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Certified Sex Therapist. Are you feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns that no longer serve you? I’m Amy Wilhelmi, a compassionate therapist specializing in individual and couples therapy, sex therapy, and innovative treatments like Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP). My approach helps clients address issues such as trauma, intimacy challenges, anxiety, and relationship struggles. I integrate powerful, evidence-based techniques such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to support emotional healing, improve relationships, and foster deeper connections.
Whether you’re navigating personal challenges, seeking to strengthen your relationship, or exploring your sexuality, I provide a safe, judgment-free space for growth and self-discovery. I offer both in-person therapy in West Dundee and virtual therapy sessions, making support accessible no matter where you are.
Together, we can work toward achieving your personal and relational goals, helping you break free from unhelpful patterns, heal emotional wounds, and build stronger, more meaningful connections. My goal is to empower you to create lasting change, experience greater self-awareness, and find renewed fulfillment in both your life and relationships.
Take the first step to help. Call or Amy M Wilhelmi now - (847) 750-3666

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

West Dundee, IL 60118

(847) 750-3666

Amy Wilhelmi & Associates

Chicago, IL 60622

My website
I am licensed in Illinois, Virginia, Iowa & Wisconsin. KAP and mediation are private pay. No consults.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly and Sex Therapy 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Looking forward to working with you!
Amy M Wilhelmi
Let's Connect (847) 750-3666
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

West Dundee, IL 60118

(847) 750-3666

Amy Wilhelmi & Associates

Chicago, IL 60622

My website
I am licensed in Illinois, Virginia, Iowa & Wisconsin. KAP and mediation are private pay. No consults.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly and Sex Therapy 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Looking forward to working with you!
Amy M Wilhelmi

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • BCBS of Massachusetts
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • CareFrirst BlueCross BlueShied
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Horizon BCBS of New Jersey
  • Military OneSource
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • Preferred provider, patient responsible for copay
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I am in network with most insurance companies. IL-BCBS, Aetna, Cigna, UHC, UMR Mediation, and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy are privately paid only by law.
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Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666
"
I am in network with most insurance companies. IL-BCBS, Aetna, Cigna, UHC, UMR Mediation, and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy are privately paid only by law.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Illinois / 166.000876 Amy M Wilhelmi
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 15 years
  • Attended Notre Dame de Namur University , Marriage and Family Therapy , Graduated 2009
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with AASECT
  • Certificate from AAMFT 138286 / 2012
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I have 15 years of experience. I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in IL, VA, & IA. I also offer Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy and Divorce Mediation. I am a Doctoral Candidate in Sex Therapy and also do EMDR. I primarily see couples and individual adults who want to process their trauma.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666
"
I have 15 years of experience. I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in IL, VA, & IA. I also offer Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy and Divorce Mediation. I am a Doctoral Candidate in Sex Therapy and also do EMDR. I primarily see couples and individual adults who want to process their trauma.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sex Therapy

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Therapy I Offer: Individual Therapy, Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy, Performance Coaching, Divorce Mediation, Family Therapy and Ketamine-Assisted-Psychotherapy.
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Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666
"
Therapy I Offer: Individual Therapy, Couples Therapy, Sex Therapy, Performance Coaching, Divorce Mediation, Family Therapy and Ketamine-Assisted-Psychotherapy.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Divorce Mediation
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Multicultural
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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My therapeutic approach is integrative and psychodynamic, combining Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), EMDR, Sex Therapy, Mediation, and Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy. I tailor my techniques to fit the needs of my clients, whether they are navigating relationship issues, career-related stress, or sexual health concerns.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666
"
My therapeutic approach is integrative and psychodynamic, combining Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), EMDR, Sex Therapy, Mediation, and Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy. I tailor my techniques to fit the needs of my clients, whether they are navigating relationship issues, career-related stress, or sexual health concerns.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
or call with questions - (847) 750-3666

Location

Primary Location

West Dundee, IL 60118

(847) 750-3666

Additional Location

Amy Wilhelmi & Associates

Chicago, IL 60622

(847) 750-3666
"
I am licensed in Illinois, Virginia, Iowa & Wisconsin. KAP and mediation are private pay. No consults.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Take the first step to help. Call now - (847) 750-3666
"
I am licensed in Illinois, Virginia, Iowa & Wisconsin. KAP and mediation are private pay. No consults.
Photo of Amy M Wilhelmi, Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Amy M Wilhelmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST, KAP
Take the first step to help. Call now - (847) 750-3666