Attachment-based Therapists in Mendon, NY

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Lyrah Wallace
Creative Arts Therapist, LCAT
Verified Verified
Mendon, NY 14506
As a queer and nonbinary individual, I am passionate about working with and advocating for the queer and neurodiverse communities. I strive to provide my clients a safe, sensory-friendly, and creative space to work through life’s challenges with a provider with whom they know has shared experiences and extensive experience in providing affirming care. I also have advanced training in systemic oppression and multicultural therapy, and provide gender-affirming services like letters of recommendation for HRT and gender affirming surgeries.
As a queer and nonbinary individual, I am passionate about working with and advocating for the queer and neurodiverse communities. I strive to provide my clients a safe, sensory-friendly, and creative space to work through life’s challenges with a provider with whom they know has shared experiences and extensive experience in providing affirming care. I also have advanced training in systemic oppression and multicultural therapy, and provide gender-affirming services like letters of recommendation for HRT and gender affirming surgeries.
(585) 800-1181 View (585) 800-1181
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Hasan Razeq
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mendon, NY 14506
Dear Reader, depression, anxiety and trauma are my primary areas of work. I utilize a unique combination of modalities to address the cognitive, emotional, spiritual, and physical components of wellness. My work combines CBT, EMDR, Polyvagal Therapy with mindfulness and other cognitive-based approaches to help my clients move through their traumas and grow into the people they want to be. My clients come to me from all walks of life with a common goal: to reclaim their lives from the wounds of their past and to establish a new relationship with their personal story.
Dear Reader, depression, anxiety and trauma are my primary areas of work. I utilize a unique combination of modalities to address the cognitive, emotional, spiritual, and physical components of wellness. My work combines CBT, EMDR, Polyvagal Therapy with mindfulness and other cognitive-based approaches to help my clients move through their traumas and grow into the people they want to be. My clients come to me from all walks of life with a common goal: to reclaim their lives from the wounds of their past and to establish a new relationship with their personal story.
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Christine Reber
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
Mendon, NY 14506
Highly sensitive hearts, introverts, deep feelers, the socially anxious, and those with emotionally intense personalities are welcome here. You feel ALL the feels. All the time. Sometimes your emotions seem so powerful that you feel out of control or that it is unbearable. You form strong attachments to people, pets, places, and things but struggle with stability and security in your relationships. You are fed up with being told that you are 'too emotional', 'too needy', 'too clingy', or 'too sensitive'. Maybe you use alcohol, drugs, food, or suicidal thoughts to cope with your overwhelming emotions.
Highly sensitive hearts, introverts, deep feelers, the socially anxious, and those with emotionally intense personalities are welcome here. You feel ALL the feels. All the time. Sometimes your emotions seem so powerful that you feel out of control or that it is unbearable. You form strong attachments to people, pets, places, and things but struggle with stability and security in your relationships. You are fed up with being told that you are 'too emotional', 'too needy', 'too clingy', or 'too sensitive'. Maybe you use alcohol, drugs, food, or suicidal thoughts to cope with your overwhelming emotions.
(585) 684-3850 View (585) 684-3850

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Megan Black
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
East Rochester, NY 14445
I specialize in helping clients of all ages, with a primary focus on pre-K to adolescent children. I offer virtual appointments for adults during the week and in-person sessions on weekends. My goal is to improve functioning in the home, at school, at the workplace, and in relationships. I use a brain-based approach with attachment-based, mindfulness, play, narrative, and art therapy to address barriers and promote mental wellness. In my practice, I prioritize collaboration with parents when working with children to improve overall family functioning.
I specialize in helping clients of all ages, with a primary focus on pre-K to adolescent children. I offer virtual appointments for adults during the week and in-person sessions on weekends. My goal is to improve functioning in the home, at school, at the workplace, and in relationships. I use a brain-based approach with attachment-based, mindfulness, play, narrative, and art therapy to address barriers and promote mental wellness. In my practice, I prioritize collaboration with parents when working with children to improve overall family functioning.
(585) 476-3827 View (585) 476-3827
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Ashley DiMino LMHC
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Pittsford, NY 14534
The decision to seek help for a problem is often a difficult one. People pursue therapy for a variety of reasons. Some may enter therapy to address major life changes, such as becoming a parent, and others may seek help in managing mental health conditions, like depression. Many people seek counseling because they have identified specific goals or issues that they wish to work on. Others may be encouraged by family, friends, or medical professionals to seek help. Whatever the motivation, it takes courage to attend therapy, and it takes dedication to see it through.
The decision to seek help for a problem is often a difficult one. People pursue therapy for a variety of reasons. Some may enter therapy to address major life changes, such as becoming a parent, and others may seek help in managing mental health conditions, like depression. Many people seek counseling because they have identified specific goals or issues that they wish to work on. Others may be encouraged by family, friends, or medical professionals to seek help. Whatever the motivation, it takes courage to attend therapy, and it takes dedication to see it through.
(585) 496-1522 View (585) 496-1522
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Elizabeth Young
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14618
It's vitally important to find someone you can trust, who 'gets' you; someone who respects your values, the meaning of your most important relationships, and helps you understand the context of the problems you face. You also want a therapist who will be straightforward with you about your role in problems, and what steps you need to take. You want a person with solid credentials and experience, yet who is open and willing to listen, and who will consider a variety of treatment options with you. You need someone who is going to help you be curious about yourself, and explore what a better quality of life means to you.
It's vitally important to find someone you can trust, who 'gets' you; someone who respects your values, the meaning of your most important relationships, and helps you understand the context of the problems you face. You also want a therapist who will be straightforward with you about your role in problems, and what steps you need to take. You want a person with solid credentials and experience, yet who is open and willing to listen, and who will consider a variety of treatment options with you. You need someone who is going to help you be curious about yourself, and explore what a better quality of life means to you.
(585) 770-7115 View (585) 770-7115
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Havva Yoruk
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14618  (Online Only)
You desire emotional well-being, healing & inner peace. That's why you're here. You continue to experience pain & discomfort yet don't quite know how to process & work through it all. Your story & life experiences should be heard & understood. Personal growth & fulfillment is attainable once you have the right tools & coping skills to stay regulated. As a minority identifying therapist & child of immigrants, my lived experiences help me connect with my clients on a deeper level. With this understanding, you can expect to better balance your intersecting identities across life domains. You are deserving of validation & empathy.
You desire emotional well-being, healing & inner peace. That's why you're here. You continue to experience pain & discomfort yet don't quite know how to process & work through it all. Your story & life experiences should be heard & understood. Personal growth & fulfillment is attainable once you have the right tools & coping skills to stay regulated. As a minority identifying therapist & child of immigrants, my lived experiences help me connect with my clients on a deeper level. With this understanding, you can expect to better balance your intersecting identities across life domains. You are deserving of validation & empathy.
(585) 460-3267 View (585) 460-3267
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Sarah Bowman Davila
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsford, NY 14534
Take a full, deep breath...by reading this, you have already taken a step in seeking support. It only takes that first courageous step away from the pain, confusion or fear toward the path of freedom and the life you desire. When you are ready for that step, I am here to support you on a healing journey. Therapy will uncover any self-destructive beliefs or habits (addictions/ patterns) that prevent a fuller expression of who you know you can be. Our work and my hope for you would be to experience feeling more fully alive with a sense of joy, purpose and freedom.
Take a full, deep breath...by reading this, you have already taken a step in seeking support. It only takes that first courageous step away from the pain, confusion or fear toward the path of freedom and the life you desire. When you are ready for that step, I am here to support you on a healing journey. Therapy will uncover any self-destructive beliefs or habits (addictions/ patterns) that prevent a fuller expression of who you know you can be. Our work and my hope for you would be to experience feeling more fully alive with a sense of joy, purpose and freedom.
(585) 765-4347 View (585) 765-4347
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Ann Vodacek
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Working through family relationship challenges with spouse, parents, young or adult children, siblings or other category of family? Those are the relationships that are viewed by society as loving, healthy and positive, yet many of those relationships are not. I can help you sort through the relationship and work together to figure out the best way forward.
Working through family relationship challenges with spouse, parents, young or adult children, siblings or other category of family? Those are the relationships that are viewed by society as loving, healthy and positive, yet many of those relationships are not. I can help you sort through the relationship and work together to figure out the best way forward.
(585) 481-8211 View (585) 481-8211
Matthew P Maley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fairport, NY 14450
Therapy is a process of healing the mind, body and spirit. It produces best results when both the therapist and the client are ready to engage in thoughtful discussions leading toward change. As such, clients who have seen the best results in my care have been motivated, curious and willing to address hard topics in pursuit of health. Issues related to relationships, emotional regulation, exploring past unmet emotional needs, building self-advocacy and addressing internal conflict are well suited to my therapeutic strengths. You come with the raw materials, I come with helpful questions, and together we will build a healthier life.
Therapy is a process of healing the mind, body and spirit. It produces best results when both the therapist and the client are ready to engage in thoughtful discussions leading toward change. As such, clients who have seen the best results in my care have been motivated, curious and willing to address hard topics in pursuit of health. Issues related to relationships, emotional regulation, exploring past unmet emotional needs, building self-advocacy and addressing internal conflict are well suited to my therapeutic strengths. You come with the raw materials, I come with helpful questions, and together we will build a healthier life.
(585) 684-7988 View (585) 684-7988
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Elizabeth K Brooks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14625
Waitlist for new clients
So you decided to check out therapy. Perhaps you’ve had a therapist before, or maybe this is your first time taking the leap- either way, it’s a brave choice to reach out. Your struggle and growth matters, and I’m sure you’ve tried to feel better in a lot of ways before this moment. By reading this and searching for help, you’re already taking action! You may benefit from therapy if you are feeling stuck and need someone on the outside to safety turn inward with.
So you decided to check out therapy. Perhaps you’ve had a therapist before, or maybe this is your first time taking the leap- either way, it’s a brave choice to reach out. Your struggle and growth matters, and I’m sure you’ve tried to feel better in a lot of ways before this moment. By reading this and searching for help, you’re already taking action! You may benefit from therapy if you are feeling stuck and need someone on the outside to safety turn inward with.
(315) 563-2845 View (315) 563-2845
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Amie E Wagner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honeoye Falls, NY 14472
Hi! My name is Amie and I am a licensed clinical social worker who provides therapy for clients striving to overcome anxiety, depression, trauma and identity issues. I have many years of experience empowering teens to improve family relationships, build positive coping skills and reduce unsafe, oppositional and challenging behaviors. I also have a passion for supporting foster and adoptive families as they build secure attachments and navigate issues unique to to adoption.
Hi! My name is Amie and I am a licensed clinical social worker who provides therapy for clients striving to overcome anxiety, depression, trauma and identity issues. I have many years of experience empowering teens to improve family relationships, build positive coping skills and reduce unsafe, oppositional and challenging behaviors. I also have a passion for supporting foster and adoptive families as they build secure attachments and navigate issues unique to to adoption.
(585) 577-5637 View (585) 577-5637
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Sarah Ali
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pittsford, NY 14534  (Online Only)
The Individuals I work best with are seeking therapy for various challenges including anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, self-esteem issues, and navigating life transitions. These individuals are looking to find support, develop coping strategies, gain insight into their emotions and behaviors, improve their relationships, and discover a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life. Their primary desires and motivations revolve around achieving healing and well-being, personal growth, and an overall improved quality of life.
The Individuals I work best with are seeking therapy for various challenges including anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, self-esteem issues, and navigating life transitions. These individuals are looking to find support, develop coping strategies, gain insight into their emotions and behaviors, improve their relationships, and discover a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life. Their primary desires and motivations revolve around achieving healing and well-being, personal growth, and an overall improved quality of life.
(929) 265-5098 View (929) 265-5098
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Jessica Parks
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618  (Online Only)
Do you feel like you’re not good enough? Do you wonder why you feel this way? Does this effect your relationships and quality of life? It can be overwhelming, and it’s common for people to struggle with these kinds of thoughts and feelings. The trouble is, it can get in the way of achieving meaningful goals in our lives. Many people choose to avoid these thoughts and feelings which can lead to unfulfilling relationships, unrewarding careers and other mental health problems such as anxiety or depression. It’s exhausting trying to live up to an unattainable standard, right?
Do you feel like you’re not good enough? Do you wonder why you feel this way? Does this effect your relationships and quality of life? It can be overwhelming, and it’s common for people to struggle with these kinds of thoughts and feelings. The trouble is, it can get in the way of achieving meaningful goals in our lives. Many people choose to avoid these thoughts and feelings which can lead to unfulfilling relationships, unrewarding careers and other mental health problems such as anxiety or depression. It’s exhausting trying to live up to an unattainable standard, right?
(585) 296-4562 View (585) 296-4562
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Marnie Bambara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairport, NY 14450  (Online Only)
I truly believe that anyone can benefit from therapy no matter what you are struggling with, celebrating, or conflicted about. I’m committed to helping individuals be their best selves by providing a comforting and safe environment where you can explore anything you are looking for support with. Whatever your life situation is, you don't have to manage it alone. We can unpack it together. My goal as a psychotherapist is to bring out an individual's ability to thrive at their utmost potential. I combine a personalized therapeutic approach with evidence-based practices like cognitive behavioral therapy.
I truly believe that anyone can benefit from therapy no matter what you are struggling with, celebrating, or conflicted about. I’m committed to helping individuals be their best selves by providing a comforting and safe environment where you can explore anything you are looking for support with. Whatever your life situation is, you don't have to manage it alone. We can unpack it together. My goal as a psychotherapist is to bring out an individual's ability to thrive at their utmost potential. I combine a personalized therapeutic approach with evidence-based practices like cognitive behavioral therapy.
(406) 313-8979 View (406) 313-8979
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Stacey E Kulik
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14610
Welcome to my practice. Therapy with children is a specialized area of focus and requires unique skills and specific training. I have spent the last fifteen years gaining expertise with children of all ages and have done extensive work with preschool children. Child therapy requires creativity, flexibility, developmental knowledge, and the ability to partner with parents. As your child's therapist, I will share my expertise and provide you with the tools you need to ensure your child's success.
Welcome to my practice. Therapy with children is a specialized area of focus and requires unique skills and specific training. I have spent the last fifteen years gaining expertise with children of all ages and have done extensive work with preschool children. Child therapy requires creativity, flexibility, developmental knowledge, and the ability to partner with parents. As your child's therapist, I will share my expertise and provide you with the tools you need to ensure your child's success.
(585) 496-1525 View (585) 496-1525
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Jennifer L Smithling
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Victor, NY 14564  (Online Only)
During this difficult time, we can all use extra support.. I am a client-centered, multi-disciplinary therapist who has been working in the field for over 13 years. My experience allows me to meet a person where they are and provide support and strategies to guide them to achieving their therapeutic goals. I am currently accepting new patients and have several slots available at this time. However, I am now only able to offer telehealth (video or phone). Email only for new client inquiries please, and please check insurance information below before contacting- all accepted insurances listed.
During this difficult time, we can all use extra support.. I am a client-centered, multi-disciplinary therapist who has been working in the field for over 13 years. My experience allows me to meet a person where they are and provide support and strategies to guide them to achieving their therapeutic goals. I am currently accepting new patients and have several slots available at this time. However, I am now only able to offer telehealth (video or phone). Email only for new client inquiries please, and please check insurance information below before contacting- all accepted insurances listed.
(585) 294-0268 View (585) 294-0268
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Joyce Wagner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14618
I work hard and collaboratively with my clients who are seeking counseling as well as life coaching. My desire is to help clients work through their issues (such as trauma, depression, eating disorders, anxiety, relationship issues, sexuality, addiction, parenting, spirituality, etc.) so they are able to development of a more integrated sense of self, experience increased individual meaning and purpose and have respectful and enduring relationships with others. In my work I like to come alongside people so they can put their past behind them, experience restoration and live life to the fullest potential.
I work hard and collaboratively with my clients who are seeking counseling as well as life coaching. My desire is to help clients work through their issues (such as trauma, depression, eating disorders, anxiety, relationship issues, sexuality, addiction, parenting, spirituality, etc.) so they are able to development of a more integrated sense of self, experience increased individual meaning and purpose and have respectful and enduring relationships with others. In my work I like to come alongside people so they can put their past behind them, experience restoration and live life to the fullest potential.
(585) 294-0191 View (585) 294-0191
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Kristina Ehmann
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14620
Excited to offer in person sessions on Mondays only starting 4/1/2024! Your life is a unique journey, filled with challenges and moments of joy. I believe that everyone's story, including yours, deserves to be heard, acknowledged, and transformed. I'm here to help you create meaningful change in your thoughts, actions, and relationships using therapeutic techniques paired with the safety that a strong therapeutic relationship can bring. I work with diverse individuals and welcome people of all genders including teenagers, college students, adult individuals, couples, and families, addressing:
Excited to offer in person sessions on Mondays only starting 4/1/2024! Your life is a unique journey, filled with challenges and moments of joy. I believe that everyone's story, including yours, deserves to be heard, acknowledged, and transformed. I'm here to help you create meaningful change in your thoughts, actions, and relationships using therapeutic techniques paired with the safety that a strong therapeutic relationship can bring. I work with diverse individuals and welcome people of all genders including teenagers, college students, adult individuals, couples, and families, addressing:
(585) 517-2859 View (585) 517-2859
Photo of Morgan Camman, Mental Health Counselor in Mendon, NY
Morgan Camman
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14618
Welcome, I'm Morgan (they/she)! Since 2019, I've been working in community mental health and now have decided to take my experiences into a private setting. I enjoy serving those in the queer community, non-monogamous relationship structures, and BDSM/kink dynamics. I also enjoy working with young people by giving them a safe space in which to explore their identity, and have begun supporting those with late diagnosed Autism. My additional passion is supervising/guiding new therapists in the field to develop as professionals.
Welcome, I'm Morgan (they/she)! Since 2019, I've been working in community mental health and now have decided to take my experiences into a private setting. I enjoy serving those in the queer community, non-monogamous relationship structures, and BDSM/kink dynamics. I also enjoy working with young people by giving them a safe space in which to explore their identity, and have begun supporting those with late diagnosed Autism. My additional passion is supervising/guiding new therapists in the field to develop as professionals.
(585) 318-2711 View (585) 318-2711

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Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.