Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in New York

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Amie M. Roe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001  (Online Only)
I do this by staying unrelentingly curious and putting my mind to work alongside yours using Mentalization Based Treatment (MBT), an evidence based treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
When my clients first come to me, their lives feel chaotic and out of control. No matter what they do, they can’t seem to break free from recurrent depression, major ups and downs in their mood, and significant difficulties in their relationships. All they want is to feel more peace within themselves and in the relationships that matter to them the most. They want to be able to live life on their terms, and yet, this keeps on eluding them, even though they might be really accomplished in other areas of their life, like work.
I do this by staying unrelentingly curious and putting my mind to work alongside yours using Mentalization Based Treatment (MBT), an evidence based treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).
When my clients first come to me, their lives feel chaotic and out of control. No matter what they do, they can’t seem to break free from recurrent depression, major ups and downs in their mood, and significant difficulties in their relationships. All they want is to feel more peace within themselves and in the relationships that matter to them the most. They want to be able to live life on their terms, and yet, this keeps on eluding them, even though they might be really accomplished in other areas of their life, like work.
(347) 673-0604 View (347) 673-0604
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Sibi Selvarajah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD(c), MA, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011  (Online Only)
I specialized in working with adolescents and adults who struggle with comorbidity - such as substance use disorder and PTSD, anxiety, depression, psychosis, borderline personality disorder, etc.
I work very well with adolescents and adults whom struggle to believe that therapy could be beneficial for them. Through my experience, I learned that utilizing psychodynamic theory with the individual during the first several months of therapy aids in building a strong therapeutic relationship. Thus, my initial goal is to help the individual understand how their experiences in life - both positive and negative - contributed to shaping their behaviors, thought patterns, interests, etc. This will help the individual to identify unconscious stressors and improve their emotional response.
I specialized in working with adolescents and adults who struggle with comorbidity - such as substance use disorder and PTSD, anxiety, depression, psychosis, borderline personality disorder, etc.
I work very well with adolescents and adults whom struggle to believe that therapy could be beneficial for them. Through my experience, I learned that utilizing psychodynamic theory with the individual during the first several months of therapy aids in building a strong therapeutic relationship. Thus, my initial goal is to help the individual understand how their experiences in life - both positive and negative - contributed to shaping their behaviors, thought patterns, interests, etc. This will help the individual to identify unconscious stressors and improve their emotional response.
(646) 713-0200 View (646) 713-0200
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Ari Rozenberg
MHC-LP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11211
Ari is a cognitive behavioral therapist with specialization in the treatment of Mood and Borderline Personality Disorder symptomatology. Balancing change with acceptance, Ari approaches his clinical work with an emphasis on collaborative problem-solving while also providing the support needed for his clients to trust and validate their thoughts, behaviors, and emotional experiences. Stylistically, Ari relates to his clients with warmth, humor, and an approachable demeanor. Ari presumes that his clients are the experts in their own lives and aims to offer the tools needed for them to become their own therapists.
Ari is a cognitive behavioral therapist with specialization in the treatment of Mood and Borderline Personality Disorder symptomatology. Balancing change with acceptance, Ari approaches his clinical work with an emphasis on collaborative problem-solving while also providing the support needed for his clients to trust and validate their thoughts, behaviors, and emotional experiences. Stylistically, Ari relates to his clients with warmth, humor, and an approachable demeanor. Ari presumes that his clients are the experts in their own lives and aims to offer the tools needed for them to become their own therapists.
(347) 695-4801 View (347) 695-4801
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Laura Mccarthy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Staten Island, NY 10314
For 30 years, my work has been dedicated to adults, children and families, specializing in emotional and behavioral problems. My belief is that most people are committed to doing the best they can & have the capacity for change with the right support and skill. I service clients with a wide range of diagnoses including depression, anxiety, ADHD, and borderline personality disorder. When children and teens are in crisis, so are their families. Finding a good therapist can be a daunting experience! My office setting is comfortable and inviting & well equipped for therapeutic play. I welcome phone consultation before scheduling an appointment.
For 30 years, my work has been dedicated to adults, children and families, specializing in emotional and behavioral problems. My belief is that most people are committed to doing the best they can & have the capacity for change with the right support and skill. I service clients with a wide range of diagnoses including depression, anxiety, ADHD, and borderline personality disorder. When children and teens are in crisis, so are their families. Finding a good therapist can be a daunting experience! My office setting is comfortable and inviting & well equipped for therapeutic play. I welcome phone consultation before scheduling an appointment.
(917) 746-7857 View (917) 746-7857
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Mara ---- Sambugaro Framesqui
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10069  (Online Only)
In my studies I have focused on depression, borderline personality disorder, ADHD, self-harm, attachment disorder, substance abuse, anger management, behavioral issues, and self-esteem.
There are times in life when there doesn't seem like a way out of emotional pain. Our life histories, traumas, losses, and disappointments can run so deep that you think the only solution is to give up and stay where you are because change seems frightening. I'm confident I’m able to help you have a more joyful life, better relationships, and to create a more optimistic and exciting vision for your future. You can learn the most effective tools and recognize your strengths focusing on yourself in the now. I can teach you how to treat yourself with patience and compassion, while making a real decision to change.
In my studies I have focused on depression, borderline personality disorder, ADHD, self-harm, attachment disorder, substance abuse, anger management, behavioral issues, and self-esteem.
There are times in life when there doesn't seem like a way out of emotional pain. Our life histories, traumas, losses, and disappointments can run so deep that you think the only solution is to give up and stay where you are because change seems frightening. I'm confident I’m able to help you have a more joyful life, better relationships, and to create a more optimistic and exciting vision for your future. You can learn the most effective tools and recognize your strengths focusing on yourself in the now. I can teach you how to treat yourself with patience and compassion, while making a real decision to change.
(929) 284-2534 View (929) 284-2534
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Andrea Coleman
Counselor, LMHC, MEd, MA
Verified Verified
I am a NYS licensed Mental Health Counselor. I specialize in treating clients with borderline personality disorder, depression and anxiety disorders. My research interests focus on adolescents exhibiting cutting behavior as well as mindfulness meditation. I have presented at local and state conferences and have conducted several clinical trainings related to anxiety, autism, and developmental disabilities at surrounding regional agencies.
I am a NYS licensed Mental Health Counselor. I specialize in treating clients with borderline personality disorder, depression and anxiety disorders. My research interests focus on adolescents exhibiting cutting behavior as well as mindfulness meditation. I have presented at local and state conferences and have conducted several clinical trainings related to anxiety, autism, and developmental disabilities at surrounding regional agencies.
(631) 449-7688 View (631) 449-7688
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Grouport
Mental Health Counselor
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10170
We offer virtual group therapy for people experiencing a range of mental health conditions, including Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, Grief, and Substance Abuse.
We offer virtual group therapy for people experiencing a range of mental health conditions, including Anxiety, Depression, OCD, Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, Grief, and Substance Abuse.
(929) 238-8751 View (929) 238-8751
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Kathleen DiMartino
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I have experience with those who have medical problems, are in chronic pain, have borderline personality disorder, and those who engage in self-harming behaviors.
Life can be both painful and challenging, but that does not mean that you have to go through it alone. Therapy is often a great place to start (or continue) when we are in need of some extra support.
I have experience with those who have medical problems, are in chronic pain, have borderline personality disorder, and those who engage in self-harming behaviors.
Life can be both painful and challenging, but that does not mean that you have to go through it alone. Therapy is often a great place to start (or continue) when we are in need of some extra support.
(631) 605-7205 View (631) 605-7205
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Julie Sahlein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10001
Areas of specialty include depression, anxiety, borderline personality, relationship issues, and ADD.
Everyone who comes through my office door has one thing in common: the wish to suffer less and enjoy life more. I can help you achieve your life goals and dreams. I see my job as listening to you carefully, patiently, and through the lens of my professional expertise, in order to identify the hidden obstacles to your greater wellbeing. Together, in an atmosphere of nonjudgmental, accepting, respectful communication, we will interrupt dysfunctional patterns and build on your strengths. The results of a successful treatment will be that you no longer feel "stuck"; instead, you will feel like life offers you more possibilities.
Areas of specialty include depression, anxiety, borderline personality, relationship issues, and ADD.
Everyone who comes through my office door has one thing in common: the wish to suffer less and enjoy life more. I can help you achieve your life goals and dreams. I see my job as listening to you carefully, patiently, and through the lens of my professional expertise, in order to identify the hidden obstacles to your greater wellbeing. Together, in an atmosphere of nonjudgmental, accepting, respectful communication, we will interrupt dysfunctional patterns and build on your strengths. The results of a successful treatment will be that you no longer feel "stuck"; instead, you will feel like life offers you more possibilities.
(929) 470-1125 View (929) 470-1125
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Megan Gewitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10019
Welcome! For over 15 years I have supported adults with borderline personality disorder, complex post-traumatic stress disorder, self harm, suicidality, emotional dysregulation, addiction and eating disorders. I am passionate about helping clients like you experience both symptom relief and true healing through therapy tailored to your unique needs. Using dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), Ketamine Assisted Therapy (KAP), Internal Family Systems (IFS) and somatic therapy, we work together to develop strategies to build your "life worth living" and find true healing from the misery caused by complex trauma.
Welcome! For over 15 years I have supported adults with borderline personality disorder, complex post-traumatic stress disorder, self harm, suicidality, emotional dysregulation, addiction and eating disorders. I am passionate about helping clients like you experience both symptom relief and true healing through therapy tailored to your unique needs. Using dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), Ketamine Assisted Therapy (KAP), Internal Family Systems (IFS) and somatic therapy, we work together to develop strategies to build your "life worth living" and find true healing from the misery caused by complex trauma.
(917) 382-9183 View (917) 382-9183
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Courtney Adisano
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11209
Are you grappling with the challenges of borderline personality disorder, struggling in your relationships, or feeling marginalized as a LGBTQIA+ person? Navigating any of these challenges can be exceptionally tough without adequate support. But rest assured, you no longer have to do it alone. Together, we can embark on a journey toward understanding and healing.
Are you grappling with the challenges of borderline personality disorder, struggling in your relationships, or feeling marginalized as a LGBTQIA+ person? Navigating any of these challenges can be exceptionally tough without adequate support. But rest assured, you no longer have to do it alone. Together, we can embark on a journey toward understanding and healing.
(929) 357-0923 View (929) 357-0923
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Moira Egan
Licensed Psychoanalyst, LP, MFA
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10025
I am an experienced psychotherapist my areas of interest include BPD, CPTSD as well as anxiety and mood disorders. I would like to help you to begin your healing journey no matter how severe you feel your condition to be. My primary goals are to alleviate suffering, to improve insight and understanding and to have my patients regain a sense of agency over their lives.
I am an experienced psychotherapist my areas of interest include BPD, CPTSD as well as anxiety and mood disorders. I would like to help you to begin your healing journey no matter how severe you feel your condition to be. My primary goals are to alleviate suffering, to improve insight and understanding and to have my patients regain a sense of agency over their lives.
(646) 760-6896 View (646) 760-6896
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Melissa F Halligan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10025
I provide Cognitive Behavioral Treatment, with specialties in PTSD, Anxiety Disorders, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder, Marital/Relationship Problems, Insomnia, and Eating Disorders.
Are you looking to manage intense emotions in a healthier, more effective way? I will work collaboratively with you, using proven, evidence-based psychotherapy to help you build a better life for yourself. I have been providing psychotherapy for 30+ years at major universities, hospitals, and clinics and will bring my compassion and my expertise to help you meet your personal goals for change. Even if you have struggled with suicidal thinking or self-harming behaviors, I am prepared to help you change self-destructive patterns and build a healthier life with enhanced self-esteem.
I provide Cognitive Behavioral Treatment, with specialties in PTSD, Anxiety Disorders, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder, Marital/Relationship Problems, Insomnia, and Eating Disorders.
Are you looking to manage intense emotions in a healthier, more effective way? I will work collaboratively with you, using proven, evidence-based psychotherapy to help you build a better life for yourself. I have been providing psychotherapy for 30+ years at major universities, hospitals, and clinics and will bring my compassion and my expertise to help you meet your personal goals for change. Even if you have struggled with suicidal thinking or self-harming behaviors, I am prepared to help you change self-destructive patterns and build a healthier life with enhanced self-esteem.
(646) 930-9372 View (646) 930-9372
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Kodie Sears
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14607
Are you finding yourself in a pattern of repetitive behaviors that often interfere with your relationships/self-esteem? This may look like: relationships characterized by high conflict or codependency; periods of intense self-shaming/negative self-talk; emotional reactivity; or may show up as self-harming behaviors. If you are looking to receive non-judgmental care focused on building self-esteem and improving emotional regulation, you are in the right place! I have experience working specifically with young adults 18-35, the LGBTQ+ community and those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or PTSD.
Are you finding yourself in a pattern of repetitive behaviors that often interfere with your relationships/self-esteem? This may look like: relationships characterized by high conflict or codependency; periods of intense self-shaming/negative self-talk; emotional reactivity; or may show up as self-harming behaviors. If you are looking to receive non-judgmental care focused on building self-esteem and improving emotional regulation, you are in the right place! I have experience working specifically with young adults 18-35, the LGBTQ+ community and those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or PTSD.
(585) 632-6861 View (585) 632-6861
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Isabel Terkuhle
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11217
I specialize in working with adolescents and adults experiencing depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, PTSD, and OCD. I provide versatile evidence-based care, including CBT, DBT, SMART Recovery for addiction, and ERT (Emotion Regulation Therapy), in which I received training from Columbia University and Mount Sinai Hospital.
I specialize in working with adolescents and adults experiencing depression, anxiety, borderline personality disorder, PTSD, and OCD. I provide versatile evidence-based care, including CBT, DBT, SMART Recovery for addiction, and ERT (Emotion Regulation Therapy), in which I received training from Columbia University and Mount Sinai Hospital.
(347) 269-3064 View (347) 269-3064
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Kara A Oflanagan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Endicott, NY 13760
Throughout my career as a social worker, I have treated individuals with a wide variety of problems and diagnoses. The majority of my experience has been working in a mental health clinic setting, providing both individual and group therapy. I am comfortable treating all mental health conditions and substance use disorders, and have been particularly drawn toward the treatment of trauma related disorders such as PTSD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Throughout my career as a social worker, I have treated individuals with a wide variety of problems and diagnoses. The majority of my experience has been working in a mental health clinic setting, providing both individual and group therapy. I am comfortable treating all mental health conditions and substance use disorders, and have been particularly drawn toward the treatment of trauma related disorders such as PTSD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
(607) 246-2272 View (607) 246-2272
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Megan Magruder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10010  (Online Only)
Family members and friends of those who have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder are welcome to join Wise Mind's support group and receive support and resources. All are welcome! Please reach out for more information.
Family members and friends of those who have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder are welcome to join Wise Mind's support group and receive support and resources. All are welcome! Please reach out for more information.
(332) 248-0656 View (332) 248-0656
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Brittany Shillingford
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Commack, NY 11725
I specialize in treating anxiety and depression, as well as clients diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.
I know life can throw some pretty mean curveballs. Life can get extremely difficult to navigate, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. I would be honored to work with you, to help you make it through these difficult times and get to a better place. I believe that everyone has the inner resources to heal their wounds and improve their lives. As your therapist, I can help you to access these resources and utilize them to achieve your goals. My objective is to help you discover your full potential, and to be the very best version of yourself.
I specialize in treating anxiety and depression, as well as clients diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder.
I know life can throw some pretty mean curveballs. Life can get extremely difficult to navigate, causing stress, anxiety, depression, and anger. I would be honored to work with you, to help you make it through these difficult times and get to a better place. I believe that everyone has the inner resources to heal their wounds and improve their lives. As your therapist, I can help you to access these resources and utilize them to achieve your goals. My objective is to help you discover your full potential, and to be the very best version of yourself.
(631) 570-8884 View (631) 570-8884
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Ann D. Gracer
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Fresh Meadows, NY 11365  (Online Only)
I work best with those struggling w/challenging issues like borderline personality disorder, depression/bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia/psychotic disorders. I also work well w/everyday issues like Panic and Anxiety. I'm active and involved. I'm not one of those therapists who just sits there. I love working in Queens because it is the most ethnically diverse county in the nation. I enjoy working with people from all walks of life, all religions, nationalities, and cultures. I welcome working with Orthodox Jews and other religiously committed individuals.
I work best with those struggling w/challenging issues like borderline personality disorder, depression/bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia/psychotic disorders. I also work well w/everyday issues like Panic and Anxiety. I'm active and involved. I'm not one of those therapists who just sits there. I love working in Queens because it is the most ethnically diverse county in the nation. I enjoy working with people from all walks of life, all religions, nationalities, and cultures. I welcome working with Orthodox Jews and other religiously committed individuals.
(718) 354-8786 View (718) 354-8786
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Kyle William McEvoy
Mental Health Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC, CCMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
Kyle is the Founder and President of Collaborative, a multidisciplinary clinical community focused on establishing effective, evidence-based treatment founded on an adaptive mentalization-based treatment model. He holds advanced training in mentalization-based and adaptive mentalization-based integrative treatment through the Anna Freud Centre for Children and Families. He specializes in complex attachment and identity-related disorders such as borderline, avoidant, antisocial, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive personalities, along with gender-diverse individuals.
Kyle is the Founder and President of Collaborative, a multidisciplinary clinical community focused on establishing effective, evidence-based treatment founded on an adaptive mentalization-based treatment model. He holds advanced training in mentalization-based and adaptive mentalization-based integrative treatment through the Anna Freud Centre for Children and Families. He specializes in complex attachment and identity-related disorders such as borderline, avoidant, antisocial, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive personalities, along with gender-diverse individuals.
(929) 226-6119 View (929) 226-6119
Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.