Adoption Therapists in New Jersey

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Linda Searles Stone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oakhurst, NJ 07755
It can be confusing and anxiety-provoking choosing a therapist. I have over thirty years' clinical experience. I am pleased to work with individuals, adolescents, and/or families. I have particular experience serving women, youth who are trans/gay/nonbinary, families formed by adoption, and individuals with intersex differences.
It can be confusing and anxiety-provoking choosing a therapist. I have over thirty years' clinical experience. I am pleased to work with individuals, adolescents, and/or families. I have particular experience serving women, youth who are trans/gay/nonbinary, families formed by adoption, and individuals with intersex differences.
(848) 233-4432 View (848) 233-4432
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My New Days Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Dover, NJ 07801
At My New Days Counseling, Dahiana aims to collaborate with you on creating balance in your mental health journey. If you seek to start new days, reach self-actualization, self-discovery or explore alternative ways of thriving in your environment, Dahiana is an appropriate match! At My New Days, planning for balanced self-care practices is a main goal along with increasing your emotional intelligence to incorporate your support systems, connections, experiences, and responses. If you face experiences with adoption, life transitions, trauma, stress, emotional or behavioral challenges, Dahiana can help start your New Days!
At My New Days Counseling, Dahiana aims to collaborate with you on creating balance in your mental health journey. If you seek to start new days, reach self-actualization, self-discovery or explore alternative ways of thriving in your environment, Dahiana is an appropriate match! At My New Days, planning for balanced self-care practices is a main goal along with increasing your emotional intelligence to incorporate your support systems, connections, experiences, and responses. If you face experiences with adoption, life transitions, trauma, stress, emotional or behavioral challenges, Dahiana can help start your New Days!
(973) 314-8323 View (973) 314-8323
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Andrea R. Buelo-Vitollo
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MS, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Red Bank, NJ 07701
I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor that specializes in working with individuals who have been impacted with trauma, anxiety, depression, grief/loss, adoption, attachment issues, LGBTQIA+ related issues, and relationship/family conflicts.
My therapeutic style focuses on creating a supportive and collaborative relationship with the individual that is affirming and non-judgmental. As part of the Counseling with Joe Zdeb LLC team, our practice focuses on supporting the individual as well as the whole family while providing individualized informed therapy. My approach is to allow the individual to have a better understanding of themselves and to guide them to grow and heal from issues they face.
I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor that specializes in working with individuals who have been impacted with trauma, anxiety, depression, grief/loss, adoption, attachment issues, LGBTQIA+ related issues, and relationship/family conflicts.
My therapeutic style focuses on creating a supportive and collaborative relationship with the individual that is affirming and non-judgmental. As part of the Counseling with Joe Zdeb LLC team, our practice focuses on supporting the individual as well as the whole family while providing individualized informed therapy. My approach is to allow the individual to have a better understanding of themselves and to guide them to grow and heal from issues they face.
(732) 314-7814 View (732) 314-7814
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Meryl Weinman Dorf
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
West Orange, NJ 07052
Waitlist for new clients
Adoption-related issues are another area of expertise.
If you are struggling with feelings of depression, relationship issues, marital stress, job loss, anxiety, or other life challenges, feel free to contact me. I am a warm, respectful, experienced clinician who brings 30+ years of practice in consulting confidentially with a wide variety of people. You will find me to be open and caring and my office a safe and inviting place to talk. I am most effective with people who are thoughtful and willing to look inside themselves.
Adoption-related issues are another area of expertise.
If you are struggling with feelings of depression, relationship issues, marital stress, job loss, anxiety, or other life challenges, feel free to contact me. I am a warm, respectful, experienced clinician who brings 30+ years of practice in consulting confidentially with a wide variety of people. You will find me to be open and caring and my office a safe and inviting place to talk. I am most effective with people who are thoughtful and willing to look inside themselves.
(862) 324-7025 View (862) 324-7025
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Lauren Block
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
I am psychotherapist devoted to helping adult individuals and couples achieve improved relationships, contentment, self-confidence and acceptance. I work with clients through teletherapy or in-person sessions to identify underlying problems and improve ways of coping, with specialization in couples counseling, grief and complicated grief, anxiety, depression and adoption. My post-graduate training includes psychodynamic psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, marital/couples issues, adoption throughout the life cycle, grief and bereavement and the spectrum of issues relating to trauma.
I am psychotherapist devoted to helping adult individuals and couples achieve improved relationships, contentment, self-confidence and acceptance. I work with clients through teletherapy or in-person sessions to identify underlying problems and improve ways of coping, with specialization in couples counseling, grief and complicated grief, anxiety, depression and adoption. My post-graduate training includes psychodynamic psychotherapy, psychoanalysis, marital/couples issues, adoption throughout the life cycle, grief and bereavement and the spectrum of issues relating to trauma.
(973) 528-7517 View (973) 528-7517
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Kathleen Bakos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
Highland Park, NJ 08904
It's hard to admit needing help sometimes. Maybe you are feeling overwhelmed, lost, or inertia about self-motivated change? If you're struggling with managing anxiety or depression, infertility, adoption issues, trauma, LGBTQ, ADHD, child behavior, mariage, or impulse control I can help. I will "meet you where you are" emotionally, and together we can navigate what you are experiencing. I want to walk with you while you find mental wellness, manage stressors, obtain clarity, and gain the peace of mind that you deserve. There's much healing in being heard, understood, and taking time to process emotions.
It's hard to admit needing help sometimes. Maybe you are feeling overwhelmed, lost, or inertia about self-motivated change? If you're struggling with managing anxiety or depression, infertility, adoption issues, trauma, LGBTQ, ADHD, child behavior, mariage, or impulse control I can help. I will "meet you where you are" emotionally, and together we can navigate what you are experiencing. I want to walk with you while you find mental wellness, manage stressors, obtain clarity, and gain the peace of mind that you deserve. There's much healing in being heard, understood, and taking time to process emotions.
(908) 224-5237 View (908) 224-5237
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Jean Provance
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
Now Accepting New Clients In-Person and via Telehealth for people who need to help with traumatic experiences that have caused stress in their lives. After traumatic events supportive counseling goes a long way to getting you back to your life. You do not need to suffer with nightmares, flashbacks, dissociation, panic or depression; working together we will get you to your goals. If you have experienced complex lifelong traumatic symptoms from foster care, abuse, neglect, adoption this is the specialized care you need. Nothing is too big or too small to step towards healing.
Now Accepting New Clients In-Person and via Telehealth for people who need to help with traumatic experiences that have caused stress in their lives. After traumatic events supportive counseling goes a long way to getting you back to your life. You do not need to suffer with nightmares, flashbacks, dissociation, panic or depression; working together we will get you to your goals. If you have experienced complex lifelong traumatic symptoms from foster care, abuse, neglect, adoption this is the specialized care you need. Nothing is too big or too small to step towards healing.
(732) 631-3597 View (732) 631-3597
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Suzanne M Donohue
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Is your CHILD/TEEN struggling? Are you struggling w/PARENTING CHALLENGES? I support ADHD, Anxiety, Adoption/Attachment, Challenging Behaviors & other issues that impact family, school, and relationships. I support the "family unit" and provide parents with psychoeducation, parent training ~ and often collaborate with the school system. I utilize many therapeutic modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) & aspects of DBT as well as Attachment -Focused Therapy including Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP)* completed Level 1 Training.
Is your CHILD/TEEN struggling? Are you struggling w/PARENTING CHALLENGES? I support ADHD, Anxiety, Adoption/Attachment, Challenging Behaviors & other issues that impact family, school, and relationships. I support the "family unit" and provide parents with psychoeducation, parent training ~ and often collaborate with the school system. I utilize many therapeutic modalities such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) & aspects of DBT as well as Attachment -Focused Therapy including Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP)* completed Level 1 Training.
(973) 878-0933 View (973) 878-0933
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Creative Arts Therapies Services, LLC
ATR-BC, LCAT, LPC
Verified Verified
Pennington, NJ 08534
What is Art Therapy? This is the number one question asked of me. Briefly, as defined by the American Art Therapy Association (AATA), "Art therapy is a mental health profession in which clients, facilitated by the art therapist, use art media, the creative process, and the resulting artwork to explore their feelings, reconcile emotional conflicts, foster self-awareness, manage behavior and addictions, develop social skills, improve reality orientation, reduce anxiety, and increase self-esteem. A goal in art therapy is to improve or restore a client's functioning and his/her sense of personal well-being." The creative process lends itself readily to meeting the individual where they are at in the present moment. My personal style mirrors this. I utilize both the non-verbal and verbal processes to facilitate understanding, awareness and growth. My particular areas of expertise are grief/loss, attachment issues (i.e.foster care/adoption), trauma, mood instability, and disordered personality.
What is Art Therapy? This is the number one question asked of me. Briefly, as defined by the American Art Therapy Association (AATA), "Art therapy is a mental health profession in which clients, facilitated by the art therapist, use art media, the creative process, and the resulting artwork to explore their feelings, reconcile emotional conflicts, foster self-awareness, manage behavior and addictions, develop social skills, improve reality orientation, reduce anxiety, and increase self-esteem. A goal in art therapy is to improve or restore a client's functioning and his/her sense of personal well-being." The creative process lends itself readily to meeting the individual where they are at in the present moment. My personal style mirrors this. I utilize both the non-verbal and verbal processes to facilitate understanding, awareness and growth. My particular areas of expertise are grief/loss, attachment issues (i.e.foster care/adoption), trauma, mood instability, and disordered personality.
(609) 336-4003 View (609) 336-4003
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Robyn DeRespinis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Hazlet, NJ 07730
Providing my clients with a comfortable, open, non-judgmental environment is key to developing a trusting relationship. I have found it to be so important for my clients to recognize and build upon their own strengths. In our work together we can establish definable goals for treatment and uncover various patterns that developed over time. After obtaining a Master's Degree from Columbia University, I had the opportunity to work in both inpatient, outpatient, and private practice settings. I specialize in working with individuals of all ages who are dealing with anxiety, self-destructive behaviors, or adoption-related concerns.
Providing my clients with a comfortable, open, non-judgmental environment is key to developing a trusting relationship. I have found it to be so important for my clients to recognize and build upon their own strengths. In our work together we can establish definable goals for treatment and uncover various patterns that developed over time. After obtaining a Master's Degree from Columbia University, I had the opportunity to work in both inpatient, outpatient, and private practice settings. I specialize in working with individuals of all ages who are dealing with anxiety, self-destructive behaviors, or adoption-related concerns.
(848) 212-8182 View (848) 212-8182
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Jeannine Zoppi
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Caldwell, NJ 07006  (Online Only)
My specialties include: psychotherapy for adoption issues, trauma, PTSD, adult survivors of childhood abuse, depression and anxiety.
I strongly feel that healing can take place only in the context of a relationship in which someone experiences safety, compassion and understanding. It is through this process that people can awaken in themselves the possibilities for growth and transformation, often hidden by the negative effects of trauma, depression, anxiety, anger and loss. In my treatment approach, I communicate to my patients that they are not alone in their suffering, that they have the strength to tolerate the uncertainties of life, and they do have choices even if they feel stuck and alone.
My specialties include: psychotherapy for adoption issues, trauma, PTSD, adult survivors of childhood abuse, depression and anxiety.
I strongly feel that healing can take place only in the context of a relationship in which someone experiences safety, compassion and understanding. It is through this process that people can awaken in themselves the possibilities for growth and transformation, often hidden by the negative effects of trauma, depression, anxiety, anger and loss. In my treatment approach, I communicate to my patients that they are not alone in their suffering, that they have the strength to tolerate the uncertainties of life, and they do have choices even if they feel stuck and alone.
(973) 970-3903 View (973) 970-3903
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Maria Arrington
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
Parsippany, NJ 07054
She has over 10 years’ experience working with a trauma informed care background to help a wide range of issues and populations, including: adoption, foster care, family systems and more.
Mia works from a strengths based perspective and believes that therapy is not a one-size fits all. She believes each client already possesses gifts and strengths, and she helps clients understand their innate abilities. Mia enjoys working collaboratively with her clients to help them identify their goals and encourages clients to utilize their existing strengths, while also learning new skills and tools to reach their goals. Mia prioritizes building trust and rapport with clients to build a foundation for meaningful connection and healing to occur. Mia knows clients deserve thoughtful, tailored treatment and is dedicated.
She has over 10 years’ experience working with a trauma informed care background to help a wide range of issues and populations, including: adoption, foster care, family systems and more.
Mia works from a strengths based perspective and believes that therapy is not a one-size fits all. She believes each client already possesses gifts and strengths, and she helps clients understand their innate abilities. Mia enjoys working collaboratively with her clients to help them identify their goals and encourages clients to utilize their existing strengths, while also learning new skills and tools to reach their goals. Mia prioritizes building trust and rapport with clients to build a foundation for meaningful connection and healing to occur. Mia knows clients deserve thoughtful, tailored treatment and is dedicated.
(973) 577-5766 View (973) 577-5766
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Beth Peritz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, JD
Verified Verified
Ridgewood, NJ 07450
I have a specialty working with women on many issues including eating disorders, life transitions, depression, anxiety, infertility or are considering adoption.
I am a psychotherapist with over 20 years experience working with teenagers, adults, couples and families. I work with an attachment focus which means that I believe that the relationship with you is most important to healing and change. Our relationship needs to be based on compassion, support, trust and your feeling safe with me. In addition I am always increasing my knowledge finding new ways to help such as CBT, EMDR, AEDP, EFT, DDP. I would be happy to talk to you about how I can be of help 201-755-5040 or you can visit my website for more information www.ridgewoodpsychotherapy.com
I have a specialty working with women on many issues including eating disorders, life transitions, depression, anxiety, infertility or are considering adoption.
I am a psychotherapist with over 20 years experience working with teenagers, adults, couples and families. I work with an attachment focus which means that I believe that the relationship with you is most important to healing and change. Our relationship needs to be based on compassion, support, trust and your feeling safe with me. In addition I am always increasing my knowledge finding new ways to help such as CBT, EMDR, AEDP, EFT, DDP. I would be happy to talk to you about how I can be of help 201-755-5040 or you can visit my website for more information www.ridgewoodpsychotherapy.com
(201) 755-5040 View (201) 755-5040
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The Parent TRAIN
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC
Verified Verified
Riverdale, NJ 07457
My desire to and appreciation of helping children and families led me to join forces with other like-minded professionals to create the ParentTrain. With several licensed therapists available, we can usually find the unique fit for your family's needs. Our staff includes: behaviorists, clinicians, and learning consultants as well as therapists that specialize in adoption and foster care issues. Whether you need assistance with behavioral issues at home or school or just need some tools for your parenting toolbox, we can help. We even can provide services in your own home!
My desire to and appreciation of helping children and families led me to join forces with other like-minded professionals to create the ParentTrain. With several licensed therapists available, we can usually find the unique fit for your family's needs. Our staff includes: behaviorists, clinicians, and learning consultants as well as therapists that specialize in adoption and foster care issues. Whether you need assistance with behavioral issues at home or school or just need some tools for your parenting toolbox, we can help. We even can provide services in your own home!
(973) 512-4418 View (973) 512-4418
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Linda B Wachtel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Englewood, NJ 07631
Additionally, I've received adoption therapy certification.
As we transition from the COVID 19 pandemic, and people face unprecedented challenges mental health needs are complex for people of all ages. I provide teletherapy sessions as well as some limited in person sessions. As always, I work collaboratively with clients using a relational lens to consider the meaning of important relationships, family, work, culture, health, trauma, special needs and more will be the basis of the therapeutic process. I like to think of therapy as a safe space that is a resource to have active conversation with privacy and dignity. I am happy to answer questions through a phone consultation.
Additionally, I've received adoption therapy certification.
As we transition from the COVID 19 pandemic, and people face unprecedented challenges mental health needs are complex for people of all ages. I provide teletherapy sessions as well as some limited in person sessions. As always, I work collaboratively with clients using a relational lens to consider the meaning of important relationships, family, work, culture, health, trauma, special needs and more will be the basis of the therapeutic process. I like to think of therapy as a safe space that is a resource to have active conversation with privacy and dignity. I am happy to answer questions through a phone consultation.
(917) 809-5496 View (917) 809-5496
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Michele L. Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, NJ, NY
Verified Verified
Westfield, NJ 07090
Welcome. I specialize in the treatment of a variety of family issues. I treat children and teens struggling with emotional and/or behavioral issues and parents coping with these challenges, infertility and family-building through assisted reproduction or adoption and grief counseling for miscarriage and pregnancy loss. I offer a safe and supportive space to explore the many and often difficult choices and feelings associated with family building options such as IVF, donor sperm/egg, gestational carrier and adoption. I can help you manage the stress inherent in the process and help you work through couples and parenting issues.
Welcome. I specialize in the treatment of a variety of family issues. I treat children and teens struggling with emotional and/or behavioral issues and parents coping with these challenges, infertility and family-building through assisted reproduction or adoption and grief counseling for miscarriage and pregnancy loss. I offer a safe and supportive space to explore the many and often difficult choices and feelings associated with family building options such as IVF, donor sperm/egg, gestational carrier and adoption. I can help you manage the stress inherent in the process and help you work through couples and parenting issues.
(908) 867-0127 View (908) 867-0127
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Colleen McCay
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Cherry Hill, NJ 08034
An area of focus is Adoption and Attachment.
Navigating through life can be challenging. We all handle those challenges in many different ways. Trusting ourselves to meet those needs on our own is an awesome life skill. But, there are times when reaching out for support during those challenging times becomes necessary. This is a brave and daunting step to take. I feel honored to join you on this journey of healing every step of the way. Counseling provides the insight necessary to work on the issues that are a barrier between you and living your best life.
An area of focus is Adoption and Attachment.
Navigating through life can be challenging. We all handle those challenges in many different ways. Trusting ourselves to meet those needs on our own is an awesome life skill. But, there are times when reaching out for support during those challenging times becomes necessary. This is a brave and daunting step to take. I feel honored to join you on this journey of healing every step of the way. Counseling provides the insight necessary to work on the issues that are a barrier between you and living your best life.
(856) 672-5183 View (856) 672-5183
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Denise Lauria Venitelli, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Manalapan, NJ 07726  (Online Only)
I specialize in adoption-related issues, grief, trauma, loss, attachment and abandonment.
TELETHERAPIST: From the comfort of your home. DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE OPTIONS/FEELING LOST AND CONFUSED. I AM HERE TO ASSIST YOU with integrating a new approach to your life and manifesting exciting opportunities using an integrative and multi-dimensional, eclectic approach focusing on traditional and holistic modalities. I assist clients by guiding them to listen to their inner wisdom as part of the healing process to empower themselves and transform their lives, Assist clients in building stronger levels of communication, deepening levels of attachments, developing healthy, loving, genuine and authentic relationships.
I specialize in adoption-related issues, grief, trauma, loss, attachment and abandonment.
TELETHERAPIST: From the comfort of your home. DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE OPTIONS/FEELING LOST AND CONFUSED. I AM HERE TO ASSIST YOU with integrating a new approach to your life and manifesting exciting opportunities using an integrative and multi-dimensional, eclectic approach focusing on traditional and holistic modalities. I assist clients by guiding them to listen to their inner wisdom as part of the healing process to empower themselves and transform their lives, Assist clients in building stronger levels of communication, deepening levels of attachments, developing healthy, loving, genuine and authentic relationships.
(908) 543-7931 View (908) 543-7931
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Leslie Zindulka
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, LSW, SSWS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chester, NJ 07930  (Online Only)
I specialize in infertility grief, pre-adoption consultations, adoption home studies, post placement supervision, adoptee issues for all ages and expectant mother counseling.
If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you! Are you an ADULT experiencing stress/anxiety? Are you feeling frustrated/concerned about your TEEN or "EMERGING" ADULT CHILD living at home? Has the school called about social/behavioral issues? Are you struggling with attitude isolating behaviors, nothing seems to be working? You're not alone. It's a relief to share fears/feelings with a professional trained to listen. I provide therapy to help you learn the impact of your feelings and behaviors, develop coping strategies in a warm supportive environment. Ability to easily establish a rapport with adolescents and adults.
I specialize in infertility grief, pre-adoption consultations, adoption home studies, post placement supervision, adoptee issues for all ages and expectant mother counseling.
If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you! Are you an ADULT experiencing stress/anxiety? Are you feeling frustrated/concerned about your TEEN or "EMERGING" ADULT CHILD living at home? Has the school called about social/behavioral issues? Are you struggling with attitude isolating behaviors, nothing seems to be working? You're not alone. It's a relief to share fears/feelings with a professional trained to listen. I provide therapy to help you learn the impact of your feelings and behaviors, develop coping strategies in a warm supportive environment. Ability to easily establish a rapport with adolescents and adults.
(732) 603-1550 View (732) 603-1550
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Laura S Callahan, MA, EdS, LPC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EdS, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bradley Beach, NJ 07720
I am also a certified adoption specialist.
Children/Teens/Individual/Family Therapy/Play Therapy My role as a therapist is to help children/teens and their families work through difficult issues that are causing conflict in their family, peer and school/work relationships. The theraputic goal is to help guide clients as they explore possible choices that will resolve their conflicts and help them move forward with their lives.
I am also a certified adoption specialist.
Children/Teens/Individual/Family Therapy/Play Therapy My role as a therapist is to help children/teens and their families work through difficult issues that are causing conflict in their family, peer and school/work relationships. The theraputic goal is to help guide clients as they explore possible choices that will resolve their conflicts and help them move forward with their lives.
(908) 364-7841 View (908) 364-7841
Adoption Therapists

Does my adopted child need therapy?

Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?

Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?

Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?

A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.