Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT (she, her)

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Lodi, CA 95242

(209) 217-9767

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You may appear capable and put-together on the outside, yet inside feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, or quietly exhausted from carrying so much for so long. Many of the women I work with are high-functioning and successful, but feel stuck in patterns like overthinking, people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, or self-doubt. Therapy becomes a space where you no longer have to hold it all together. My approach is warm, grounded, and emotionally attuned, while also honest and direct when needed. Together, we slow down and explore what’s underneath the anxiety, burnout, relationship struggles, or lingering impact of past experience

I offer trauma-informed therapy and draw from evidence-based modalities, including EMDR and relational work. I also provide couples therapy and am trained in the Gottman Method to help partners improve communication, rebuild trust, and feel more connected.

I maintain a waitlist for an upcoming Gottman couples workshop. If you’d like to be notified, please reach out.

Call or Email Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan now for a free 15 minute consultation - (209) 217-9767

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Lodi, CA 95242

(209) 217-9767

My website

I offer online therapy sessions. I have in-person sessions available in Lodi, CA

I specialize in Anxiety, Trauma and PTSD and Life Transitions

$160 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals and couples

I'm here to work with you as a team toward the healing and growth you're wanting.

Let's Connect (209) 217-9767

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Lodi, CA 95242

(209) 217-9767

My website

I offer online therapy sessions. I have in-person sessions available in Lodi, CA

I specialize in Anxiety, Trauma and PTSD and Life Transitions

$160 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals and couples

I'm here to work with you as a team toward the healing and growth you're wanting.

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $160
Couple Sessions $185
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

Aetna

I currently accept cash/credit pay. I also accept Aetna insurance through Headway. I can provide a Superbill for insurance reimbursement if this is an option for you.

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

I currently accept cash/credit pay. I also accept Aetna insurance through Headway. I can provide a Superbill for insurance reimbursement if this is an option for you.

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / LMFT107810 Ashley K Phillips

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 11 years

Attended California State University, Fullerton, MS, Graduated 2015

Additional Credentials

License: Board of Behavioral Sciences LMFT107810 / 2018

Trained in EMDR treatment for trauma, anxiety and depression. Trauma and anxiety are my specialities. Gottman level 1 and 2 trained for couples therapy. I have over 10 years of experience in treating families, couples and individuals. I'm licensed in California.

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Life Transitions

Expertise

Codependency
Coping Skills
Family Conflict
Grief
I am a LGBTQ affirming therapist
Marital and Premarital
Parenting
Peer Relationships
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sexual Abuse
Stress
Women's Issues

I have the most experience and training in helping those struggling with issues related to anxiety, trauma and relationship issues. You can expect to feel cared about and that my priority is your personal goals for treatment. You can expect to feel seen, heard and understood and to better understand yourself. You can expect me to be honest with you in a caring and compassionate way.

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

Endorsement

Gregory Dy

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Ashley is an exceptional therapist, highly skilled in EMDR, with a rare blend of empathy, curiosity, and clinical insight. Her expertise is widely sought after and has proven invaluable in diverse settings. Her compassionate approach helps clients heal.

Client Focus

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Compassion Focused
EMDR
Humanistic
Motivational Interviewing
Person-Centered
Psychodynamic
Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Somatic
Trauma Focused

I tailor my treatment to your specific goals and needs. However, I tend to use EMDR as my primary treatment method.

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

I tailor my treatment to your specific goals and needs. However, I tend to use EMDR as my primary treatment method.

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (209) 217-9767

Location

Primary Location

Lodi, CA 95242

(209) 217-9767

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I offer online therapy sessions. I have in-person sessions available in Lodi, CA

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call for a free consultation now - (209) 217-9767

I offer online therapy sessions. I have in-person sessions available in Lodi, CA

Ashley K Phillips-Gillilan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Call for a free consultation now - (209) 217-9767

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