Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Solvang, CA 93463
Let's Connect (805) 623-4453
Are you feeling disconnected from your partner? Do you find yourselves stuck in the same painful arguments, where no matter what you say, you feel unheard, unseen, and misunderstood? This feeling—of being alone even when you're together—can be one of the most isolating experiences in a relationship. It often breeds thoughts like, "I don't matter," "I'm not important," or "I can never get it right," which only deepen the sense of rejection and distance. My specialty is couples and individual counseling for relationship issues. I work with people who long to reconnect, rebuild trust, and find their way back to each other.
The goal is to break free from destructive patterns and cultivate a relationship where both partners feel secure, valued, and understood. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy, a well-researched and highly effective model for relationship counseling. EFT is not about learning to argue better; it's about understanding the deeper emotions that fuel your conflicts.
Counseling is a journey toward healing the bond between you and your partner. It’s about transforming a relationship filled with distress into one that serves as a safe harbor and a source of strength and comfort for both of you. If you are ready to stop the cycle of conflict and start building a more loving, secure connection, I am here to help guide you.
Call or Email Beverly Raff now for a free 15 minute consultation - (805) 623-4453
Let's Connect (805) 623-4453
Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $250
- Couple Sessions $250
Payment Methods
ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, VisaInsurance
- OUT-OF-NETWORK PROVIDER
- Out of Network
Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 623-4453
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 102968 Beverly Raff
- In Practice for 12 years
- Attended UCLA, BA Sociology , Graduated 1995
- Certificate from BBS # 102968 / 2017
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 623-4453
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Divorce
Expertise
- Adult Children of emotionally immature parents
- Anxiety
- Blended family
- Codependency
- Depression
- Family Conflict
- Infidelity
- Life Transitions
- Peer Relationships
- Sexual Addiction
- Stress
Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 623-4453
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- AEDP
- Attachment-based
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 623-4453
Location
Nearby Areas
Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 623-4453