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Brooke Szitas
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCAS
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28205
I use attachment-based approaches, motivational interviewing, emotionally focused therapy, sex therapy, and Gottman Method Therapy to facilitate change, improve communication, foster intimacy, and improve sexual functioning.
Life is full of transitions and challenges that can lead to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and family problems. You may feel frustrated, anxious, and disappointed leading to your desire to seek help. I believe everyone needs a person that supports, advocates, and listens to them. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I strive to build a space of acceptance to promote your growth and honor your strengths. I believe everyone has their own unique experiences and therefore, I adapt my approach to fit your needs and goals.
I use attachment-based approaches, motivational interviewing, emotionally focused therapy, sex therapy, and Gottman Method Therapy to facilitate change, improve communication, foster intimacy, and improve sexual functioning.
Life is full of transitions and challenges that can lead to depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and family problems. You may feel frustrated, anxious, and disappointed leading to your desire to seek help. I believe everyone needs a person that supports, advocates, and listens to them. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I strive to build a space of acceptance to promote your growth and honor your strengths. I believe everyone has their own unique experiences and therefore, I adapt my approach to fit your needs and goals.
(704) 741-3502 View (704) 741-3502
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Caroline Swindell
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC-A
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28204
I work with all ages from a client-centered, internal family systems (IFS), and attachment-based approach (EFT).
We live in a world where we are constantly expected to grow and change without even knowing ourselves. With all my clients, I see them as the experts of their own life and aim to create a supportive space for vulnerability and radical acceptance. If they are struggling to find to their inner voice, I work with them to do this by processing their life experiences and trauma. By following a person centered and eclectic strategy, we develop tools for a deeper self-understanding of their needs and boundaries. I love working with children, individuals, parents, and couples to become comfortable with self-acceptance and emotions.
I work with all ages from a client-centered, internal family systems (IFS), and attachment-based approach (EFT).
We live in a world where we are constantly expected to grow and change without even knowing ourselves. With all my clients, I see them as the experts of their own life and aim to create a supportive space for vulnerability and radical acceptance. If they are struggling to find to their inner voice, I work with them to do this by processing their life experiences and trauma. By following a person centered and eclectic strategy, we develop tools for a deeper self-understanding of their needs and boundaries. I love working with children, individuals, parents, and couples to become comfortable with self-acceptance and emotions.
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Maxine Valencia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BA, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28211  (Online Only)
My approach combines various techniques that draw upon internal family system (IFS), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), polyvagal therapy, attachment-based, and mindfulness.
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is to begin to understand your own story. Reaching out for support is often the hardest step and I commend you for being here. Together, we will explore the layers of your life that have caused burden, stress, or sadness and work together to release you from their hold. I provide a virtual space of safety, connection, open expression, autonomy, authenticity, and collaboration. With compassion and understanding, I work with each person to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing.
My approach combines various techniques that draw upon internal family system (IFS), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), polyvagal therapy, attachment-based, and mindfulness.
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is to begin to understand your own story. Reaching out for support is often the hardest step and I commend you for being here. Together, we will explore the layers of your life that have caused burden, stress, or sadness and work together to release you from their hold. I provide a virtual space of safety, connection, open expression, autonomy, authenticity, and collaboration. With compassion and understanding, I work with each person to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing.
(704) 387-3939 View (704) 387-3939
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Jessica McCall
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT-S, CSAT, CPTT, EMDR
Verified Verified
16 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and trauma therapist (EMDR). I walk with clients through emotional healing, addiction recovery, and relationship repair. I help individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, betrayal, trust, intimacy, sex, process addictions (sex/porn, love, work, etc.), communication, and complex or attachment-oriented trauma. I am also Certified to work with premarital couples as a Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and I am trained in Discernment Counseling to help couples considering divorce.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor (LMFT-S), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and trauma therapist (EMDR). I walk with clients through emotional healing, addiction recovery, and relationship repair. I help individuals and couples struggling with infidelity, betrayal, trust, intimacy, sex, process addictions (sex/porn, love, work, etc.), communication, and complex or attachment-oriented trauma. I am also Certified to work with premarital couples as a Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and I am trained in Discernment Counseling to help couples considering divorce.
(980) 255-5335 View (980) 255-5335
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Kara Watson-Cuellar
Counselor, MA, LCAS, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28204
"...healing means, first of all, the creation of an empty but friendly space where those who suffer can tell their story to someone who can listen with real attention..." (Henri Nouwen). My desire in counseling is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space for one to tell their story, to go deeper and discover the their own personal way of being human and the way they want to go. As Henri Nouwen says, "Quite often it is our fear for the hidden moments in our own history that keeps us paralyzed."
"...healing means, first of all, the creation of an empty but friendly space where those who suffer can tell their story to someone who can listen with real attention..." (Henri Nouwen). My desire in counseling is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space for one to tell their story, to go deeper and discover the their own personal way of being human and the way they want to go. As Henri Nouwen says, "Quite often it is our fear for the hidden moments in our own history that keeps us paralyzed."
(704) 350-2666 View (704) 350-2666
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Corrin Miller
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28209  (Online Only)
You're feeling lost, unsure of what your future holds if you don't work on the issues at hand. Your life feels a bit messy and you're uncertain of how to proceed during these trying times. You've been spinning your wheels and doing the best you can to survive but you're tired of simply surviving. You want to thrive. You want to be fulfilled, healthy, and confident.
You're feeling lost, unsure of what your future holds if you don't work on the issues at hand. Your life feels a bit messy and you're uncertain of how to proceed during these trying times. You've been spinning your wheels and doing the best you can to survive but you're tired of simply surviving. You want to thrive. You want to be fulfilled, healthy, and confident.
(704) 272-2326 View (704) 272-2326
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Hannah Kessler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28204
I specialize in working with individuals that are wanting to find peace in relationships - both with themselves and with others. After trauma, difficult situations, or toxic relationships, it is easy to shut down and experience loss of purpose, spiritual questioning, isolation, depression, or anxiety. I work with people like you to heal from your past, learn about yourself, and grow towards your future. I don't know what brought you here but everyone has a story and I would love to help you process yours.
I specialize in working with individuals that are wanting to find peace in relationships - both with themselves and with others. After trauma, difficult situations, or toxic relationships, it is easy to shut down and experience loss of purpose, spiritual questioning, isolation, depression, or anxiety. I work with people like you to heal from your past, learn about yourself, and grow towards your future. I don't know what brought you here but everyone has a story and I would love to help you process yours.
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Sarah Hastings
Counselor, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28277
You have already taken the first step by looking into therapy, and I am so glad you're here! Whether this is your first time looking into therapy or you are jumping back in, I would be honored to work with you. Life's obstacles can create a tangled web of emotions: fear, stress, frustration, despair, and more. Whether it's anxiety, depression, trauma, work-life balance, or exploring our identity- sometimes, we need a supportive space to help us navigate these challenges and the emotions that come with them. Therapy provides that safe environment so we can grow from those challenges using evidence-based interventions.
You have already taken the first step by looking into therapy, and I am so glad you're here! Whether this is your first time looking into therapy or you are jumping back in, I would be honored to work with you. Life's obstacles can create a tangled web of emotions: fear, stress, frustration, despair, and more. Whether it's anxiety, depression, trauma, work-life balance, or exploring our identity- sometimes, we need a supportive space to help us navigate these challenges and the emotions that come with them. Therapy provides that safe environment so we can grow from those challenges using evidence-based interventions.
(980) 372-2008 View (980) 372-2008
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Compassionate Life Counseling PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MBA, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28277
Waitlist for new clients
Life can be overwhelming. Difficult relationships, life transitions, unexpected loss or confusion about who we are or what we want can leave us feeling stuck. The good news is that sharing our stories and learning new tools to heal and grow can get us unstuck and moving forward. I provide compassionate counseling for adult individuals for anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship problems, grief and loss, and more. I am specially trained in EMDR therapy to help clients efficiently and effectively process traumatic life experiences, big and small. Learn more about EMDR at www.emdria.org.
Life can be overwhelming. Difficult relationships, life transitions, unexpected loss or confusion about who we are or what we want can leave us feeling stuck. The good news is that sharing our stories and learning new tools to heal and grow can get us unstuck and moving forward. I provide compassionate counseling for adult individuals for anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship problems, grief and loss, and more. I am specially trained in EMDR therapy to help clients efficiently and effectively process traumatic life experiences, big and small. Learn more about EMDR at www.emdria.org.
(980) 430-4334 View (980) 430-4334
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Katie Rubin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28203
As an experienced therapist I lead with compassion and curiosity to help You, the client discover your innate wisdom and inner resources to understand, manage, and resolve internal or external conflict. This may affecting you relationship to self, your personal or work relationships, or causing you ; anxiety, depression, insecurities, addictive behaviors, or maladaptive patterns that get in the way of your fullest life...and true self. I hold a safe, supportive space and engage in the process of self discovery along with you and the parts of you that want to achieve greater internal freedom.
As an experienced therapist I lead with compassion and curiosity to help You, the client discover your innate wisdom and inner resources to understand, manage, and resolve internal or external conflict. This may affecting you relationship to self, your personal or work relationships, or causing you ; anxiety, depression, insecurities, addictive behaviors, or maladaptive patterns that get in the way of your fullest life...and true self. I hold a safe, supportive space and engage in the process of self discovery along with you and the parts of you that want to achieve greater internal freedom.
(980) 280-1352 View (980) 280-1352
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Ashlyn Baker
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210  (Online Only)
You don't have to feel alone. Seeking counseling can feel intimidating. I specialize in working with members of the autism and LGBTQ+ communities (I am autistic and queer myself). If you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, gender nonconforming, or identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community, it's important that you find someone with lived experience. I delight in partnering with clients who are exploring their identity and working through the human process of self-acceptance and self-love.
You don't have to feel alone. Seeking counseling can feel intimidating. I specialize in working with members of the autism and LGBTQ+ communities (I am autistic and queer myself). If you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, gender nonconforming, or identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community, it's important that you find someone with lived experience. I delight in partnering with clients who are exploring their identity and working through the human process of self-acceptance and self-love.
(980) 389-8466 View (980) 389-8466
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Erica C Sides
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28205
They say that if life gives you lemons, make lemonade; but what if life has been throwing lemons at you since you were too little to even know how to make lemonade? What happens if you don’t even like lemonade? More often than not, chaos tends to occur when we are too young to know what to do or how to recover. Early childhood trauma leaves us broken and questioning our roadmap. That's where I come in because in the words of one of my favorite authors, Sarah J Maas; “Only you can decide what breaks you.”
They say that if life gives you lemons, make lemonade; but what if life has been throwing lemons at you since you were too little to even know how to make lemonade? What happens if you don’t even like lemonade? More often than not, chaos tends to occur when we are too young to know what to do or how to recover. Early childhood trauma leaves us broken and questioning our roadmap. That's where I come in because in the words of one of my favorite authors, Sarah J Maas; “Only you can decide what breaks you.”
(980) 983-1156 View (980) 983-1156
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Gabby Milando
Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCAS-A, NCC
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28210
I am passionate about helping individuals navigate life’s challenges. My goal as a therapist is to walk alongside you, process past experiences, shed light on patterns you are engaging in, and provide you with tools to improve your mental health. I aim to foster growth, introspection, and self-acceptance. I enjoy working with a range of ages and concerns, but I am particularly passionate about working with young adults suffering from anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, and self-esteem issues
I am passionate about helping individuals navigate life’s challenges. My goal as a therapist is to walk alongside you, process past experiences, shed light on patterns you are engaging in, and provide you with tools to improve your mental health. I aim to foster growth, introspection, and self-acceptance. I enjoy working with a range of ages and concerns, but I am particularly passionate about working with young adults suffering from anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, and self-esteem issues
(704) 937-2050 View (704) 937-2050
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Kira Rowane
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28204
Welcome, I am glad you are here. Our relationships, or lack thereof, inform the kind of stories we tell ourselves about the world around us. Intimacy, identity, and feelings of safety are all tied to the relationships we form. Many times, clients come to me when they are experiencing some form of disconnection within their lives. The purpose of our work together is to repair these areas of disconnection so that you may experience a more connected, authentic, and pleasurable life.
Welcome, I am glad you are here. Our relationships, or lack thereof, inform the kind of stories we tell ourselves about the world around us. Intimacy, identity, and feelings of safety are all tied to the relationships we form. Many times, clients come to me when they are experiencing some form of disconnection within their lives. The purpose of our work together is to repair these areas of disconnection so that you may experience a more connected, authentic, and pleasurable life.
(704) 286-8760 View (704) 286-8760
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Charlotte Counseling Associates, PLLC
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, CSAT, PhD, LCMHC, EMDR, CPTT
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28210
Are you experiencing the pain/betrayal that is coming from your loved one caught up in porn/sex addiction or an affair? Are you the one that has regrettably betrayed your loved one? You are not alone, that pain is real and you deserve the time and attention to help mend your heart, to process and heal from the betrayal trauma, and to receive help to add safe boundaries. We are a group of passionate therapists that work with betrayal trauma and sex addiction/affairs and PTSD. We understand the need not to blame you, but to empower you to best heal, and for your partner to also receive the specialized help you both deserve now.
Are you experiencing the pain/betrayal that is coming from your loved one caught up in porn/sex addiction or an affair? Are you the one that has regrettably betrayed your loved one? You are not alone, that pain is real and you deserve the time and attention to help mend your heart, to process and heal from the betrayal trauma, and to receive help to add safe boundaries. We are a group of passionate therapists that work with betrayal trauma and sex addiction/affairs and PTSD. We understand the need not to blame you, but to empower you to best heal, and for your partner to also receive the specialized help you both deserve now.
(704) 610-5817 View (704) 610-5817
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Shay Danielle Reeves
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28204  (Online Only)
The tricky thing about healing is that it requires us to go to the places in ourselves that we fear the most. If we want peace, we have to walk towards the parts of us that feel anxiety and turmoil. If we want to feel worthy, we have to walk towards the parts of ourselves that feel UN-worthy. In our work together, you will fundamentally transform the quality of your life (and your relationships!) by learning to build your reality from a place of conscious awareness, rather than a place of pain/trauma. You will release the unprocessed wounds stored in your nervous system, making space for a happy, free, and dare I say, magical life!
The tricky thing about healing is that it requires us to go to the places in ourselves that we fear the most. If we want peace, we have to walk towards the parts of us that feel anxiety and turmoil. If we want to feel worthy, we have to walk towards the parts of ourselves that feel UN-worthy. In our work together, you will fundamentally transform the quality of your life (and your relationships!) by learning to build your reality from a place of conscious awareness, rather than a place of pain/trauma. You will release the unprocessed wounds stored in your nervous system, making space for a happy, free, and dare I say, magical life!
(704) 703-2822 View (704) 703-2822
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Carolyn J Henderson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHC, QS, NCC, BCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28210
I am an interactive, cognitive behavioral client-centered therapist who focuses on the development of healthy relationships that have been impacted by trauma, grief and loss, infidelity, life transitions, depression, domestic and substance abuse. My empathetic and compassionate approach provides support and practical feedback while building on client's strengths using an empowerment model and the development of deeper self-discovery and awareness. The goal is to identify effective coping strategies to manage what clients are currently experiencing. I endeavor to walk alongside of clients in the midst of their pain and their joy.
I am an interactive, cognitive behavioral client-centered therapist who focuses on the development of healthy relationships that have been impacted by trauma, grief and loss, infidelity, life transitions, depression, domestic and substance abuse. My empathetic and compassionate approach provides support and practical feedback while building on client's strengths using an empowerment model and the development of deeper self-discovery and awareness. The goal is to identify effective coping strategies to manage what clients are currently experiencing. I endeavor to walk alongside of clients in the midst of their pain and their joy.
(704) 946-5674 View (704) 946-5674
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Meredith Garofalo
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Charlotte, NC 28203
I believe therapy is a unique gift you can give yourself, yet finding a therapist that will make you feel like they 'get you', can be daunting and paralyzing. The first step of making a phone call and appointment might fill you with dread, fear, shame or hopelessness. For you to feel safe enough to share your struggles with me, I will have to earn your trust. As we begin our work, I will make every effort to meet you with genuine warmth, openness and patience.
I believe therapy is a unique gift you can give yourself, yet finding a therapist that will make you feel like they 'get you', can be daunting and paralyzing. The first step of making a phone call and appointment might fill you with dread, fear, shame or hopelessness. For you to feel safe enough to share your struggles with me, I will have to earn your trust. As we begin our work, I will make every effort to meet you with genuine warmth, openness and patience.
(704) 837-4312 View (704) 837-4312
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Emily Ortiz
LCMHC Associate, MA, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28273
We often experience a various range of emotions in life. Anxiety gets the best of us, depression brings us down. Stress can take control. Relationships can be complicated. Many of us desire a safe space to process these daily stressors and hassles in life.
We often experience a various range of emotions in life. Anxiety gets the best of us, depression brings us down. Stress can take control. Relationships can be complicated. Many of us desire a safe space to process these daily stressors and hassles in life.
(704) 286-1398 View (704) 286-1398
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Hannah Fligel
Counselor, LCMHCA, NCC, MEd
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Charlotte, NC 28205
Whether you are navigating life transitions, seeking clarity, or addressing challenges, our collaboration will be centered around fostering a meaningful connection with your inner self. One of my specialties is helping to navigate the beautiful and challenging stages of the perinatal and postpartum periods of life. Whether you're moving through the joys or grappling with the complexities, I am here to provide support to folks going through the life stages of conception, pregnancy, postpartum, loss, and infertility. I am also passionate about the importance of therapy for therapists.
Whether you are navigating life transitions, seeking clarity, or addressing challenges, our collaboration will be centered around fostering a meaningful connection with your inner self. One of my specialties is helping to navigate the beautiful and challenging stages of the perinatal and postpartum periods of life. Whether you're moving through the joys or grappling with the complexities, I am here to provide support to folks going through the life stages of conception, pregnancy, postpartum, loss, and infertility. I am also passionate about the importance of therapy for therapists.
(704) 387-6339 View (704) 387-6339

Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.