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Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT (she, her)

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Available both in-person and online
2251 San Diego Avenue. Ste B-150 San Diego, CA 92110
I strive to create a safe, supportive space where my clients can explore their stories, feelings, and relational patterns without judgment. My approach is collaborative, empathetic, and trauma informed. I enjoy tailoring therapy to meet the unique needs and goals of each individual, couple, or family. I am deeply committed to helping my clients build stronger, more fulfilling connections with themselves and their loved ones.
I am extensively trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and integrate The Gottman Method to help clients strengthen communication and deepen emotional connection. I also offer EMDR and Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy to help clients move through stuck patterns and create lasting change.
Whether you're navigating individual or relationship challenges, I am here to support you on your journey towards emotional well-being and deeper connection. Feel free to reach out with any questions! I also offer a free 15 minute consultation, which you can book with our wonderful client care coordinators by calling the number listed above.
Call or Amber Gayler now for a free 15 minute consultation - (760) 465-0270

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling

2251 San Diego Avenue. Ste B-150

San Diego, CA 92110 map

(760) 465-0270
My website
I offer in person and virtual therapy in our office in Old Town Mon-Fri. Visit our website to book a free 15 minute consultation!
$180 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (760) 465-0270
Photo of Amber Gayler, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling

2251 San Diego Avenue. Ste B-150

San Diego, CA 92110 map

(760) 465-0270
My website
I offer in person and virtual therapy in our office in Old Town Mon-Fri. Visit our website to book a free 15 minute consultation!
$180 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $180
  • Couple Sessions $180

Payment Methods

Cash, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Meritain Health
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (760) 465-0270
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (760) 465-0270

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 147536 Supervised by Kathy Krane (California / 102566) Amber Gayler
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended Alliant International University, MA, MFT
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy 2023
  • Certificate from Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy 2024
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (760) 465-0270
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (760) 465-0270

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Personality Disorders
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Harming
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (760) 465-0270
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (760) 465-0270

9 Endorsements

Kajsa Wiberg
Kajsa Wiberg
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Amber is exceptionally skilled in emotionally focused therapy. Couples, families and individuals thrive in her care. She embodies just the right balance between compassionate and direct, and creates a safe space for growth and reflection.
Jodi Schenck
Jodi Schenck
Associate Clinical Social WorkerASW
Amber is an authentic and direct clinician. Her clinical skills in EMDR and EFT make her highly effective in enhancing the lives of individuals and couples.
New Constellation Family Therapy Inc.
New Constellation Family Therapy Inc.
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Amber is a compassionate, insightful, and highly skilled therapist. Her ability to create a safe, nonjudgmental space allows clients to feel seen and understood is a super power. She strives to be person-centered and further her education as a therapist.
Susan Heemstra
Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMA
Amber is a wonderful therapist. She meets clients where they are. She works well using EMDR and other modalities with individuals and both EFT and Gottman with couples. She's such a great help to her clients.
Jenna Evans
Jenna Evans
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalAPCC
Amber is truly exceptional. Her passion and dedication shine through in everything she does. She pours her heart into her work, and you can feel her genuine care and commitment in every interaction. Working with her is not just productive-it's inspiring!
Elizabeth 'betsy' Hegardt
Elizabeth 'betsy' Hegardt
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Amber brings a trauma-informed, emotionally attuned approach to therapy as she has a speciality training in EMDR. She supports individuals, couples, and families in transforming patterns, deepening connection, and building more fulfilling relationships.
Sabrina Kaiser
Sabrina Kaiser
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Amber is a well-rounded, deeply compassionate therapist who utilizes her varied training and experience to provide thorough, meaningful care to her clients. She's a joy to work with and her commitment to the craft of therapy is impressive!
Elizabeth Anne Deig
Elizabeth Anne Deig
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Amber brings warmth, humor, and wisdom into her work as well as training in a variety of modalities including EMDR and EFT. Amber has a deep understanding of how trauma informs our mental health and relationships and can guide you towards your best self.
Wendell Perkins
Wendell Perkins
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Amber is an incredibly supportive and loyal therapist. She is a delight to know and an inspiration to be around. She focused on couples early in her career and got access to the best training possible. Excellent training and endless heart.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Gottman Method
  • Ketamine-Assisted
  • Person-Centered
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Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (760) 465-0270
Photo of Amber Gayler, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (760) 465-0270

Location

Primary Location

The Heart of the Matter Relationship Counseling

2251 San Diego Avenue. Ste B-150

San Diego, CA 92110

(760) 465-0270

Nearby Areas

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

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I offer in person and virtual therapy in our office in Old Town Mon-Fri. Visit our website to book a free 15 minute consultation!
Photo of Amber Gayler, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (760) 465-0270
"
I offer in person and virtual therapy in our office in Old Town Mon-Fri. Visit our website to book a free 15 minute consultation!
Photo of Amber Gayler, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Amber Gayler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (760) 465-0270