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Joanna Poon
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
Change is hard. Most people don’t like change. Some say it’s human nature. That may be true. At the same time, doing hard things can be incredibly rewarding and worthwhile. It can reward you with improved relationships with your loved ones and a better understanding of yourself. It can relieve you of the pain from a difficult past. It can help you better manage a challenging environment or life transition. You are not alone. Help is here.
Change is hard. Most people don’t like change. Some say it’s human nature. That may be true. At the same time, doing hard things can be incredibly rewarding and worthwhile. It can reward you with improved relationships with your loved ones and a better understanding of yourself. It can relieve you of the pain from a difficult past. It can help you better manage a challenging environment or life transition. You are not alone. Help is here.
(929) 383-7944 View (929) 383-7944
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Dr. Jessica Tasca
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10001
I use a psychodynamic, attachment-based framework and balance careful listening with thoughtful probing.
As humans, we tend to avoid our more difficult and complex emotions in hopes that they will disappear. However, it is more often the case that the feelings we turn inward find their way out, and sometimes in a less-than-ideal way. Therapy is a unique space to explore the parts of you that tend to stay hidden. It is a space to “look beneath the hood” to understand more fully who you are and "why" you are. With this newfound insight, we can explore ways for you to engage more fully in your life and relationships, dig into your sense of purpose, and reconnect with (or discover for the first time) feelings of stillness and joy.
I use a psychodynamic, attachment-based framework and balance careful listening with thoughtful probing.
As humans, we tend to avoid our more difficult and complex emotions in hopes that they will disappear. However, it is more often the case that the feelings we turn inward find their way out, and sometimes in a less-than-ideal way. Therapy is a unique space to explore the parts of you that tend to stay hidden. It is a space to “look beneath the hood” to understand more fully who you are and "why" you are. With this newfound insight, we can explore ways for you to engage more fully in your life and relationships, dig into your sense of purpose, and reconnect with (or discover for the first time) feelings of stillness and joy.
(347) 754-3962 View (347) 754-3962
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Alexandra K Milak
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
My approach includes culturally competent therapies tailored to each individual patient, drawing from Psychodynamic, Narrative, Existential, Dialectical-Behavioral, Cognitive-Behavioral, Attachment-Based, and Family Systems therapies.
I am a mental health counselor with a limited permit, working under the supervision of Dr. Sheila Chiffriller, a licensed psychologist. I provide psychotherapy to a diverse population of clients, specializing in survivors of trauma, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ issues, anger, family issues, couples' issues, bipolar disorder, chronic illness, grief and bereavement. My practice is rooted in principles of affirmation, intersectional justice, harm reduction, and embodiment and holds the position that social oppressions and systemic problems operate as barriers to wellness.
My approach includes culturally competent therapies tailored to each individual patient, drawing from Psychodynamic, Narrative, Existential, Dialectical-Behavioral, Cognitive-Behavioral, Attachment-Based, and Family Systems therapies.
I am a mental health counselor with a limited permit, working under the supervision of Dr. Sheila Chiffriller, a licensed psychologist. I provide psychotherapy to a diverse population of clients, specializing in survivors of trauma, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ issues, anger, family issues, couples' issues, bipolar disorder, chronic illness, grief and bereavement. My practice is rooted in principles of affirmation, intersectional justice, harm reduction, and embodiment and holds the position that social oppressions and systemic problems operate as barriers to wellness.
(516) 476-9057 View (516) 476-9057
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Online Virtual Therapy With Csilla Antonovski
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10021
FREE consultations! Are you feeling stuck in negative thoughts, intense emotions, or behavioral patterns that don't serve your best interest? Are you hoping to build more meaning and joy in your life? You may feel hesitant about reaching out for help, especially with pressure from all directions to "have it all together". I'm here to join you on this journey to discover healing and build a balanced life. My goal is to help you find compassion for yourself, develop skills to help you navigate life stressors, and be confident in the resilient person you are.
FREE consultations! Are you feeling stuck in negative thoughts, intense emotions, or behavioral patterns that don't serve your best interest? Are you hoping to build more meaning and joy in your life? You may feel hesitant about reaching out for help, especially with pressure from all directions to "have it all together". I'm here to join you on this journey to discover healing and build a balanced life. My goal is to help you find compassion for yourself, develop skills to help you navigate life stressors, and be confident in the resilient person you are.
(347) 329-2401 View (347) 329-2401
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Fai Tsoi
Counselor, LMHC, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11204  (Online Only)
These days, we are busy and stressed. It seems that the tasks never end, and the work never stops. Everyday seems to have something new that can potentially bring down a delicate balance that we have worked so hard to achieve. We hear about self-care and work/life balance, but we struggle to do these things. You want to do it all but there never seems to be enough time. Sometimes work, school, family, friends, or anything else makes it difficult for you to have some time to process and think.
These days, we are busy and stressed. It seems that the tasks never end, and the work never stops. Everyday seems to have something new that can potentially bring down a delicate balance that we have worked so hard to achieve. We hear about self-care and work/life balance, but we struggle to do these things. You want to do it all but there never seems to be enough time. Sometimes work, school, family, friends, or anything else makes it difficult for you to have some time to process and think.
(718) 313-3562 View (718) 313-3562
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Marcela Blair
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Port Jervis, NY 12771
I bring to my practice the skills and experience of a rich 20-year career, as well as a solid humanistic approach to mental health, human relationships and growth. I believe that every human being has value, deserves respect, benefits from meaningful relationships, and has the capability for self-actualization. Therapy is a powerful process not only to overcome adversity, obstacles, or negative patterns in thinking, behaviors or relationships that may be causing suffering, but also it can be an extraordinary opportunity to explore and find your uniqueness, potential and strength in ways that you may have not considered before.
I bring to my practice the skills and experience of a rich 20-year career, as well as a solid humanistic approach to mental health, human relationships and growth. I believe that every human being has value, deserves respect, benefits from meaningful relationships, and has the capability for self-actualization. Therapy is a powerful process not only to overcome adversity, obstacles, or negative patterns in thinking, behaviors or relationships that may be causing suffering, but also it can be an extraordinary opportunity to explore and find your uniqueness, potential and strength in ways that you may have not considered before.
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Siyi Lai
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
I understand you might feel stuck in the past or the same negative loop and haven’t found any meaningful progress by talking to yourself, your family, or friends. My goal is not only to give you the tools to relieve your symptoms and better cope with specific situations but also to transform your narrative and generate sustainable growth. I use an integrative and tailored approach to meet your needs and cultural values. Combining systemic and relational framework, and mindfulness practice, I’ll help you gain insight into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and align them to achieve what you most value in life.
I understand you might feel stuck in the past or the same negative loop and haven’t found any meaningful progress by talking to yourself, your family, or friends. My goal is not only to give you the tools to relieve your symptoms and better cope with specific situations but also to transform your narrative and generate sustainable growth. I use an integrative and tailored approach to meet your needs and cultural values. Combining systemic and relational framework, and mindfulness practice, I’ll help you gain insight into your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and align them to achieve what you most value in life.
(646) 798-7664 View (646) 798-7664
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Rebecca Posner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10024
'If not now, when?" I work with couples, adults, and adolescents on issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and creative blocks. I work together with you to understand the history of patterns of thinking and behavior that are no longer working for you and to gain insight into why they have developed and how to change them. We will work on how to create a more gratifying and better functioning present and future. I also draw on my many years of experience as an artist -working in film, theater, and dance and I approach the therapeutic experience as a creative collaboration.
'If not now, when?" I work with couples, adults, and adolescents on issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and creative blocks. I work together with you to understand the history of patterns of thinking and behavior that are no longer working for you and to gain insight into why they have developed and how to change them. We will work on how to create a more gratifying and better functioning present and future. I also draw on my many years of experience as an artist -working in film, theater, and dance and I approach the therapeutic experience as a creative collaboration.
(646) 798-7975 View (646) 798-7975
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Shanely Marmolejos
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
I specialize in working with women and children. I am trained in perinatal mental health through Postpartum Support International, specializing in working with postpartum mood disorders, postpartum anxiety, postpartum OCD, infertility, pregnancy loss, people trying to conceive, and termination for medical reasons. I also work very closely with parents on parenting difficulties and strategies. Besides supporting women through motherhood, I am also passionate about supporting high achieving women manage anxiety and stress and unlearning unhelpful patterns in their personal and professional lives.
I specialize in working with women and children. I am trained in perinatal mental health through Postpartum Support International, specializing in working with postpartum mood disorders, postpartum anxiety, postpartum OCD, infertility, pregnancy loss, people trying to conceive, and termination for medical reasons. I also work very closely with parents on parenting difficulties and strategies. Besides supporting women through motherhood, I am also passionate about supporting high achieving women manage anxiety and stress and unlearning unhelpful patterns in their personal and professional lives.
(347) 696-4949 View (347) 696-4949
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Jessica Ermilio
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
Jessica works primarily from a psychodynamic perspective: she focuses on the underlying causes to the struggles clients face and believes that deeper self-understanding promotes meaningful and lasting change. Integrating techniques from other approaches, such as mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy, she tailors the work for each client’s unique goals and needs. Jessica has worked with individuals across the lifespan, and collaborates with clients on issues such as depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss, and trauma.
Jessica works primarily from a psychodynamic perspective: she focuses on the underlying causes to the struggles clients face and believes that deeper self-understanding promotes meaningful and lasting change. Integrating techniques from other approaches, such as mindfulness and cognitive-behavioral therapy, she tailors the work for each client’s unique goals and needs. Jessica has worked with individuals across the lifespan, and collaborates with clients on issues such as depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss, and trauma.
(646) 760-7107 View (646) 760-7107
Photo of Sadé Barksadale, LCAT at Dr Fallon's Practice, Art Therapist in New York
Sadé Barksadale, LCAT at Dr Fallon's Practice
Art Therapist, LCAT, LPAT, MPS
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10017  (Online Only)
Sadé is licensed to practice psychotherapy and creative art therapy in both NY and NJ! Sadé's genuineness, impressive skill set, diverse experience, warmth, and core professional values are just part of what makes her an incredible therapist. In therapeutic partnership with her clients Sadé facilitates an exploration of what may be getting in the way of a more rewarding life. She helps her clients to find liberation from painful past experiences, overwhelming stressors, and a negative self image. She is extremely passionate about helping her clients to no longer limit themselves with doubt and discouragement.
Sadé is licensed to practice psychotherapy and creative art therapy in both NY and NJ! Sadé's genuineness, impressive skill set, diverse experience, warmth, and core professional values are just part of what makes her an incredible therapist. In therapeutic partnership with her clients Sadé facilitates an exploration of what may be getting in the way of a more rewarding life. She helps her clients to find liberation from painful past experiences, overwhelming stressors, and a negative self image. She is extremely passionate about helping her clients to no longer limit themselves with doubt and discouragement.
(646) 687-7346 View (646) 687-7346
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Ernesto Lira de la Rosa
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
Many people seek out therapy at times when they feel disconnected, have a lot of worries and fears, or notice changes in their mood. Sometimes these concerns impact relationships and our friends and loved ones may not know how to support us during this time. That is okay. That is when working with a therapist can be helpful. In our work together, I am committed to helping you work through these and many other concerns. Sometimes we need a space to talk openly about what we are going through without fear of judgement. We will find solutions to increase your life satisfaction, happiness, and have more fulfilling relationships.
Many people seek out therapy at times when they feel disconnected, have a lot of worries and fears, or notice changes in their mood. Sometimes these concerns impact relationships and our friends and loved ones may not know how to support us during this time. That is okay. That is when working with a therapist can be helpful. In our work together, I am committed to helping you work through these and many other concerns. Sometimes we need a space to talk openly about what we are going through without fear of judgement. We will find solutions to increase your life satisfaction, happiness, and have more fulfilling relationships.
(718) 568-6343 View (718) 568-6343
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Nancy S Gershman At Bhava Therapy Group
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
How do we know when we're healed, "fixed", back to ourselves? There's a lightening up, a kinder voice in our heads, a bursting generosity and restored sense of purpose. And how does one get there with an integrative therapist? We start with The Here and Now. Forming I Fear/ I Wish statements. Figuring out which Selves survived that little t or Big T trauma. Listing the constricting beliefs of your Inner Critic. Inviting you (and your partner?) to play with new self-talk, role-play, power poses or traditions. Maybe diagramming intergenerational intel to re-write the future.
How do we know when we're healed, "fixed", back to ourselves? There's a lightening up, a kinder voice in our heads, a bursting generosity and restored sense of purpose. And how does one get there with an integrative therapist? We start with The Here and Now. Forming I Fear/ I Wish statements. Figuring out which Selves survived that little t or Big T trauma. Listing the constricting beliefs of your Inner Critic. Inviting you (and your partner?) to play with new self-talk, role-play, power poses or traditions. Maybe diagramming intergenerational intel to re-write the future.
(646) 762-4471 x1 View (646) 762-4471 x1
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Alissa Silverstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11216
I work with folks who are experiencing a range of challenges, and specialize in working with those who identify as queer or non-monogamous. I also work with survivors of childhood trauma who hold these identities. My practice is sex positive and affirming to folks in queer, kink, non-monogamy, and sex work communities. I welcome clients of all races and racial identities, countries of origin, gender identities, sexual orientations, religions, abilities, and body sizes.
I work with folks who are experiencing a range of challenges, and specialize in working with those who identify as queer or non-monogamous. I also work with survivors of childhood trauma who hold these identities. My practice is sex positive and affirming to folks in queer, kink, non-monogamy, and sex work communities. I welcome clients of all races and racial identities, countries of origin, gender identities, sexual orientations, religions, abilities, and body sizes.
(646) 960-3085 View (646) 960-3085
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Jenny L Rella
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10007  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Ms Rella, LMHC, is a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She is licensed in Massachusetts as well. Ms Rella received a Master of Mental Health Counseling from Fordham University Graduate School of Education. She is a New York City Department of Health Certified Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor, has Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST) and completed the One-Year Intensive Psychotherapy Program at the Institute for the Psychoanalytic Study of Subjectivity.
Ms Rella, LMHC, is a New York State Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She is licensed in Massachusetts as well. Ms Rella received a Master of Mental Health Counseling from Fordham University Graduate School of Education. She is a New York City Department of Health Certified Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor, has Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST) and completed the One-Year Intensive Psychotherapy Program at the Institute for the Psychoanalytic Study of Subjectivity.
(332) 334-3489 View (332) 334-3489
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Ali Jaffer
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA, EdM
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10065
Dealing with overwhelming emotions and stress can often be an isolating experience, but it does not have to be. My goal as a clinician is to create a safe setting for healing through compassion, understanding, and trust. Our work together will focus on gaining a stronger understanding of yourself while obtaining skills and techniques to forge meaning through difficult moments in life. I believe that high quality therapy comes from a customized approach by taking evidence-based methodologies and tailoring them to an individual’s personality and needs.
Dealing with overwhelming emotions and stress can often be an isolating experience, but it does not have to be. My goal as a clinician is to create a safe setting for healing through compassion, understanding, and trust. Our work together will focus on gaining a stronger understanding of yourself while obtaining skills and techniques to forge meaning through difficult moments in life. I believe that high quality therapy comes from a customized approach by taking evidence-based methodologies and tailoring them to an individual’s personality and needs.
(914) 556-1809 View (914) 556-1809
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Carlos Mercedes Meran
Counselor, MHC-LP
Not Verified Not Verified
Rego Park, NY 11374  (Online Only)
Tamika is a certified Consulting Hypnotist, Play Therapist, Sexual Addiction Treatment Provider, and a Marriage and Family Counselor. She graduated from Long Island University School of Education and Counseling and has obtained several Post Graduate degrees from numerous Universities (Hofstra University, Mid America Nazarene University, Capella University, and Alfred University). Tamika Specializes in treating Children and Emerging Adults.
Tamika is a certified Consulting Hypnotist, Play Therapist, Sexual Addiction Treatment Provider, and a Marriage and Family Counselor. She graduated from Long Island University School of Education and Counseling and has obtained several Post Graduate degrees from numerous Universities (Hofstra University, Mid America Nazarene University, Capella University, and Alfred University). Tamika Specializes in treating Children and Emerging Adults.
(302) 240-9907 View (302) 240-9907
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Matthew Koziolek
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Woodhaven, NY 11421
Now offering same day video and phone appointments
Now offering same day video and phone appointments
(718) 690-3233 View (718) 690-3233
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Jessica Hardial Ma Lcsw Phd(C)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW, PhD(c)
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lindenhurst, NY 11757
Are you someone who is coming to terms with your identity? A person struggling with anxiety, trauma or coming out? Someone looking for an inclusive safe space where you can finally be honest and begin healing? If you are looking for a Queer Latina to provide you with support and healing from those challenges in life, you found her. I am passionate about my work with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships.
Are you someone who is coming to terms with your identity? A person struggling with anxiety, trauma or coming out? Someone looking for an inclusive safe space where you can finally be honest and begin healing? If you are looking for a Queer Latina to provide you with support and healing from those challenges in life, you found her. I am passionate about my work with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships.
(347) 474-1714 View (347) 474-1714
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Heather Grey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAT, ATR-BC, ATCS
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10022
I view psychotherapy as a deeply personal process, one that is transformative. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help; finding the right therapist is crucial to your success. To achieve success, one must be supported by people they trust, find their life’s purpose, access suppressed passions, and appreciate the wisdom that can only be informed through past failures. Trust, respect, acceptance, mutuality, and empathy are foundational. My role is to assist you develop greater insight and self-awareness, feel heard, validated, and witnessed so that you can be your most authentic self.
I view psychotherapy as a deeply personal process, one that is transformative. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help; finding the right therapist is crucial to your success. To achieve success, one must be supported by people they trust, find their life’s purpose, access suppressed passions, and appreciate the wisdom that can only be informed through past failures. Trust, respect, acceptance, mutuality, and empathy are foundational. My role is to assist you develop greater insight and self-awareness, feel heard, validated, and witnessed so that you can be your most authentic self.
(516) 494-4163 View (516) 494-4163
Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.