Photo of Tamra Holtzer, Psychologist in Rockland County, NY
Tamra Holtzer
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Suffern, NY 10901  (Online Only)
Dr. Holtzer has expertise with anxiety, panic attacks, adjustment difficulties, trauma, and grief. Another area of specialty for her is working with clients struggling with fertility issues, fetal loss, and unexpected or traumatic outcomes related to pregnancy and birth. Dr. Holtzer has 15+ years of experience across the human lifespan, working with individuals of varied backgrounds and cultures. She works within a scientific-based framework, while weaving in holistic principles, to help clients enrich their lives. Now In-network with Aetna insurance!
Dr. Holtzer has expertise with anxiety, panic attacks, adjustment difficulties, trauma, and grief. Another area of specialty for her is working with clients struggling with fertility issues, fetal loss, and unexpected or traumatic outcomes related to pregnancy and birth. Dr. Holtzer has 15+ years of experience across the human lifespan, working with individuals of varied backgrounds and cultures. She works within a scientific-based framework, while weaving in holistic principles, to help clients enrich their lives. Now In-network with Aetna insurance!
(845) 250-0426 View (845) 250-0426
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Julianna Green
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Suffern, NY 10901
My gift and passion are therapeutic support and guidance for individuals, couples and families. Since 2004 I have been dedicated to serving the well-being and growth of adults whether aiming to overcome challenges, or to achieve personal and interpersonal betterment. I have the utmost respect for individuals who actively seek to achieve therapeutic goals, am grateful for the opportunity to travel alongside another's journey and believe that clients deserve to be proud and at peace on their path.
My gift and passion are therapeutic support and guidance for individuals, couples and families. Since 2004 I have been dedicated to serving the well-being and growth of adults whether aiming to overcome challenges, or to achieve personal and interpersonal betterment. I have the utmost respect for individuals who actively seek to achieve therapeutic goals, am grateful for the opportunity to travel alongside another's journey and believe that clients deserve to be proud and at peace on their path.
(845) 237-3712 View (845) 237-3712
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Diane Cleary
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, ACSW, CATP, CTP
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, and you may have some mixed emotions about it. I am here to join you on this journey, you will not be alone! I am a caring, energetic, and non-judgemental therapist and my goal is to help you explore and manage difficult emotions and issues in your life in healthier ways. Building a trusting and therapeutic relationship with my clients is paramount to the treatment process. Through my own personal life/ professional experiences and training, I have a wealth of knowledge and expertise that I will use to work with you so that you can find more joy and peace in your life.
I know how difficult it can be to reach out for help, and you may have some mixed emotions about it. I am here to join you on this journey, you will not be alone! I am a caring, energetic, and non-judgemental therapist and my goal is to help you explore and manage difficult emotions and issues in your life in healthier ways. Building a trusting and therapeutic relationship with my clients is paramount to the treatment process. Through my own personal life/ professional experiences and training, I have a wealth of knowledge and expertise that I will use to work with you so that you can find more joy and peace in your life.
(845) 407-9629 View (845) 407-9629
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Beacon Place, LLC
LCSW, MA, CBIS, CASAC
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
Sometimes challenges in life or traumatic events such as a Traumatic Brain Injury, stroke, trauma, disability or aging can have a profound impact on our life. As a result we can feel confused, frustrated, isolated and alone, unsure what to do. At Beacon Place we're here to help providing person-centered services for children, adolescents and adults to help hem reach their goals. Whether it be depression, anxiety, having been through a traumatic event, Traumatic Brain Injury, difficulties with aging, disability, stroke, couples or relationship problems or other difficulties, we are here for you.
Sometimes challenges in life or traumatic events such as a Traumatic Brain Injury, stroke, trauma, disability or aging can have a profound impact on our life. As a result we can feel confused, frustrated, isolated and alone, unsure what to do. At Beacon Place we're here to help providing person-centered services for children, adolescents and adults to help hem reach their goals. Whether it be depression, anxiety, having been through a traumatic event, Traumatic Brain Injury, difficulties with aging, disability, stroke, couples or relationship problems or other difficulties, we are here for you.
(845) 637-2032 View (845) 637-2032
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Tony Han
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956
I work with children, adolescents, and adults with a wide range of psychological and interpersonal challenges in life, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, life transition, relationship problems, and developmental disorders. I believe that psychotherapy is a process in which client and therapist collaborate in order to help client to improve self-understanding, overcome painful emotions, and discover new and widened perspectives about himself/herself, others, and life. I facilitate client's discovery and development of balanced and integrated personality so that he/she can transcend his/her psychological conflicts.
I work with children, adolescents, and adults with a wide range of psychological and interpersonal challenges in life, such as mood disorders, anxiety disorders, trauma, life transition, relationship problems, and developmental disorders. I believe that psychotherapy is a process in which client and therapist collaborate in order to help client to improve self-understanding, overcome painful emotions, and discover new and widened perspectives about himself/herself, others, and life. I facilitate client's discovery and development of balanced and integrated personality so that he/she can transcend his/her psychological conflicts.
(917) 983-2486 View (917) 983-2486
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Shemsi Prinzivalli
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCTS
Verified Verified
New City, NY 10956  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
With over 25 years of experience in the mental health field, I work with a wide range of human difficulties. From young adults trying to find their way, to couples struggling to communicate, I believe that my work is to draw out the hidden potential in each individual. Throughout the years I have trained in a wide spectrum of modalities, ranging from practical, solution-oriented behavioral therapy, to attachment theory and advanced work with the subconscious mind. And sometimes just talking about an issue in a safe environment, giving it words, allows the next step towards a happier life.
With over 25 years of experience in the mental health field, I work with a wide range of human difficulties. From young adults trying to find their way, to couples struggling to communicate, I believe that my work is to draw out the hidden potential in each individual. Throughout the years I have trained in a wide spectrum of modalities, ranging from practical, solution-oriented behavioral therapy, to attachment theory and advanced work with the subconscious mind. And sometimes just talking about an issue in a safe environment, giving it words, allows the next step towards a happier life.
(201) 431-3326 View (201) 431-3326
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Linda C Rosen
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Nanuet, NY 10954  (Online Only)
As a clinical psychologist with over 30+ years of experience, I believe the purpose of therapy is to work together to face issues until they are resolved. It is important to feel some relief. As a good listener I have strong empathetic skills. I provide a warm, accepting and non-judgmental setting where a positive alliance can be formed. Therapy is a place to feel understood, to unload, share, but is also result oriented. Therefore, my approach is interactive. I work with children,adolescents, adults, families and couples.
As a clinical psychologist with over 30+ years of experience, I believe the purpose of therapy is to work together to face issues until they are resolved. It is important to feel some relief. As a good listener I have strong empathetic skills. I provide a warm, accepting and non-judgmental setting where a positive alliance can be formed. Therapy is a place to feel understood, to unload, share, but is also result oriented. Therefore, my approach is interactive. I work with children,adolescents, adults, families and couples.
(845) 262-4969 View (845) 262-4969
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Vanessa Reiser Narcissism Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Congers, NY 10920
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals and couples focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:vanessareiser
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals and couples focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:vanessareiser
(732) 307-9559 View (732) 307-9559
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Valerie Keil
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Nyack, NY 10960
Not accepting new clients
Modern life is uniquely challenging. We try to shape and mold ourselves into what we think we “should” be, and in doing so, we often lose touch with the most precious parts of ourselves. When we lose touch with these childlike parts, we keep ourselves from forming the close attachments that make life worth living. I work with my patients to help them embrace their natural curiosity, explore the existential questions that we push aside in daily life, challenge the negative self-talk that holds us back, and engage more fully in the pleasures that life can hold.
Modern life is uniquely challenging. We try to shape and mold ourselves into what we think we “should” be, and in doing so, we often lose touch with the most precious parts of ourselves. When we lose touch with these childlike parts, we keep ourselves from forming the close attachments that make life worth living. I work with my patients to help them embrace their natural curiosity, explore the existential questions that we push aside in daily life, challenge the negative self-talk that holds us back, and engage more fully in the pleasures that life can hold.
(914) 350-4774 View (914) 350-4774

Online Therapists

Photo of Becca Leitman Psychotherapy, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Rockland County, NY
Becca Leitman Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CMHS
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Woodstock, NY 12498
Hello, my name is Becca Leitman, and I am an Adoption, Grief and Loss specialist, offering individualized and family counseling services. I have over ten years of experience working with children, adolescents and families formed through domestic and international adoption and foster care. I provide caring, specialized treatment in: adoption/foster care issues, birth family relationships and their subsequent reunions, children of divorce, trauma recovery, depression, sexual abuse, grief and loss, identity struggles, anxiety, anger management, and cross-cultural adjustments. I treat each client with deep empathy, and approach therapy from a psychodynamic and interpersonal therapeutic lens.
Hello, my name is Becca Leitman, and I am an Adoption, Grief and Loss specialist, offering individualized and family counseling services. I have over ten years of experience working with children, adolescents and families formed through domestic and international adoption and foster care. I provide caring, specialized treatment in: adoption/foster care issues, birth family relationships and their subsequent reunions, children of divorce, trauma recovery, depression, sexual abuse, grief and loss, identity struggles, anxiety, anger management, and cross-cultural adjustments. I treat each client with deep empathy, and approach therapy from a psychodynamic and interpersonal therapeutic lens.
(845) 478-1094 View (845) 478-1094
Photo of Donna Boundy, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Rockland County, NY
Donna Boundy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, -, R
Verified Verified
Kingston, NY 12401
With evening and weekend hours available, I aim to make help accessible to my clients. And with over 35 year of work in the field, I bring that deep experience and wisdom to the work. I feel very effective working with clients on many issues: COUPLES: Infidelity, loss of emotional/intimate closeness, communication problems, anger issues, and parenting. FAMILIES: blended family issues, adoption/fostercare, caregiving decisions, substance abuse concerns. INDIVIDUAL: Anxiety, substance abuse, recovery and relapse prevention, self-esteem, anger management, trauma and its aftermath, depression, relationship issues, adoption issues.
With evening and weekend hours available, I aim to make help accessible to my clients. And with over 35 year of work in the field, I bring that deep experience and wisdom to the work. I feel very effective working with clients on many issues: COUPLES: Infidelity, loss of emotional/intimate closeness, communication problems, anger issues, and parenting. FAMILIES: blended family issues, adoption/fostercare, caregiving decisions, substance abuse concerns. INDIVIDUAL: Anxiety, substance abuse, recovery and relapse prevention, self-esteem, anger management, trauma and its aftermath, depression, relationship issues, adoption issues.
(845) 943-0883 View (845) 943-0883
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FRESH Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11242  (Online Only)
My specialties include treatment of problems related to foster care, adoption, and family and other interpersonal relationships, issues with attachment, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Congratulations on taking the first step on your journey towards becoming a better you. Acknowledging the need to change is easy but following through is difficult. Finding the right person to help you through your journey can be draining but important in successfully accomplishing your goals. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable to another person is scary, but it is a strength that aids in the healing process. Humanistic and cognitive behavioral theories are used in an integrative approach to help understand your unique life experiences and how they have led to deficit-based feelings, emotions, and behaviors.
My specialties include treatment of problems related to foster care, adoption, and family and other interpersonal relationships, issues with attachment, anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Congratulations on taking the first step on your journey towards becoming a better you. Acknowledging the need to change is easy but following through is difficult. Finding the right person to help you through your journey can be draining but important in successfully accomplishing your goals. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable to another person is scary, but it is a strength that aids in the healing process. Humanistic and cognitive behavioral theories are used in an integrative approach to help understand your unique life experiences and how they have led to deficit-based feelings, emotions, and behaviors.
(347) 690-7541 View (347) 690-7541
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Kimberly C Agresta
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
The Agresta Psychotherapy group has been providing psychotherapeutic services in the Metropolitan area for over thirty years. I, personally, have worked in the mental health profession in various capacities for over 20 years. My specialties include anxiety disorders, relationship counseling, women's issues and family and group therapy. I established a division of APG called Women's Wellness. Women's Wellness specializes in problems commonly associated with women, such as postpartum depression, fertility, adoption and surrogacy, women's cancers, eating disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, parenting skills and couples issues.
The Agresta Psychotherapy group has been providing psychotherapeutic services in the Metropolitan area for over thirty years. I, personally, have worked in the mental health profession in various capacities for over 20 years. My specialties include anxiety disorders, relationship counseling, women's issues and family and group therapy. I established a division of APG called Women's Wellness. Women's Wellness specializes in problems commonly associated with women, such as postpartum depression, fertility, adoption and surrogacy, women's cancers, eating disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, parenting skills and couples issues.
(212) 627-7727 View (212) 627-7727
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Elizabeth Price-Ramos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
Long Beach, NY 11561
Have provided individuals and couples with supportive infertility plans and adoption choices.
Over 20 years experience helping individuals and couples to improve relationships and professional situations that may affect their self image and esteem. Our work together will focus on finding the core issues which have blocked you from using your assets to develop your fullest potential. Depending on your needs we can work on a short term or sometimes a longer term treatment plans for anxiety, depression, grief and or loss issues. I have worked together with my clients to achieve success on commitment life styles and developing healthy partnerships.
Have provided individuals and couples with supportive infertility plans and adoption choices.
Over 20 years experience helping individuals and couples to improve relationships and professional situations that may affect their self image and esteem. Our work together will focus on finding the core issues which have blocked you from using your assets to develop your fullest potential. Depending on your needs we can work on a short term or sometimes a longer term treatment plans for anxiety, depression, grief and or loss issues. I have worked together with my clients to achieve success on commitment life styles and developing healthy partnerships.
(516) 432-2239 View (516) 432-2239
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Dorothy V P Marks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10016
Additionally, I specialize in issues surrounding adoption- of adult adoptees and of parents who struggle with their unique concerns.
How many of us want to change those dysfunctional parts of ourselves and the often accompanying sadness, anger, and anxiety but find we run into a wall over and over? Whether in intimate relationships, in friendships, in collegial relationships, or those with our family members, the familiar patterns continue to create distress and often a sense of failure. We can then find ourselves repeating destructive scenarios. I have had success in challenging these unhealthy patterns leading clients to be more present and emotionally honest in all of their relationships.
Additionally, I specialize in issues surrounding adoption- of adult adoptees and of parents who struggle with their unique concerns.
How many of us want to change those dysfunctional parts of ourselves and the often accompanying sadness, anger, and anxiety but find we run into a wall over and over? Whether in intimate relationships, in friendships, in collegial relationships, or those with our family members, the familiar patterns continue to create distress and often a sense of failure. We can then find ourselves repeating destructive scenarios. I have had success in challenging these unhealthy patterns leading clients to be more present and emotionally honest in all of their relationships.
(833) 650-0440 View (833) 650-0440
Photo of Doris Aptekar, Counselor in Rockland County, NY
Doris Aptekar
Counselor, PhD, LMHC
Verified Verified
Roslyn, NY 11576
Hospice trained for bereavement counseling, all ages, including loss from divorce, adoption and illness.
MIRACLES CAN HAPPEN. HAVE YOURS! I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, School Psychologist, Bilingual Counselor, Hypnotherapist and Teacher, with special education experience who believes that "miracles can happen". I specialize in individual (children/adults}, couples and family,and hypnotherapy facilitating in smoking cessation, phobias, ADHD,OCD, behavior management, coaching and increasing self-esteem for achieving goals. I maintain a private practice in Roslyn Estates, New York. License, Certifications & Awards: Licensed Mental Health Counselor, National Honor Society in Psychology, Licensed Teacher, Certified School Psychologist. Certified Bilingual Counselor Awards: National Psychology Honor Society, New York City Works for Community Contributions.
Hospice trained for bereavement counseling, all ages, including loss from divorce, adoption and illness.
MIRACLES CAN HAPPEN. HAVE YOURS! I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, School Psychologist, Bilingual Counselor, Hypnotherapist and Teacher, with special education experience who believes that "miracles can happen". I specialize in individual (children/adults}, couples and family,and hypnotherapy facilitating in smoking cessation, phobias, ADHD,OCD, behavior management, coaching and increasing self-esteem for achieving goals. I maintain a private practice in Roslyn Estates, New York. License, Certifications & Awards: Licensed Mental Health Counselor, National Honor Society in Psychology, Licensed Teacher, Certified School Psychologist. Certified Bilingual Counselor Awards: National Psychology Honor Society, New York City Works for Community Contributions.
(516) 200-3415 View (516) 200-3415
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Terry Cramer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11215
I believe in searching for the resilience in each person. Beginning therapy can feel like entering unknown territory. I have a warm, interactive practice that includes the following: problematic life changes, depression, adoption issues (both child and adult), work issues, social competence, relationship issues, recovery issues, trauma, anxiety and aging issues. I have a special feeling for those who are dealing with anxiety, and use meditation frequently. I am also able to assist with creative blocks regarding writing and other arts.
I believe in searching for the resilience in each person. Beginning therapy can feel like entering unknown territory. I have a warm, interactive practice that includes the following: problematic life changes, depression, adoption issues (both child and adult), work issues, social competence, relationship issues, recovery issues, trauma, anxiety and aging issues. I have a special feeling for those who are dealing with anxiety, and use meditation frequently. I am also able to assist with creative blocks regarding writing and other arts.
(917) 791-1226 View (917) 791-1226
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Yolanda Koumidou Inner Life Exploration
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD, CHT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lynbrook, NY 11563
Have dedicated my life in accompanying people on their voyages of self-exploration to reach inner peace. Through interweaving traditional approaches with psycho-spiritual disciplines, the following theories and modalities serve as the foundation for my work: the Voice Dialogue Method, Quantum Physics theory, Hypnotherapy, Art, Movement, Dream Work and Energetics. Please tune in to my podcast called Awareness Sucks to familiarize yourself with my approach.
Have dedicated my life in accompanying people on their voyages of self-exploration to reach inner peace. Through interweaving traditional approaches with psycho-spiritual disciplines, the following theories and modalities serve as the foundation for my work: the Voice Dialogue Method, Quantum Physics theory, Hypnotherapy, Art, Movement, Dream Work and Energetics. Please tune in to my podcast called Awareness Sucks to familiarize yourself with my approach.
(516) 513-8819 View (516) 513-8819
Photo of Ronnie Zuessman, Psychologist in Rockland County, NY
Ronnie Zuessman
Psychologist, PhD, LCP-VA, LMFT-VA, LMHC-NY
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10065  (Online Only)
People often seek counseling or psychotherapy to change and to resolve difficulties or problems. Seeking consultation is personal and it takes some courage to initiate contact. Sometimes the impetus comes from within; sometimes your circumstances or others close to you provide a nudge. Finding the 'right' therapist for you may take some exploration. Some people simply seek to talk privately about a subject or an issue. This may involve one's direction in life, career, management role, or decision-making. Some people seek to address deeply personal thoughts, emotions, behaviors, relationships, spirituality, or other concerns.
People often seek counseling or psychotherapy to change and to resolve difficulties or problems. Seeking consultation is personal and it takes some courage to initiate contact. Sometimes the impetus comes from within; sometimes your circumstances or others close to you provide a nudge. Finding the 'right' therapist for you may take some exploration. Some people simply seek to talk privately about a subject or an issue. This may involve one's direction in life, career, management role, or decision-making. Some people seek to address deeply personal thoughts, emotions, behaviors, relationships, spirituality, or other concerns.
(347) 267-3170 View (347) 267-3170
Photo of Nathalee Hollinshead, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Rockland County, NY
Nathalee Hollinshead
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Brooklyn, NY 11234  (Online Only)
I am a licensed therapist (LCSW) with a profound respect for the profession. My passion and commitment lies in patients realizing their potential. Serving clients through therapy is at the heart of what I do. I bring 20 years of experience both in direct practice and in leadership roles across the New York City area. I am proud to leverage my years of experience to inspire, motivate and impact clients to live independent and fulfilling lives. At the core of my practice, I seek to demonstrate care, empathy and compassion- essential to you developing insight and the avenues for personal growth.
I am a licensed therapist (LCSW) with a profound respect for the profession. My passion and commitment lies in patients realizing their potential. Serving clients through therapy is at the heart of what I do. I bring 20 years of experience both in direct practice and in leadership roles across the New York City area. I am proud to leverage my years of experience to inspire, motivate and impact clients to live independent and fulfilling lives. At the core of my practice, I seek to demonstrate care, empathy and compassion- essential to you developing insight and the avenues for personal growth.
(718) 865-2512 View (718) 865-2512

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Adoption Therapists

Does my adopted child need therapy?

Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?

Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?

Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?

A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.