Infidelity Therapists in Phoenix, AZ
I offer individual counseling focused on sexual addiction, infidelity, polyamory, kink/BDSM, desire differences, sexual pain and other health concerns impacting sexuality, and generally helping individuals improve their understanding of their sexuality.
I work with any matters related to sex, intimacy & relationships. My primary focus is working on spiritual sexual shame, sexual trauma, sexual pain, reclaiming sexuality after medical issues, out of control sexual behavior, polyamory, BDSM, and pregnancy related or postpartum mood and sexuality concerns.
I offer individual counseling focused on sexual addiction, infidelity, polyamory, kink/BDSM, desire differences, sexual pain and other health concerns impacting sexuality, and generally helping individuals improve their understanding of their sexuality.
I work with any matters related to sex, intimacy & relationships. My primary focus is working on spiritual sexual shame, sexual trauma, sexual pain, reclaiming sexuality after medical issues, out of control sexual behavior, polyamory, BDSM, and pregnancy related or postpartum mood and sexuality concerns.
I believe to be a safe person to talk with in order to help guide one through daily life's struggles, past traumas, emotional struggles, etc by being authentic, caring, empathic and non-judgmental. I also pull from my own life's experiences which benefits my clients in a way of being able to meet them where they are emotionally.
I have had the opportunity to attend several trainings in a variety of therapeutic modalities. I feel very competent in working with CBT techniques, DBT techniques, Trauma therapy techniques, Grief therapy techniques and EMDR among others.
I work very hard to help clients achieve their therapeutic goals.
I believe to be a safe person to talk with in order to help guide one through daily life's struggles, past traumas, emotional struggles, etc by being authentic, caring, empathic and non-judgmental. I also pull from my own life's experiences which benefits my clients in a way of being able to meet them where they are emotionally.
I have had the opportunity to attend several trainings in a variety of therapeutic modalities. I feel very competent in working with CBT techniques, DBT techniques, Trauma therapy techniques, Grief therapy techniques and EMDR among others.
I work very hard to help clients achieve their therapeutic goals.
I am uniquely qualified and experienced in working with individuals and/or couples struggling with sex or pornography addiction and infidelity as well as the resulting heartbreaking fall-out personally and within a relationship.
I also have extensive experience helping my clients overcome struggles with depression, grief, family conflict and life transitions; such as divorce or loss of a job. I assist couples with communication and conflict resolution as well as those wishing to express their feelings and emotions in healthy ways.
I am uniquely qualified and experienced in working with individuals and/or couples struggling with sex or pornography addiction and infidelity as well as the resulting heartbreaking fall-out personally and within a relationship.
I also have extensive experience helping my clients overcome struggles with depression, grief, family conflict and life transitions; such as divorce or loss of a job. I assist couples with communication and conflict resolution as well as those wishing to express their feelings and emotions in healthy ways.
Whether you're navigating communication struggles, repairing trust after betrayal or infidelity, changes in intimacy, parenting stress, differences related to neurodivergence, or learning to co-parent more effectively, therapy can help.
I also work with individuals and couples navigating faith transitions, mixed-faith relationships, and the challenges of leaving or questioning a religious community. These experiences can impact identity, family relationships, and partnerships. Therapy provides a supportive space to process change and rebuild meaning.
Whether you're navigating communication struggles, repairing trust after betrayal or infidelity, changes in intimacy, parenting stress, differences related to neurodivergence, or learning to co-parent more effectively, therapy can help.
I also work with individuals and couples navigating faith transitions, mixed-faith relationships, and the challenges of leaving or questioning a religious community. These experiences can impact identity, family relationships, and partnerships. Therapy provides a supportive space to process change and rebuild meaning.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Couples tell me all the time that they had a relationship that started out great, and had high hopes for the future, and now there’s more conflict, stress and overwhelm than they ever wanted. They are not sure the relationship can still work, but are willing to give counseling a try and don’t know what else to do.
Couples tell me all the time that they had a relationship that started out great, and had high hopes for the future, and now there’s more conflict, stress and overwhelm than they ever wanted. They are not sure the relationship can still work, but are willing to give counseling a try and don’t know what else to do.
My years of experience allow me to be the calm presence to quickly understand your challenges and to help you end "endless" arguing, to move through the pain of infidelity and to reconnect emotionally and sexually.
I firmly believe there is a definite quality difference between a marriage-counseling specialist and a therapist who "also" works with couples. My singular focus enables me to meet you where you are in your struggles and to work with you without judgment and never favoring either partner. I use the most-effective approach of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. This science-based method is a "brief" model, which means you may experience relief in the early phase of our work together. You'll learn about a "negative cycle" of arguing or distancing and how that cycle is your enemy, not each other!
My years of experience allow me to be the calm presence to quickly understand your challenges and to help you end "endless" arguing, to move through the pain of infidelity and to reconnect emotionally and sexually.
I firmly believe there is a definite quality difference between a marriage-counseling specialist and a therapist who "also" works with couples. My singular focus enables me to meet you where you are in your struggles and to work with you without judgment and never favoring either partner. I use the most-effective approach of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy. This science-based method is a "brief" model, which means you may experience relief in the early phase of our work together. You'll learn about a "negative cycle" of arguing or distancing and how that cycle is your enemy, not each other!
Dr. Melissa Estavillo is a Licensed Psychologist and founder of Biltmore Psychology and Counseling. At BPC we do not view people as broken and damaged, but on a journey to become the best versions of themselves. Though some nights may be dark, we believe in hope for the future and the tenacity of the human spirit. Our job is to journey with people through difficult times and provide the guidance needed to achieve something far greater than the average. We can’t promise that it will always be easy, but we believe that it is worth it and know you will too.
Dr. Melissa Estavillo is a Licensed Psychologist and founder of Biltmore Psychology and Counseling. At BPC we do not view people as broken and damaged, but on a journey to become the best versions of themselves. Though some nights may be dark, we believe in hope for the future and the tenacity of the human spirit. Our job is to journey with people through difficult times and provide the guidance needed to achieve something far greater than the average. We can’t promise that it will always be easy, but we believe that it is worth it and know you will too.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Family Ties Counseling and Coaching
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
1 Endorsed
Phoenix, AZ 85028
I also work to help couples who have experienced infidelity.
Great Relationships aren’t great because they have no challenges or struggles. Great relationships are great because individuals choose to find a way to make the relationship work. Sometimes, that includes relationship/family counseling. As a family and relationship therapist, I am here to help you work through the many challenges and struggles that often prevent couples/families from moving forward. I believe in individualizing treatment to help each family member/partner feel heard and loved.
I also work to help couples who have experienced infidelity.
Great Relationships aren’t great because they have no challenges or struggles. Great relationships are great because individuals choose to find a way to make the relationship work. Sometimes, that includes relationship/family counseling. As a family and relationship therapist, I am here to help you work through the many challenges and struggles that often prevent couples/families from moving forward. I believe in individualizing treatment to help each family member/partner feel heard and loved.
I guide couples through infidelity repair, desire differences and communication restoration using the Gottman method.
Life is a journey, not a destination. I want to support you in your evolution as a human being. I have a history of treating individuals with a dual diagnosis and use evidence based treatment modalities for both addiction and mental health disorders. I work with individuals and couples and offer a safe, non judgmental space for self exploration, acceptance, forgiveness, healing and transformation. You are unique and therapy should be a collaborative experience. Close the gap between your true self and the image you portray to the rest of the world. Let's work together to create and accomplish the goals you desire.
I guide couples through infidelity repair, desire differences and communication restoration using the Gottman method.
Life is a journey, not a destination. I want to support you in your evolution as a human being. I have a history of treating individuals with a dual diagnosis and use evidence based treatment modalities for both addiction and mental health disorders. I work with individuals and couples and offer a safe, non judgmental space for self exploration, acceptance, forgiveness, healing and transformation. You are unique and therapy should be a collaborative experience. Close the gap between your true self and the image you portray to the rest of the world. Let's work together to create and accomplish the goals you desire.
I work with clients who look capable and put-together on the outside, yet feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or stretched thin on the inside. My clients often struggle with self-esteem or image issues. They also struggle with anxiety, burnout, and substance related issues.
I work with clients who look capable and put-together on the outside, yet feel overwhelmed, exhausted, or stretched thin on the inside. My clients often struggle with self-esteem or image issues. They also struggle with anxiety, burnout, and substance related issues.
I specialize in couples intimacy, communication, infidelity, eroticism and addressing specific sexual challenges.
I am also a certified IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapist and IFS Consultant providing supervision and consultation to therapists seeking IFS certification. Finally I am certified in psychedelic-assisted therapy and offer ketamine-assisted therapy to clients interested in exploring the integration of psychedelics in their healing and growth journey.
I specialize in couples intimacy, communication, infidelity, eroticism and addressing specific sexual challenges.
I am also a certified IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapist and IFS Consultant providing supervision and consultation to therapists seeking IFS certification. Finally I am certified in psychedelic-assisted therapy and offer ketamine-assisted therapy to clients interested in exploring the integration of psychedelics in their healing and growth journey.
Do any of these situations describe you?
(A) You never intended to end up here, but a line was crossed and now the truth of your hidden behaviors is out. (B) You used to be the guy who got things done, but lately, the engine has stalled. On the outside, you’re going through the motions, but inside, every single day feels like pushing a boulder uphill. (C) You’ve spent years burying the past, telling yourself that what happened back then doesn’t matter anymore. But lately, you’re realizing the past isn’t dead—it’s running your life.
Do any of these situations describe you?
(A) You never intended to end up here, but a line was crossed and now the truth of your hidden behaviors is out. (B) You used to be the guy who got things done, but lately, the engine has stalled. On the outside, you’re going through the motions, but inside, every single day feels like pushing a boulder uphill. (C) You’ve spent years burying the past, telling yourself that what happened back then doesn’t matter anymore. But lately, you’re realizing the past isn’t dead—it’s running your life.
You’re committed to your partner, but the trust and closeness you once shared feel out of reach. Communication has become tense or distant, and every attempt to connect seems to end in misunderstanding or arguments. You both want to be understood and valued, but somewhere along the way, it’s felt harder to meet in the middle and disconnect has grown.
I help couples break these painful patterns — to rebuild trust, communicate with understanding, and feel like a team again. Together, we’ll slow things down, uncover what’s really driving the disconnection, and begin creating moments of closeness that feel genuine and lasting.
You’re committed to your partner, but the trust and closeness you once shared feel out of reach. Communication has become tense or distant, and every attempt to connect seems to end in misunderstanding or arguments. You both want to be understood and valued, but somewhere along the way, it’s felt harder to meet in the middle and disconnect has grown.
I help couples break these painful patterns — to rebuild trust, communicate with understanding, and feel like a team again. Together, we’ll slow things down, uncover what’s really driving the disconnection, and begin creating moments of closeness that feel genuine and lasting.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor in Texas and Arizona, I am dedicated to empowering individuals to navigate life’s challenges and foster resilience. I have worked with clients facing a wide range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, and depression. My experience also encompasses support for the LGBT community, intimacy-related issues, parenting challenges, anger management, self-esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, abandonment, adoption and foster care, attachment issues, blended family dynamics, and body image concerns.
As a Licensed Professional Counselor in Texas and Arizona, I am dedicated to empowering individuals to navigate life’s challenges and foster resilience. I have worked with clients facing a wide range of concerns, including stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, and depression. My experience also encompasses support for the LGBT community, intimacy-related issues, parenting challenges, anger management, self-esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, abandonment, adoption and foster care, attachment issues, blended family dynamics, and body image concerns.
Are you experiencing loneliness, chronic anxiety, or discouragement? I am here to help you navigate your present challenges to find hope and healing. I am an expert in working with couples, families, and individuals using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the the gold standard of treatment. EFT can help you understand the roots of your pain, and how to heal your relationship with yourself and others... to find lasting and fulfilling connection. I would love to offer you tools to successfully achieve greater hope, personal growth, and greater self confidence. Call 385-777-6357 today.
Are you experiencing loneliness, chronic anxiety, or discouragement? I am here to help you navigate your present challenges to find hope and healing. I am an expert in working with couples, families, and individuals using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the the gold standard of treatment. EFT can help you understand the roots of your pain, and how to heal your relationship with yourself and others... to find lasting and fulfilling connection. I would love to offer you tools to successfully achieve greater hope, personal growth, and greater self confidence. Call 385-777-6357 today.
My therapeutic focus is relationships and attachment. For those healing from a relationship injury, I follow a structured process to repair, understand, and re-envision the future. The stresses of life can create conflict with your loved one(s) - I help couples and individuals learn their relationship patterns and practice communication skills in order to maintain connection. Some of this stress appears in conflicts about mental load/invisible labor in which I help couples anticipate and interrupt their negative cycles. I help couples untangle intimacy struggles and build a sex life that actually feels good for both partners.
My therapeutic focus is relationships and attachment. For those healing from a relationship injury, I follow a structured process to repair, understand, and re-envision the future. The stresses of life can create conflict with your loved one(s) - I help couples and individuals learn their relationship patterns and practice communication skills in order to maintain connection. Some of this stress appears in conflicts about mental load/invisible labor in which I help couples anticipate and interrupt their negative cycles. I help couples untangle intimacy struggles and build a sex life that actually feels good for both partners.
I have a great deal of experience working with couples on issues related to everything from basic communication to issues like infidelity and trust.
I specialize in working with couples and families to help foster open communication and therefore improve relationships. I work with couples on common issues such as communication, trust, parenting, infidelity and intimacy. I also work with divorced, blended and adoptive families and aid members of the family in adjusting to these transitions.
I have a great deal of experience working with couples on issues related to everything from basic communication to issues like infidelity and trust.
I specialize in working with couples and families to help foster open communication and therefore improve relationships. I work with couples on common issues such as communication, trust, parenting, infidelity and intimacy. I also work with divorced, blended and adoptive families and aid members of the family in adjusting to these transitions.
Tell me if this sounds familiar— you and your partner aren’t seeing eye-to-eye on an issue. This turns into a frustrating argument with hurt feelings, and one of you wants to fix things right now, while the other wants a break. In the meantime, both of you feel unheard and are becoming more disconnected from each other. Maybe you aren’t struggling in a relationship, but you don’t have motivation or excitement in life. You have tried pushing through hard days, but it doesn’t seem to be working and you want a new path forward. Whatever your road to arrive on my profile, I am so glad you did. Let me explain how I might be able to help.
Tell me if this sounds familiar— you and your partner aren’t seeing eye-to-eye on an issue. This turns into a frustrating argument with hurt feelings, and one of you wants to fix things right now, while the other wants a break. In the meantime, both of you feel unheard and are becoming more disconnected from each other. Maybe you aren’t struggling in a relationship, but you don’t have motivation or excitement in life. You have tried pushing through hard days, but it doesn’t seem to be working and you want a new path forward. Whatever your road to arrive on my profile, I am so glad you did. Let me explain how I might be able to help.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.