Photo of Anne Marie Perkins, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Diego, CA
Anne Marie Perkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92117
I use an eclectic approach that provides results fast, CBT or EMDR for anxiety and trauma, Seeking Safety for substance abuse anxiety and depression, art therapy with children or anyone who struggles to find words to express their emotions.
As I walked though many personal difficult experieces in my life, I learned what I wanted from a good therapist. I have dedicated the last 10 years to becoming such a therapist for people who struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma and tragic loss or overwhelming stress.
I use an eclectic approach that provides results fast, CBT or EMDR for anxiety and trauma, Seeking Safety for substance abuse anxiety and depression, art therapy with children or anyone who struggles to find words to express their emotions.
As I walked though many personal difficult experieces in my life, I learned what I wanted from a good therapist. I have dedicated the last 10 years to becoming such a therapist for people who struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma and tragic loss or overwhelming stress.
(619) 369-1661 View (619) 369-1661
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Dr. Hedieh Azadmehr
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92130
Do traumas from the past hold you back? Are you stuck in addiction and tired of stigmas and judgments? Every time you tried to change, the intrusive negative thoughts and anxiety overwhelm you. it's so scary to think about sharing your secrets with a stranger. I understand how traumatic past experience sets a limit on individuals ability to deal with stress, where the drugs become the solution and how the two are connected. Whether you are struggling with addition, rejection or loss, abuse or trauma, I am here to help. I integrate various therapeutic modalities to tailor treatment based on every individual's unique needs.
Do traumas from the past hold you back? Are you stuck in addiction and tired of stigmas and judgments? Every time you tried to change, the intrusive negative thoughts and anxiety overwhelm you. it's so scary to think about sharing your secrets with a stranger. I understand how traumatic past experience sets a limit on individuals ability to deal with stress, where the drugs become the solution and how the two are connected. Whether you are struggling with addition, rejection or loss, abuse or trauma, I am here to help. I integrate various therapeutic modalities to tailor treatment based on every individual's unique needs.
(858) 758-4409 View (858) 758-4409
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Priscilla Elizabeth Hebert
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92107  (Online Only)
Helping those who are seeking to up-level their experience and shine as their true and authentic self. If you are looking to live your best life and addiction, trauma, unhealthy relationships, codependency, sadness, anxiety, ad infinitum has prevented you from doing so, therapy may be right for you. I specialize in treating those with addictive behaviors to help explore the causes and conditions of the behavior and how we can change to create the life we desire. I will challenge you to create new and attainable habits and goals.
Helping those who are seeking to up-level their experience and shine as their true and authentic self. If you are looking to live your best life and addiction, trauma, unhealthy relationships, codependency, sadness, anxiety, ad infinitum has prevented you from doing so, therapy may be right for you. I specialize in treating those with addictive behaviors to help explore the causes and conditions of the behavior and how we can change to create the life we desire. I will challenge you to create new and attainable habits and goals.
(619) 373-9782 View (619) 373-9782
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Gayle Henry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SEP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92103
I am a LCSW and Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner. I specialize in the treatment of PTSD, addiction, attachment/relational problems, chronic pain, & mood management. You may be interested in decreasing stress & increasing more embodiment. By getting more in touch with your sensations, emotions & thoughts you will not only increase body awareness, but will decrease the physical tension that results from trauma. Whether you are struggling from stress, unhelpful behaviors or difficulty managing your mood, together we can work to increase your resiliency, self-regulation skills and capacity to connect more easily with self & others.
I am a LCSW and Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner. I specialize in the treatment of PTSD, addiction, attachment/relational problems, chronic pain, & mood management. You may be interested in decreasing stress & increasing more embodiment. By getting more in touch with your sensations, emotions & thoughts you will not only increase body awareness, but will decrease the physical tension that results from trauma. Whether you are struggling from stress, unhelpful behaviors or difficulty managing your mood, together we can work to increase your resiliency, self-regulation skills and capacity to connect more easily with self & others.
(619) 762-3659 View (619) 762-3659
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Bonnie Deroo
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92117
Do you struggle with anxiety? Do you use substances to help manage anxiety? Are you worried that you're drinking or eating or using too much to cope with stress and anxiety? Are you a family member of someone with anxiety and/or substance use and aren't sure what to do?
Do you struggle with anxiety? Do you use substances to help manage anxiety? Are you worried that you're drinking or eating or using too much to cope with stress and anxiety? Are you a family member of someone with anxiety and/or substance use and aren't sure what to do?
(858) 437-5425 View (858) 437-5425
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Ashley Avila
Pre-Licensed Professional, ASW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92109  (Online Only)
You feel like you "should" be able to figure it out on your own, right? Maybe there's pressure from family, culture, gender, religion or your circumstances. But trying to do this alone is exhausting - you're not even sure you're getting it right. Meanwhile, you've looked for ways to cope in places you aren't proud of, then regret it. Addiction takes many forms such as Technology, Working Out, Social Media, Shopping, Video Gaming, Working, Gambling, Cannabis or Alcohol. Sound familiar? Having the courage to seek services can feel overwhelming or even embarrassing. Deep breath. Together, we can learn skills to get you back in control.
You feel like you "should" be able to figure it out on your own, right? Maybe there's pressure from family, culture, gender, religion or your circumstances. But trying to do this alone is exhausting - you're not even sure you're getting it right. Meanwhile, you've looked for ways to cope in places you aren't proud of, then regret it. Addiction takes many forms such as Technology, Working Out, Social Media, Shopping, Video Gaming, Working, Gambling, Cannabis or Alcohol. Sound familiar? Having the courage to seek services can feel overwhelming or even embarrassing. Deep breath. Together, we can learn skills to get you back in control.
(619) 848-3491 View (619) 848-3491
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Angeline Baucom
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, SUDCC, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92121
Clients that have experienced trauma, substance abuse and family issues. Struggling with depression and anxiety.
Clients that have experienced trauma, substance abuse and family issues. Struggling with depression and anxiety.
(760) 227-5274 View (760) 227-5274
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Chad K Cox
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92119  (Online Only)
I have expertise in helping individuals, friends and families of those struggling with alcohol or substance use disorders.
Dr. Cox has a experience providing assistance to high performing professionals such as lawyers, doctors, executives, business owners and even other counselors. Courage is needed when facing a personal problem. My mission is to provide compassionate and professional assistance to those struggling with emotional, behavioral or relational problems. I work to provide a safe and supportive environment, free of judgement, where sensitive issues can be explored. You can get help for mood difficulties, drug/alcohol problems or relational concerns. To start, we can have a free consultation to discuss your goals for self-improvement.
I have expertise in helping individuals, friends and families of those struggling with alcohol or substance use disorders.
Dr. Cox has a experience providing assistance to high performing professionals such as lawyers, doctors, executives, business owners and even other counselors. Courage is needed when facing a personal problem. My mission is to provide compassionate and professional assistance to those struggling with emotional, behavioral or relational problems. I work to provide a safe and supportive environment, free of judgement, where sensitive issues can be explored. You can get help for mood difficulties, drug/alcohol problems or relational concerns. To start, we can have a free consultation to discuss your goals for self-improvement.
(619) 458-3380 View (619) 458-3380
Photo of Siri Hadland, Psychologist in San Diego, CA
Siri Hadland
Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92117
Learning why we think, feel, and act the way we do is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. From there, we gain the ability to adjust, grow, connect, and show up in the world as our most authentic selves. I work primarily with addiction, trauma, depression, anxiety, and eating disorders. My approach to treating addictive problems is self-empowering and open minded. In addition to the listed disorders I treat, I love working with women's issues, relationship issues, phase of life issues, religious trauma, and the LGBTQ+ population.
Learning why we think, feel, and act the way we do is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves. From there, we gain the ability to adjust, grow, connect, and show up in the world as our most authentic selves. I work primarily with addiction, trauma, depression, anxiety, and eating disorders. My approach to treating addictive problems is self-empowering and open minded. In addition to the listed disorders I treat, I love working with women's issues, relationship issues, phase of life issues, religious trauma, and the LGBTQ+ population.
(858) 522-0154 View (858) 522-0154
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Carolyn Rhoades
Counselor, MA, APCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92130
Whether you are struggling with addiction, abuse or trauma, rejection or loss, I am here to support you.
Distressing thoughts and memories can keep us feeling like we are stranded in the past. Every time we have tried to dig ourselves out, shame, guilt, and overwhelming thoughts keep us feeling stuck. These feelings and thoughts can feel so isolating and exhausting. Traumatic experiences can have a detrimental impact on how individuals cope with stress and regulate emotions. I understand that at various times in our lives we endure situations that can cause distress, leading to unhealthy behaviors and patterns. We can feel completely lost in figuring out how to proceed and it can feel daunting to reach out for support.
Whether you are struggling with addiction, abuse or trauma, rejection or loss, I am here to support you.
Distressing thoughts and memories can keep us feeling like we are stranded in the past. Every time we have tried to dig ourselves out, shame, guilt, and overwhelming thoughts keep us feeling stuck. These feelings and thoughts can feel so isolating and exhausting. Traumatic experiences can have a detrimental impact on how individuals cope with stress and regulate emotions. I understand that at various times in our lives we endure situations that can cause distress, leading to unhealthy behaviors and patterns. We can feel completely lost in figuring out how to proceed and it can feel daunting to reach out for support.
(858) 358-7780 View (858) 358-7780
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Lyudmila Kisina
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LAADC
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92101  (Online Only)
Welcome! You have taken an important step towards a journey of healing! As a licensed therapist and addiction counselor, I offer a holistic journey of healing and self-discovery, guided by the evidence-based practice of modern psychology. Our approach targets solution, not just symptom relief. When we are impacted by past hurts, disappointment, shame, or trauma - we may begin seeking ways to avoid ourselves. Addictions, codependent relationships, anxiety, depression, isolation - may start to manifest in your life. My work focuses on resolving these symptoms, by addressing the root causes, empowering you to build lasting change.
Welcome! You have taken an important step towards a journey of healing! As a licensed therapist and addiction counselor, I offer a holistic journey of healing and self-discovery, guided by the evidence-based practice of modern psychology. Our approach targets solution, not just symptom relief. When we are impacted by past hurts, disappointment, shame, or trauma - we may begin seeking ways to avoid ourselves. Addictions, codependent relationships, anxiety, depression, isolation - may start to manifest in your life. My work focuses on resolving these symptoms, by addressing the root causes, empowering you to build lasting change.
(858) 428-2638 View (858) 428-2638
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Dr. Sisi Yu
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92117
With addiction recovery, I work from a non-12-step approach to collaborate with you on forming your goals and empower you in changing those unwanted behavior patterns at your pace.
Life is full of unexpected turns and challenges, and you’ve been trying to push through the barriers on your own for a while now. You’ve sought out various ways to make yourself feel better temporarily, but haven’t found something that brings long-term relief. Sometimes, despite your great effort, those overwhelming feelings of loneliness, fear, and helplessness continue to persist. If you're struggling with emotional pain, you don't have to deal with it all alone. What you need may be a safe space where your difficult feelings can be worked through and your authentic self can be seen, understood, and accepted.
With addiction recovery, I work from a non-12-step approach to collaborate with you on forming your goals and empower you in changing those unwanted behavior patterns at your pace.
Life is full of unexpected turns and challenges, and you’ve been trying to push through the barriers on your own for a while now. You’ve sought out various ways to make yourself feel better temporarily, but haven’t found something that brings long-term relief. Sometimes, despite your great effort, those overwhelming feelings of loneliness, fear, and helplessness continue to persist. If you're struggling with emotional pain, you don't have to deal with it all alone. What you need may be a safe space where your difficult feelings can be worked through and your authentic self can be seen, understood, and accepted.
(619) 558-0736 View (619) 558-0736
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Carolyn Coker Ross
MD, MPH
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92123  (Online Only)
I am board certified in Preventive Medicine and Addiction Medicine (by exam) and completed a two year fellowship in Dr.
Carolyn Coker Ross, MD, MPH, CEDS (www.carolynrossmd.com) is an African American author, speaker, expert the treatment of eating disorders, trauma and addictions and is board certified in Preventive Medicine and in Addiction Medicine. Dr. Ross presented a TEDxPleasantGrove talk on “Historical and Intergenerational Trauma in January 2020. She is the author of 3 books on eating disorders, the most recent is “The Food Addiction Recovery Workbook.” She is a contributing author to : “Treating Black Women with Eating Disorders: A Clinician’s Guide.” She is co-founder of the Institute for Antiracism and Equity (antiracismandequity.com).
I am board certified in Preventive Medicine and Addiction Medicine (by exam) and completed a two year fellowship in Dr.
Carolyn Coker Ross, MD, MPH, CEDS (www.carolynrossmd.com) is an African American author, speaker, expert the treatment of eating disorders, trauma and addictions and is board certified in Preventive Medicine and in Addiction Medicine. Dr. Ross presented a TEDxPleasantGrove talk on “Historical and Intergenerational Trauma in January 2020. She is the author of 3 books on eating disorders, the most recent is “The Food Addiction Recovery Workbook.” She is a contributing author to : “Treating Black Women with Eating Disorders: A Clinician’s Guide.” She is co-founder of the Institute for Antiracism and Equity (antiracismandequity.com).
(833) 686-9533 View (833) 686-9533
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Rodrigo Franco
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LAADC
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92109  (Online Only)
I am a therapist that takes a holistic approach with each client to find long-term solutions to your current issues. I have an extensive background in the field of Psychology and enjoy working with adults and elder adults. I enjoy utilizing a behavioral activation approach to address depression and anxiety. I have also been trained in utilizing different evidenced base type of approaches such as CBT, Solution-focused therapy, and Motivational Interviewing. As well I am a Licensed Addiction Counselor and certified Surf-trauma informed therapist. So why not give yourself the opportunity to renew yourself.
I am a therapist that takes a holistic approach with each client to find long-term solutions to your current issues. I have an extensive background in the field of Psychology and enjoy working with adults and elder adults. I enjoy utilizing a behavioral activation approach to address depression and anxiety. I have also been trained in utilizing different evidenced base type of approaches such as CBT, Solution-focused therapy, and Motivational Interviewing. As well I am a Licensed Addiction Counselor and certified Surf-trauma informed therapist. So why not give yourself the opportunity to renew yourself.
(619) 340-0485 View (619) 340-0485
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Hazzel Angulo
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92103
Trauma, anxiety, and addiction can make you feel stuck. The most important step towards healing is to address the unresolved emotion inside you. Healing requires feelings. Acceptance slowly dissolves pain. When we function from the fear and scarring of our trauma, the cycles continue until we learn how to transmute that energy into love. I apply a Holistic approach that integrates physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual forms of well-being, addressing the “whole” self. Through a holistic framework tailored to your unique needs, the goal is to support you develop a deeper understanding of the self on all these levels.
Trauma, anxiety, and addiction can make you feel stuck. The most important step towards healing is to address the unresolved emotion inside you. Healing requires feelings. Acceptance slowly dissolves pain. When we function from the fear and scarring of our trauma, the cycles continue until we learn how to transmute that energy into love. I apply a Holistic approach that integrates physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual forms of well-being, addressing the “whole” self. Through a holistic framework tailored to your unique needs, the goal is to support you develop a deeper understanding of the self on all these levels.
(213) 531-5473 View (213) 531-5473
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Jonah Ray Berger
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, CADC-II
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92103
Whether its addiction, or some other malformed coping skill this solution works.
Being a human being is an amazing, terrifying, and sometimes really confusing and painful experience. We all live through these things, some of us are more familiar with depression, anxiety, avoidance, or hyper fixation on trying to control everything so that you KNOW that it's all the way it should be. These are just a few of the symptoms of the human condition. When we can step back and look at them with a different set of tools we can build awareness of how we may be able to approach these feelings with a more useful perspective. This leads us to feeling more grounded and in control of our physical, mental, and spiritual goals.
Whether its addiction, or some other malformed coping skill this solution works.
Being a human being is an amazing, terrifying, and sometimes really confusing and painful experience. We all live through these things, some of us are more familiar with depression, anxiety, avoidance, or hyper fixation on trying to control everything so that you KNOW that it's all the way it should be. These are just a few of the symptoms of the human condition. When we can step back and look at them with a different set of tools we can build awareness of how we may be able to approach these feelings with a more useful perspective. This leads us to feeling more grounded and in control of our physical, mental, and spiritual goals.
(408) 916-5558 View (408) 916-5558
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Tiffany Goodsite
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92103  (Online Only)
Tiffany Goodsite-Kelii is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and her goal is to guide you through life’s most complex and difficult matters. She specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and addiction and has a history of work with other co-occurring issues including but not limited to depression, post-traumatic stress/trauma, postpartum depression/anxiety, grief/loss, anger and impulsivity, and stress management.
Tiffany Goodsite-Kelii is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and her goal is to guide you through life’s most complex and difficult matters. She specializes in the treatment of anxiety disorders and addiction and has a history of work with other co-occurring issues including but not limited to depression, post-traumatic stress/trauma, postpartum depression/anxiety, grief/loss, anger and impulsivity, and stress management.
(619) 304-4369 View (619) 304-4369
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Starr MacKinnon
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92108
Specializing in anxiety, depression, addiction, relationships, life transitions, and self-actualization, we offer individual and group sessions in person, by phone, and via secure online counseling.
Do you have difficulty keeping up with the demands of life? Do you feel disconnected or down? Does it seem like your mind is often running away with worry? Are you going through a change and could use some guidance? You're not alone and I'd like to help! You and I both know that over time, life can get away from us. I can help you find new ways of living and being that reduce stress and struggle, while enhancing meaning, purpose, and enjoyment of life.
Specializing in anxiety, depression, addiction, relationships, life transitions, and self-actualization, we offer individual and group sessions in person, by phone, and via secure online counseling.
Do you have difficulty keeping up with the demands of life? Do you feel disconnected or down? Does it seem like your mind is often running away with worry? Are you going through a change and could use some guidance? You're not alone and I'd like to help! You and I both know that over time, life can get away from us. I can help you find new ways of living and being that reduce stress and struggle, while enhancing meaning, purpose, and enjoyment of life.
(619) 916-4128 View (619) 916-4128
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Therapy Center and Family Counseling Corporation
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92121
We specialize and treat depression, anxiety, trauma, mood disorders, addiction and relationship concerns. We also provide parent training and coaching. Our team specializes in working extensively with adolescents, children, and families in traditional outpatient services. My name is Jamak and I am the Co-Founder of Therapy Center and Family Counseling Corporation. I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years of experience. I specialize in working with individuals, couples, families, and adolescents. I use a humanistic, and culturally sensitive approach to all topics that may be encountered.
We specialize and treat depression, anxiety, trauma, mood disorders, addiction and relationship concerns. We also provide parent training and coaching. Our team specializes in working extensively with adolescents, children, and families in traditional outpatient services. My name is Jamak and I am the Co-Founder of Therapy Center and Family Counseling Corporation. I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years of experience. I specialize in working with individuals, couples, families, and adolescents. I use a humanistic, and culturally sensitive approach to all topics that may be encountered.
(858) 753-6398 View (858) 753-6398
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Dr. Ca-Lie Cheng-Wang
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92108
I specialize in treating addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, infidelity, substance abuse, postpartum depression, parenting/family issues, and anger-related issues.
I am a Mandarin and English-speaking psychologist.
I specialize in treating addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, infidelity, substance abuse, postpartum depression, parenting/family issues, and anger-related issues.
I am a Mandarin and English-speaking psychologist.
(619) 273-0785 View (619) 273-0785
Addiction Therapists

What is the best therapy for addiction?

Addiction treatment will be tailored to the individual. People seeking help for addiction—whether with a psychotherapist, in an outpatient clinic, or in a residential program—should expect to engage in multiple types of treatments, sometimes including medication. For anyone recovering from addiction, avoiding situations in which one has typically used a substance is essential, as is the support of close connections. Since substance use disorders tend to co-occur with underlying mental health conditions such as anxiety or depression, those must also be addressed as part of any recovery plan.

How long does therapy for addiction take?

There is no set timeline for recovery from addiction. Patients and their families should expect the work to last several months, if not longer. Residential treatment programs may be based on a stay of 30, 60, or 90 days, with continuing work after release, but only about 1 percent of people are treated in such facilities. Ceasing use is just the first step; therapy to help maintain abstinence and effect behavior change must follow. The process of recovery, neuroscience has shown, involves brain cells recovering the capacity to respond to natural sources of reward and restore control over the impulse to use. Another definition of recovery is restoring voluntary control over one’s substance use and retaking all of one’s previous responsibilities.

How effective is drug addiction treatment?

Substance use disorders are treatable and remission is achievable for many who seek recovery; by some estimates, more than three-quarters of people who become addicted to alcohol or drugs recover. But that success rarely occurs quickly or on a set timeline; relapse is not only common, but many therapists and clinicians view it as a normal part of the process—not always a sign that a person has returned to addiction, but a signal that their treatment should be adjusted to help them regain control. Overall, research suggests, five years after the end of substance use, one’s risk of relapse is no greater than that of others who had not faced addiction. Other experts believe that complete abstinence is not the only measure of recovery, and that, through effective treatment, many people can learn to control their use.

How can you get addiction treatment for someone?

The most important factor in recovery from addiction is widely understood to be an individual’s commitment to change. For that reason,“interventions” in which friends and family gather to urge or force someone to begin immediate treatment often backfire; even when such efforts do lead someone to begin treatment, they may be less likely to stay than those who are self-driven. Still, family members can play an important role in supporting an individual who seeks help and can take part in family therapy as one element of a loved one’s treatment.