Worcester
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Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
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Amber Lavendel

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
6 Endorsed
Worcester, MA 01603
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Many people tell me that I am the first person they have ever talked to about 'this stuff'. As a Licensed Metal Health Counselor specializing in individuals, couples, and multi partner relationships I enjoy support folks in navigating challenges related to identity, trauma, life transitions, intimacy, sexual health and relationships. My passion is supporting others in exploring their identities and helping them show up more authentically in their lives.
I am committed to providing a safe place for clients to explore their deepest intimacies and create positive change. I practice from a pleasure-focused, culturally-humble, trauma-informed and systems lens. My own identities inform my work, as a result I place a high importance on being sex work-, poly/CNM-, kink-, and LGBTQIA+ affirming.
I strive to create a therapeutic space where you will not be pathologized, where your strengths will be recognized, your laughter encouraged and your vulnerability respected. If you think we might be a good fit, take the leap and contact me for a consultation.
Amber Lavendel now for a free 15 minute consultation

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Worcester, MA 01603

Bridgeport, CT 06601

I offer therapy sessions online via video. I generally see clients Monday-Thursday 9:00-5:00.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and LGBTQ+ 
$175 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Connect with Amber Lavendel
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Worcester, MA 01603

Bridgeport, CT 06601

I offer therapy sessions online via video. I generally see clients Monday-Thursday 9:00-5:00.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and LGBTQ+ 
$175 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I understand that the use of insurance can make therapy more accessible but it often creates more problems than it solves. To increase access I reserve a set number of slots for sliding scale. You might be able to get reimbursed for OON therapy- check here: mentaya.co/b/projectpassiontherapy
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I understand that the use of insurance can make therapy more accessible but it often creates more problems than it solves. To increase access I reserve a set number of slots for sliding scale. You might be able to get reimbursed for OON therapy- check here: mentaya.co/b/projectpassiontherapy
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Massachusetts / LMHC10004682 Amber Lavendel

    • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended William James College, MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Graduated 2023

    • Additional Credentials

  • License: Connecticut Licensed Professional Counselor LPC9073 / 2025
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I have been working in the field of mental health since 2019 and prior to that spent my efforts doing online sex education. I have worked in a variety of settings including short term res, long term res, in-home and outpatient. I am licensed in MA and hold additional training in Sex Therapy.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I have been working in the field of mental health since 2019 and prior to that spent my efforts doing online sex education. I have worked in a variety of settings including short term res, long term res, in-home and outpatient. I am licensed in MA and hold additional training in Sex Therapy.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Issues
  • LGBTQ+

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Estrangement/NC
  • Family Conflict
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sex-Workers
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I work with clients who may be struggling with relationships, identity, communication or their intimate lives. Research suggests that when it comes to finding a therapist the most important factor is the relationship with the therapist. I always start with a free 15-minute video call to see if we might be a good team.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I work with clients who may be struggling with relationships, identity, communication or their intimate lives. Research suggests that when it comes to finding a therapist the most important factor is the relationship with the therapist. I always start with a free 15-minute video call to see if we might be a good team.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

6 Endorsements

Annie McKnight
Annie McKnight
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC
Amber is a dedicated and highly motivated clinician. She has extensive experience and education in the mental health field and is committed to continuing her professional development. I highly recommend her services!
Austin Coffey-Moore
Austin Coffey-Moore
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Amber is a compassionate, competent, and supportive therapist who provides sex therapy to individuals and couples. I highly recommend her services!
The Life Workshop
The Life Workshop
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, PMH-C
Amber is a skilled, compassionate clinician who delivers high-quality, evidence-based care. Her depth of experience, strong ethical foundation, and genuine warmth create a supportive space where clients feel truly seen, heard, and empowered to heal.
Ellie Lyons
Ellie Lyons
Counselor, LMHC
Amber's commitment to her clients and ongoing professional growth as a clinician is clearly evident and admirable. She is a warm, exceptionally talented clinician dedicated to the growth and healing of each person and couple who works with her.
Hannah Goehner
Hannah Goehner
Psychologist, PsyD, MHC
Amber's passion shines through her holistic and anti-oppressive approach. She meets clients where they are and guides them towards growth with warmth, directness, and compassion. I highly trust and wholeheartedly recommend her.
Nikki Huijun Li
Nikki Huijun Li
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, R-DMT
Amber is a sex-positive therapist with highly specialized skills. Reach out if you are looking for compassionate care and sex therapy!

Client Focus

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Intersex Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied , 
Gay Allied , 
Intersex Allied , 
Lesbian Allied , 
Non-Binary Allied , 
Queer Allied , 
Racial Justice Allied , 
Sex Worker Allied , 
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Compassion Focused
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Humanistic
  • Interpersonal
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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I practice from a pleasure-focused, culturally-sensitive, trauma-informed, and systems lens. I center the intersectional-feminist and social justice perspectives. I often reflect on the impact of the systems we operate within. These can include the family, community, capitalism, and politics. Despite the harm these systems create I believe all people deserve to feel good and create pleasure.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I practice from a pleasure-focused, culturally-sensitive, trauma-informed, and systems lens. I center the intersectional-feminist and social justice perspectives. I often reflect on the impact of the systems we operate within. These can include the family, community, capitalism, and politics. Despite the harm these systems create I believe all people deserve to feel good and create pleasure.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Location

Primary Location

Worcester, MA 01603

Email me

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Additional Location

Bridgeport, CT 06601

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I offer therapy sessions online via video. I generally see clients Monday-Thursday 9:00-5:00.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
"
I offer therapy sessions online via video. I generally see clients Monday-Thursday 9:00-5:00.
Photo of Amber Lavendel, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Amber Lavendel
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, LPC