Adoption Therapists in Waterville, ME

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Janet Anderson-Murch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Waterville, ME 04901  (Online Only)
Utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness, I assist adolescents and adults with trauma, divorce, adoption, depression, anxiety, grief and loss and domestic violence issues.
Current statewide openings for telehealth sessions. It has been a challenging few years. Asking for help is the first step toward healing. I provide individuals with a personalized, strength-based, and supportive environment to manage life changes, conflicts, and past issues. I believe every person holds the key to their success and happiness. Sometimes everyday stressors overwhelm us. In sessions, I hope to assist you in finding peace, joy, and fulfillment again.
Utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, and Mindfulness, I assist adolescents and adults with trauma, divorce, adoption, depression, anxiety, grief and loss and domestic violence issues.
Current statewide openings for telehealth sessions. It has been a challenging few years. Asking for help is the first step toward healing. I provide individuals with a personalized, strength-based, and supportive environment to manage life changes, conflicts, and past issues. I believe every person holds the key to their success and happiness. Sometimes everyday stressors overwhelm us. In sessions, I hope to assist you in finding peace, joy, and fulfillment again.
(207) 417-4705 View (207) 417-4705
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Tamara Mello
Counselor, MEd, LCPC, CCTP, CCATP, CTMH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waterville, ME 04903  (Online Only)
The style I use is eclectic and offers compassionate understanding in a relaxed environment that supports growth and personal exploration for individuals and couples. My methods include the use of creative expression through creative play, art, dramatic play, music, puppetry, creative writing, sculpture, painting, and other modalities for adult clients. I also offer traditional talk therapies designed for clients to develop solution-focused ideas to their own concerns as the goal is for each client to become their own best expert.
The style I use is eclectic and offers compassionate understanding in a relaxed environment that supports growth and personal exploration for individuals and couples. My methods include the use of creative expression through creative play, art, dramatic play, music, puppetry, creative writing, sculpture, painting, and other modalities for adult clients. I also offer traditional talk therapies designed for clients to develop solution-focused ideas to their own concerns as the goal is for each client to become their own best expert.
(207) 209-1661 View (207) 209-1661
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UCP of Maine
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Not Verified Not Verified
Waterville, ME 04901  (Online Only)
In person and telehealth counseling is available to adults, teens and children seeking individual or family therapy in a respectful, safe, and supportive environment. We want to work with you to understand your goals and help you develop plans and skills to achieve your goals that utilize your strengths. Our clinicians provide a broad spectrum of quality, evidence-based care . We help you resolve life stressors such as relationship issues, grief and loss, the effects of trauma, problems at home, school or work, behavioral problems, anxiety, depression, attachment, anger issues, and other mental health challenges.
In person and telehealth counseling is available to adults, teens and children seeking individual or family therapy in a respectful, safe, and supportive environment. We want to work with you to understand your goals and help you develop plans and skills to achieve your goals that utilize your strengths. Our clinicians provide a broad spectrum of quality, evidence-based care . We help you resolve life stressors such as relationship issues, grief and loss, the effects of trauma, problems at home, school or work, behavioral problems, anxiety, depression, attachment, anger issues, and other mental health challenges.
(207) 656-1962 x333 View (207) 656-1962 x333
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Margaret M Anzalone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
Waterville, ME 04903  (Online Only)
My approach to counseling and consulting draws from rich traditions of spirituality, energy healing, and psychology. My framework is TRANSFORMATIONAL in nature, insight-oriented, purposeful, and achieving wholeness from a personal or spiritual perspective. I am trained in both the behavioral sciences and religion. My goal is to provide therapeutic services to individuals and groups for all ages. I respect the dignity and worth of every person and consider it a privilege to WELCOME and ACCOMPANY people on their journey as challenging situations come up. Trained as a Pastoral Counselor, Clinical Social Worker, Marriage and Family Therapist, and Spiritual Director, my modality is eclectic.
My approach to counseling and consulting draws from rich traditions of spirituality, energy healing, and psychology. My framework is TRANSFORMATIONAL in nature, insight-oriented, purposeful, and achieving wholeness from a personal or spiritual perspective. I am trained in both the behavioral sciences and religion. My goal is to provide therapeutic services to individuals and groups for all ages. I respect the dignity and worth of every person and consider it a privilege to WELCOME and ACCOMPANY people on their journey as challenging situations come up. Trained as a Pastoral Counselor, Clinical Social Worker, Marriage and Family Therapist, and Spiritual Director, my modality is eclectic.
(978) 705-6595 View (978) 705-6595
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Chelsea, Healthy Minds Counseling Inc
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Waterville, ME 04903  (Online Only)
Many warm welcomes to you! I believe that life can be heavy at times, and my purpose is to help lighten the load and be a source of light during dark times. Laughter, a good conversation, a warm hug, or a walk in nature can do wonders for the human spirit. Unfortunately, our society isn't always conducive to our well-being, which is why it's essential to unlearn some things and search within ourselves to find inner peace. It's an honor to accompany you on that journey. Throughout my career, I've worked with clients from different cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds and age groups.
Many warm welcomes to you! I believe that life can be heavy at times, and my purpose is to help lighten the load and be a source of light during dark times. Laughter, a good conversation, a warm hug, or a walk in nature can do wonders for the human spirit. Unfortunately, our society isn't always conducive to our well-being, which is why it's essential to unlearn some things and search within ourselves to find inner peace. It's an honor to accompany you on that journey. Throughout my career, I've worked with clients from different cultural and socioeconomic backgrounds and age groups.
(207) 820-2001 View (207) 820-2001
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MK-Healthy Minds Counseling, Inc.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Waterville, ME 04903  (Online Only)
My therapeutic partnership history is with folks who have not seen themselves reflected or heard in traditional wellness or therapy spaces. Some focus areas are complex trauma, substance misuse, and severe mental illness, highly sensitive/empathic folks, ASD and neurodivergent folks, strengthening self-compassion and building shame resilience, navigating liberation and justice, trauma-informed work, body liberation + supporting those recovering from diet culture and body stigma, furthering gender, racial liberation, and those impacted by the criminal and family court systems.
My therapeutic partnership history is with folks who have not seen themselves reflected or heard in traditional wellness or therapy spaces. Some focus areas are complex trauma, substance misuse, and severe mental illness, highly sensitive/empathic folks, ASD and neurodivergent folks, strengthening self-compassion and building shame resilience, navigating liberation and justice, trauma-informed work, body liberation + supporting those recovering from diet culture and body stigma, furthering gender, racial liberation, and those impacted by the criminal and family court systems.
(207) 204-3791 View (207) 204-3791
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Rebecca Furrow
Counselor
Verified Verified
Waterville, ME 04901
Not accepting new clients
I have extensive training in treating issues related to family trauma, including child abuse, foster care, adoption, and relationship conflicts.
I offer counseling services to children, adolescence, and adults. I strive to establish a therapeutic relationship in which each individual feels safe to explore their thoughts, feelings, and needs, and to walk with them on their journey to healing. Life gets complicated, and can be painful at times. We all need someone to talk to. Whether its current situational problems or deeply rooted underlying issues that one wants to resolve, it is my honor to help.
I have extensive training in treating issues related to family trauma, including child abuse, foster care, adoption, and relationship conflicts.
I offer counseling services to children, adolescence, and adults. I strive to establish a therapeutic relationship in which each individual feels safe to explore their thoughts, feelings, and needs, and to walk with them on their journey to healing. Life gets complicated, and can be painful at times. We all need someone to talk to. Whether its current situational problems or deeply rooted underlying issues that one wants to resolve, it is my honor to help.
(833) 584-1578 View (833) 584-1578
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Bell Therapy Service
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Waterville, ME 04901  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
When we are involved in hardship, loss or trauma it is common to experience struggle and to feel imbalanced by it. I feel passionate to help people recover from these life stressors and then support them in reaching their goals. I work with my clients to help them overcome and cope with their challenges, find value in themselves, discover purpose in their lives and support them in forming healthy relationships. My goal is to work together with each person to help them feel secure, safe, and supported within their lives.
When we are involved in hardship, loss or trauma it is common to experience struggle and to feel imbalanced by it. I feel passionate to help people recover from these life stressors and then support them in reaching their goals. I work with my clients to help them overcome and cope with their challenges, find value in themselves, discover purpose in their lives and support them in forming healthy relationships. My goal is to work together with each person to help them feel secure, safe, and supported within their lives.
(207) 994-8619 View (207) 994-8619

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Mary Crawford Petrini
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Vassalboro, ME 04989
I believe in the uniqueness of each human being and that all people have inherent strengths. I know when a person seeks counseling it is because he/she is feeling overwhelmed or stuck. In the safety of a professional helping relationship you will address those areas as well as recognize and utilize your own strengths so you can move forward to resolve your problems. I work with people on a variety of difficult life issues and I meet each person where they are at. In addition to helping individual adults, I work with parents, families and children ages 7-18.
I believe in the uniqueness of each human being and that all people have inherent strengths. I know when a person seeks counseling it is because he/she is feeling overwhelmed or stuck. In the safety of a professional helping relationship you will address those areas as well as recognize and utilize your own strengths so you can move forward to resolve your problems. I work with people on a variety of difficult life issues and I meet each person where they are at. In addition to helping individual adults, I work with parents, families and children ages 7-18.
(207) 518-7656 View (207) 518-7656
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Roberta E Shaw
Counselor, LCPC, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fairfield, ME 04937
(207) 453-7987 View (207) 453-7987

Online Therapists

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Carolyn B Woodworth
Counselor, MS, LCPC, CCMHC
Verified Verified
Cape Elizabeth, ME 04107  (Online Only)
I work with adults and young adults around issues of stress and anxiety, grief and loss, adoption, identity and belonging.
I am a clinical counselor and board certified clinical mental health counselor and am licensed to practice in Maine. I have an M.S. in counseling from the University of Southern Maine and a J.D. from Harvard Law School. I am a member of the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress and have completed an EMDRIA approved program in EMDR therapy. My practice style is informal and client-centered and I enjoy working with clients on specific issues as well as longer term work.
I work with adults and young adults around issues of stress and anxiety, grief and loss, adoption, identity and belonging.
I am a clinical counselor and board certified clinical mental health counselor and am licensed to practice in Maine. I have an M.S. in counseling from the University of Southern Maine and a J.D. from Harvard Law School. I am a member of the American Academy of Experts in Traumatic Stress and have completed an EMDRIA approved program in EMDR therapy. My practice style is informal and client-centered and I enjoy working with clients on specific issues as well as longer term work.
(207) 280-8906 View (207) 280-8906
Photo of Annette Williams, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Waterville, ME
Annette Williams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Lewiston, ME 04240
My experience is with individuals of all age groups around challenges that include depression, anxiety, domestic violence, grief and loss, relationship struggles, health challenges, adoption, impacts of trauma, historical or current, and secondary trauma.
We all have had life experiences that shake us and I believe that having a supportive place and person to work through those thoughts and feelings is important. I offer you a genuine, empathetic environment, integrative and holistic in nature. With over 15 years of experience in social work and extensive trauma informed knowledge, I will bring a person-centered, evidence-based approach including CBT, TF-CBT, Problem Solving Therapy, Mindfulness, Stress Reduction and Solution-Focused Brief. I am currently offering Telehealth sessions and in-person coming soon to Lewiston, Maine.
My experience is with individuals of all age groups around challenges that include depression, anxiety, domestic violence, grief and loss, relationship struggles, health challenges, adoption, impacts of trauma, historical or current, and secondary trauma.
We all have had life experiences that shake us and I believe that having a supportive place and person to work through those thoughts and feelings is important. I offer you a genuine, empathetic environment, integrative and holistic in nature. With over 15 years of experience in social work and extensive trauma informed knowledge, I will bring a person-centered, evidence-based approach including CBT, TF-CBT, Problem Solving Therapy, Mindfulness, Stress Reduction and Solution-Focused Brief. I am currently offering Telehealth sessions and in-person coming soon to Lewiston, Maine.
(207) 610-7133 View (207) 610-7133
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Amanda Baker
Counselor, LCPC, MEd
Verified Verified
Holden, ME 04429
I provide psychotherapy for children, adolescents, adults and families in the areas of: identity, attachment, adoption, life adjustments, grief/loss, anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, and more.
If you or a loved one are looking for a safe space to promote emotional wellness, I invite you to explore what I have to offer at www.familyrootscounseling.com. I welcome a diversity of clients including children, adolescents, adults and families of various backgrounds. My goal is to help people embrace their strengths and face their challenges through a solid therapeutic relationship. Once we establish a foundation of trust, we can explore a therapeutic modality that meets your unique needs such as: EMDR, CBT, mindfulness, play therapy, positive parenting, and more.
I provide psychotherapy for children, adolescents, adults and families in the areas of: identity, attachment, adoption, life adjustments, grief/loss, anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, and more.
If you or a loved one are looking for a safe space to promote emotional wellness, I invite you to explore what I have to offer at www.familyrootscounseling.com. I welcome a diversity of clients including children, adolescents, adults and families of various backgrounds. My goal is to help people embrace their strengths and face their challenges through a solid therapeutic relationship. Once we establish a foundation of trust, we can explore a therapeutic modality that meets your unique needs such as: EMDR, CBT, mindfulness, play therapy, positive parenting, and more.
(207) 492-4186 View (207) 492-4186
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Ritu J Esbjorn
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
Verified Verified
New Gloucester, ME 04260
I bring empathy, kindness, and a wealth of life experience into any conversation you and I might have about the difficulties you're facing. My extensive clinical training and professional experience is part of the well of care I offer; I can help you with coming to terms with anxiety, grief, depression, and shame, as well as supporting you through challenges in relationships, major life transitions, loss and illness. Any issue to do with adoption is completely familiar to me from my years as an active social worker.
I bring empathy, kindness, and a wealth of life experience into any conversation you and I might have about the difficulties you're facing. My extensive clinical training and professional experience is part of the well of care I offer; I can help you with coming to terms with anxiety, grief, depression, and shame, as well as supporting you through challenges in relationships, major life transitions, loss and illness. Any issue to do with adoption is completely familiar to me from my years as an active social worker.
(207) 501-3118 View (207) 501-3118
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Debbie Murray
Counselor, LCPCc
Verified Verified
Yarmouth, ME 04096
I offer a holistic, client-centered approach to therapy for Adults, members of the Adoption Constellation and those individuals struggling through their divorce.
I am pleased to announce appointment openings for new clients during WEEKEND hours between 10 am - 3 pm. Please see my website www.Debbie-Murray.com for details on my approach to therapy and my areas of speciality. Website scheduling for initial consult is available, and we can meet in person in Yarmouth or via teleconference. Please note I am only seeing adult clients at this time.
I offer a holistic, client-centered approach to therapy for Adults, members of the Adoption Constellation and those individuals struggling through their divorce.
I am pleased to announce appointment openings for new clients during WEEKEND hours between 10 am - 3 pm. Please see my website www.Debbie-Murray.com for details on my approach to therapy and my areas of speciality. Website scheduling for initial consult is available, and we can meet in person in Yarmouth or via teleconference. Please note I am only seeing adult clients at this time.
(207) 426-4813 View (207) 426-4813
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Lizz Simon-Miller
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, ME 04101  (Online Only)
I work best with trauma + stressor related disorders, fellow moms, women struggling with anxiety + depression, and folks experiencing the beauty + struggle of adoption (proud adoptee myself!).
Accepting new clients for $35 therapy starting May 6, 2024! Yes - just $35! Hey there, I’m so grateful you’re here! I’m Lizz – single mom to a sassy pre-teen, clinical social work graduate student, avid swearer, book lover and newbie/intern therapist. I’m currently accepting new clients at Beauty In Her Struggle, LLC – a trauma-informed psychotherapy practice for women, transgender and non-binary individuals. If you’ve been considering trying out therapy, or looking for someone with relatable life experiences, I’d love to connect.
I work best with trauma + stressor related disorders, fellow moms, women struggling with anxiety + depression, and folks experiencing the beauty + struggle of adoption (proud adoptee myself!).
Accepting new clients for $35 therapy starting May 6, 2024! Yes - just $35! Hey there, I’m so grateful you’re here! I’m Lizz – single mom to a sassy pre-teen, clinical social work graduate student, avid swearer, book lover and newbie/intern therapist. I’m currently accepting new clients at Beauty In Her Struggle, LLC – a trauma-informed psychotherapy practice for women, transgender and non-binary individuals. If you’ve been considering trying out therapy, or looking for someone with relatable life experiences, I’d love to connect.
(207) 579-8804 View (207) 579-8804
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Karlene Hafemann
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Saco, ME 04072
Waitlist for new clients
Areas of practice include: foster care and adoption, childhood trauma, attachment disorders, PTSD, oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, anxiety disorders, traumatic brain injury, sensory processing disorder, and ASD.
I am a trauma informed, neurodiversity celebrating, gender affirming, complex attachment navigating, soft spot landing, therapist. I welcome adults, teens, children, and families that have experienced complex and generational trauma, attachment trauma, and those that have found themselves on foster care and adoption journeys. I also specialize in co-collaborative work with OTs, PTs, and SLPs, in working with families that experience the complex behaviors and challenges that come with sensory integration needs, Autism Spectrum Disorder, FASD, ADHD, and other neurological diversity.
Areas of practice include: foster care and adoption, childhood trauma, attachment disorders, PTSD, oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, anxiety disorders, traumatic brain injury, sensory processing disorder, and ASD.
I am a trauma informed, neurodiversity celebrating, gender affirming, complex attachment navigating, soft spot landing, therapist. I welcome adults, teens, children, and families that have experienced complex and generational trauma, attachment trauma, and those that have found themselves on foster care and adoption journeys. I also specialize in co-collaborative work with OTs, PTs, and SLPs, in working with families that experience the complex behaviors and challenges that come with sensory integration needs, Autism Spectrum Disorder, FASD, ADHD, and other neurological diversity.
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Cecilia Kinast
Psychologist, PhD, ABPdN
Verified Verified
Camden, ME 04843  (Online Only)
Expertise in Pediatric Neuropsychological testing especially in autism, adoption related, FAS, prenatal exposure to Opioids and other medications and substances, Concussions, Learning Disabilities, ADHD. My practice is general, although expertise in children.. and i test and see Children, Adolescents, Adults, Couples and Families. My treatment approaches include Psychotherapy includes CBT, insight oriented, play, Behavior Management, Parent Training. Cliental are of various psychological issues including anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, obsessions/compulsions, conflict resolution, autism related, post traumatic stress disorder, emotional..physical.. sexual abuse. Often and familiar with working with local and state wide schools, physicians, psychiatrists, social agencies, multiple service providers.
Expertise in Pediatric Neuropsychological testing especially in autism, adoption related, FAS, prenatal exposure to Opioids and other medications and substances, Concussions, Learning Disabilities, ADHD. My practice is general, although expertise in children.. and i test and see Children, Adolescents, Adults, Couples and Families. My treatment approaches include Psychotherapy includes CBT, insight oriented, play, Behavior Management, Parent Training. Cliental are of various psychological issues including anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, obsessions/compulsions, conflict resolution, autism related, post traumatic stress disorder, emotional..physical.. sexual abuse. Often and familiar with working with local and state wide schools, physicians, psychiatrists, social agencies, multiple service providers.
(207) 747-3983 View (207) 747-3983
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Luwana Dyer
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Winterport, ME 04496
LCPC & Certified Mental Health & Nutrition Clinical Specialist (CMNCS). I have spent the last 13 years in private practice and partnering with local schools and HeadStart programming. I work with birth-old age: Prevention, family work, trauma, divorce & life transitions, infertility, foster care, adoption, LGBTQ, Anxiety, depression and end of life.
LCPC & Certified Mental Health & Nutrition Clinical Specialist (CMNCS). I have spent the last 13 years in private practice and partnering with local schools and HeadStart programming. I work with birth-old age: Prevention, family work, trauma, divorce & life transitions, infertility, foster care, adoption, LGBTQ, Anxiety, depression and end of life.
(207) 806-5765 View (207) 806-5765
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Kathleen Mitchell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Kennebunk, ME 04043
Therapy can provide children and teens a safe and supportive setting to learn to identify and express their emotions, make progress with social integration, growth and development. They have the opportunity to develop skills to more effectively manage their social and emotional challenges that impact their interactions with others. Parents strive to create happiness in the lives of their children. In my practice, they will learn to identify their strengths, become more confident in their ability to work through their emotional challenges, improve their social skills, increase self-awareness and develop a more positive sense of self.
Therapy can provide children and teens a safe and supportive setting to learn to identify and express their emotions, make progress with social integration, growth and development. They have the opportunity to develop skills to more effectively manage their social and emotional challenges that impact their interactions with others. Parents strive to create happiness in the lives of their children. In my practice, they will learn to identify their strengths, become more confident in their ability to work through their emotional challenges, improve their social skills, increase self-awareness and develop a more positive sense of self.
(207) 200-7128 View (207) 200-7128

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Does my adopted child need therapy?

Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?

Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?

Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?

A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.