Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC (she, her)

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6 Endorsed

Pacific Grove, CA 93950

(831) 222-1559

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Feeling overwhelmed navigating neurodivergence in your life or relationship? Does communication feel like you’re speaking different languages? You’re not broken—and you’re not alone. I support neurodivergent individuals, couples, and leaders—including those with Autism, ADHD, and Complex Trauma—ready for meaningful change. Together, we’ll move at a steady pace, explore sensory needs, and create communication strategies that work. I also provide Autism and ADHD assessments for adults across California.

Why Work With Me? Lived Insight: Over 40 years in a neurodivergent relationship. - Specialized Support: Deep expertise in neurodivergent dynamics. - Tailored Tools: Grounded strategies that respect your nervous system. - Healing Focus: I help you build trust—in yourself and each other. - Steady Results: Real progress, built with compassion and clarity.

If you and your partner have tried therapy before and still feel misunderstood or stuck, you’re not alone. Many neurodiverse couples need a different kind of support. Together, we’ll slow down, honor your needs, and build steady practices that help you feel seen, valued, and connected. Reach to me today :)

Call or Email Barbara Blaze Lazarony now for a free 15 minute consultation - (831) 222-1559

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Pacific Grove, CA 93950

(831) 222-1559

I am accepting new clients.

I specialize in Autism, ADHD and Autism & ADHD Assessments

$285 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

Let's Connect (831) 222-1559

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Pacific Grove, CA 93950

(831) 222-1559

I am accepting new clients.

I specialize in Autism, ADHD and Autism & ADHD Assessments

$285 Per Session

I see individuals and couples

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $285
Couple Sessions $285
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Mastercard, Visa

I am a "self-pay" provider, you can decide on the frequency of our sessions & the length of time you are in therapy. It's up to you!

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

I am a "self-pay" provider, you can decide on the frequency of our sessions & the length of time you are in therapy. It's up to you!

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 151788 Barbara Lynn Lazarony

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 21 years

Additional Credentials

Certificate from The Institute for Transpersonal Psychology 2010

Certificate from Science of Hypnopsychology Certified Hypnotherapist / 2012

I am passionate about working with couples and individuals who identify as Autistic and have ADHD or complex trauma. I love working with clients who are Neurodiverse, because I am too!

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

I am passionate about working with couples and individuals who identify as Autistic and have ADHD or complex trauma. I love working with clients who are Neurodiverse, because I am too!

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Autism
ADHD
Autism & ADHD Assessments

Expertise

Asperger's Syndrome
Bisexual
Coping Skills
cTrauma & PTSD
Lesbian
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Marital and Premarital
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Women's Issues

My goal is to support neurodiverse individuals and couples in gaining greater self-awareness, understanding their patterns and behaviors, and developing more effective communication and coping strategies. At the core of my work is the belief that every individual has the potential to overcome challenges and create positive change in their lives.

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

6 Endorsements

Sara Moss

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

Blaze is a pro, especially when it comes to couples therapy. She is incredibly passionate about her work, warm, and has impacted some my client's lives.

Robin Greenblat Neurodiverse Therapy & Assessments

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MHA

Blaze has an extraordinary ability to support and empower others with deep compassion and insight. Her guidance fosters growth, healing, and clarity creating a space where clients feel truly heard and inspired to navigate life's challenges with confidence.

ND Relationships/Couples Healing Intensives

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

Barbara is deeply commitment to the progress and well-being of her clients as she expertly guides them towards real growth. Her approach is both compassionate and effective, making her an invaluable resource for her clients.

Joseph Kaiser

Marriage & Family Therapist, BA, MA, MFT

Barbara is an exceptionally committed therapist who has a track record in healing individuals and couples alike. She has a breadth of experience that serves as a north star for her clients and associates. Empathetic, understanding, and grounded.

Nancy Teng Rushing

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Blaze is a brilliant, empathetic therapist and mentor. Her warm, kind presence makes me feel deeply supported- I can see how clients feel this too. I admire her leadership, insight, and ability to truly listen with care. She's a gem of a person/therapist!

Lauren Florio

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, AuDHD

Blaze is an expert at bringing warmth into the room with her clients. She has an extensive background in neurodiversity and working with couples. Anyone looking to putting some love into their relationship would be in good hands with Blaze.

Client Focus

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Brainspotting
Coaching
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Family / Marital
Gottman Method
Integrative
Strength-Based
Trauma Focused

I use a blend of treatment modalities in my practice. My approach is individualized to each client's unique needs and goals.

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

I use a blend of treatment modalities in my practice. My approach is individualized to each client's unique needs and goals.

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (831) 222-1559

Groups

Neurodiverse Couples Counseling Center

Hosted by

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

We're a group of therapists who have come together to treat the neurodiverse community with respect, develop a robust set of tools to help neurodiverse couples, approach neurodiverse healing from a strength-based approach. We understand that the trauma of past misunderstanding needs to be healed in a gentle way, share best practices for neurodiverse therapy amongst the team so we can offer you a beneficial experience, and offer integrated therapy where the couple and both individuals can each get their own counselor; yet, the therapy itself is synchronized to move to the same goals. Website: https://rebrand.ly/NCCC-

Expertise

ADHD

Asperger's Syndrome

Autism

Session Cost

$150-$350

Location

Zoom - Neurodiverse Couples Counseling

3880 South Bascom Avenue

Suite 216

San Jose, CA 95124

Email Barbara Blaze Lazarony about this group or call - (831) 222-1559

Neurodiverse Couples Group

Hosted by

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony is Group Facilitator, Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, PsyD, LMFT 53452. Neurodiverse couples often feel alone in their struggles. We provide a safe space for you to speak with other neurodiverse couples about how neurodiversity affects your relationship. Most couples quickly realize that their issues sound pretty similar to everyone else's. Our group therapist or coach will introduce tools and strategies AND facilitate learning tools and from the other couples who have addressed similar experiences and issues. Website: https://rebrand.ly/NCG

Expertise

ADHD

Asperger's Syndrome

Autism

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$100

Location

Zoom Group Sessions

3880 South Bascom Avenue

Suite 216

San Jose, CA 95124

Email Barbara Blaze Lazarony about this group or call - (831) 222-1559

Location

Primary Location

Pacific Grove, CA 93950

(831) 222-1559

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Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call for a free consultation now - (831) 222-1559

I am accepting new clients.

Barbara Blaze Lazarony

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT, CTC, CNSC

Call for a free consultation now - (831) 222-1559

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