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Shelburne, VT 05482
Are you looking for expert, directive, & compassionate individual or couples therapy? Do you want a seasoned counselor who has an OPENING? I’m here and available! I am a VT State Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in private practice with over three decades of experience & extensive training with the leading experts in relationships. Blending Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT) with Esther Perel's groundbreaking research on desire, love & infidelity recovery, you will learn skills to repair your relationship. I help couples build strong, authentic and passionate lives together. (Read verified reviews on my website.)
I provide you with a dedicated, safe space to tackle complex relationship issues and restore true intimacy. My style is empathetic, active & skill-based. I will provide you with the tools, practice, consistency and accountability needed to change your relationship in real-time, repairing intimacy and trust.
Whether you need to heal from deep betrayal, discern whether to stay or go, or you want to actively rebuild passion and closeness, I can help you achieve your goals in 6-12 sessions. Reach out today by completing the New Client Information form on my website and I’ll be in touch to schedule an initial consultation to see if it’s a good fit for you.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available in-person

Barbara Boutsikaris

Shelburne, VT 05482

(802) 490-3890
My website
As of 8/8/26 I have current openings for in-person individual or couples therapy. Just complete the New Client form on my website.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Family Conflict and Sex Therapy 
$175 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (802) 490-3890
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC

My Practice at a Glance

Available in-person

Barbara Boutsikaris

Shelburne, VT 05482

(802) 490-3890
My website
As of 8/8/26 I have current openings for in-person individual or couples therapy. Just complete the New Client form on my website.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Family Conflict and Sex Therapy 
$175 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Apple Cash, Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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Although I no longer accept insurance, I can offer you a sliding fee and/or a paid invoice ("super-bill") for you to submit to your insurance to try to get reimbursed for any "out of network" benefits you may have.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890
"
Although I no longer accept insurance, I can offer you a sliding fee and/or a paid invoice ("super-bill") for you to submit to your insurance to try to get reimbursed for any "out of network" benefits you may have.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Vermont / 068.0000211 Barbara Boutsikaris
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 34 years
  • Attended University of Vermont, Graduated 1992
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from American Counseling Association 5081180
  • Certificate from ACA
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I have over 30 years experience counseling adolescents & adults with an array of issues. I currently specialize in couples work with adults. I also offer clinical supervision to therapists.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890
"
I have over 30 years experience counseling adolescents & adults with an array of issues. I currently specialize in couples work with adults. I also offer clinical supervision to therapists.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Family Conflict
  • Sex Therapy

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Gay
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Women's Issues
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As your therapist, I will: stay curious and interested in your work; listen without judgment; communicate understanding; witness your feelings; provide direction & support; gently challenge your stressful beliefs; teach you the skills you need to get out of therapy; and believe in your ability to think and act in new ways.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890
"
As your therapist, I will: stay curious and interested in your work; listen without judgment; communicate understanding; witness your feelings; provide direction & support; gently challenge your stressful beliefs; teach you the skills you need to get out of therapy; and believe in your ability to think and act in new ways.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890

5 Endorsements

Kristen J Ginsburg
Kristen J Ginsburg
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalMA
Barbara is an insightful counselor and is skilled at helping individuals work through difficulties in their relationships.
Morella Devost
Morella Devost
Licensed Clinical Mental Health CounselorEdMMALCMHC
Barbara is the most authentic, generous, and fun counselor. It is delightful just to be in her presence.
Sarah E. Sears
Sarah E. Sears
CounselorMSLCMHC
Barbara is a skilled and compassionate therapist with a remarkable ability to work with high-functioning couples and families. People benefit from her direct style, thoughtful insight, and ability to help partners navigate complex dynamics with honest care
Rachel Oblak
Rachel Oblak
CounselorMALCMHC
I can't think of a couples counselor who loves the work more than Barbara. She brings extensive experience in working with couples combined with an ongoing thirst for further development of her skills with premier experts in the field.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Single Parent

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Queer Allied
Single Parent

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Interpersonal
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Relational Life Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • The Work of Byron Katie
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Relational Life Theory, Family Systems Theory and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy inform my work. However, you will decide what works best for you and how you will know when you don't need therapy any more.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890
"
Relational Life Theory, Family Systems Theory and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy inform my work. However, you will decide what works best for you and how you will know when you don't need therapy any more.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
or call with questions - (802) 490-3890

Location

Primary Location

Barbara Boutsikaris

Shelburne, VT 05482

(802) 490-3890
"
As of 8/8/26 I have current openings for in-person individual or couples therapy. Just complete the New Client form on my website.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Take the first step to help. Call now - (802) 490-3890
"
As of 8/8/26 I have current openings for in-person individual or couples therapy. Just complete the New Client form on my website.
Photo of Barbara Boutsikaris, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Barbara Boutsikaris
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MS, LCMHC
Take the first step to help. Call now - (802) 490-3890