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Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
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Benjamin J Goldman

Counselor, LMHC

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Available both in-person and online
1 Christopher Street New York, NY 10014
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I believe the therapist-client relationship relies on mutual trust which is earned, not given. Having clear and measurable goals provides a strong foundation and accountability for our time together. With mutual trust and clear goals, I will help you build bridges between the unrealistic ideal self and the authentic self. Together we will explore and challenge ‘automatic’ routines and responses, develop discomfort tolerance and practice self-compassion. I offer radical acceptance, self-efficacy, compassion, empathy, trust, pushback, and validation.
I love challenging the traditional image of a therapist: therapy shouldn’t be stiff and impersonal. In sessions, I bring my personality into the room, embracing a 'seriously unserious' style that thrives on genuine curiosity and enthusiastic engagement.
When I’m not at work you’ll find me planning a ski trip, on the NYT Cooking app, or walking my bernedoodle on the Lower East Side. While I take a multifaceted theoretical approach, I’ve done focused studies in REBT and EMDR. If you're particularly interested in using EMDR for trauma reprocessing, please mention this when you reach out.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

1 Christopher Street

New York, NY 10014 map
My website
I am a hybrid therapist; most of my clients work with me in-person and online.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Relationship Issues and Sex Therapy 
$300 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Therapy is about moving towards acceptance—not because acceptance is going to solve everything or change other people, but it grounds us.
Benjamin J Goldman
Connect with Benjamin J Goldman
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

1 Christopher Street

New York, NY 10014 map
My website
I am a hybrid therapist; most of my clients work with me in-person and online.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Relationship Issues and Sex Therapy 
$300 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Therapy is about moving towards acceptance—not because acceptance is going to solve everything or change other people, but it grounds us.
Benjamin J Goldman

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $300
  • Couple Sessions $400
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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Counselor, LMHC
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Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
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Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 013202 Benjamin J Goldman

    • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 5 years
  • Attended Hunter College - School of Education, Mental Health Counseling, Graduated 2021

    • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Albert Ellis Institute - Advanced Certificate Practicum in Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) 2022
  • Certificate from EMDRIA - Practicum and Consultation in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) 2024
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Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience.
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Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Men's Issues
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex Therapy

Expertise

  • Alcohol Use
  • Borderline Personality (BPD)
  • Codependency
  • Drug Abuse
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
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I work primarily with men on men's topics: sex and intimacy, family and fatherhood, attachment and conflict resolution. I also do EMDR for trauma reprocessing. If you have disturbing memories stuck from the past, I can guide you to "unstuck" those memories and subsequent beliefs. I am a cognitive therapist at my core and I am currently writing a book on breakups and relationship rituals.
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I work primarily with men on men's topics: sex and intimacy, family and fatherhood, attachment and conflict resolution. I also do EMDR for trauma reprocessing. If you have disturbing memories stuck from the past, I can guide you to "unstuck" those memories and subsequent beliefs. I am a cognitive therapist at my core and I am currently writing a book on breakups and relationship rituals.
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

9 Endorsements

Dr. Zach Rawlings
Dr. Zach Rawlings
Psychologist, PsyD
Ben's a wonderful fellow EMDR colleague that has a strong grasp of the healing power of EMDR. His passion for the work shines through, and he approaches his work with a lot of thoughtfulness and care. Glad I get to work alongside such a talented therapist.
Laurilyn Jones
Laurilyn Jones
MA, PhD, MHC-LP
Ben is an incredible clinician. His energy and enthusiasm are contagious, and he cares so much about his clients. I recommend him for anyone looking for therapeutic support!
Dr. Thomas Whitfield
Dr. Thomas Whitfield
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Ben is a fantastic human being with a huge heart. He has a wealth of lived experience that he brings to his therapeutic approach. He is extremely compassionate and thoughtful, while still urging clients to reach their long-term goals.
Daniel Spence
Daniel Spence
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Benjamin is an incredibly astute and intelligent therapist. His wit and playful energy make therapy exciting, while also healing. He provides concrete tools that you'll actually want to use. I wholeheartedly recommend Benjamin and trust him completely :)
John Berno at The Berno Group
John Berno at The Berno Group
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, CRC
Ben is an exquisitely caring therapist, who utilizes his vast life experience combined with excellent clinical skills to provide tailored treatment for every client he works with. His attention to detail and true care shines though in his work.
Leonard Citron
Leonard Citron
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Ben is an exceptional clinician! His nuanced understanding of trauma, recovery and anxiety combined with his empathetic therapeutic style creates a transformative healing environment for his clients. Ben is a trusted and highly recommended colleague.
Scott Percelay
Scott Percelay
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MSEd, LMHC
Ben is an incredible therapist who puts authenticity at the center of his work. He is warm, organized, and knowledgable. He blends structure and levity in the best way. I'm grateful to have him as a colleague. Anyone who sees Ben is in good hands.
Ryan Jacobs
Ryan Jacobs
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
I have tremendous respect for Ben as a therapist and colleague. His work with couples is exceptional, and I deeply admire his ability to connect with clients. His warmth, insight, and clinical expertise make him an invaluable resource.
Bradley Levine
Bradley Levine
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Benjamin is a charismatic and considerate friend and colleague. I'd especially recommend his approach for men looking to break unhelpful patterns and for those wanting to process trauma and build a more integrated sense of self. An excellent clinician!

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • EMDR
  • Gestalt
  • Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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My core therapy is CBT/REBT. This is all about how you subconsciously talk to yourself and evaluate yourself. It is the building blocks for self-esteem. Clients who are interested in reprocessing unresolved pain points or past trauma may benefit from reprocessing through EMDR. This mode of therapy examines images, thoughts, sounds, feelings, and body sensations so you can let go of the past.
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
My core therapy is CBT/REBT. This is all about how you subconsciously talk to yourself and evaluate yourself. It is the building blocks for self-esteem. Clients who are interested in reprocessing unresolved pain points or past trauma may benefit from reprocessing through EMDR. This mode of therapy examines images, thoughts, sounds, feelings, and body sensations so you can let go of the past.
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Location

Primary Location

1 Christopher Street

New York, NY 10014

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I am a hybrid therapist; most of my clients work with me in-person and online.
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC
"
I am a hybrid therapist; most of my clients work with me in-person and online.
Photo of Benjamin J Goldman, Counselor, LMHC
Benjamin J Goldman
Counselor, LMHC