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Alexandra Selnick

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW (she, her)

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4 Endorsed
1251 6th Avenue, New York, NY 10020
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1251 6th Avenue New York, NY 10020
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Are you a high-achiever in your 20s or 30s struggling with high stress, low self-worth, and emotional exhaustion? Maybe you’re also a first-time therapy-goer, nervous to start because you’ve believed your anxiety and perfectionism have fueled your success. Despite this belief, you’re tired of being tired, pushing yourself to exceed work and others’ expectations while neglecting your own needs. You are craving security in relationships, confidence in yourself, and a life that feels freer, more flexible, and truly fulfilling. I help clients see that addressing anxiety actually supports your growth rather than threatens your success.
I use a blend of therapeutic techniques to help you identify and shift unhelpful thought patterns that fuel your anxiety, low self-worth, and perfectionism. Together, we’ll recognize your negative thought loops and learn how to interrupt spirals before they take over. My goal is to help you build insight and develop practical tools for lasting change.
I know starting therapy can feel scary, and finding the right therapist in NYC feels overwhelming. I'm here to sit in the discomfort with you. Therapy is your space to slow down, sort through what’s on your mind, and find peace. When you’re ready, I’d be honored to support you as you take that first step toward feeling clearer and more connected.
Call or Alexandra Selnick now for a free 15 minute consultation - (718) 550-6154

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

1251 6th Avenue

New York, NY 10020 map

(718) 550-6154

New York, NY 10010

My website
I offer virtual therapy on weekday evenings and weekend mornings, providing flexible care for you to heal, from the comfort of your couch.
I specialize in Anxiety, Women's Issues and Self Esteem 
$250 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Booking a therapist for the first time can feel so daunting, but you're not alone. I'm here to make this process as comfortable as possible.
Alexandra Selnick
Let's Connect (718) 550-6154
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

1251 6th Avenue

New York, NY 10020 map

(718) 550-6154

New York, NY 10010

My website
I offer virtual therapy on weekday evenings and weekend mornings, providing flexible care for you to heal, from the comfort of your couch.
I specialize in Anxiety, Women's Issues and Self Esteem 
$250 Per Session  
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Booking a therapist for the first time can feel so daunting, but you're not alone. I'm here to make this process as comfortable as possible.
Alexandra Selnick

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $300

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I do not accept insurance directly. If your insurance plan includes out-of-network benefits, you may be eligible for partial reimbursement. Plans such as PPO, POS, and HDHP typically offer OON coverage. I'm happy to work with you to help you understand and navigate your out-of-network benefits.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154
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I do not accept insurance directly. If your insurance plan includes out-of-network benefits, you may be eligible for partial reimbursement. Plans such as PPO, POS, and HDHP typically offer OON coverage. I'm happy to work with you to help you understand and navigate your out-of-network benefits.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 097892 Alexandra Selnick
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 6 years
  • Attended Boston College School of Social Work , MSW, Graduated 2020
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from University of Connecticut Bachelor of Arts / 2017
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I'm an LCSW with a masters degree from Boston College, a top 10 program. I have over 6 years of experience with adults and teens. I also hold specialized training in child and adolescent mental health, and in trauma-informed therapy.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154
"
I'm an LCSW with a masters degree from Boston College, a top 10 program. I have over 6 years of experience with adults and teens. I also hold specialized training in child and adolescent mental health, and in trauma-informed therapy.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Women's Issues
  • Self Esteem

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxious or Avoidant Attachment Styles
  • Body Image
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • First Responders
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Perfectionism
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Sports Performance
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I specialize in working with adults who have never been to therapy, often because they believe their anxiety and perfectionism fuel their success and fear they'll achieve less if they address it. I will help you learn that addressing your struggles will actually support not threaten your goals. Together you'll develop skills, feel validated, and move toward a more fulfilling, freeing life.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154
"
I specialize in working with adults who have never been to therapy, often because they believe their anxiety and perfectionism fuel their success and fear they'll achieve less if they address it. I will help you learn that addressing your struggles will actually support not threaten your goals. Together you'll develop skills, feel validated, and move toward a more fulfilling, freeing life.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154

4 Endorsements

Mollie Candib
Mollie Candib
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
I highly recommend Alex for anyone seeking expert support with anxiety and trauma. Her compassionate and insightful approach makes a real difference, and she creates a genuinely supportive space where clients can heal and grow.
Talia Seder
Talia Seder
LMHCNCC
Alex is a deeply compassionate and insightful therapist. She brings warmth and clarity to her work, meeting each client with genuine care and thoughtful guidance. I would highly recommend working with her!
Samantha Borgida
Samantha Borgida
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSWLCSW-C
Alex has been a trusted colleague for years! She is incredibly caring, knowledgeable, and creative in her approach, fostering an engaging and meaningful therapy space. You can expect to feel heard, valued, and respected in your time with Alex!
Jocelyn Bibi
Jocelyn Bibi
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Alexandra’s patience and commitment is evident in her work everyday. She works side-by-side with her clients to ensure they feel that their needs are being met. I highly recommend working with Alexandra.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Humanistic
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I strive to balance compassionate listening with direct feedback to help you develop emotional awareness, uncover unhelpful thought and behavior patterns, and express your needs confidently. Together, we'll explore how your early childhood experiences impact your adult relationships, empowering you to make the positive changes you seek.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154
"
I strive to balance compassionate listening with direct feedback to help you develop emotional awareness, uncover unhelpful thought and behavior patterns, and express your needs confidently. Together, we'll explore how your early childhood experiences impact your adult relationships, empowering you to make the positive changes you seek.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (718) 550-6154

Location

Primary Location

1251 6th Avenue

New York, NY 10020

(718) 550-6154

Additional Location

New York, NY 10010

(718) 550-6154
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I offer virtual therapy on weekday evenings and weekend mornings, providing flexible care for you to heal, from the comfort of your couch.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (718) 550-6154
"
I offer virtual therapy on weekday evenings and weekend mornings, providing flexible care for you to heal, from the comfort of your couch.
Photo of Alexandra Selnick, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Alexandra Selnick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (718) 550-6154