Adoption Therapists in Louisiana

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Melissa LaCour
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Lafayette, LA 70503
I work with clients on trauma and stress, life transitions and relationship concerns, and adoption-related issues.
Sometimes, life is hard. In today’s world, many of us are faced with more pressures and complicated circumstances than ever before. When facing these challenges, it affects many aspects of our lives, including relationships with family and friends, day-to-day functioning, and the ability to move forward. Providing a safe space to work through these challenges facilitates true growth and healing.
I work with clients on trauma and stress, life transitions and relationship concerns, and adoption-related issues.
Sometimes, life is hard. In today’s world, many of us are faced with more pressures and complicated circumstances than ever before. When facing these challenges, it affects many aspects of our lives, including relationships with family and friends, day-to-day functioning, and the ability to move forward. Providing a safe space to work through these challenges facilitates true growth and healing.
(337) 329-9402 View (337) 329-9402
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Lori Arceneaux
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Metairie, LA 70002
​Hi, My name is Lori Arceneaux. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20 years of experience in adoption and maternity services as well as counseling. I have a particular interest and expertise in working with those touched by foster care and/or adoption. For the majority of my career, I have worked with children and teenagers. I enjoy working with these age groups and assisting them with navigating the often complex emotions that accompany adolescence. Also, I work with families and couples who are in need of assistance of strengthening and improving their relationships and addressing their life stressors.
​Hi, My name is Lori Arceneaux. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20 years of experience in adoption and maternity services as well as counseling. I have a particular interest and expertise in working with those touched by foster care and/or adoption. For the majority of my career, I have worked with children and teenagers. I enjoy working with these age groups and assisting them with navigating the often complex emotions that accompany adolescence. Also, I work with families and couples who are in need of assistance of strengthening and improving their relationships and addressing their life stressors.
(504) 812-0159 View (504) 812-0159
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Amy Alvarez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BACS, MPH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Metairie, LA 70005
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I specialize providing psychotherapy for adults coping with depression, anxiety and stress. LGBTQ clients are always welcome. I have a special interest in providing mental health support for conception, pregnancy, postpartum, adoption, and infertility. Whether you're currently pregnant, coping with the stress of a new baby, dealing with infertility or considering adoption, I would be honored to help you navigate the seasons of new parenthood. I also enjoy working with birthparents, adoptive families and adoptees coping with identity, reunion, and grief issues.
Welcome! I specialize providing psychotherapy for adults coping with depression, anxiety and stress. LGBTQ clients are always welcome. I have a special interest in providing mental health support for conception, pregnancy, postpartum, adoption, and infertility. Whether you're currently pregnant, coping with the stress of a new baby, dealing with infertility or considering adoption, I would be honored to help you navigate the seasons of new parenthood. I also enjoy working with birthparents, adoptive families and adoptees coping with identity, reunion, and grief issues.
(504) 370-9972 View (504) 370-9972
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Sarah Desselles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Walker, LA 70785  (Online Only)
I have an understanding of and experience in trauma, anxiety, depression, grief/loss, adoption, fostering, etc.
Hi! My name is Sarah Desselles. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. As a young child, my desire/passion began to make a difference in the lives of others. Understanding human thought, behavior, and feelings. Helping someone become the best version of themselves. I enjoy interacting with people. I enjoy listening to their life stories, challenges, successes, etc. I meet people where they are, provide a listening ear, and have the ability to help them navigate. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I want to make a visible difference in the life of people around me.
I have an understanding of and experience in trauma, anxiety, depression, grief/loss, adoption, fostering, etc.
Hi! My name is Sarah Desselles. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. As a young child, my desire/passion began to make a difference in the lives of others. Understanding human thought, behavior, and feelings. Helping someone become the best version of themselves. I enjoy interacting with people. I enjoy listening to their life stories, challenges, successes, etc. I meet people where they are, provide a listening ear, and have the ability to help them navigate. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I want to make a visible difference in the life of people around me.
(985) 336-3571 View (985) 336-3571
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Danielle Shamsie Prejean
MA, BCBA, LBA, CTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Charles, LA 70605
As a certified trauma professional, I am able to help individuals and families navigate life transitions and challenges. I am competent in adoption coaching and therapy for all stages with pre and post adoption. I am passionate in helping clients identify barriers in their functioning to help in creating growth. Helping clients grow in their coping skills and education of how life events can change our thought patterns, behavioral reactions, and and emotional responses. I am committed to the holistic approach and helping you become the version of yourself or your family. We can not change the past but grow our future.
As a certified trauma professional, I am able to help individuals and families navigate life transitions and challenges. I am competent in adoption coaching and therapy for all stages with pre and post adoption. I am passionate in helping clients identify barriers in their functioning to help in creating growth. Helping clients grow in their coping skills and education of how life events can change our thought patterns, behavioral reactions, and and emotional responses. I am committed to the holistic approach and helping you become the version of yourself or your family. We can not change the past but grow our future.
(337) 317-4649 View (337) 317-4649
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Shannon Seymour
Provisional Licensed Professional Counselor , MA, PLPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Metairie, LA 70002
I have a special interest in adoption and foster care and the unique issues that come with creating families through those means.
I work with individuals (10+), couples, and families who are looking to take steps toward healthier relationships and increased wellness. When working with children, I view the child as a member of the family and not in isolation. As a result, parents will be included in sessions. I also enjoy working on parent-child relationships from the parent side, helping parents to form healthier relationships with their children and improve the overall wellbeing of their families and home lives. I have experience with depression, anxiety, life transitions, parenting struggles, family and relationship issues.
I have a special interest in adoption and foster care and the unique issues that come with creating families through those means.
I work with individuals (10+), couples, and families who are looking to take steps toward healthier relationships and increased wellness. When working with children, I view the child as a member of the family and not in isolation. As a result, parents will be included in sessions. I also enjoy working on parent-child relationships from the parent side, helping parents to form healthier relationships with their children and improve the overall wellbeing of their families and home lives. I have experience with depression, anxiety, life transitions, parenting struggles, family and relationship issues.
(985) 304-9483 View (985) 304-9483
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Kimberlee Riles-Stewart
Licensed Professional Counselor, PMH-C, NCC, CCTP, LPC
Verified Verified
Baton Rouge, LA 70818
I am known as an empathetic and compassionate therapist who holds the belief that mental health is as valuable as physical health. I provide a safe and encouraging therapeutic milieu for clients as they walk thru difficult times and discover new hope, joy and wellness as they improve their quality of life. I work with individuals, couples, healthcare, and first responders seeking support with trauma recovery, PTSD, perinatal and postpartum issues, adoption, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, and life transitions. I have extensive experience in grief and loss work specific to adoption, miscarriage, stillbirth and infant loss.
I am known as an empathetic and compassionate therapist who holds the belief that mental health is as valuable as physical health. I provide a safe and encouraging therapeutic milieu for clients as they walk thru difficult times and discover new hope, joy and wellness as they improve their quality of life. I work with individuals, couples, healthcare, and first responders seeking support with trauma recovery, PTSD, perinatal and postpartum issues, adoption, depression, anxiety, grief and loss, and life transitions. I have extensive experience in grief and loss work specific to adoption, miscarriage, stillbirth and infant loss.
(225) 217-2790 View (225) 217-2790
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Pneuma Counseling, EMDR & Neurofeedback
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S
Verified Verified
Mandeville, LA 70471
Foster and Adoption therapies (from Portland State University).
Pneuma Counseling & Neurofeedback practices state-of-the-art approaches including Neurofeedback, EMDR, Lifespan Integration, & other brain-smart, trauma-informed therapies. We incorporate various curriculums and trauma-informed, brain-based therapies into treatment plans to help clients see significant changes not otherwise achieved. Schedules are typically pretty full due to the volume of inquiries for these modalities, but please click the "website" button to the left to fill out our "contact us" form to begin your healing journey.
Foster and Adoption therapies (from Portland State University).
Pneuma Counseling & Neurofeedback practices state-of-the-art approaches including Neurofeedback, EMDR, Lifespan Integration, & other brain-smart, trauma-informed therapies. We incorporate various curriculums and trauma-informed, brain-based therapies into treatment plans to help clients see significant changes not otherwise achieved. Schedules are typically pretty full due to the volume of inquiries for these modalities, but please click the "website" button to the left to fill out our "contact us" form to begin your healing journey.
(985) 298-8771 View (985) 298-8771
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Kara Elizabeth Clark
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Crowley, LA 70526
Kara Clark is a licensed clinical social worker with years of experience in adoption, mental health, marital and family relationships, and addiction. Kara values a holistic approach from an attachment and trauma perspective while utilizing different modalities of therapy to meet the needs of her clients.
Kara Clark is a licensed clinical social worker with years of experience in adoption, mental health, marital and family relationships, and addiction. Kara values a holistic approach from an attachment and trauma perspective while utilizing different modalities of therapy to meet the needs of her clients.
(337) 415-4566 x255 View (337) 415-4566 x255
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Danette Dollison-Johnson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, MT-BC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Metairie, LA 70001
I work with clients with general life stressors, life transitions, depression, anxiety, trauma, attachment issues, co-dependency, body image, sexual abuse, adults in recovery, relationship issues, adoption, narcissistic relationship abuse, adult children of alcoholics, and adult children of mentally ill parents.
It takes strength and courage to reach out for help. I have faced many challenges in childhood, as a mom, and in a relationship. I believe that the healing work I have done with these challenges has helped me to better show up with compassion and humility. We are all in this together. I work from a somatic body based trauma informed lens. I use the following modalities: brainspotting, cognitive therapy, music therapy, creative arts therapy, psychodrama, EMDR, experiential therapy, coaching, psychodramatic body work, advanced integrative therapy, and I am a Brene Brene Brown Daring Way Facilitator.
I work with clients with general life stressors, life transitions, depression, anxiety, trauma, attachment issues, co-dependency, body image, sexual abuse, adults in recovery, relationship issues, adoption, narcissistic relationship abuse, adult children of alcoholics, and adult children of mentally ill parents.
It takes strength and courage to reach out for help. I have faced many challenges in childhood, as a mom, and in a relationship. I believe that the healing work I have done with these challenges has helped me to better show up with compassion and humility. We are all in this together. I work from a somatic body based trauma informed lens. I use the following modalities: brainspotting, cognitive therapy, music therapy, creative arts therapy, psychodrama, EMDR, experiential therapy, coaching, psychodramatic body work, advanced integrative therapy, and I am a Brene Brene Brown Daring Way Facilitator.
(504) 315-1032 View (504) 315-1032
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Troy Hylan
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Shreveport, LA 71115  (Online Only)
I have a dual client base working with those in the LGBTQIA+ community and those in the adoption community. My clients in the LGBTQIA+ community experience fears of rejection, isolation, and anxiety. Being in the closet is a lonely and scary place, but it does not have to be, if you let me in. As I learn more about who your are, we can develop your strengths and increase confidence, so you can live your life as the person you were born to be. I also help adoptees who might have self-identity issues, "who am I", "where did I come from", "should I find my biological family?" I will help you answer these questions.
I have a dual client base working with those in the LGBTQIA+ community and those in the adoption community. My clients in the LGBTQIA+ community experience fears of rejection, isolation, and anxiety. Being in the closet is a lonely and scary place, but it does not have to be, if you let me in. As I learn more about who your are, we can develop your strengths and increase confidence, so you can live your life as the person you were born to be. I also help adoptees who might have self-identity issues, "who am I", "where did I come from", "should I find my biological family?" I will help you answer these questions.
(318) 405-5963 View (318) 405-5963
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Maria R. Hebrock
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mandeville, LA 70448
I have worked with individuals across the lifespan in private practice, agency, school, career, ABA, adoption, & hospital settings exploring mental health diagnoses & substance use/abuse management.
Do you find yourself feeling stuck, torn, or falling into old habits? Would you like a place to consult/ explore feedback on setting & navigating boundaries? Have you suffered from grief, loss, trauma? Does your family, partnership, or marriage need a safe space to explore healing & developing more effective communication patterns? Is your child/ teen having a hard time expressing what they need? Are you or a family member struggling with use, addiction, &/or diagnosis management? Do you or a loved one feel anxious/ depressed? Have you been affected by sleep-related issues, identity exploration, career, divorce, or life transitions?
I have worked with individuals across the lifespan in private practice, agency, school, career, ABA, adoption, & hospital settings exploring mental health diagnoses & substance use/abuse management.
Do you find yourself feeling stuck, torn, or falling into old habits? Would you like a place to consult/ explore feedback on setting & navigating boundaries? Have you suffered from grief, loss, trauma? Does your family, partnership, or marriage need a safe space to explore healing & developing more effective communication patterns? Is your child/ teen having a hard time expressing what they need? Are you or a family member struggling with use, addiction, &/or diagnosis management? Do you or a loved one feel anxious/ depressed? Have you been affected by sleep-related issues, identity exploration, career, divorce, or life transitions?
(985) 466-9742 View (985) 466-9742
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Gina M Beck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LISW-CP
Verified Verified
Covington, LA 70433
Throughout 30+ years of practice, my specialties include: issues related to transitional life stages in childhood, late adolescence, young adulthood, new parenthood, step parenthood, menopausal changes, adoption home studies, bariatric surgery consultation, college counseling, psycho-education, collaborative divorce coaching, and relationship re-framing.
While we are increasingly more connected to others via technology, we oftentimes feel less connected in our relationships. My desire is to assist you in developing genuine and authentic relationships with others and yourself. I passionately focus on this goal within the context of our individual therapeutic relationship. I promote positive change for you and your relationships by creating a reality based and positive approach to improvement in mood, behavior, and life balance. Together we accomplish this through interpersonal discussion and support with the integration of personal mission statements and goal orientation to oneself and to others.
Throughout 30+ years of practice, my specialties include: issues related to transitional life stages in childhood, late adolescence, young adulthood, new parenthood, step parenthood, menopausal changes, adoption home studies, bariatric surgery consultation, college counseling, psycho-education, collaborative divorce coaching, and relationship re-framing.
While we are increasingly more connected to others via technology, we oftentimes feel less connected in our relationships. My desire is to assist you in developing genuine and authentic relationships with others and yourself. I passionately focus on this goal within the context of our individual therapeutic relationship. I promote positive change for you and your relationships by creating a reality based and positive approach to improvement in mood, behavior, and life balance. Together we accomplish this through interpersonal discussion and support with the integration of personal mission statements and goal orientation to oneself and to others.
(985) 863-4301 View (985) 863-4301
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Dawn Ducote
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
Baton Rouge, LA 70801
Having worked with individuals and families to develop strategies to cope with and manage the effects of a stressful career, address trauma, grief, infertility and adoption, Post-Partum Depression, and other mental health concerns, I know that reaching out can be hard.
Therapy should be a safe place for you to work on goals, gain skills to better deal with life challenges, and/or to take back your life from the effects of trauma, depression, or anxiety. I customize my style for each individual and use evidence-based interventions to help you reach your goals. We can work together to help you find understanding, and catalyze growth and healing. I worked in the corporate world for 10+ years, and understand the struggles of managing a team, proving your worth, and finding time and ways to care for your soul.
Having worked with individuals and families to develop strategies to cope with and manage the effects of a stressful career, address trauma, grief, infertility and adoption, Post-Partum Depression, and other mental health concerns, I know that reaching out can be hard.
Therapy should be a safe place for you to work on goals, gain skills to better deal with life challenges, and/or to take back your life from the effects of trauma, depression, or anxiety. I customize my style for each individual and use evidence-based interventions to help you reach your goals. We can work together to help you find understanding, and catalyze growth and healing. I worked in the corporate world for 10+ years, and understand the struggles of managing a team, proving your worth, and finding time and ways to care for your soul.
(615) 541-4698 View (615) 541-4698
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Shannon Hogg
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MDiv, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Slidell, LA 70461
You've tried everything you know how to do to make life manageable. Perhaps you have decided that there is no hope and nothing will ever change. You feel like somehow, all of this mess must mean there is something wrong with you. You wonder if your problems indicate an inherent weakness. Because of these fears, you find yourself hiding, wearing a mask and pretending. The weight of these behaviors have left you exhausted.
You've tried everything you know how to do to make life manageable. Perhaps you have decided that there is no hope and nothing will ever change. You feel like somehow, all of this mess must mean there is something wrong with you. You wonder if your problems indicate an inherent weakness. Because of these fears, you find yourself hiding, wearing a mask and pretending. The weight of these behaviors have left you exhausted.
(985) 238-4483 View (985) 238-4483
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Ellen Michel
Licensed Professional Counselor, MAMFC, LPC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Covington, LA 70433
Waitlist for new clients
We were not created to navigate life's challenges on our own. Often times we need others in these periods in our lives. It is my honor to walk with people during these difficult periods of life and help guide them towards healing. As the counselor for Shield of Hope Counseling, I aim to see restoration for people in their relationships with God, themselves, and others.
We were not created to navigate life's challenges on our own. Often times we need others in these periods in our lives. It is my honor to walk with people during these difficult periods of life and help guide them towards healing. As the counselor for Shield of Hope Counseling, I aim to see restoration for people in their relationships with God, themselves, and others.
(504) 226-6605 View (504) 226-6605
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Take Your Time Counseling, LLC.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CTRP-E
Verified Verified
New Orleans, LA 70115  (Online Only)
“In a society that says, ‘Put yourself last,’ self-love and self-acceptance are revolutionary.”-Brene Brown. Perhaps you have been considering therapy for a while, maybe this is a return for new strategies, or life’s constant upheavals have necessitated you to consider our support. Individual counseling and coaching clients can expect our therapists to provide an open and non-judgmental space for honest dialogue, creative problem-solving strategies, and the use of individually tailored and structured treatment plans, of which you are an active collaborator, to meet your goals.
“In a society that says, ‘Put yourself last,’ self-love and self-acceptance are revolutionary.”-Brene Brown. Perhaps you have been considering therapy for a while, maybe this is a return for new strategies, or life’s constant upheavals have necessitated you to consider our support. Individual counseling and coaching clients can expect our therapists to provide an open and non-judgmental space for honest dialogue, creative problem-solving strategies, and the use of individually tailored and structured treatment plans, of which you are an active collaborator, to meet your goals.
(504) 370-0441 View (504) 370-0441
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Irena Schmidt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
New Orleans, LA 70123
Feeling overwhelmed? Want to make changes but not sure where to start? Do things feel out of control? Finding a good fit with a therapist can play a vital role in getting more of what you want in life. I see myself as someone who guides and facilitates a committed, compassionate and confidential space where we can clarify what is most important to you, and discover the blocks that get in the way of having the life that you want.
Feeling overwhelmed? Want to make changes but not sure where to start? Do things feel out of control? Finding a good fit with a therapist can play a vital role in getting more of what you want in life. I see myself as someone who guides and facilitates a committed, compassionate and confidential space where we can clarify what is most important to you, and discover the blocks that get in the way of having the life that you want.
(504) 290-0236 View (504) 290-0236
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Bleakley Counseling LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC-S, LMFT
Verified Verified
Covington, LA 70433  (Online Only)
Welcome! At Bleakley Counseling LLC, we know that reaching out for help from someone you have never met can be stressful and overwhelming. We will try our best to make the process as easy and comfortable as possible. With over 18 years in the mental health field, Mary Smith LPC-S LMFT is currently a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Louisiana. Mary Smith LPC-S, LMFT offers evening and Saturday appointment times for your convenience.
Welcome! At Bleakley Counseling LLC, we know that reaching out for help from someone you have never met can be stressful and overwhelming. We will try our best to make the process as easy and comfortable as possible. With over 18 years in the mental health field, Mary Smith LPC-S LMFT is currently a licensed professional counselor and a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of Louisiana. Mary Smith LPC-S, LMFT offers evening and Saturday appointment times for your convenience.
(985) 509-8348 View (985) 509-8348
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Juliee Montelaro
Pre-Licensed Professional, MEd, PLPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Covington, LA 70433
Waitlist for new clients
I believe we are all unique and will achieve one’s fullest potential when given a safe, nurturing environment. I strive to provide empathy and non-judgment to all clients as they navigate various concerns. I am committed to providing a safe holding environment for individuals as they gain insight into their unique life stories and journeys. I walk alongside clients as they develop the skills to cultivate more authentic and meaningful connections with themselves and others. We will work as a team to explore and define present problem situations, develop future goals for improved life and work systematically toward realizing your goal
I believe we are all unique and will achieve one’s fullest potential when given a safe, nurturing environment. I strive to provide empathy and non-judgment to all clients as they navigate various concerns. I am committed to providing a safe holding environment for individuals as they gain insight into their unique life stories and journeys. I walk alongside clients as they develop the skills to cultivate more authentic and meaningful connections with themselves and others. We will work as a team to explore and define present problem situations, develop future goals for improved life and work systematically toward realizing your goal
(985) 260-8453 View (985) 260-8453

Adoption Therapists

Does my adopted child need therapy?

Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?

Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?

Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?

A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.