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Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Alej Perez-Kohl

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT (they, them)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Madison, WI 53704
Not accepting new clients
Let's Connect (608) 415-4727
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I'm Alej, a psychotherapist and AAMFT Approved Supervisor-in-Training. I believe that therapy isn’t just talking. It’s an act of resistance in how showing up for it means we want more for ourselves. To be able to think and behave in ways that enrich our lives, our communities, and our sense of purpose. Whether family stress, political and environmental anxiety, or holding on to negative self beliefs: My clients are interested in figuring out how to have full and rich relationships, experiences, and live in a way unique to their own identities. Our work is to move toward lasting change that feels right for you.
I'm here to support you in ways that are unique to your needs, your story, and your beliefs. Some of the ways I support Wisconsin and Madison-area clients includes identity exploration and integration, distress tolerance, strengthening of self-concept, emotions processing, mind-body awareness, communication, boundary setting, and more.
You are important. You are the only you. That's worth claiming. Through the gentle building of trust, my hope is to support you in being seen and understood in a way that opens up the possibility of knowing yourself more fully. I invite you to reach out for a free consult to explore how I might be of help.
Call or Alej Perez-Kohl now for a free 15 minute consultation - (608) 415-4727

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

Madison, WI 53704

(608) 415-4727
I meet clients Mondays & Wednesdays in-person from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m., Tuesday / Thursday / Friday virtually from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m.
I specialize in Identity Integration and LGBTQ+ 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Let's Connect (608) 415-4727
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

Madison, WI 53704

(608) 415-4727
I meet clients Mondays & Wednesdays in-person from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m., Tuesday / Thursday / Friday virtually from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m.
I specialize in Identity Integration and LGBTQ+ 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $175
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Anthem
  • BadgerCare
  • Dean Health
  • Government Employees Health Association (GEHA)
  • Group Health Cooperative
  • Medicaid
  • Medicare
  • Optum
  • Quartz
  • The Alliance
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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I am paneled with a number of insurance providers. I accept private-pay and offer a limited number of sliding scale spots. If you're interested in sliding scale, reach out and I can share what is available.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727
"
I am paneled with a number of insurance providers. I accept private-pay and offer a limited number of sliding scale spots. If you're interested in sliding scale, reach out and I can share what is available.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Wisconsin / 2315-124 Alexandra Perez-Kohl
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended Edgewood University, MS Marriage and Family Therapy, Graduated 2023
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy 246361 / 2022
  • Certificate from American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy 30-Hour Fundamentals of Supervision Course FUNA250826 / 2025
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I have worked the last three years in community mental health in Madison, WI, with a special focus on gender affirming care and multiracial identity integration. I have a grief support certificate from UW-Madison (2020). I am EMDR trained (9/24) through EMDR Consulting.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727
"
I have worked the last three years in community mental health in Madison, WI, with a special focus on gender affirming care and multiracial identity integration. I have a grief support certificate from UW-Madison (2020). I am EMDR trained (9/24) through EMDR Consulting.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Identity Integration
  • LGBTQ+

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Coping Skills
  • Gender Issues (women's, men's, gender diverse)
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Peer Relationships
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I work with clients who experience stress, anxiety, or depression related to racial, environmental, social, political, cultural, academic, career, and/or spiritual distress. Whether they are working to integrate their multiple identities or cope with the threats of our changing world, I support clients in collaboratively identifying their path forward.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727
"
I work with clients who experience stress, anxiety, or depression related to racial, environmental, social, political, cultural, academic, career, and/or spiritual distress. Whether they are working to integrate their multiple identities or cope with the threats of our changing world, I support clients in collaboratively identifying their path forward.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727

3 Endorsements

Alex Berg
Alex Berg
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Alej is a highly competent therapist and one of the most culturally sensitive people I have ever had the pleasure of working alongside. They provide a high standard of care to their clients and are always willing to meet a person where they are at.
Emma Nova Zeldin
Emma Nova Zeldin
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMA
Alej is a kind and client-centered therapist who serves their clients holistically. They provide expertise in LGBTQ+ and multiracial individuals. Alej is caring, dedicated, and affirming. They are an excellent therapist and advocate.
Mishell Varecka
Mishell Varecka
Licensed Professional CounselorMSLPC
Alej has an innate ability to see their clients holistically and is skilled at helping clients claim their identities and experiences. Alej is thoughtful, kind, honest, and the type of therapist that encourages my belief that healing can occur.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Anti-oppressive & Anti-punitive
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Harm Reduction
  • Humanistic
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Trauma Focused
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I work from narrative and collaborative therapies, which we'll use to explore your story, identity, and world view. My practice is rooted in feminism, restorative and non-disposability practices, harm reduction, and anti-punitive/anti-oppressive approaches. I aim to be gentle and gingerly when it most matters, while also noticing the moments where directness and deliberate action is needed.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727
"
I work from narrative and collaborative therapies, which we'll use to explore your story, identity, and world view. My practice is rooted in feminism, restorative and non-disposability practices, harm reduction, and anti-punitive/anti-oppressive approaches. I aim to be gentle and gingerly when it most matters, while also noticing the moments where directness and deliberate action is needed.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (608) 415-4727

Location

Primary Location

Madison, WI 53704

(608) 415-4727
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I meet clients Mondays & Wednesdays in-person from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m., Tuesday / Thursday / Friday virtually from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (608) 415-4727
"
I meet clients Mondays & Wednesdays in-person from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m., Tuesday / Thursday / Friday virtually from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m.
Photo of Alej Perez-Kohl, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Alej Perez-Kohl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (608) 415-4727