
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
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3 Endorsed
345 7th Avenue, 12th FL, New York, NY 10001
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I believe the therapist-client relationship relies on mutual trust which is earned, not given. Having clear and measurable goals provides a strong foundation and accountability for our time together. With mutual trust and clear goals, I will help you build bridges between the unrealistic ideal self and the authentic self. Together we will explore and challenge ‘automatic’ routines and responses, develop discomfort tolerance and practice self-compassion. I offer radical acceptance, self-efficacy, compassion, empathy, trust, pushback, and validation.
I love challenging the traditional image of a therapist: therapy shouldn’t be stiff and impersonal. In sessions, I bring my personality into the room, embracing a 'seriously unserious' style that thrives on genuine curiosity and enthusiastic engagement.
When I’m not at work you’ll find me planning a ski trip, on the NYT Cooking app, or walking my bernedoodle on the Lower East Side. While I take a multifaceted theoretical approach, I’ve done focused studies in REBT and EMDR. If you're particularly interested in using EMDR for trauma reprocessing, please mention this when you reach out.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $250
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Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 013202 Benjamin J Goldman
- In Practice for 4 years
- Attended Hunter College - School of Education, Mental Health Counseling, Graduated 2021
- Licensed by State of New York / 013202
- Certificate from EMDRIA - Practicum and Consultation in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) 2024
- Certificate from Albert Ellis Institute - Advanced Certificate Practicum in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) 2022
Education and Years In Practice
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Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Men's Issues
- Relationship Issues
- Sex Therapy
Expertise
- Alcohol Use
- Borderline Personality (BPD)
- Codependency
- Drug Abuse
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Personality Disorders
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Self Esteem
- Sexual Abuse
- Sexual Addiction
- Stress
- Substance Use
3 Endorsements
Client Focus
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Adults
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Individuals
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- EMDR
- Gestalt
- Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
- Relational
- Trauma Focused
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Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC