Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Crawford County, AR
I work with gender identity, transitioning, self-discovery, LGBTQIA+ relationships, polyamory, exploring kink, BDSM & power dynamics in a healthy way.
I have specialized training in sexual addictions (sex, porn, love addiction, sexual shame and trauma, and other intimacy struggles) and am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. I am currently working on my Ph.D in Clinical Sexology to become a Certified Sex Therapist. I continue to work on expanding my knowledge and skills to better serve these communities.
I work with gender identity, transitioning, self-discovery, LGBTQIA+ relationships, polyamory, exploring kink, BDSM & power dynamics in a healthy way.
I have specialized training in sexual addictions (sex, porn, love addiction, sexual shame and trauma, and other intimacy struggles) and am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. I am currently working on my Ph.D in Clinical Sexology to become a Certified Sex Therapist. I continue to work on expanding my knowledge and skills to better serve these communities.
I work with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, OCD and ADHD; however, my primary areas of focus are working within the LGBTQIA+ community and with trauma. I have completed training in several modalities to increase my ability to help people navigate through their struggles. I know the value of therapy for trauma due to my own experiences and try to bring compassion and empathy into every session. I use a variety of techniques and tools, such as EMDR, ego state therapy, and CBT to help tailor therapy to each individual client.
I work with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, OCD and ADHD; however, my primary areas of focus are working within the LGBTQIA+ community and with trauma. I have completed training in several modalities to increase my ability to help people navigate through their struggles. I know the value of therapy for trauma due to my own experiences and try to bring compassion and empathy into every session. I use a variety of techniques and tools, such as EMDR, ego state therapy, and CBT to help tailor therapy to each individual client.
Patricia (Patti) Lashley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I believe we are each on a journey in life and sometimes we need someone willing to walk with us to help us along our path. It is my goal for everyone to feel accepted and to know they are not alone. I believe everyone has the ability and capability to be their best selves. It is my mission to provide a safe and supportive space for my clients so they achieve the best in their lives. I work with adolescences, adults, and single parent, divorced, and blended families. I embrace working with diverse people of every race, ethnicity, sexual orientation,
I believe we are each on a journey in life and sometimes we need someone willing to walk with us to help us along our path. It is my goal for everyone to feel accepted and to know they are not alone. I believe everyone has the ability and capability to be their best selves. It is my mission to provide a safe and supportive space for my clients so they achieve the best in their lives. I work with adolescences, adults, and single parent, divorced, and blended families. I embrace working with diverse people of every race, ethnicity, sexual orientation,
Step out into freedom and embrace the life you were born to live! Is fear running your life? Do you hide the “real you” from family & friends? Discover the courage to be who you truly are! Many people dealing with anxiety, depression and gender and sexuality issues feel they are missing out on life. Clients I work with often report feeling alone and afraid to reach out for help. They no longer want to hide who they are, yet also feel stuck moving forward due to lack of support or fear of judgement. My passion is to help you ditch the shame and find freedom to love the person in the mirror despite the opinions of others.
Step out into freedom and embrace the life you were born to live! Is fear running your life? Do you hide the “real you” from family & friends? Discover the courage to be who you truly are! Many people dealing with anxiety, depression and gender and sexuality issues feel they are missing out on life. Clients I work with often report feeling alone and afraid to reach out for help. They no longer want to hide who they are, yet also feel stuck moving forward due to lack of support or fear of judgement. My passion is to help you ditch the shame and find freedom to love the person in the mirror despite the opinions of others.
Are you feeling weighed down by anxiety, self-doubt, or interpersonal conflict and longing for a safe space to be heard without judgment? Do you hope to improve understanding of yourself, improve relationships, and feel more confident in their daily life? Is your goal to break free from old patterns, discover healthier ways to cope, and build a life that reflects their true self? My ideal client, what they want most is to feel more grounded, connected, and empowered to create lasting change.
Are you feeling weighed down by anxiety, self-doubt, or interpersonal conflict and longing for a safe space to be heard without judgment? Do you hope to improve understanding of yourself, improve relationships, and feel more confident in their daily life? Is your goal to break free from old patterns, discover healthier ways to cope, and build a life that reflects their true self? My ideal client, what they want most is to feel more grounded, connected, and empowered to create lasting change.
Online Therapists
I believe the counseling relationship is a powerful tool for learning to to be kinder and more generous with ourselves. I understand that many of us come from environments, past or present, that tell us we do not "deserve" safety, love, acceptance, or belonging, and sometimes this keeps us at a remove from our communities and loved ones. In my practice, I collaborate with clients to create a safe, shame-free place for moving through and beyond these messages—a place where it is possible to experiment with vulnerability while searching for the most authentic and empowered version of the client's life.
I believe the counseling relationship is a powerful tool for learning to to be kinder and more generous with ourselves. I understand that many of us come from environments, past or present, that tell us we do not "deserve" safety, love, acceptance, or belonging, and sometimes this keeps us at a remove from our communities and loved ones. In my practice, I collaborate with clients to create a safe, shame-free place for moving through and beyond these messages—a place where it is possible to experiment with vulnerability while searching for the most authentic and empowered version of the client's life.
Leaning on my own experiences, knowledge, and ability to empathize, I walk alongside my clients on their path to recovery. Therapeutic practices I utilize on this path are CBT, DBT, REBT and MI.
Leaning on my own experiences, knowledge, and ability to empathize, I walk alongside my clients on their path to recovery. Therapeutic practices I utilize on this path are CBT, DBT, REBT and MI.
Erin received her Master’s in Counseling from the University of Arkansas, and has been active in the mental health field in Northwest Arkansas for over 20 years. Erin has extensive experience working with adults across the lifespan. She works with clients struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, trauma, grief, mood disorders, and parenting issues. She is an affirmation therapist who is passionate about providing mental health services for LGBTQIA+ individuals. Erin will support you in creating meaningful and lasting changes in your relationships, your family, and in yourself.
Erin received her Master’s in Counseling from the University of Arkansas, and has been active in the mental health field in Northwest Arkansas for over 20 years. Erin has extensive experience working with adults across the lifespan. She works with clients struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, trauma, grief, mood disorders, and parenting issues. She is an affirmation therapist who is passionate about providing mental health services for LGBTQIA+ individuals. Erin will support you in creating meaningful and lasting changes in your relationships, your family, and in yourself.
I enjoy working with women who are struggling with their identity and are in the midst of change. Does it feel as though you have no idea who you are anymore? Are you going through a divorce or empty nesting? Perhaps menopause is making you feel lost. Bring it on!
I love to explore the possibilities of life with clients. My main goal is to help you create a life worth living, however you define that. My approach to therapy is one of warmth, genuineness and humor. I can give you coping skills all day long. What is probably more important, however, is that I can give you a safe place to just be you, with all your quirks.
I enjoy working with women who are struggling with their identity and are in the midst of change. Does it feel as though you have no idea who you are anymore? Are you going through a divorce or empty nesting? Perhaps menopause is making you feel lost. Bring it on!
I love to explore the possibilities of life with clients. My main goal is to help you create a life worth living, however you define that. My approach to therapy is one of warmth, genuineness and humor. I can give you coping skills all day long. What is probably more important, however, is that I can give you a safe place to just be you, with all your quirks.
Maybe past trauma makes intimacy feel overwhelming, or you’re navigating questions about sexuality, kink, or non-monogamy.
Together, we can address a broad spectrum of concerns, from sexual dysfunction, low desire, and shame around pleasure, to healing from sexual trauma or finding balance in monogamous, polyamorous, or kink relationships. My approach is sex-positive and compassionate, helping you reconnect with your body, your values, and the intimacy you deserve.
Maybe past trauma makes intimacy feel overwhelming, or you’re navigating questions about sexuality, kink, or non-monogamy.
Together, we can address a broad spectrum of concerns, from sexual dysfunction, low desire, and shame around pleasure, to healing from sexual trauma or finding balance in monogamous, polyamorous, or kink relationships. My approach is sex-positive and compassionate, helping you reconnect with your body, your values, and the intimacy you deserve.
Reaching out for help and healing is one of the most difficult things for anyone to do. Learning, growing and improving is something that should be a lifelong endeavor. If you are reading this, then clearly you are looking for help in this journey we know as life. Everything I do as a counselor revolves around helping people learn, grow and improve themselves – whether this means overcoming trauma experienced, recent life changes, or just looking to better understand how you operate as a person, my goal is for you to be able to walk away from working with me saying, “I am a better version of myself than I was a year ago”.
Reaching out for help and healing is one of the most difficult things for anyone to do. Learning, growing and improving is something that should be a lifelong endeavor. If you are reading this, then clearly you are looking for help in this journey we know as life. Everything I do as a counselor revolves around helping people learn, grow and improve themselves – whether this means overcoming trauma experienced, recent life changes, or just looking to better understand how you operate as a person, my goal is for you to be able to walk away from working with me saying, “I am a better version of myself than I was a year ago”.
Progress, not perfection. This is a concept that is often hard to wrap our brains around because we have been conditioned to believe that we have to have it all together at all times, but this is not the reality. Healing is a messy process, and it is the baby steps that add up to crossing the finish line at the end. The process can be difficult and frustrating, but so worth it. I want to thank you for taking this first step towards building a better you.
Progress, not perfection. This is a concept that is often hard to wrap our brains around because we have been conditioned to believe that we have to have it all together at all times, but this is not the reality. Healing is a messy process, and it is the baby steps that add up to crossing the finish line at the end. The process can be difficult and frustrating, but so worth it. I want to thank you for taking this first step towards building a better you.
Stephanie received her Master’s in Counseling from the University of Arkansas, and has been active in the mental health field in Arkansas for 10+ years. Stephanie has extensive experience working with teens and adults across their lifespans. She is an affirmative therapist who is passionate about providing partnership with people interested in improving their relationship with themselves and others. Stephanie specializes in addressing substance use, abuse, and addiction. She is a tireless advocate for LGBTQIA+ community. Stephanie will support you in creating meaningful and lasting changes in your relationships and yourself.
Stephanie received her Master’s in Counseling from the University of Arkansas, and has been active in the mental health field in Arkansas for 10+ years. Stephanie has extensive experience working with teens and adults across their lifespans. She is an affirmative therapist who is passionate about providing partnership with people interested in improving their relationship with themselves and others. Stephanie specializes in addressing substance use, abuse, and addiction. She is a tireless advocate for LGBTQIA+ community. Stephanie will support you in creating meaningful and lasting changes in your relationships and yourself.
Do you have feelings that you can't control or cope with? Do you want to feel more positive feelings (e.g., excitement, joy, love, gratitude) and fewer unpleasant feelings like anxiety, guilt, shame, or sadness? If you (and/or your partner) are struggling with your emotions, I can help you learn effective strategies for managing your feelings so that you can better navigate the ups and downs of life. I offer in person and online therapy for couples and for individuals suffering from anxiety, depression, trauma, personality pathology, and interpersonal issues.
Do you have feelings that you can't control or cope with? Do you want to feel more positive feelings (e.g., excitement, joy, love, gratitude) and fewer unpleasant feelings like anxiety, guilt, shame, or sadness? If you (and/or your partner) are struggling with your emotions, I can help you learn effective strategies for managing your feelings so that you can better navigate the ups and downs of life. I offer in person and online therapy for couples and for individuals suffering from anxiety, depression, trauma, personality pathology, and interpersonal issues.
I primarily help people who are suffering with either (or both!) Insomnia Disorder and PTSD. However I have many years of experience as a therapist and am able to treat depression, anxiety, chronic pain, along with co-occuring substance use disorder and other mental health disorders. I believe in delivering evidence based therapy when clinically indicated. In my experience, clients feel better sooner when they receive the most effective treatment for their diagnosis. I also use a lot of measurement based care to routinely assess progress we are making. My ideal client is someone who is ready to enact change in their life.
I primarily help people who are suffering with either (or both!) Insomnia Disorder and PTSD. However I have many years of experience as a therapist and am able to treat depression, anxiety, chronic pain, along with co-occuring substance use disorder and other mental health disorders. I believe in delivering evidence based therapy when clinically indicated. In my experience, clients feel better sooner when they receive the most effective treatment for their diagnosis. I also use a lot of measurement based care to routinely assess progress we are making. My ideal client is someone who is ready to enact change in their life.
Often times we become so overwhelmed with our circumstances, that we feel down about ourselves or we allow fear to block us from our full potential. I have 20+ years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults, elderly, and their loved ones. My therapeutic techniques are individually tailored to each client's needs, preferences, and strengths in order to build awareness, mindfulness, and success in attaining individual goals--whatever those may be! I am committed to helping you identify and understand your personal obstacles and together we will enact a plan to get you on the path to your best possible self.
Often times we become so overwhelmed with our circumstances, that we feel down about ourselves or we allow fear to block us from our full potential. I have 20+ years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults, elderly, and their loved ones. My therapeutic techniques are individually tailored to each client's needs, preferences, and strengths in order to build awareness, mindfulness, and success in attaining individual goals--whatever those may be! I am committed to helping you identify and understand your personal obstacles and together we will enact a plan to get you on the path to your best possible self.
What would life look like if you woke up tomorrow and everything was better? Would it be a change in confidence... or maybe a change in attitude? Would your relationships look different? How would you be spending your time?
I want to help you visualize that dream and make it a reality. Because, you can make it happen! And the great news is you are right were you need to be to start that journey.
It is my goal to create a warm, affirming environment where you feel safe exploring all aspects of yourself, challenging the thoughts and beliefs that hold you back, and replacing them with empowering messages.
What would life look like if you woke up tomorrow and everything was better? Would it be a change in confidence... or maybe a change in attitude? Would your relationships look different? How would you be spending your time?
I want to help you visualize that dream and make it a reality. Because, you can make it happen! And the great news is you are right were you need to be to start that journey.
It is my goal to create a warm, affirming environment where you feel safe exploring all aspects of yourself, challenging the thoughts and beliefs that hold you back, and replacing them with empowering messages.
Hi there! I’m so glad you’re searching for the support you need and deserve. As a therapist, I believe that you are the expert in your own experience, and that you have a beautiful story to tell. I love working with clients who are willing to do the hard work of digging into the emotions and beliefs that keep us stuck in cycles of stress. My biggest passion is helping clients dismantle shame. I am a firm believer that we have all been directly affected by shameful messages about food, our bodies, and our sexuality, and I want for everyone to be able to experience freedom in these areas.
Hi there! I’m so glad you’re searching for the support you need and deserve. As a therapist, I believe that you are the expert in your own experience, and that you have a beautiful story to tell. I love working with clients who are willing to do the hard work of digging into the emotions and beliefs that keep us stuck in cycles of stress. My biggest passion is helping clients dismantle shame. I am a firm believer that we have all been directly affected by shameful messages about food, our bodies, and our sexuality, and I want for everyone to be able to experience freedom in these areas.
Life can be hard; there are times when we all need a little help with past traumas, life’s problems and challenges. Taking the step to see a therapist can be like opening a new door. I have a deep respect for the individual human spirit and a true belief in the therapeutic relationship as a means of creating change. I simply want to help anyone who wants to be helped.
Life can be hard; there are times when we all need a little help with past traumas, life’s problems and challenges. Taking the step to see a therapist can be like opening a new door. I have a deep respect for the individual human spirit and a true belief in the therapeutic relationship as a means of creating change. I simply want to help anyone who wants to be helped.
Do you or someone you know start your day already stressed, wishing things could be better, or having unresolved conflicts or challenges in your relationships. I've been there, many people have been there: struggling, attempting to cope, and adjusting to various of life’s stressors: trauma, loss, grief, anxiety, depression, or relationship conflicts. The exciting part is that you have the tools and wisdom within to make the shift toward a better tomorrow. Sometimes you need assistance, support, guidance, and a bit more strength and courage to tap into this inner wisdom.
Do you or someone you know start your day already stressed, wishing things could be better, or having unresolved conflicts or challenges in your relationships. I've been there, many people have been there: struggling, attempting to cope, and adjusting to various of life’s stressors: trauma, loss, grief, anxiety, depression, or relationship conflicts. The exciting part is that you have the tools and wisdom within to make the shift toward a better tomorrow. Sometimes you need assistance, support, guidance, and a bit more strength and courage to tap into this inner wisdom.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.