Photo of Lingyi (Lexie) Zhu, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Hawaii
Lingyi (Lexie) Zhu
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Mililani, HI 96789  (Online Only)
在咨询里我常常与这样的你共同探索身处的困境,找到自处以及与世界共处的方式: 1)那个长期不被看见的你:那个总觉得“我不够好”而不敢发声的你、那个因为性少数群体的身份而被污名化的你、那个需要照顾新生宝宝而忘了自我关怀的你、那个在跨文化环境中踉踉跄跄适应的你。。。 2)那个在亲密关系里反复挣扎的你:那个对各种保护作用:有的时刻批评着我们让我们做的更好;有的可能是最童真的那部分却因为过去的创伤而被封锁住了;还有的面对紧急状况想要尽快逃离;他们的需要也不尽相同,于是会经常出现部分与部分之间的吵架。在我们的咨询里,我也希望尽力去呈现并整合每个部分。特别敏感的你、那个即使内心万马奔腾也难以表达脆弱感的你、那个害怕重复过往关系而难以开始新关系的你、那个在关系中无法感受到安全的你。。。 3)那个时常被情绪淹没的你:焦虑、害怕、抑郁、愤怒、懊悔、羞耻。。
在咨询里我常常与这样的你共同探索身处的困境,找到自处以及与世界共处的方式: 1)那个长期不被看见的你:那个总觉得“我不够好”而不敢发声的你、那个因为性少数群体的身份而被污名化的你、那个需要照顾新生宝宝而忘了自我关怀的你、那个在跨文化环境中踉踉跄跄适应的你。。。 2)那个在亲密关系里反复挣扎的你:那个对各种保护作用:有的时刻批评着我们让我们做的更好;有的可能是最童真的那部分却因为过去的创伤而被封锁住了;还有的面对紧急状况想要尽快逃离;他们的需要也不尽相同,于是会经常出现部分与部分之间的吵架。在我们的咨询里,我也希望尽力去呈现并整合每个部分。特别敏感的你、那个即使内心万马奔腾也难以表达脆弱感的你、那个害怕重复过往关系而难以开始新关系的你、那个在关系中无法感受到安全的你。。。 3)那个时常被情绪淹没的你:焦虑、害怕、抑郁、愤怒、懊悔、羞耻。。
(808) 755-3713 View (808) 755-3713
Photo of Jeanie Li, Psychologist in Hawaii
Jeanie Li
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96813  (Online Only)
Aloha, Are you or your loved ones struggling with anxiety, depression, or chronic pain? Do you find yourself compulsively eating, drinking, working, or seeking relationships in order to fill the inner void? Do you and your partner sometimes get caught in a negative interaction pattern that prevents you from experiencing love and intimacy? I have years of education, training, and clinical experiences to help you process painful emotions, learn new skills, and find new ways of connecting with self, others, and the world. I am licensed in Hawaii and California to see clients from both states.
Aloha, Are you or your loved ones struggling with anxiety, depression, or chronic pain? Do you find yourself compulsively eating, drinking, working, or seeking relationships in order to fill the inner void? Do you and your partner sometimes get caught in a negative interaction pattern that prevents you from experiencing love and intimacy? I have years of education, training, and clinical experiences to help you process painful emotions, learn new skills, and find new ways of connecting with self, others, and the world. I am licensed in Hawaii and California to see clients from both states.
(808) 419-7832 View (808) 419-7832
Photo of Jie (Jaye) Shen, Art Therapist in Hawaii
Jie (Jaye) Shen
Art Therapist, MA, ATR, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lihue, HI 96766  (Online Only)
Everyone’s path towards healing is unique. I believe in basic goodness and innate ability to heal and grow in our human nature. With compassion as the core of my services, we can explore ways to challenge difficult thoughts, discover the inner landscape of emotions, improve interpersonal skills, change unhealthy behavioral pattern, and build self esteem and confidence to achieve a more fulfilling life via the healing power of art and therapy.
Everyone’s path towards healing is unique. I believe in basic goodness and innate ability to heal and grow in our human nature. With compassion as the core of my services, we can explore ways to challenge difficult thoughts, discover the inner landscape of emotions, improve interpersonal skills, change unhealthy behavioral pattern, and build self esteem and confidence to achieve a more fulfilling life via the healing power of art and therapy.
(808) 374-9121 View (808) 374-9121
Photo of Wilson Cheh Counseling Services, Marriage & Family Therapist in Hawaii
Wilson Cheh Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, MAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kailua Kona, HI 96740  (Online Only)
Aloha! I am a bi-cultural engineer-turned-therapist with experience in several clinical specialties that enables me to provide effective, high impact, outcome-focused services to my clients. I welcome opportunities in supporting adults, young adults, couples & families to navigate through tough seasons of feeling overwhelmed, experiencing loss in transitions, or dealing with painful/complex circumstances. I tend to digest & integrate a wide range of information along with having a sensitivity to generational, cultural, & racial influences. My style is both conversational & experiential, advocating for empowerment & hope.
Aloha! I am a bi-cultural engineer-turned-therapist with experience in several clinical specialties that enables me to provide effective, high impact, outcome-focused services to my clients. I welcome opportunities in supporting adults, young adults, couples & families to navigate through tough seasons of feeling overwhelmed, experiencing loss in transitions, or dealing with painful/complex circumstances. I tend to digest & integrate a wide range of information along with having a sensitivity to generational, cultural, & racial influences. My style is both conversational & experiential, advocating for empowerment & hope.
(928) 550-6736 View (928) 550-6736
Photo of Chuck Liu, Psychologist in Hawaii
Chuck Liu
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96826
Do you feel like life could be fuller? Do you have physical symptoms like headaches, difficulty sleeping, or low energy? Perhaps you've tried your best yet see no change, or notice your relationships suffering? Maybe Covid-19 just made everything come to surface. Whether battling with depression, anxiety, or faith or family-related stressors, I can work with you to explore, identify connections and gain life-changing skills, healing and strength.
Do you feel like life could be fuller? Do you have physical symptoms like headaches, difficulty sleeping, or low energy? Perhaps you've tried your best yet see no change, or notice your relationships suffering? Maybe Covid-19 just made everything come to surface. Whether battling with depression, anxiety, or faith or family-related stressors, I can work with you to explore, identify connections and gain life-changing skills, healing and strength.
(331) 207-1964 View (331) 207-1964
Photo of Mauli’Ola Therapy, LLC, Licensed Professional Counselor in Hawaii
Mauli’Ola Therapy, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CCTP2
Verified Verified
Kihei, HI 96753
The goal of Mauli’Ola Therapy is to provide a breath of life (Hawaiian) for each client and a safe space. Each of us carry daily interactions that may fill our bucket and have life experiences that may prevent us from living the life we envision. You possess all the strength to make this happen and we are here to support you in finding your breath. We all experience traumas and pain in our lives. Your ability to heal is only one element of your resiliency and Mauli’Ola strives to help you enhance those skills and catch your breath. We gain so much by looking up and being present in our lives each moment we spend in self.
The goal of Mauli’Ola Therapy is to provide a breath of life (Hawaiian) for each client and a safe space. Each of us carry daily interactions that may fill our bucket and have life experiences that may prevent us from living the life we envision. You possess all the strength to make this happen and we are here to support you in finding your breath. We all experience traumas and pain in our lives. Your ability to heal is only one element of your resiliency and Mauli’Ola strives to help you enhance those skills and catch your breath. We gain so much by looking up and being present in our lives each moment we spend in self.
(540) 202-1883 View (540) 202-1883

Attachment-based Therapists

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.