety of backgrounds and with a wide array of presenting difficulties. I am person-centered and assist individuals with working towards their own personal goals. I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups to assist with the achievement of these goals. While I feel comfortable addressing any issue, I am always willing to refer to another provider if needed.
I enjoy working with individuals from a variety of backgrounds and with a wide array of presenting difficulties. I am person-centered and assist individuals with working towards their own personal goals. I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups to assist with the achievement of these goals. While I feel comfortable addressing any issue, I am always willing to refer to another provider if needed.
(252) 297-6201 View (252) 297-6201
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Tracy Berryhill
Counselor, MFT, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newport, NC 28570
Are you struggling with anxiety? Depression? Family or marital issues? Just having a hard time getting through your day to day? We've all been there and I want to help you create and implement positive goals in your life to get you going in the right direction.
Are you struggling with anxiety? Depression? Family or marital issues? Just having a hard time getting through your day to day? We've all been there and I want to help you create and implement positive goals in your life to get you going in the right direction.
(252) 616-0503 View (252) 616-0503
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Johanna Bennett
Counselor, LCAS, LCMHC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Bern, NC 28560  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
How many times have you told yourself, 'this year it will be different' abut you might find yourself in the same loop of unhappiness and low motivation to change anything. You give and give, trying to make everyone happy around you, and it sometimes works and sometimes not. Now you feel drained, exhausted and a big depressing feeling has settled in your chest, making it hard to breathe. There is a way out! Whatever coping mechanism you have tried has not worked, and it might have become a problem of its own (Substance Use). It is time to try something different! It is time to give yourself a chance on happiness!
How many times have you told yourself, 'this year it will be different' abut you might find yourself in the same loop of unhappiness and low motivation to change anything. You give and give, trying to make everyone happy around you, and it sometimes works and sometimes not. Now you feel drained, exhausted and a big depressing feeling has settled in your chest, making it hard to breathe. There is a way out! Whatever coping mechanism you have tried has not worked, and it might have become a problem of its own (Substance Use). It is time to try something different! It is time to give yourself a chance on happiness!
(704) 275-6169 View (704) 275-6169

Online Therapists

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Marie Francis
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCAS, NCC, DCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Jacksonville, NC 28546  (Online Only)
Relationship Counseling: I offer a Solution-Focused, Emotionally Focused (EFT) and Narrative therapy approaches in most cases for relationship counseling.
"Once upon a time..." is the beginning of many stories If you are seeking therapy, you have a story to tell. Perhaps your story is filtered through the lens of depression, anxiety, trauma or substance dependence. I will listen, and remain attentive to, and curious about the intricacies of your story. I will provide an atmosphere of safety without judgment so that enlightenment, healing and growth can take place. I use Solution-Focused approach to therapy and Motivational Interviewing techniques in my work with couples, families and individuals to help enhance and maintain rewarding relationships and manage life transitions.
Relationship Counseling: I offer a Solution-Focused, Emotionally Focused (EFT) and Narrative therapy approaches in most cases for relationship counseling.
"Once upon a time..." is the beginning of many stories If you are seeking therapy, you have a story to tell. Perhaps your story is filtered through the lens of depression, anxiety, trauma or substance dependence. I will listen, and remain attentive to, and curious about the intricacies of your story. I will provide an atmosphere of safety without judgment so that enlightenment, healing and growth can take place. I use Solution-Focused approach to therapy and Motivational Interviewing techniques in my work with couples, families and individuals to help enhance and maintain rewarding relationships and manage life transitions.
(910) 202-6110 View (910) 202-6110
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Clodagh O' Herlihy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CCHT
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28405
I am influenced by an array of modalities; Transactional Analysis, Energy Psychology, Emotionally focused therapy.
Currently, I have openings for individuals and couples. We can be discerning, intuitive, & emotionally intelligent in our selection of partners. However, we won't know how real our love is until we go through the fire of conflict and stay centered in the face of feedback. The clients that show up in my office need support with conflict, abuse, trauma, mood disorders, ADHD, commitment, relationship and sexual intimacy. Clients want to feel worthy of love and establish trust and commitment in their relationships. Clients want to be heard, seen, loved for who they are and be open to reciprocity in love.
I am influenced by an array of modalities; Transactional Analysis, Energy Psychology, Emotionally focused therapy.
Currently, I have openings for individuals and couples. We can be discerning, intuitive, & emotionally intelligent in our selection of partners. However, we won't know how real our love is until we go through the fire of conflict and stay centered in the face of feedback. The clients that show up in my office need support with conflict, abuse, trauma, mood disorders, ADHD, commitment, relationship and sexual intimacy. Clients want to feel worthy of love and establish trust and commitment in their relationships. Clients want to be heard, seen, loved for who they are and be open to reciprocity in love.
(910) 469-0674 View (910) 469-0674
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Dr. Cara M. Thompson
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LMFT/S
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28412
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy and EMDR and I have experience integrating neuroscience-informed concepts into family, couples, individual, and parent-focused therapy.
Life can be overwhelming and stressful especially for those balancing family and roles within organizations that require your energy, time, and leadership. Perhaps you have an idea of the type of parent, partner, or professional you'd like to be, but find it difficult to consistently put those values into practice. I'm a Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion to provide holistic support to professionals and families. Whether you prefer exploring personal matters or the stressors of a demanding career, I would love to collaborate in identifying and working toward goals most important to you.
I am trained in Emotionally Focused Family Therapy and EMDR and I have experience integrating neuroscience-informed concepts into family, couples, individual, and parent-focused therapy.
Life can be overwhelming and stressful especially for those balancing family and roles within organizations that require your energy, time, and leadership. Perhaps you have an idea of the type of parent, partner, or professional you'd like to be, but find it difficult to consistently put those values into practice. I'm a Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion to provide holistic support to professionals and families. Whether you prefer exploring personal matters or the stressors of a demanding career, I would love to collaborate in identifying and working toward goals most important to you.
(910) 490-3695 View (910) 490-3695
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Nicole Rice
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, NC 28403
I believe is an eclectic approach utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Zones of Regulation and other trauma informed techniques.
I believe that all people have the ability to heal, grow and strive for their best selves, during any stressor or stage of life. Starting therapy whether its for the first time or the seventh time can come with a multitude of emotions. I strive to create an open and safe environment where we can explore those emotions and life stressors. I believe in a collaborative approach where you are the expert of your life and I am a guide to help seek insight and develop tools to allow for the growth, change and healing that you seek.
I believe is an eclectic approach utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Zones of Regulation and other trauma informed techniques.
I believe that all people have the ability to heal, grow and strive for their best selves, during any stressor or stage of life. Starting therapy whether its for the first time or the seventh time can come with a multitude of emotions. I strive to create an open and safe environment where we can explore those emotions and life stressors. I believe in a collaborative approach where you are the expert of your life and I am a guide to help seek insight and develop tools to allow for the growth, change and healing that you seek.
(910) 708-9927 x102 View (910) 708-9927 x102

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.