Attachment-based Therapists in Washington County, OK

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Fay O’Neill
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SEP, CYT-500, TCTSY-F
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Bartlesville, OK 74003
I believe that complex trauma occurs within relationship & can only be healed within a relationship that provides steady cues of safety & attunement. My hope is to allow space for the body to tell its story so that your nervous system can move up & out of a state of survival & into a state of connection, presence, & balance. We will also work to dis-identify with & unburden from the beliefs, emotions, labels, & stories we tell, bringing them into awareness, showering them with compassion, while acknowledging the adaptive purpose they once provided but are now keeping us stuck.
I believe that complex trauma occurs within relationship & can only be healed within a relationship that provides steady cues of safety & attunement. My hope is to allow space for the body to tell its story so that your nervous system can move up & out of a state of survival & into a state of connection, presence, & balance. We will also work to dis-identify with & unburden from the beliefs, emotions, labels, & stories we tell, bringing them into awareness, showering them with compassion, while acknowledging the adaptive purpose they once provided but are now keeping us stuck.
(539) 766-9064 View (539) 766-9064
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Melissa Thurman
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bartlesville, OK 74003
Melissa works with families with young children whose lives are impacted by trauma, abuse, and complicated grief. She also works with individual clients of all ages to help them recognize how present behavior is shaped by past experiences and worries about the future. Melissa provides Reflective Consultation to other counseling professionals and was endorsed as an Infant Mental Health Specialist with the Oklahoma Association of Infant Mental Health (OKAIMH).
Melissa works with families with young children whose lives are impacted by trauma, abuse, and complicated grief. She also works with individual clients of all ages to help them recognize how present behavior is shaped by past experiences and worries about the future. Melissa provides Reflective Consultation to other counseling professionals and was endorsed as an Infant Mental Health Specialist with the Oklahoma Association of Infant Mental Health (OKAIMH).
(539) 233-4609 View (539) 233-4609
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Angela Metcalf
Licensed Professional Counselor, MAMFT, LPC-S
Verified Verified
Bartlesville, OK 74006
I want to support healing in a therapeutic environment. If you are searching for a therapist that wants to help you in your journey of finding hope and freedom from your internal conflict, I am your therapist.
I want to support healing in a therapeutic environment. If you are searching for a therapist that wants to help you in your journey of finding hope and freedom from your internal conflict, I am your therapist.
(918) 203-8320 View (918) 203-8320
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Kendrea Zellers
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSBS, LPC
Verified Verified
Bartlesville, OK 74006  (Online Only)
Are you seeking support, guidance, and a safe space to explore your emotions and life challenges? Hi I'm Kendrea Zellers, a compassionate and experienced counselor ready to walk with you through this counseling journey. Life can be full of hard transitions, challenging relationships, complex emotions, and experiences from our past and present that get in the way of who and where we want to be. I want to offer a safe space to let you be heard, encourage processing, and offer tools for moving forward.
Are you seeking support, guidance, and a safe space to explore your emotions and life challenges? Hi I'm Kendrea Zellers, a compassionate and experienced counselor ready to walk with you through this counseling journey. Life can be full of hard transitions, challenging relationships, complex emotions, and experiences from our past and present that get in the way of who and where we want to be. I want to offer a safe space to let you be heard, encourage processing, and offer tools for moving forward.
(918) 203-8623 View (918) 203-8623
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Steven Greiner
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bartlesville, OK 74006
Above all, my goal as a therapist is to show that I genuinely care about you and what you are going through. Each of us encounter problems, at times in our lives. In order to overcome those problems, it is often helpful to have an outside perspective. I hope to be that outside perspective that you seek.
Above all, my goal as a therapist is to show that I genuinely care about you and what you are going through. Each of us encounter problems, at times in our lives. In order to overcome those problems, it is often helpful to have an outside perspective. I hope to be that outside perspective that you seek.
(918) 212-8703 View (918) 212-8703
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Jaime G Vogt
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bartlesville, OK 74003
I have worked with children and families for over twenty-five years and I never cease to be amazed at their resiliency. What I have learned is that children do cope with life struggles, but increasing the likelihood that they develop positive coping skills often depends on the support that surrounds them. Working with children and adults to recognize their own strengths and to learn new strategies for success remains a focus of my practice.
I have worked with children and families for over twenty-five years and I never cease to be amazed at their resiliency. What I have learned is that children do cope with life struggles, but increasing the likelihood that they develop positive coping skills often depends on the support that surrounds them. Working with children and adults to recognize their own strengths and to learn new strategies for success remains a focus of my practice.
(539) 233-4906 View (539) 233-4906
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Shaun L. Meek
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSFT, LCMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bartlesville, OK 74003
Feeling comfortable and safe with a therapist is an important part of beginning the healing process. It can be difficult to find someone you trust during traumatic or uncertain times in your life. I have successfully treated couples, individuals, children, and families with a variety of presenting problems, and have also been trained in play therapy, sand tray therapy, EMDR, AUTPlay and Brain Gym. I utilize strength-based approaches and offer hope when hope is hard to find.
Feeling comfortable and safe with a therapist is an important part of beginning the healing process. It can be difficult to find someone you trust during traumatic or uncertain times in your life. I have successfully treated couples, individuals, children, and families with a variety of presenting problems, and have also been trained in play therapy, sand tray therapy, EMDR, AUTPlay and Brain Gym. I utilize strength-based approaches and offer hope when hope is hard to find.
(620) 820-7573 View (620) 820-7573

Online Therapists

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Chelsea Threadgill
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, NCC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74105
I have training in EMDR, RRT, Theraplay, and other trauma and attachment-based treatment approaches.
Life comes with many challenges and changes that can be difficult to navigate, and sometimes it can feel as though you are lacking the support you need. My goal as a therapist is to first and foremost provide a safe environment so that clients can feel comfortable exploring and working through all of the difficulties that they face, in addition to having a space to celebrate their victories. I take a humanistic approach to counseling while also using other treatments which align with the needs of my clients.
I have training in EMDR, RRT, Theraplay, and other trauma and attachment-based treatment approaches.
Life comes with many challenges and changes that can be difficult to navigate, and sometimes it can feel as though you are lacking the support you need. My goal as a therapist is to first and foremost provide a safe environment so that clients can feel comfortable exploring and working through all of the difficulties that they face, in addition to having a space to celebrate their victories. I take a humanistic approach to counseling while also using other treatments which align with the needs of my clients.
(918) 303-7523 View (918) 303-7523
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Amy Clare
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S, RPT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74105
I am attachment-based, trauma focused and adoption competent.
My goal is to provide an environment for clients to feel safe. I have competence in working with children, adults, and families that have been affected by traumatic experiences. The hope is that all clients have the opportunity to heal, grow, and flourish in everyday life.
I am attachment-based, trauma focused and adoption competent.
My goal is to provide an environment for clients to feel safe. I have competence in working with children, adults, and families that have been affected by traumatic experiences. The hope is that all clients have the opportunity to heal, grow, and flourish in everyday life.
(918) 608-1244 View (918) 608-1244
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Alex Aguilar
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74105
I have extensive training in somatic and attachment-based approaches.
It's incredibly human to find ourselves anxious, detached, and overwhelmed. Disconnect in relationships can often feel miserable, and keeping healthy boundaries and navigating conflict can be a struggle. My expertise is in creating a therapeutic relationship that goes beyond traditional cognitive approaches, valuing an embodied sense of change, where patterns can shift, trauma can feel integrated, and we can achieve an overall sense of resilience and connectedness, to ourselves and each other.
I have extensive training in somatic and attachment-based approaches.
It's incredibly human to find ourselves anxious, detached, and overwhelmed. Disconnect in relationships can often feel miserable, and keeping healthy boundaries and navigating conflict can be a struggle. My expertise is in creating a therapeutic relationship that goes beyond traditional cognitive approaches, valuing an embodied sense of change, where patterns can shift, trauma can feel integrated, and we can achieve an overall sense of resilience and connectedness, to ourselves and each other.
(918) 203-8675 View (918) 203-8675
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Adair Welsh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I have a strong passion to help women, non-binary and transgender individuals struggling with their bodies and relationship with food. I enjoy working with those who have experienced trauma and complex trauma, to help you find healing and to become the true authentic human you were meant to be. I can also provide a safe space to process the complicated emotions and challenges that arise from chronic illness. Additionally, I have a special interest in and enjoy working alongside those living with autism and lower support needs.
I have a strong passion to help women, non-binary and transgender individuals struggling with their bodies and relationship with food. I enjoy working with those who have experienced trauma and complex trauma, to help you find healing and to become the true authentic human you were meant to be. I can also provide a safe space to process the complicated emotions and challenges that arise from chronic illness. Additionally, I have a special interest in and enjoy working alongside those living with autism and lower support needs.
(918) 347-4024 View (918) 347-4024
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Maddie Miller
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC-C, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74105
I am currently taking new clients and would love to meet with you! I believe that therapy is a professional relationship and a personal relationship. Finding the right therapist is important for your growth! Therapy is hard and I am here to help support you on your journey - whatever that looks like. Some days it can be laughing, other days could be crying, yelling, or using the occasional cuss word to release our emotions. I work with attachment-based issues, complex trauma, chronic pain/illness, and women's issues.
I am currently taking new clients and would love to meet with you! I believe that therapy is a professional relationship and a personal relationship. Finding the right therapist is important for your growth! Therapy is hard and I am here to help support you on your journey - whatever that looks like. Some days it can be laughing, other days could be crying, yelling, or using the occasional cuss word to release our emotions. I work with attachment-based issues, complex trauma, chronic pain/illness, and women's issues.
(918) 387-7299 View (918) 387-7299
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Jimmy Clare
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, LMFT-S, RPT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74105
I specialize in family systems, attachment and trauma. I have training in EMDR, Circle of Security, and many other attachment based treatments. My perspective and values are humanistic. I truly believe people have the capacity to overcome hardship, pain and despair in an affirming, understanding environment. People of all backgrounds, cultures, faiths, races, and sexual orientations are welcome in my practice.
I specialize in family systems, attachment and trauma. I have training in EMDR, Circle of Security, and many other attachment based treatments. My perspective and values are humanistic. I truly believe people have the capacity to overcome hardship, pain and despair in an affirming, understanding environment. People of all backgrounds, cultures, faiths, races, and sexual orientations are welcome in my practice.
(918) 779-1329 View (918) 779-1329
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Carl E Bello
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMHC, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74145
Do you feel: sad, angry, afraid, lonely, powerless, stuck, or numb? Emotions are messages from the deep Self that something needs your attention. It may be a relationship, a past trauma, a lack of living your true purpose, or simply increasing threats to your personal health or well being, as well as that of our planet. My goal as a therapist is to create a safe space in which we can explore the particular areas in your life that are asking for your attention. This process can lead to new insights and perspectives as to what changes might be helpful for you.
Do you feel: sad, angry, afraid, lonely, powerless, stuck, or numb? Emotions are messages from the deep Self that something needs your attention. It may be a relationship, a past trauma, a lack of living your true purpose, or simply increasing threats to your personal health or well being, as well as that of our planet. My goal as a therapist is to create a safe space in which we can explore the particular areas in your life that are asking for your attention. This process can lead to new insights and perspectives as to what changes might be helpful for you.
(865) 213-7401 View (865) 213-7401
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Dr. John D. Hurlburt
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74136
I have been a psychologist in the Tulsa area for 30 years. I graduated from Oklahoma State University with a PhD in Counseling Psychology. I've worked at various mental health agencies over that 30 year span, but most recently Laureate Psychiatric Clinic and Hospital. There I was an integral member of the team of psychologists who created the Mood and Anxiety Disorders Program which specialized in the treatment of major depression, bipolar, generalized anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder and post traumatic stress. I utilize a variety of therapeutic approaches to help clients reach their goals and become their "best self".
I have been a psychologist in the Tulsa area for 30 years. I graduated from Oklahoma State University with a PhD in Counseling Psychology. I've worked at various mental health agencies over that 30 year span, but most recently Laureate Psychiatric Clinic and Hospital. There I was an integral member of the team of psychologists who created the Mood and Anxiety Disorders Program which specialized in the treatment of major depression, bipolar, generalized anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder and post traumatic stress. I utilize a variety of therapeutic approaches to help clients reach their goals and become their "best self".
(918) 491-3700 View (918) 491-3700
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Alexie Foster
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74146
So often we have a tendency to gaslight ourselves into thinking there's something wrong with us or that we're making a big deal out of nothing or that there's something we should be doing differently to elicit a different response from the people in our lives. What if there isn't anything wrong with you? What if it actually is a big deal? Because if it's feeling like a big deal to you, there's a reason and we can explore that. And what if you stopped taking responsibility for the emotions and behaviors of others in your life and focused on taking responsibility for yours instead? How might life be different for you then?
So often we have a tendency to gaslight ourselves into thinking there's something wrong with us or that we're making a big deal out of nothing or that there's something we should be doing differently to elicit a different response from the people in our lives. What if there isn't anything wrong with you? What if it actually is a big deal? Because if it's feeling like a big deal to you, there's a reason and we can explore that. And what if you stopped taking responsibility for the emotions and behaviors of others in your life and focused on taking responsibility for yours instead? How might life be different for you then?
(918) 992-3037 View (918) 992-3037
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Anchored In Hope, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MHR, LPC-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74133
Areas of focus include but are not limited to: adult and child counseling, couples and parenting. ADHD/ADD, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Perinatal & Postpartum mental health, OCD, Self harm, eating disorders, play therapy, EMDR, Sex Therapy, Grief & Loss, family therapy, pain management, life transitions, neuro-developmental disorders, combat trauma, bi-polar, ODD, women's issues, self esteem, and many more. Call for details to determine which of our amazing practitioners will be the best fit for your needs.
Areas of focus include but are not limited to: adult and child counseling, couples and parenting. ADHD/ADD, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Perinatal & Postpartum mental health, OCD, Self harm, eating disorders, play therapy, EMDR, Sex Therapy, Grief & Loss, family therapy, pain management, life transitions, neuro-developmental disorders, combat trauma, bi-polar, ODD, women's issues, self esteem, and many more. Call for details to determine which of our amazing practitioners will be the best fit for your needs.
(918) 578-4423 View (918) 578-4423
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Exuberant Connections
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC-S, NCC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74119  (Online Only)
Connections focuses on the trauma informed approach while providing services to couples and individual counseling. Specializing in individual sessions with those transitioning or maintaining a WFPBNO or Vegan lifestyle. Hello! I have been working in the mental health field for 8 years. My counseling style is warm , calm and interactive. I have worked with individuals experiencing a variety of issues including family conflict, depression and anxiety, stress-related issues, domestic violence, trauma, anger management, communication challenges, self-esteem, and many more. Working with couple using the Gottman Approach.
Connections focuses on the trauma informed approach while providing services to couples and individual counseling. Specializing in individual sessions with those transitioning or maintaining a WFPBNO or Vegan lifestyle. Hello! I have been working in the mental health field for 8 years. My counseling style is warm , calm and interactive. I have worked with individuals experiencing a variety of issues including family conflict, depression and anxiety, stress-related issues, domestic violence, trauma, anger management, communication challenges, self-esteem, and many more. Working with couple using the Gottman Approach.
(918) 716-9189 View (918) 716-9189
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Flourish Wellness, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, CEDS-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tulsa, OK 74114
Our goal at Flourish Wellness is to offer individuals a non-judgmental environment in which diversity is honored and respected. We recognize especially in women as women, the stress and anxiety related to the world we live in today. We hope that we can offer you a safe space to open yourself up to having compassion for yourself and to one another to find ultimate healing.
Our goal at Flourish Wellness is to offer individuals a non-judgmental environment in which diversity is honored and respected. We recognize especially in women as women, the stress and anxiety related to the world we live in today. We hope that we can offer you a safe space to open yourself up to having compassion for yourself and to one another to find ultimate healing.
(918) 228-0739 View (918) 228-0739
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Brandi K. Enekweizu
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Tulsa, OK 74134  (Online Only)
Are you stuck, feeling like you don’t have the proper tools to work through this stage or season in life right now? Feeling depressed or anxious? Working through life’s many challenges can be difficult, don’t go at it alone. Together we can process, assess, and manage your skills in a way fitting your unique situation and abilities; therefore, empowering you to be the best version of yourself in every area of life! You don’t have to feel or work alone. Let’s take this journey together!
Are you stuck, feeling like you don’t have the proper tools to work through this stage or season in life right now? Feeling depressed or anxious? Working through life’s many challenges can be difficult, don’t go at it alone. Together we can process, assess, and manage your skills in a way fitting your unique situation and abilities; therefore, empowering you to be the best version of yourself in every area of life! You don’t have to feel or work alone. Let’s take this journey together!
(918) 276-7037 View (918) 276-7037

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Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.